Self Improvement Thread

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Building computers for friends for extra cash.
Picking up physical hobbies instead of passive ones.
Asking qt3.14 co-worker out tomorrow.
Wish me luck Veeky Forums

good luck, man. use the pain and regret from the inevitable rejection to fuel new squat and deadlift PRs

Last year I quit smoking, started running, went to gym and started eating better. The gym thing is new, 6 months, free weights for 3. Arms have gotten a bit bigger but mostly I just feel stronger.

Find something you like doing.. then look for a club that does that.
Like rock climbing? Join a climbing gym/group
Like biking? Join a big charity bike ride.
There is basically a club for everything user, you kinda just gotta force yourself out there and don't be afraid to fail. I love you dude, good luck.

Just started taking cold showers every day.

youtube.com/watch?v=GShvGXwaijg

>study islam
>discover the joys of infidel cleansing
>blow self up, or just rape a few white women
>end up in guantanamo bay
>tfw still not even sure about 76 virgin gfs part
T thanks islam

Nothing
Too ugly and too short for anything to matter

Working out
Reading
Running
Mountainbiking
Long walks
Bartending
Playing guitar

You just need more confidence.

I just quit my IT job.
Shit was fucking up my life BIG TIME.

Will chill for a few weeks while I weigh my options.

When school starts again I'll start worrying about it.

5'8, born with facial deformity, and I'm brown
I give up and im ready to die a KV

>5'8
Me to, that's sort of average, good looking fucks like Zac Efron are that height to, women won't care if you try to look good

>Brown
Not a big deal if you can pull off a look, women are fine with dating lesser humans and negroids, it's 2016!

>Facial deformity
There's the kicker, what's wrong with your face? Post pics or something similar?

I was just fucking with you earlier but now I want to see if we can change you, like the million dollar man.

Learning to grow my own food. It's year 3 of my garden and I'm still learning and trying and failing and succeeding. But dem fresh veggies, doe. mmmmmm m mmmmmmmmmm

i just had a wank in my living room while my female housemates were in their rooms

Just be honest and say your mom user, we all lived with a "female housemate" for quite some time.

Not shoping my pics to make fucking islam look better, that's for sure

I was learning german while i worked but an idiot got caught loligaging so now no phones for anyone or music or nothing.

Still wanna learn it since i have the audio books but i get real sleepy real easy while driving so i wanna avoid an accident.
Other than that seeing my friends more often since i neglected them because of psycho posesive ex. Just enjoy lifting with a qt LT. At the gym

I dont care anymore. Ignore the hair though since i was messing around with it. I dont wear it that faggy.

you'd be like a 8 if it werent for that shit

now you're like a 6, but it's not a big deal bro

>you'd be like a 8 if it werent for that shit
Well I can't complain about that really
Shit like this can't be helped

did not read your texts- just first impression from me:
Not nice nose!
Rest looks pretty decent and i like the scar.
You are definitely not too brown to be attractive. Just train your body and dont forget to train your mind (Education and ethics) too and you will do nicely with other people of both genders.

kek bro your face is fucking fine, I hope you haven't been depressed over that. Just tell people you were a fighter or boxer or something, that coupled with the scar and a good 5 o clock shadow and you would look manly as fug, an easy 8/10. Again, you're fucking fine, grow some facial hair, lift, and get out there in the world.

You look good bro, I'm a fat balding bastard and I get women all the time, however I'm not picky with my women. You just need confidence. Stop worrying about how you look or how others look at you because just like you, they're more worried about how they look too

the boxing story is good!
You should consider that.
Also stop whining about your face. You have no right to that. Not even near ugly enough to be sad about it

Lying on the floor writhing in agony because of back pain after years of bad posture

It is helping

sup turkbro

Stop weightlifting
Take up the violin again
Read and study more often

All you need to learn is self-confidence.

Been making therapy gains. I apparently have a lot of repressed anger (pretty much never get angry), what do Veeky Forums? I've always wanted to learn a martial art.

>implying

Im hoping to improve my resume by completing this research program about entomology this summer. So far it's alright, but I'm just dreading the part where I have to write a report soon.

>tfw no Veeky Forumsbro to play violin duets with

Recently started working out and I love it. Also I'm trying to read more.

Thanks guys, i guess i just need to stop worring about it then and just do what i can.

I'm hoping to get into MMA in the near future. Not for the prestige of being one of those Tap-out faggots, but for general self improvement and self defense.

Hopefully meet some cute jacked chicks too.

I'm trying to get deeper into philosophy I'm also practicing the piano and the guitar.

I also like to be informed because of dem social gains.

>trying to become more of a man for my girl
>getting my lifts out of dyel land
>cooking food everyday instead of eating out a lot
>smoke a lot less weed (once a week instead of everyday)
>maintain good relationships with my family
>don't fuck up my part time school
>keep on doing well in my programming job
>do some coding on the side
>party hard and be super social

Currently learning to drive but still scared since everyone does whatever the fuck they want on the road anyways wish me luck

getting back into better self care routine, such as regular showering and brushing of teeth that go to shit when i don't have school to structure them around. Also reading the bible and praying more.

>Not starting off with warm water and slowly moving towards cold throughout the shower

shit is legitimately amazing, and i get the benefits of both warm and cold showers.

My violinists
>tfw a freak and play violin left handed
It's super inconvenient, I wish I learned to play the right way.

>left-handed violin
Literally why? It makes no difference when you're starting out so why learn it the wrong way?

I really don't know, maybe because I'm left handed? I learned when I was like 6, and after being really shitty for a couple of months playing right handed, my teacher decided for me to try playing left handed. I was better sk we went from there.

We need to bring back /sig/ and... s-Sparrow. But for real, she was in a /sig/ and actally give quality advice.

>maybe because I'm left handed
I'm saying this makes no difference. Everyone sucks and feels awkward at the beginning. Your teacher's a fucking idiot for letting you switch.

Enjoy your shitty psuedo-Buddhist self help garbage. Reminder that a literal dyel neckbeard wrote that book

Not drinking caffeine on an empty stomach like a dumbfuck anymore.

Quitting porn because why not.

Got a haircut and shave after spending months in a depression.

Crawling out of NEET mode and trying to earn an income. 23 is too old for me to continue like this.

Drinking a fuckton of water.

Writing more and reading more.

Same here dogbro>gf.

>tfw no qt3.14 gf and dogbro

I'm also in the process of learning German.

Ich möchte sein ein fallschirmjaeger
Und ich will ein Deutscher Schaefer hund.

Can already speak Spanish alright and Cantonese even less so. Going to pick up French after I can learn speak German functionally

You're never gonna be a Clark gable but homie you were talking like you looked like Quasimodo. That ain't shit. You can get passed that. Learn how to be charming. Yes, that is a skill you can learn. It just takes lots of painful practice. But you're already in pain from being a KV right? So what do you have to lose? Go out there & get you a girl homie. It's a numbers game. Ask em all out. One is bound to say yes.

mathematics student here

remember to review lots of linear algebra and partial derivatives before heading into differential equations, it will spare you a headache.

Im learning german too.

I use duolingo and memrise, both pretty good apps.

I also watch german documentaries.

Good luck user.

Studying law, managing my three dogs, working, expanding my social circle.

Started lifting and doing cardio daily.

Eating healthy, no added sugars or bad additives.

In august im going to start doing MMA and boxing twice a week.

Im learning german.

Been going to bed regularly for the past 2 months.

Stopped smoking weed for 2 months.

Made a list of goals I want to reach.

Started a steady job which is earning me decent money.

Made a list of non fiction books I want to read, just waiting for my paycheck so I can buy them.

And I bought a new bike so which I love, so cardio is fun now.

Pic related, its my new bike.

>going to start doing MMA

no just do boxing, MMA is for dipshits who want brain aneurysms later in life and a collapsed liver

Good luck having a drivers licence is really handy.

Youll get over the nervousness real quick.

Have fun user!

Alright I will consider that.

I did a trial lesson and I liked it because they did a lot of different martial arts including judo which I have done for 12 years so that got refreshed a bit.

But I do hear a lot of negative things about MMA so I might just do 2 days of boxing then.

And also stopped watching porn.

I drink a lot of water, a few people have already commented on my skin being very smooth :)

And I'm doing a lot of things with my off hand like brushing my teeth and such in the hope of becoming more ambidextrous.

What the fuck are relationships

I think I have seriously nothing to offer a partner. What am I supposed to learn or be doing before I want to enter a relationship, how do i be 'good' in life so that i seem fun

Before you can even start to think about a relationship you have to be happy with yourself first.

No one can make you happy but you.

Are you content with your body right now?

Are you content with your financial situation right now?

Are you content with your home right now?

Are you content with your intelligence right now?

Etc...

If the answer to any of thse questions is no then you should fix that before getting into a relationship.

Also get some hobbies, doenst matter what as long a YOU like them, rock climbing, playing an instrument, learning a language, crafting staircases, whatever you want.

Remember this life is about YOU, a relationship should not be the end goal.

The end goal is a happy and content you, if you have that relationships will come to you.

Also a good question to ask yourself is the following, what do you look for in a partner.

Can you offer the same to that partner?

You should be able to give what you want to receive.

download pokemon go
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