>Be new guy at school >You could have been anybody you wanted >You could have been popular >You could have had friends >Gone to parties >Laughed with people >Shared special moments with them >Kissed a girl >Known what it feels like to be loved >But no >You decided to be a pathetic loner, eating lunch alone and hiding in the library >You tell yourself you're just waiting for the right moment to become social >You watched the other new kids, making friends, becoming normal >You resented them for doing what you could not >Even if you tried, you had already established yourself as the creepy loner >You graduate >The lack of proper social contact for the last few years has left you almost unable to talk to people >You don't know how to make friends >Years pass >Lonely years >It's too late to do anything about it any more >By your age, most people have had several relationships, made a lot of friends and are socially competent >Even the other weird kids from school have managed at least that >People are instantly turned off by you when they find out how you are >Because obviously, something must be wrong with you if you're still like this at your age >All because you waited >You waited for the "perfect moment" >It never came >It never comes
I can sort've relate....Now it's like taking a crash course on proper social interaction when it's something that should have been learned during the middle/high-school years. >tfw almost graduating college
Benjamin Nelson
Shut up retard
Kayden Nguyen
Iktfb
Jack Peterson
this is me.
fuck.
David Adams
>sort've
Gabriel Martinez
>>You waited for the "perfect moment" >>It never came >>It never comes yeah duuh
sums up the most important stuff about making it in life
>don't wait for happenstance to get you anywhere because it won't >work hard >never give up
Dylan Howard
If you guys become parents. Remember to get your kid socialising very young, pretty much at the moment they can start crawling. This will help your kid develop to not be a sperg into early primary years.
Because even in your first year of school the other kids will notice that your kid is a bit weird and that will set the tone for his whole schooling life basically
Liam Clark
>smart >trump supporter pick two
Austin Johnson
>become parents I will work to become an amazing father, I want 3 kids boys/girls idgaf. I'm gonna give them the support, love, wisdom and time my dad failed to give me.
Ian Green
-----> /r9k/
William Gonzalez
Nice anecdote of how loneliness occurs and the effects of it. Download this audiobook/book Loneliness - Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection
You are not permanently ruined though and you can still turn it around. Its just that since you are so lonely you can't afford to be rejected as that seriously hurts.
If you your loniless is that severe then talk to a therapist and look in to getting in to group therapy for people with social anxiety or something. It will be a safe arena where you can start sociolizing without being rejected, humiliated and all that shit. And as you have done that for a while you are getting your basic social needs met, which means you'll do better with other people out in the world. The thing about looniness is that it cripples your ability to reach out and connect because you reject or avoid other people before they even get the chance to reject you. With your social battery getting a bit charged from the safe environment you won't be as scared of rejection and your ability to reach out and connect will be better. Along with improved social skills etc
Loneliness is a serious debilitating condition, get professional help for it and don't be ashamed.
If you are to macho for professional help then look in to joning a RSD seminar or something.
Leo Rodriguez
Its even worse! If your kid don't learn to socialize in its early formative years, it will NEVER learn it and forever be shunned by others.
Gabriel Bennett
>be 13 >move to new area, go to new school >everyone super friendly at first, make sure you're included, all girls want to get to know you >a few weeks after the novelty wears off people stop caring >end up befriending the nerdy outcasts
They are still my friends to this day so I can't complain.
Jaxon Butler
i just want to cum and feel good is that so much to ask for
Nathan Clark
Me too man, I wish you the best
Juan Rodriguez
Thanks bro, we're all gonna make it.
Xavier Lopez
My moment did come when Inwas in 8th grade a long time ago. >Used to go to really small private catholic middle school that only had like 70 people. >Know everyone there but knows no one at the highschool I was at except for people that went from my school to that high school. >Decided to get into weight lifting right after I turned 14 and went weight lifting at my highschool after school. >Fix my form, get a good workout routine, my dad at the time was convinced with my efforts and got me walmart dhit protein powder. Other than that, my diet was that of a neverending dirty Bulking but stayed skinny at 145 at that time. >Friends notice my effort and say I should do football. >Get really into football after that day and also realized that's my chance to get known. >End of 8th grade and summer rolls around, contact days are comin. Do contact day and during the weight lifting session, I worked in with a bunch of scrawny weak freshmen, >It was my turn on the bench >I took off the 10-25 pound weights and slapped on the good ol 45 plates. >Some white dude I used to know that dropped out of hs in the future said: >Naw man you can't do this. >Using good form, I benched 140/ squat bar/ for ten reps. Get great responses from nearby freshmen >By the middle of the summer after 8th grade, I could bench 190. >Get known as Asian Muscle/Bruce Lee. >popularity goes on the rise until college... I dont know anyone again.
Daniel Carter
Also RIP spelling, using phone right now and typing on this shit gets ridiculous.
Jason Hughes
I would add that it's best to live in a suburban area, where your kids can easily go out to friends houses and not be hampered by distance. I grew up in a very rural area where it took an hour to go and see any of my friends due to all the public transport I had to get, and whilst I'm not weird or autistic by any means - I still feel it would have helped my development if I could have chilled with my friends more
