What happened to you ex, Veeky Forums?

>first ex
>was clingy and manipulative
>didn't really care at first because I was finaly getting pussy
>sex was mindblowlingly good
>dump her after 2 months because I thought if it was already this bad 2 months in it would only get worse later on
>years pass
>sometimes think about the sex
>hear from a friend who still hangs out with here
>she netted a 8/10 smart dude studying to become a doctor
>she ended up cheating on him and was being railed by tons of guys on tindr after she broke up
>also saw her in a restaurant once and she got fat

Definately doged that bullet

>18 year old cutie
>brown hair, tan 5'2
>chubby and a slightly depressed
>I'm 24
>start hanging out
>feel feels (no homo)
> take her virginity
>think she's the one
>her dad and brother all cheat on their gf's so she's insecure
>"don't worry anonette, I'll help reassure you"
>things are actually good.
>she has morals and goals
>I encourage her to start running again and go to community college
>I build her up and she builds me up
>TOOGOODTOBETRUE.avi
>i go on vacation
> she picks me up from airport
>go to my house
>find my brother dead body
>he shot himself
>thibgs got shitty
>our happiness never returned to where it was before that
>I changed after I found him
>we broke up and got back together repeatedly
>she fucked some guy when she went of vacation
>I took her back but couldn't get over it
>we struggled to make things work for over a year
>her jealousy and trust issues just got worse
>I no longer loved her, but couldn't face being alone
>finally ended it for good 3 months ago
>have no sex drive
>barely miss her
>just want to get shredded

I just want to be alone now.

sorry about your brother. I'm a trainee medicolegal investigator and the worst part of the job is easily the families of suicide victims.

This being said, you're retarded for taking her back after she slept with someone else. There are plenty of girls out there m8, and the fact that she's the one that slept with someone else and SHE'S the one with trust issues? That's not even a red flag, that is a fucking.. idk someone more dramatic than a red flag.

Cool blog bro. What's it like not having friends you can tell this shit to?

>she was crazy
>i love crazy bitches and bad bitches
>dumped her cus 2 crazy(she got pregnant and killed it because she was smoking during pregnancy and doing drugs when i asked her not to)
>meet new girl
>crazy ex tries to fight her before we start dating
>makes new girl want me more
>thanks crazy ex
>been with new girl for 8 years now and still get rock hard when i see her. Shes still fucking hot.
>she started lifting with me 2 years ago
>she helps me keep my diet in check and helps me meal prep
>heard ex gf had another baby and child services took it away from her.
>feel bad for her because she's the cause of her own misery
>fuck current gf almost every day of the week unless she's too tired from work.
>life's good

>idk someone more dramatic than a red flag.

keked at that...

cheated on me. probably fucked some dude off tinder because she was a massive whore. pretty sure she dropped out of college, works at a warehouse making like $15/hour in her shitty little hometown in rural PA. so much for her dream of getting her bachelors in English and moving to NYC to work for a publishing company. lmao.

>first ex
>crazy, manipulative, possible NOT
>Didn't realize this til we moved in together. Did a good job of hiding it.
>couldn't keep a job
>played WoW all day while I worked full time
>would always bitch that I was tired and never wanted to do anything
>fucker I walk 5 miles to work, work 8 hours then walk home while you sit on your ass all day
>was 6'3 and 180 when I met him, ballooned to well over 300.
>threatens to kill himself if I break up with him.
>eventually stop giving a fuck and leave.

I saw him recently. He gained even more weight. Still NEET. Still the same fucking loser 8 years later.

Now in stable relationship, good job, own apartment, decent car. Working on making it even more. Life is good.

Possible BPD, rather.
Fucking autocorrect.

>mfw I wish my first ex was a horrible person so I could get over her
>mfw I was a substandard boyfriend because I was scared of being vulnerable as well as turning into a depressed NEET after getting fired
>mfw I never told her I loved her even though I was the happiest I had been in years when I was with her

At least I am back at uni and moving in a much better direction. But holy fuck it's been hard and I still have a nagging voice in my head telling me that I'm just a sinking ship and she was right to leave me.
I'm doing so well at uni but it's exhausting because no matter how well I do I'm convinced I'll be a loser forever.

How do I fix this shit Veeky Forums I lift & do cardio 5-6 times a week, I'm doing better at uni than ever. But I have zero confidence in myself.

>met girl when i was 10 (we'll call her M)
>she was one of my sister's best friends
>my sister regularly had sleepovers but would pass out long before anyone else did, so i used those times to hang out with her friends
>almost every one of her friends developed some kind of crush on me over the years of doing this, but only really wanted M
>start dating M in high school (i was sophomore, she was freshman)
>dated for couple months, but didn't know what we were doing
>went retard and broke up with her right before summer because i wanted to get laid a lot that summer (i didn't)
>we still stayed really close though had off an on fighting and periods of not talking to each other
>i go off to college
>she comes to same school the following year
>we were both virgins so we decided to do a slow fwb deal to get ourselves used to sex
>obvious feelings were still there
>i attempted suicide before we could have sex
>she stopped talking to me after i was released from hospital
>she said it was because i was her only friend and she needed to have another social life lined up in case i don't survive another attempt
>move away to another state
>she found a boyfriend shortly after i moved and has been with him since
>ive scrambled to get laid on tinder in the 3 years since

I lift a lot more nowadays, but my health conditions make my gainz minimal and disappear quickly when I get really sick. I don't lift with the intention of getting girls, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't improve myself to spite her a bit

Don't know, don't wanna know, and I feel sick thinking about it.

user this is your fault though. Not the suicide sibce that's rough but you had ample time to fick her and you were too beta to do it.

My parents ruined my relationships b/c they are racist. One ex is a hotshot researcher and the other is an artist with multimillionaire parents.

Being neet and going to the gym is my revenge

>Cheated on me, we parted ways
>Still on good terms
>Start reading Veeky Forums
>Lose ton of weight and confidence is sky high
>The girl he left me for is getting fatter every day
>Can tell it's killing him that I'm so hot now
>His coworkers ask if I'm still single
>Feels good man

Well yes and no. There was about 15 months difference between when we became fwb and when I made the attempt. She flunked out during her first semester due to family issues, went back home before her second semester and came back the following January. We hung out a few times during that month, but neither one of us were comfortable with sex at that point, and the February after she came back is when I attempted and was put in a psych ward for 2 weeks. She and I met up the day I got out, but we were both shaken up by it (I was checked into the ward by force and wasn't allowed to contact anyone to let them know what had happened, so I basically just disappeared without a trace) and I was on too many meds to feel anything close to horniness. And that was the last time I saw her in person

>Still works at McDonalds. I hear that's a good diet for curing cancer.

you sound bitter. ex's are long gone, you shouldn't even think of them. sounds like SHE got you good.

this

Maybe you could've saved her.
>OP couldn't protect that smile

My ex left me to go be a whore once she turned 21 after dating for 4 years.
Probably for the best, she was becoming an emotional wreck towards the end and now claims to be suffering from depression.

Thank God I don't have to deal with that shit anymore but I do miss her on occasion. Only because I miss sleeping with a beautiful girl every night.

>Ex and I were both a bit overweight
>first girlfriend and I was her first boyfriend
>dated for four years from 14-18
>she was T H I C C overweight though with huge tits and a nice ass
>I was just overweight
>she literally rips my heart out by randomly telling me she doesn't love me anymore over the fucking phone and refuses to actually see me in person
>devastated
>for some reason just start hitting the gym to fill the void
>lose weight
>read the sticky and start lifting
>it becomes my new love
>get fit
>grow a beard
>have a few short term relationships with batshit crazy girls but end them fairly quick
>can't stop thinking about my ex for five years
>kinda mad I never got closure
>back home
>decide to go visit her family and see if they can tell me where she lives
>go there
>landwhale answers
>ask if the [insert her last name]'s still live here
>she says yeah
>don't really recognize her
>say that I used to date their oldest daughter and I was wondering if they could tell me where she lived
>she looks me up and down and says she doesn't remember dating me
>suddenly recognize her face under all the fat
>holyfuckingshitsheblewupintoa350lbwhale
>sorry wrong house
>leave
>instantly feel better about everything in life

I asked around and apparently she dropped out of high school her senior year (we went to adjacent schools) and became a NEET. Literally has never had a job and has done nothing with her life in five whole years but gain 200lbs.

Which story do you want?

The one where one of them became a drug addict and moved back in with her parents?

The one where another blew all her money at raves, got pregnant with a Chad baby, gained weight, and messages me for money and "help" every month even though I ignore her?

They're both shitty stories. I was in love with both of them.

>talking shit about someone who has cancer

She dodged a bullet dating such an asshole

Stay classy OP....

...

This belongs in not Veeky Forums...but fuck it, I mention my DL

> First gf when I was 18
> At 20, enlist in the Marine Corps,
> She stays supportive/loyal through 3 month boot camp
> Leave for School of Infantry
> No cell phone (2005) so I use those phone-trailers on base, call every chance I get
> Stops being eager to talk to me
> Month into SOI, she breaks up with me
>Heard she was messing around with some blonde haired waiter from TGIFridays or some shit
> Fast Fwd 10 years:
>Me: Two wars, summa cum laude, in PhD program, now getting my lift out of newb zone with a 450 DL. Awesome gf.
> Her: Married some ugly dude who apparently is a legit asshole..., then divorced, with two kids. Heard from her little bro's friend that she is quite unhappy, has gotten kinda fat and that her mom gives her shit all the time for breaking up with me.

Pic related, my current high test gf

> First gf (I was a Sophomore, she was a Freshman)
> Liked anime and most of the stuff I was interested in
>Spent lots of my free time with her, went out and did things I didn't like for her, spent money, etc.
>would comfort her when she was sick, crying, etc, even if I had to drive in the middle of a thunderstorm or walk the 7 miles to her house
>cheats on me with fat Asian guy, tells me that I treat her more like a best friend than a girlfriend because bullshit reason
>ends up failing that relationship (cheating) and gets back with old ex-Bf who she almost sent to jail on false rape charges

Her parents also started really fucking hating her after she broke up with me. She cuts now, is on antidepressants, works a shitty waitress job, her boyfriend never spends time with her, sullied her skin with tattoos, and hates everybody. I would be wrong in saying that I don't miss her, but I also want to smash her head through several metric tons of concrete.

The kicker is she messages me every now and again, and I give her blanket or very short responses. She knows I'm improving myself and am closing in on my degree, so she might try to worm back into my life. I hope her bf gets her fucking pregnant then dumps her ass on the side of the road. She deserves no more than to be wasted.

>ex breaks with me
>I still love her
>she's happy
>I'm not
>the end

Pretty sad how you feel good about your ex having cancer desu.

Honestly

Glad you're happy man, smiling down on someone else's misfortune.

If I start checking up on her again I would probably kill myself, so I don't know.

Oo-fucking-rah
You literally get the sexiest women just for being in. Even if you're a pog

You sound like a real sociopath, and not in the useful and charming way.

lol go home

Fuck off op i hope you get cancer too and im not even that guy.

>meet first by ever when he transferred to my school
>he was handsome and funny
>tall, blood, blue eyes, dyel
>we were together for 2 years.
>about 2 months before I leave for college, he cheats on me with my best friend
>confesses before I leave
>says he's riddled with guilt
>I forgive him because naive and he was my first and genuinely believed I loved him
>once I'm at college I get a call from a diff friend (guy who had a crush on me for a while)
>he tells me he's so sorry I broke up with bf and ask if I'm ok
>Wtfareyoutalkingabout.webm
>apparently my bf told people we broke it up and had been sleeping around with anyone who will
>bf calls me later
>I confront him
>he says friend is lying because he's jealous I'm not dating him etc
>call a good friend still in town
>she confirms he's sleeping around
>break up next day
>he doesn't care, I'm devastated
>didn't date anyone for 2 years after
>have strong trust issues
>just went to school and worked out all that time
>went to meet friends to study for midterm and meet their new room mate
>insta connection, from both ends
>start dating
>second guy I've ever been with
>sex is great
>find out he was also cheated on by his first real relationship
>bond over how hurtful it is to have your trust broken
>move in together
>finish school, get jobs and live together for 7 years
>always faithful to him, he's faithful to me
>got married 2 years ago
>had our first baby last November after buying a house

Honestly, I now know I was never meant to be with my first love. he ended up not completing school, getting fired from his job and lives off his current gf who was cheating on her bf to be with him.

I guess I figured either they really care about each other and won't cheat on each other or they were with the wrong people before and will be faithful to each other.

Either way, I like the outcome for me.

This is my favorite /r/Veeky Forums maymay

>dated a girl out of high school
>things are going well, we're practically best friends
>go to party at friend's house during second year of college and sucked him off while drunk
>get very turned on by the memory
>to the point that I can no longer get it up while beholding the gf's naked form
>come out to her that I love dicks
>she says "took you long enough to say that lmao"
>broke off on good terms so that I could go out with the owner of the first dick I've ever sucked
>we occasionally hang out to discuss dicks
>mfw

Lol, I don't care. I'm not at all Butt hurt like everyone else in this thread, I'm just making an observation. In all honesty, I rather admire having a lack of petty emotions. Seems like a good life, one without heartbreak and rapine.

>First GF
>Crazy Catholic Polish girl
>We have explosive breakup
>Few years later her family ignores her
>She starts preaching to Chinese students
>She ends up a security guard at old folk home

>Blue Haired Emo Ex
>Broke up because she was cucking her BF and I had no clue I was the bull
>She goes to law school
>Becomes Lawyer
>Now a lesbian

>Amazon Hipster Ex
>Broke up because I was a whiny bitch
>Still works at same job 10 years later
>Aged like milk

>Ginger Model Ex
>Met when she was 16
>Started dating when she was 19
>Broke up because I wasn't putting up with her shit
>Attempts "nude" modelling
>You can guess how that worked out
>Got fired from job
>Became esthetician
>Never got work
>Now pumps gas

I think the lesson here is that you should become a lesbian if you break up with me.

we're all gonna make it brah

>Virgin who started lifting after high school
>Went to college for a bit
>Didn't have my heart in it
>Was thinking of just working instead
>Had been talking to this pretty damn cute girl in one of my classes
>She picked up on this, asked me if I wanted to drop out with her
>Drop out, start working
>We see each other more and more
>She has her own place, jelly as fuck
>Invites me to move in with her, kinda weird, shits moving fast, whatever
>Get a nice job making good money but apparently she doesn't work
>Starts being extremely forward
>Whips out fucking bondage gear, dog collar, buttplug tail, dog bowl, the works
>Says she wants to be my dog for a week
>Bound legs and arms, can't get out herself, walking on all fours
>Doesn't say a word as soon as shes dressed up
>Get woken up by blowjobs
>Make breakfast and throw it in a dog bowl before work
>Come back and shes acting all excited, make some food for her and fill up her water bowl
>Give her food for tricks
>One morning don't make breakfast, pretend I forgot, all while shes whining
>Come home and start making some big dinner, shes all excited
>Start eating it in front of her while she begs
>Kick her in the side to roll her over
>Walk to her bowl to put some food in there
>Drop it all over the floor instead, tell her to eat it up, she licks it clean
>Fuck her relentlessly every day, no gag reflex so I can slam it in there
>She'd obviously stop and we'd have other crazy sexcapades
>Really enjoy each others company, go out and be friends, go to bars, movies, etc
>Come home one day and she hung herself, small note saying to go back to school and shes sorry

Do they count as an ex if they're dead and you never got over her? How could I have normal sex ever again when I've never been with another person

I'm so sorry
how you dealing with it

holy fuck man I didn't expect that end ;_;
stay strong for me breh

That ending killed my boner fuck you desu.
Sorry for you bro

Sounds like you were literally living the dream, so this has to be a lie

by going back to school and lifting

I like to pretend it was a dream either way. Can't lose what you never gained, right?

Holy shit

ENDING IS A boner killer for sure.

If thats story is real, idunnoanymore, then yeez...

seriously tho, good luck man.

Eh...well here goes

>date grill off okcupid
>she's probably a 5, but I was a 4 because fatass so it's whatevs
>time goes by
>realize that she's socially retarded
>she's spineless
>all she ever talks about is work, incapable of understanding why normal people don't want to talk about work when not working. Doesn't understand why anyone could hate working.
>She's a jeweler btw
>I move back home, kill the relation because long distance relationships are for desperate losers
>come back
>she wants to date, but I just want sex. Tell her that we're just not compatible.
>Sex whenever I want, but most of the time I get stand hearing her talk so I just fap and forget about wanting to contact her.
>she's got like 2 nice guy betas chasing her, doing the cuddle business and all that, but get no sex
>meanwhile I really don't give two shits about her, the friendship has decayed so much. But I'm still watching her stumble to the bathroom after I smash her all the time.

It's a really grimy kind of feel. I need to start looking for another grill and move on, but I just have so little urge to even bother as women are by and large dissapointing.

Sorry about your bro user.

her:
>after divorce started a successful business
>met and married beta nu male professor from local university with a wealthy family
>moved to France to live happily ever after fairytale life
>she's still a skinnyfat womanlet

me:
>after divorce fucked obligatory rebound - fat chick - got her pregnant
>file bankruptcy bcz i got stuck with all the debts caused from ex's miserable failure at attempting to start first business during marriage
>fat mom runs off with some obese fedora she met on internet leaving me a single father
>finally PR'd deadlift the other day to achieve 1/2/3/4

I w...win, r...right, Veeky Forums?

It's your kid, you're raising it instead of fat bitch, and you're not paying child support. There is light in all of that darkness user.

Jesus Christ, that was an unexpected turn... Consider seeing a professional some time. They'll get you to a better state of mind than any of us possibly could

Being a single father is hard, but just think about the future man. You get to help shape your own child, and help them be a good person. They don't have to live with their mother, and they get a role model that lifts and takes care of himself.

One day they're going to walk across the stage, and they'll come down and hug you and say "I love you, Dad." That's where you win at, user.