FEELS GENERAL

>tfwI naturally pick up anything and within a ridiculously short amount of time, I have it down, but I would trade all that to be shredded
It's really not all it's cracked up to be. I had to start multiple businesses because I couldn't stand holding a regular job, and I'm getting tired of running my own shit too. I just want to travel all over the world for years in a super fit body with all the money I've saved and enjoy the beaches, but I can't even do that because I get bored with lifting within weeks at most.

Physical gene blessing > Jack of all trades gene blezzinga

>dropping out of high school at 14

what fucking country are you from?

I'm not this guy --> I just try to be better every day, user. Lifting is only a part of it. Learn some Photoshop (inb4 expensive, learn how to pirate), some video editing, a new language, literally anything that you can make progress on. I have absolutely no one that loves me except my parents, and even they are really far away and I barely talk to them.

Just go back and get your fucking high school degree and stop being a little bitch. High school is easy as taking a shit; just study on your own. Then go to college, make connections, get a job, etc. Don't fall for the "le superior NEET wagecucks btfo lmao" meme.

uk
i got beat up allot and i didnt handle the stress well for some reason so i stopped going, got a tutor and did construction work, i got c's in my gcse's which is more than needed for what i like doing, i know you didnt ask me to explain it but still

Okay, you're not a NEET, so there's at least some hope. Just get something else you can do, user.

i have qualifications and i work in construction.
im ok at connecting with people and basic socialising, i did door work and things to help with it, its just im not going to make the same type of friends you make when you are young, and im uncomfortable socialiseing the way people do at my age now

read the sticky

You've read one too many r9k posts. There's nothing special about young love. There's nothing special about the way kids make friends. It's all the fucking same. Making friends as an adult is even better in some ways.

Dont worry, in 5 to 10 years you mudslimes will own the entirety of Sweden

I meant to say "as happy as a mudslime in sweden", sorry for the confusion. I'm not a mudslime.

>tfw want to be happy
>tfw want to tell shitty people to fuck off
>tfw to afraid of being alone
>tfw would rather be mocked than be happy
>tfw I'm an asshole to people
>tfw nogf

when i was younger me and my friends were more dependent on each other for everything
now the friendships i make are shallow and not as satisfying
inb4 just be yourself its been this way for a long time

I'm thinking about meeting up with my ex when I house sit for someone soon, they have a pool, Jacuzzi, big ass house, I was gonna invite her over, sex her, shower with her, lay around watching movies naked with her
Is it a bad idea?

how do you get a girlfriend??

I know more about lifting than 90% of Veeky Forums at this point. I just get bored.

Sell your soul to the devil

>Tfw broke up with my gf six months ago after sleeping with my best friend
>Left gf to try and date best friend but it didn't work out
>Haven't so much as kissed anyone since then
>Only match on Tinder was a bot
>Could've slept with another ex to at least get a rebound but had to work that night
>Tfw uni's piling up again
>Tfw journalism major and trying to find stories to build my portfolio
>Tfw I'm always so frightened by shit

fucksakes

>I just want her back
>she probably doesn't even think about me
>I think about her all the time
>have to fight to not look at her snap stories.

I find that people who can do anything easily within a short amount of time never make it to mastering said thing. They always give up because it's "too hard"

>tfw to intelligent, atheistic, nihilistic, and apathetic to lift

Why must my higher state of consciousness, that is correlative to my higher level of intelligence, cause me to feel more pain than the average person while I perform anaerobic exercise?

Why must my beliefs in atheism and nihilism, that are both correlative to my higher level of intelligence, cause me to be too apathetic to lift?

*sigh*

Why couldn't I have just been born stupid and american like all of you dumb meatheads?

>Tfw I'm always so frightened by shit

This is the root of the other problems

>too lazy to lift

You're using nostalgia as an excuse.

If she doesn't want to be with you, there's no benefit to being with her.

Doing things without benefit to yourself is self-harm. You're pissing away a very short life this way. Go nurse a cancer ward if you can't figure this out.

>tfw nobody in my family takes my lifting seriously
>they dont believe i can be a champion
>tfw me and gymbro decided to try to go to nationals in powerlifting together after first competition
>family always says i wont make it because of genetically superior athletes

I try my hardest everyday to be the best but my family still thinks its some kind of joke. What they say about genetics might be right but that wont stop me from trying, and its not like i have bad genetics

You're a journalism major and you're worried about your social life? Kek

I always find that argument to be a bad one. People like me may be good at many things, but even we have had a passion at least once in our lives. Also, since we do so many things, we tend to have favorites that we default to. Over time we end up mastering some the trades we pick up by accident. Programming was the first thing I mastered at 17.

I don't drop things because they're too hard. I was born like this, so picking up anything and learning it faster than the vast majority could ever hope to is just my natural talent. I drop things because I get bored, and it's quite the common trend for people born like this.

Thanks man, I really needed that dose of reality.

You're gonna make it user.

I see your point. I've just seen so many people that give up easily because what was once easy is now a little harder. I suppose not everyone is like that, especially in your case. But I've seen more give up than I do preservere

I think the ones you see give up like that are the ones who to teach themselves to be multi talented.

>a qt liftfu joint gym
>ATG squat
>small talk and qt says she reads SS
>too autistic to make next move
end it for me senpai

Maybe. But what do we know, we're just anons on a Mexican Wall Building sub forum

Guys I'm torn between 2 relationships with 2 women

woman A

>she really loves me, cares about me, cooks for me
>we own a business together
>we are together for 5 years now
>I'm starting to grow bored of her
>our sex life is dead, she has almost no sex drive
>she has a very deep personality, we can talk about philosophy, politics, religion etc
>she is starting to go batshit crazy
>I know that she will never leave me, and that if I ever do, she will either die from depression, commit suicide, or retire as a nun to a monastery (we have plenty on my country)

Woman B

>have a huge crash on her, actually had a crush on her for few months before forming a relationship with her
>she is a 10/10 for my taste
>sex is great
>she also has a crush on me
>she is very shallow
>don't know if she would ever leave me, or cheat on me

Both women are much older than me, and they don't know about each other.

I don't know which one to dump and which one to keep, this situation makes me both depressed and anxious.

Keep A for the long haul but keep fucking B whenever. Why choose?

Because I actually feel bad for both women. Sometimes I feel like a piece of shit.

And also, I don't think I will be able to hide for very long time. Eventually they will find out about each other.

>tfw you thought you were over her
>tfw when you are definitely not

fuck em, I'm rooting for you

You didnt master programming at 17 and i seriously doubt you are gifted at anything other than making excuses on this website

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yeah a little

Your stretching bullshit has already been disproven, or as you mouthbreathers refer to it as a "meme."

who cares about twenty pounds, you can increase that on your DL pretty quickly at that weight.

as for the other stuff, much worse things happen to better people. You're not special and the world isn't going to help you because you haven't hit your expected goals.

You need to sort your shit out, stop sharing your feelings so openly and learn to deal with things, aka resilience.

Nobody's going to get you out of your hole except for you.

I'm in the same boat as you user. I forget about her for long periods of time, then my brain puts her in my dreams. I hurt myself today at work, but I'm going out to lift purely because it's the only thing that helps me out when it happens. We're all gonna make it.

Its pretty shitty, I loved and might still love the girl. Lifting always helps though. Turns an issue into progress I guess. She's part of the reason why I started. I'm just trying to make it man, I'm really trying.

>tfw cant into social interactions with women except when im drunk
>tfw make bad decisions when im drunk
>tfw dudes are more interesting and enjoyable to be around in general but i cant make myself atracted to em
>tfw no gf
>tfw working shitty job to have money while all my classmates leech of their roch parents

Tfw 2 plate bench but can't do a chin up

Rich*

user, if I can make progress towards making it, so can you. I'm a 300 lb obese man trying to get to 180. You got this.

How fucking fat are you? jesus christ. You gotta cut bro

6'3 205. I cut from 250. I swear pushing is just easier than pulling

Thanks man, I'm just a little torn up at the moment. I hope you're making some progress

thanks, that helped me a little. not op

Keep A, sex life is dying because you're not taking her as a man.

Just fuck her, even if she says no.

>tfw a girl likes you

M8 you gotta use these feels as fuel to rise above. You need to win and succeed.

>Girl likes me
>Told me she propably got herpes
>Can't handle with the feeling that I also could get herpes from her
>Stop dating her

Now only have a girl that likes to snapchat with me. I flirt with her and she flirts back, but she has a boyfriend.

Another girl I also have on snapchat told me she would let me fuck her. Problem is that she is crazy. Has mental issues.

Fuck man why can't I have a girl that hasn't got big issues ?

Seeing almost everyone your age have a better life than you do is tough, I know that feel..

Point of advice: you're 21. I'm well into my 24 year. I thought I wasn't going anymore at 21 but now I regret that. You're still young but not for long anymore.

Youre picky, id kill to get to fuck a girl even if she has mental issues

I have a good feel for a change.

> Tfw you think you are 5"8 manlet for a couple of years.

Thanks Veeky Forums

> Tfw you fucked up your conversions from metric and you're actually 5"11

Feels good.

it's propably because of the "rule" that I read a lot on Veeky Forums

"Never put your dick in crazy"

Sex is fun, but I want to have sex with a girl that really loves me. Makes me happier.

>below 6'0
still a manlet

Well its true but at some point when girls just arent avaliable you kind of need to make an exception

I like how it seems wanting to find love and get laid is the one thing that ties most guys (both on and off Veeky Forums) together

Yes, but now I'm the King instead of the jester.

>tfw prince of manlets
a-at least i'm royalty right?

I understand your thought. Having nothing and somebody offers it, why not accept it ?
I've got no problem with this thought. I really understand it.

For me it's kind of unrewarding. If a girljust offers it out of nowhere. Its like getting a free coca cola from a random person off the street.

Yeah exactly
Id jump on any girl who isnt fat at this point, havent busted a nut in way too long but girls dont really offer and most (all?) got boyfriends
The dating market is really unbalanced

I understand you man. Keep flirting with enough girls. Rejection isn't that awful as you believe it is.

good luck in finding a girl that wants to fuck you.

>journalism major
You're field is dying and a joke. No one takes anything that is written as truth anymore because of how biased all journalists are and they won't even attempt to hide it. Make like a starving artist and hang yourself.

I've already messed up a bit at my job.

I'm starting to bulk? Not really, Just going to cut down on lifting and run more. Maybe in the fall I want to learn to swim.

why would you wait until its cold out to learn how to swim

At least you're not this fella

I never come here but I'm sensing a copy pasta, am I right?

>28
>fill all free time with video games
>want to stop, realize I haven't not because video games are great, but because the view on the other side scares me

its called social darwinism your genes arent good enough to be spread

Sadly this is true
Fat people are having kids, stupid people are having kids because they are best suited to reproduce in the enviourment we created
Humanity is doomed

You sound like the type to play it safe, so it'd probably be in your best interest to go with A. That being said, if you feel like the relationship is dead, don't stick around.

>genetics

NIGGER THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS IS HOW MUCH WEIGHT YOU CAN PUT ON THE BAR AND LIFT

STOP BEING A FUCKING BETA AND GO WIN FAGGOT

You're just fat.

I put my dick in crazy but it ended up fizzling and we went out separate ways. Not every relationship ends in a psychotic bitch tracking you down and killing you.

A

sex life can be improved

B is just a crush and will just leave you at some point in the future. Women don't like being chased, contrary to belief

bror
reddit.com/r/exmuslim

>sex life can be improved
not him but
if you seek out sex attention somewhere else
there is clearly something wrong in your relationship

>10 years ago
>was top amateur fighter
>coach always talked about me going pro when I graduate
>had a lot of injuries
>ridiculous recovery times

>this week
>finally got back into the ring
>lost to a rookie

guess it's too late for me after all

Det är för att du får 20 k skattefritt utan att jobba :^)

>tfw 27 and feel like I'm wasting my life
>work full time, trying to go to school
>fucked up last semester so bad I'm not even sure it's worth it to go back
>was feeling good on antidepressant but I quit taking them
>thought I didn't need it anymore, but the depression and anxiety is back and just short of crippling
>nothing makes me happy anymore
>suicide is becoming more and more of an option as time goes by.

I'm fucked, Veeky Forums

MMA?

>tfw just saw a picture of your ex and her new husband
>tfw you didn't feel any emotion seeing it

I knew I was over her. I'm just glad to have the reinforcement from that. Time to break some new PRs

>mfw looking through your pants
>mfw there's a small note in it
>something funnie is written on it with her name and a heart
>mfw i didn't notice that she put a piece of paper in my pants pockets
>mfw yesterday was the last time i'll ever see her again
it fucking sucks

i know i'm naive but i don't know how anyone can be that unhappy. it always seems to stem from fear or lack of socializing, which i suppose would suggest poor self image or lack of confidence. if you're that scared of people then just say fuck what they think, find something you're passionate about, and pursue that with everything you've got. find a passion and give it 100%. that's the key to happiness. everything else will fall into place.

>afraid of being loved
>cant handle compliments so i always respond with sarcasm and bad jokes
>puny strength due to lack of discipline for all the years ive been lifting
>hate myself
>might have schizoid paranoia but too afraid to get it checked

>found something i'm super passionate about and that i want to give 100% at
>tfw it's dancing and i need a partner