Veeky Forums I cant take it anymore

Im dead fucking serious faggot, you think youre the only one?
ive been lifting for more than a year and i havent gotten laid in the same amount of time, getting girls to fuck is hard and requires alot of skill, planning and luck
Simply picking up heavy objects and putting them down again doesnt magically make girls interested

but you build asthetic physique? you attract girls to you? doesnt that make it so simple and easy

as a former 24yo virgin i say yes, it isn't that of a deal really
nothing changes besides you knowing it, your behavior wont change and you dont magically behave differently towards women
just dont care that much about it, do what you want to do and sooner or later it will happen

just ask every women you meet if she wants to have sex with you. one is guaranteed to say yes. when they turn you down don't take it as an insult, most women are just caught off guard but eventually one will say yes, guaranteed or your money back.

I built an aesthetic physique, i look good
Abs, nice chest, forearms are veiny...doesnt matter for shit

If you think girls are gonna approach you or fuck just because you look good youre gonna have a bad time
Flirt? yes Fuck? no

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>get drunk
>get her drunk
>have first and worst sex ever
>no virgin anymore
>lose interest in sex completely
>long for some real affection even more
>too emotionally scarred to even look at girls
>ewbte.jpg

is this what truly happens to people who wish to lose virginity for long time?

Honestly spend one hour a day at gym and 2 hours a day approaching women this is how you lose your virginity just like training your body to be stronger you have to train your mind to connect with women

Try fucking an escort faggit or going to a party

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 23. It's not that big a deal. Improve yourself as a person, the rest will follow.

Ah i remember my first backpage slut

Lost my virginity at 23

I kinda tried to have sex then, i literally tols the girl to go to a hotel and sleep with me during a party, she accepted, i was too fucking afraid when i was with her in the room, she kinda started by making out and the rest was easier, probably the worst sex i had thou.

A few months later, i started dating a 17 y/o girl, never really had sex in mind, i was fine with making out and shit, one day while making out she asked me if i was sure, i thought she was talking about making out with a 17 y/o chick, so i said yes, then she took off her clothes and took my dick out we fucked in the same room my roomate was sleeping, kek, she probably had more sex experience than me. After that night we fucked a lot, like every 3 days or so with 2-3 dickages per session.

Eventually broke up with her because i felt kinda guilty, she seemed to love me more than i did, so i ended things before i was a dick to her. (shes dating a 30 year old due now, lol)

My last sex partner was a 27 year old surgeon, I think she had issues with his current bf, he kept breaking up with him and then getting together again, despite that we somehow started flirting with each other even though we knew everything we were doing was wrong. One night we got really horny, I guess that since i got sex so easily the last two timea it was the natural thing for me to expext while making out. After a month or so of meeting we ended up having sex, literally the best sex of my life, sometimes i would get out of my nightshift to have sx with her, we had sex like 4-5 times each session, she let me cum in her mouth, sometimes we had sex until it became morning.
I really loved that woman, unfortunately after 3 months she decided she would return with her bf, I would go someplace else for my job.

The moral of the story is that you'll eventually fuck women, maybe someone you really love. If you MUST try it, then just fuck whatever.

thanks for sharing and giving me some hope

will lifting help at all? is there any value to lifting? surely i'll get confidence and attract girls easier?

pfft, I am also 19 years old, and a kissless virgin. I don't care about my virginity, all I want is to have a gf that loves me. Casual sex is a concept that is unappealing to me.

I used to lift for 3 years, last year i barely went to the gym and put up 20 kilos. Started lifting regularly again just 2 months ago and loat 10 kilos.

So i guess i had more sex while fat. But it sure as hell helps with your confidence. The best way to get non-whore sex is by working/studying somewhere you socialize with lots of people around your age everyday, really i never understood how people fucked with someone they dont know, met a few girls like that and didnt want to take them out for more thab 1 or 2 dates, I didnt even have the guts to straight out asking them for sex.

its takes more than a year for really good gains to show but if you dont have the guts for it then you will always be weak

Lost my virginity at 20 (two weeks before my bf) after a year of lifting. I didn't get huge or anything, but it build me enough confidence to go talk to a girl at a party and fuck her after a few days of flirting. I can also attribute that confidence by a sheer amount of no fucks given after a girl I was in love for a year turned me down.

I'm turning 23 again in a few weeks and it's all good now. I realized I didn't liked sex that much and girls aren't interesting to me. My energy is more focused on my gains now.

Fucking this. You have this impression that the whole world will change. Like god will descends from heaven right after you came on her face to whisper you the secret of the universe. I lost my virginity and nothing changed. Woke up the next morning, made myself a nice toast of nutella and went on my day. Told my best friends about it and they simply said 'oh that's nice' and that's it.

It's at that moment you realize obsessing over your virginity (or even about fucking) is really pathetic. Like, it's okay if you want to get laid or get a girlfriend or whatever. But really, user, don't build everything around it. Just go on your life and see if something happens.

the primary benefit to lifting is the boosted confidence that comes with it. however, it can also introduce or amplify major insecurities

another benefit is that if you look and appear handsome and muscular, then maybe (MAYBE) a girl will approach you. better than the other way around from a man's point of view. it's far easier just to pick up a sport/activity to do that gets you out the house and talking with people. occasionally with the added benefit of exercising.

e.g. i swim at a local outdoor pool and regularly talk with people when we're resting between sets. most often they're mirin' my butterfly and asking for tips. and there are a lot of qts that go swimming. lots of milfs too.

if i had to give one bit of advice for making it in regards to lifting. let Veeky Forums show you the way, but leave ASAP or you'll end up with a truck load of insecurities

TFW never touched a Wyman since then