Are there any benefits from not jerking off daily?

how do you get girls to jerk you off pls teach me

choose:

a) be attractive
or
b) have money and a good future ahead of you

i chose b.

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I like women

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My gfs hand jobs suck and she loses rythm every 30 seconds. I can wank off in 20 sec record if I want and get her off, but she usually lasts 20 mins till her arm is too tired. Her bjs hurt too, I think it's years of abuse has rendered it sensitive, however she veru rarely gives them so it's ok. We're both 21 , together 4 years and we've had sex probably 20 times so far this year.

How do I make my gf good at sex?

handjobs are much much worse when performed by someone else. Unless they REALLY know what they're doing

20 times? damn thats sad i have sex with my boyfriend atleast 4 times a week

well you're either a whore or a faggot so it doesn't really apply here innit

:x My gf and I fuck like animals once a day. sometimes we miss a day if classes are particularly heavy. Everyone has different sex drives. no shame in that. She wants to fuck more than I do but I comply because it is still fun.

How long have you been together? If you're a faggit, then your sex is probably more interesting being men I more sexual than women.

4 years of uninteresting , un confident sex has left me preferring to jerk it to trannys

>Good future ahead of you.

Fucking kek. If you discovered this place it's GG for you.

ive been here for years

i mean career-wise

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i dunno, i have been masturbating on a daily basis for 14 years and at 26 years old i'd like to try to stop fucking my own hand for once.

>we're both 21
>20 times in 7 months
bro....
Even married for 8 years and way higher than that.

how do u get wife

20 times ?! Not good Brah
I slayed my ex 4 times last Sunday

My bf was a fapping virgin for 24 years and he thinks sex is too much work. Lingerie, costumes, keeping fit... Why do I bother. We haven't fucked in 2 months. I don't even touch myself so I can save all the pent up energy for him. He just wants blow jobs or he's said he'll find someone else happy to give him only blowjobs. Guess he's better off with porn/fapping.

i wish i could be ur bf

It makes your dreams really fucking vivid
You get stay horny as fuck 24/7

how is the second part a benefit? it sounds like suffering.

But do you have conventional sex, or do you use sex toys, role reversals, fetishes etc. I find women too devoid of sexual fetishes and general physical sexuality that it puts me off sex. I want my gf to worship my body like I to do hers, but women Just dont seem to be into that.

whycome women get so wet for 50 shades of grey scenarios then? even when the writing is horrid?

Abstaining from masturbation is literally self-torture.

It is suffering, I haven't had sex in 5 months and masturbation doesn't really do anything for me, so I'm just horny all the time and it's fucking awful, can't focus on anything normally anymore and seeing anything remotely sexual gives me a full on boner.

>masturbation doesn't really do anything for me
What's wrong with you?

It's boring next to sex. I regret ever losing my virginity.

ur fucked in the head

Just saying, once you've had amazing sex it's hard to go back to just your hand.

it's also how you do it.
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i would say destroys you mentally is too subjective to generalize here.
the organ is often mistreated. most girls don't know what guy's cocks want and they shouldn't, until they reach age 35 or so and figure their shit out.
because she needs him in order to have higher self-esteem. breaking this path she has created/is on will only benefit him and no longer her. her integrity is then diminished. my question is why is this fucko hanging with her.
step 1. meet girl
step 2. start sex

me

I disagree

source: handjob fetish

I don't even find nofap hard

must be the depression

holy shit 20 times since january? that is no way for a 21 year old man to live. i am sorry but your gf is fucking up. and on multiple levels. she can't get a handjob down on YOU after 4 years, either?

do you find porn a problem?

Because it's all about the man in high status position, giving them all the attention. Most sex scenes for women focus on looking at the women in pleasure, whereas men are less represented, which suits male audiences too.

this. not to mention most of the porn out there is for men anyways. and with that being said, there is porn specifically targeted towards women. and that stuff is usually made by men as well.

a lot of females think that porn is about guys getting off. well duh that is what the fuck stereotypical porn videos are about.

Nope never. Never came from handjob, blowjob, finger in ass (only done twice and she complained) , foot job or her riding. She's very unconfident and over thinks it. I'm quite the pervert so sex in general was never a pedestal to me, I wanted dirty sex.

Most straight women watch lesbian porn to see women in pleasure and sex more orientated to suit them such a oral and lots of foreplay, however lesbian women like gay male porn as they say lesbian porn is too fake and you cannot fake a boner (you can it's called Viagra).

Women basically like sex that haa positions they can relate too, such as a woman or man receiving penetrative sex, or a woman receiving foreplay. However it is NEVER about looking at "hot guys"

how do you deal with it? do you jack off to fucked up porn or cheat on her with women who are willing to do depraved shit with you (whether paid for or not)

say you're playing an intense sport or something

If you don't jerk off you can get really tense and shit which I guess helps you pack more rage into the sport you're playing

I only know this because two of my friends do this for rugby.

>However it is NEVER about looking at "hot guys"
what a load of bullshit. your woman is just broken or fucking a hot 10/10 behind your back you dumb cuck.

it sounds like she was/is not inclined to explore her own body and sexuality. i mean it's like she is living out a fantasy in terms of sex. some ideal.

i'm also in my early 20s and i have to ask you details man. what is the sex like being with the same girl for 4 years? one person initiates it, then immediately she takes off her clothes and lays out on the bed?

i mount her and start humping her like a dog until she grumpily gives in

keked, sound fantastic, ever considered not being with her?

is sex about you pleasuring her?

Most women like watching women get off. Basically all softcore porn on cable television during the day.

Lesbian porn?
I don't know, never heard of straight women getting off exclusively too that or at all and women not being turned on or wanting to look at "hot guys". Have anything to back that up or is that part of that whole all women are bi narrative that's pushed heavily by certain people?

I mean, if that were true then why is this board lousy with women and retarded >tfw no gf threads?

because almost everybody here is a dyel fucker or fatass who lifts some weights, and going by the face threads, this place is packed with ugly motherfuckers.

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uh huh...

Literally Google this stuff. There's plenty of sex studies exploring this subject. Women do not fap to men like men fap to women. They like women being pleasured. Hundreds of women's forums talk about this.

You are supposed to shoot your load into a girl.

Not into your hand.

Why the fuck are you still with him? male or female, you need to find someone who is sexualy compatible with you

Depends on the girl. She probably had initiated around 20 odd times in our 4 years, alot more these days since I'm just as nullified about sex.
If your partner is not very sexual or confident, it seems that they don't change as they become comfortable in that behaviour since they've bagged you.
Since reading and understanding the female sexuality, I came to resent the fact that I'd never be desired the same way by another woman as I do to them, which pushed me more in watching shemale stuff. I'm more over that now and accept that's the way it is.

Honestly, just be manly and give off a masculine, dominant vibe.

I'm an Asian manlet just barely out of DYEL territory and I'm seeing a fit (5'7" 118 lb.) white chick who worships my dick and wants to suck me off multiple times daily.

Seriously, most girls want to be submissive and want to find a strong, dominant man to serve and please.

Man, tell her what you like and what she should/shouldn't do.

As for the frequency, just tell her she's your fucktoy for you to use whenever, and then act like it.

I'm NOT going to fap today.

how do i find a girl who will willingly take my seed?

CHAD gaps all day and gets BJs, while I TF w no GF

how do i get a gf who wants sex with me
i'm not fucking playing man

>daily

How the fuck do you people do this, I'd be pushing it to jerk off once a month. I had sex once 2 years ago and that was enough forever. There's better things to do.

I wish I could be like you. Free of sexual urges like some primitive animal. I'd be happier too.

be yourself

which means make a decent amount of money and dont look less than 7/10 at any moment.

jk what toppings should I get today?

cum

I'm about to masturbate man I can't help it, it's been my daily routine for 20 years.

Cba to shag her anymore really. I wanted a gf who was into it as much as me. I'll just let this sexless relationship continue lol. The guys I know who have shagged girls, who are into sex probably the same level as the average guy is, say they're always either psychos or mental.

Trade off between good sex and head case of a woman, or shit sex and stability

No joke tho NOFAP makes you way more confident. Also gives off pheromones that girls are attracted too. They can tell when you're sexually frustrated and have a big load in tour balls. Most ppl don't understand this because they're stupid; were all mammals at the end of the day.

2 days into nofap. hoping this is tru brah this is the first time i've taken any measures. been fapping daily all my life.

I would require both a and b.
>or
Top kek

You've just never found a girl that into YOU as a person. I molest my bf all the time and love being physically close and touching, and he's not even a big muscley Guy like you guys seem to imagine girls drooling over. Its him as a person that makes him so attractive to me.
I've never even bothered to read that awful book, it doesn't make all women "wet" . My bf is even a dom and we both find the book/movie stupid and don't bother

I'm.a straight women and I find lesbian porn boring as fuck. I'm not getting soaking wet unless I see a real live throbbing cock in someone. Lesbian porn is about on par with gay porn as far as being unattractive goes. The girls usually aren't even lesbian and its obvious they're paying more attention on how they look vs. The actual "sex". Its such a turn off.

I failed...

What do you say/do if a girl asks you if you're a virgin?

I'm gonna meet up with this girl I met on tinder. She looks like a total stacy, so I'm sure shes been riding cocks since she was young. I'm 23 and still a virgin. I've managed to lose weight and get some what fit, but I never got laid.

Do I just tell her or do I just go with it and see if I can get lucky?

pls help
pic related. This is what she kinda looks like

I'm on day 6 of nofap. I haven't been not watching porn because it's almost impossible on the internet but I haven't came in almost a week.

I feel more alert and I'm starting build some confidence. However, along with feeling alert, I can't really sit still. I'm always moving my legs while sitting down and I can't really stick to one subject. I did read about the "brain fog" and while I feel like I do have clearer head, I can't pay attention to save my life right now.

Just find a girl who is willing to choke on your dick and swallow your load. Real sex doesn't count as breaking your no fap streak.

I would/10

if you're gonna tell her do it afterwards

I jacked off again...

Girls don't care if you're a virgin if you don't act like it (I mean that you don't act like what they think a virgin acts like)

The only way is to try hard to not touch your dick for 2 days. If you succeed this, you have a good chance of holding longer. Try it.

just tell her its been a while and you're inexperienced if it comes up. otherwise be "normal." dont actually open it all up first time you meet her you autist

yeah its that person stuff that bothers me. sex is physical, and the thought that my gf will never think of me sexual and physically, just mentally and my persona is off putting when it comes to sex.

I dont lick her ass cos shes a lovely person who looks after me, I do it cos she has a dayum fine arse. The emotional side is very separate to the physical, sexual side.

exactly! girls like what seems real and what is easy to relate to. I dont think being plowed by a tranny or a girl fingering herself is something i can relate to, but i fucking like it.

because not even the greatest slut can get as much experience in jerking off as an average male who's gone through puberty

the only thing that makes a girl jerking you off fell better than doing it urself is that it's a "foreign" hand doing the job

They stroke the dick like how they want to feel it inside of themselves.
Or it's seen as a fun toy to play with.
Rarely are there women who are experienced enough and make it their intention to get a man off with handjob skill.
I mean, I know goddamned well I'd rather be deep in some pussy rather then finger banging her. I'm good at it cause foreplay is quite honestly needed and it's kind of a massive ego boost to make a self proclaimed "big ole dyke" gold star cream my fingers and lick off her taste...uh
Sex is better, handjobs are just foreplay/fetish stuff.
If you want a good handy go to a masseuse. If you're lucky she might even be willing to suck or fuck.

I shoot my load in the tub and turn on the shower head so it washes down the drain

I tried nofap and lost after 2 days.

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I'm skipping reading the thread because it's probably full of people going "UH NO DONT DO NO FAP MUH PLACEBO"

Doesn't matter.

Whenever I've done no fap, I feel horny throughout the day because I want to jerk off, which gives me more confidence and energy, and I feel just generally more active.

All I know it works for me. I recommend it.

well yeah it's easy for you when you haven't been jerking off every single day since puberty