Veeky Forums is obsessed with making normalfag friends

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>Veeky Forums is obsessed with making normalfag friends
Are we? Since when?

>nerds and other "outcasts" are usually 100% self-absorbed pricks wracked by insecurity and superiority complexes
>"Chads" and "normies" are socially adjusted, relatively satisfied, and capable of empathy

How do I make friends with social outcasts?

Suck their dick

Whats her name again and where can i watch her videos

She took down her youtube last time i checked

90% of outcasts are outcasts for good reasons. I used to be shy but grew out of it by high school and went out of my way to befriend someone that had no friends and was really shy. Got to know him and guess what? He was just a genuinely unpleasant person.

I still try to make shy people feel included but I'm more wary now. Just because someone is awkward doesn't mean they've got other good traits to make up for it. Sometimes the full package is just overall bad.

It's pretty much an endless circle, too.
You're kinda awkward as a teenager -> you have no friends -> you miss out on typical social experiences -> you stay awkward -> you still have no friends -> repeat

I've gotten to the point where I've seen enough awkward people that I can tell when someone is worth it underneath it, usually.

It does suck when someone having no friends turns them into a bitter douchebag but I honestly am not obligated to be friends with someone whose good traits are completely obscured by whining, patronizing people, and jealousy.

got to disagree on this one OP. I've been friends with outcasts and normies both and the best and most rememberable times i've had with normies. You see there's a reason why outcasts are outcasts, most of them never actually do anything. You might get their acceptance and respect because they are less shallow(/they cant judge others) and feel like you're "loved" and all that but you can get that just as much from normies. Every human is capable to create those feels, the thing is that you just have to be able to get a long with everyone, that's what i do.

what comes to the actual events i've participated in, with "outcasts" it's mostly playing vidya or maybe seeing a movie and having banters. Yes it's comfy and pretty alright but with my normie friends it's doing fucking epic shit, playing sports, swimming at night, festivals, drinking, sloots, also vidya, doing just dangerous but exciting fun shit, traveling etc. Hanging with sociable cunts is just better than with insecure people. Outcasts may have more open minds and shit but normies create more activity and possibilities. And it's not that black and white, i have a lot of normie friends that are even more open minded than any of the "outcasts" i know, that's why i like being a normie.

h-how can you tell?

>when friends fight over who want to be with friends

this shit still happens as an adult. How gay are people? I don't even try because I'm friend with them my whole life and a new person comes and wants to suck everyone's dick

Most ppl here think making it means going to clubs and concerts with friends and getting a qt gf.

There was this one guy in the dorms when I was a freshman going through to everyone on his floor giving out checklists about the most mundane shit, and little essays you could fill out about yourself, which he wanted to collect so he could learn about all the people on his floor. It was as autistic as it sounds and I cringed for him. But as socially awkward as he was, he was also open to all kinds of ideas and willing to experience whatever, and was genuinely nice past being a weirdo. He's a senior now and still awkward but doesn't do nearly half the shit he did as a freshman. He is not a lost cause and can make it (though he needs to lose a few pounds and hit a gym for ultimate normie gains).

Then there's awkward guys when you get to know them do nothing but play vidya and confide to you about how much they hate their parents (who never hit them or did anything wrong and paid for everything) and how bitches always go for the assholes (without seeing how generalizing everyone is an assholeish move in and of itself) and who say our generation is fucked even though they're the ones slothfully wasting away and just indiscriminately hating on everyone they can sans a few people. These are the guys that ooze insecurity and jealousy and frankly not worth my time since they let themselves become genuinely mean, unpleasant people.

phew none of those are me

still no friends though lmaooo

Pick them up and squat their body weight

I feel similarly, user. It seems like insecurity is rampant in the population these days. If you think about it, it's the reason most people are so pissed off about random little things.

I always treasure people who don't take themselves so seriously. Then again, I probably take myself too seriously as well. I wonder why we're all so insecure?

>tfw no bro to do anything with

just having one good friend to do stuff with would be good enough for me but everyone I know just drinks all the time

Mass media

I'm kind of iffy on this. Because the few friends I do have are butt ugly socially outcasted losers. On one hand they're fun to be around because you have similar tastes in regards to everything but on the other they're just annoying, especially when you're the most normal one in the group.

I am very insecure and my personality is fucked but I'm not outwardly bitter.

What's annoying about them?

not really annoying but just bitter and nasty inside. granted some of these people have been molded to be as such, as have I, but there should be some filter you have when interacting with others.

It's because those normalfags have the easiest time bonding with eachother, are happier with very simple things, and constantly have positive reinforcement in their lives.

Anyone who's an outcast can try all day to delude themselves into believing they're more "interesting" or "intelligent", but in reality they suffer from a crippling inferiority complex towards even the dumbest and ugliest normie able to overpay for a beer in a shitty bar, pretend to be drunk, then feel happy after he's banged some slag he found in an alley.

They know perfectly well that everything would be so much easier IF ONLY they liked football, IF ONLY they could be happy with that shitty beer, IF ONLY having sex with someone that didn't mean anything to them would make them any happier.

if only if only if only

But it's never the answer
And you're stuck wondering if it's really this supposed "intelligence" that's making you miserable, or if you're just the social equivalent of a guy in a wheelchair

At least if you were smart you could do things on your own
But are you even smart?
Or are you just a stupid outcast?

>Dat one friend who invites his new gf to the circle

When will ugly /r9k/ autistmos leave Veeky Forums?

>You are attracted to people with visible flaws because you lack self confidence

well i just figured out why i have:
>small tit fetish
>inverted nipple fetish
>spotty face cheeks fetish
>roasty fetish
>slightly overweight fetish
>limb loss/minor disability fetish

good thing I still like them, it will help me get some.

Wow.. I should have not opened this thread.

Anyone here who was a depressed and jealous little cunt who used to blame everyone else for his problems but has managed to maybe get a friend or become slightly more pleasant person? Please give me hope.

here you go.

Even though hope just develops if we run from our problems.