Time for an autism story, Veeky Forums lads >6 months ago, spring >exit my house to go buy 3l of milk like always >get to the store >see two cute blondes entering the store >think to myself "wow they're hot" >enter store >go grab my milk and cottage cheese >go wait in line to pay up >the blondes stand up behind me in line >suddenly one of them bumps into me with her tits onto my back >she says to her friend " stop, haha" >her friend replies " I know you like that boy, haha" >she says to me "she's sorry she bumped into me" >I don't even turn around, literally dying inside >it's my turn to pay >overhear her friend saying " he's cute" >2.70 euros to pay up >keep trying to count the change I've got, but it keeps falling into my wallet >autism >the blonde who bumped into me says " I'll buy that milk for you if you say me your name" >look at her >almost die inside >just smile >manage to bump my head into the pic related I don't know what it is called >hand the cashier a 5 euro bill >grab my milk and walk away as fast as possible >when I return I realise what happened
Also you just need to chill. Like don't think about stuff. Like you probably got nervous of being successful of the girl, instead you felt bad for being unsuccessful with them. Just find a way to not care and don't over react.
Benjamin Cox
Good shit OP, you did the right thing.
Give these attention whores no attention
Jordan Reed
6feet (183cm) >Like don't think about stuff. it's not that, when I talk to a girl my eyes get really wet and it looks like I'm crying
Adam Wilson
dalbajobas
Sebastian Morgan
You sure showed them
Matthew Miller
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Leo Parker
krc, as tau geriau nepasakosiu kaip as 5 kart pist negavau, nes esu dalbajobas, kuris mergu nesupranta. Vsio normaliai baisiau buna
Colton Roberts
tell us the stories, anone
Wyatt Miller
Holy shit 3l of milk and cottage cheese is only 2.70?
Fucking Brazil man.
William Sanchez
>want to go see Disney's Chimpazee in theaters >no friends to see it >decide I'll show up to the theater in a gorilla costume so people will think I'm funny and not a weirdo or something >go to my attic to get my old gorilla costume >a beam of light shines upon it as if it were meant to be >brush off the cob webs and decrepit cat turds >go to put it on >it's a little small only reaching to about my elbows and knees but I'm already too committed to quit now >mom drives me to the theater >no words are spoken just the occasion giggle from me in the passenger seat >walk into the lobby of the theater on knuckles like a gorilla walks >my entrance noticeably startles the qt cashier but then just turns into a blank gaze >"one ticket for chimpanzee" >"yeah alright anything else, sir?" >"do you think I'll see my cousin bobo the chimp in this?" >"Uh I don't know maybe?" >"he he...do gorillas get in free?" >"..." >"Do...do you get if? Cause I'm seeing Chimpanzee." >"But your a gorilla." >"...that's right." >pause >"would you like anything else, sir?" >"uh...do you have bananas?" >she gives me a blank stare >long silence >when I get nervous I get gassy so a fart breaks the silence. I don't know if she heard it or not. >"Enjoy your film, sir." >didn't get one laugh must be a tough crowd >walk into the theater in bewilderment >sit down too embarassed to even pay attention to the film >fat kid behind me keeps throwing swedish fish in my fur >40 minutes in get up and throw his box of swedish fish across the theater >run to the lobby and wait for my mom to pick me up
Hunter Thompson
>Not accepting free milk How do you think you're gonna make it if you don't manage your expenses?
Juan Richardson
>6 feet Every fucking time
Robert Robinson
>it's not that, when I talk to a girl my eyes get really wet and it looks like I'm crying what am i reading
Jace Long
I'm not from brazil and brazil does not use euros
Caleb Bailey
yes, I'm average height so what?
John Rivera
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Jaxon Rodriguez
>it's not that, when I talk to a girl my eyes get really wet and it looks like I'm crying
I am dying here. Pls send help
Jack Scott
laugh all you want, but be glad you don't have this.
Julian Turner
Hes saying that in Brazil this shit probably would cost almost 10 times more.
Owen Harris
I get it too when I get real nervous. Just keep trying amigo.
Blake Lee
Not that guy, but I get that too I also get it when talking to strangers in general, when talking in public (IE presentation), it sucks and it's impossible to control.
Needless to say, working in retail was hell.
Carter Hall
Where do you live? Because where I (guy you just replied) live you're tall Basically you're tall and Veeky Forums > hot girl tried to bang you
Nolan Ramirez
I can't fucking breath.
Isaac Robinson
I'm from lithuania and 6 feet is average here, sometimes I feel below average
Parker White
the fuck man
Easton Smith
top kek
Luke Myers
What said. Good luck with your autism bro
Owen Nelson
thank you for your kind words, but I'm a lost cause
Gabriel Carter
here. sorry, user. Its just took me by surprise.
When i talk to a girl , my salivary gland produce thousand times more saliva. It's literally impossible to talk without spit or choke
Logan Ortiz
It seems we both have trouble speaking with girls. I wonder why, why is it so hard to do something so simple
This shit keeps happening to me, too. I'm 184-185cm. Are chicks really so retarded that height only makes them wet?
Julian Gutierrez
>be me, in gym >doing squats >last set, last rep >felt like I was pulling too hard on the bar in the previous reps, so I hold onto the bar a little lighter >start squat >reach the bottom >in all the effort, forget to keep holding onto the bar >go up with both hands off the bar >notice midway that my hands are off, but it's too late >bar starts rolling off my shoulders >panic and try to catch the bar in the air >bar falls onto safety bars >look down >my finger was between the bar and safeties >mfw broken finger pic related
Juan Torres
the eyes getting wet part? I've got really weak eyes, bad vision, but I don't wear glasses. >Are chicks really so retarded that height only makes them wet? I'm average height so it couldn't have got them wet, more like dry out
Oliver Baker
why 3l of milk wtf
Eli Campbell
got to get them gains
Logan Gomez
>the eyes getting wet part? No, the "girls bumping into me and staring and changing their voice so they suddenly sound all girly and playful" part.
Anthony Campbell
I actually do have this. Not specifically when I talk to grills, but randomly.
prolly too much cpu
Nolan Butler
oh, that doesn't happen to me a lot, it was the only time it happened
Christian Morris
but, do they sell a 3l jug or are you getting a 1 and a 2? why not just get a 4l
Brandon Thompson
My sides are gone. I know this is fake but jesus christ I want to believe
Noah Gonzalez
I get 1l and 2l jugs, because the body can't handle 4l a day
Angel Cooper
I think i've read it before but still
Dominic Ortiz
This is why women shouldn't make the first move, fucking catching a guy off guard you're gonna get an autistic response i dont blame you OP
Christian Williams
>it's not that, when I talk to a girl my eyes get really wet and it looks like I'm crying Fuuuuuck. That happens whenever nervous, angry, or feel even remotely pressured. It even happens when I look at someone in the eyes for too long... my eyes are super sensitive.
Brody Barnes
>be me 30 min ago >get done with my run after lifting >take doggo for walk >reading fit on phone because I'm autistic >after a while girl jogging goes around me (had headphones on so I didn't hear her coming) >yell oh shit my bad (me and doggo were blocking sidewalk) >she stops and pets doggo >I stand there holding bag of dog shit still reading shit post >she jogs off she was probably a 9/10 Kill me
Elijah Cooper
most of r9k manages better in situations like that have the tables turned? I'm seeing more and more Veeky Forums threads in /r9k/ and more and more autism threads in Veeky Forums
Evan Ward
Me too. It's not crying.
Owen Sanchez
Op here is there any solution to this? I fucking hate it
Henry Richardson
>183cm >lithuania HAHAHAHHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHHAH nigga you like 167 average what the fuck are you worrying about with 183
Lincoln Foster
Where did you get that info?
Nolan Morales
also why are you calling me a nigga? I am not black
Owen Edwards
meaning it's not literally 167 it's nowhere near 183 dude that's dutch/german level
Jaxson Reyes
come visit Lithuania, if you are under 185 you will feel short
Andrew Miller
>german level germans are manlets, I've been there
Henry Richardson
Alpha as fuck.
Jack Anderson
>be me >last semester of college >Dorm having karaoke party >afterward neighbour comes up to me >"Hey user, good singing" > y-you too.jpg >make beeline back to my room >afterwards get hungry, go to cafeteria >she is there with all her friends >8-9 cuties >"so user, any plans tonight?" >start talking about a report I have to write >and then... Nothing >they stand there staring at me >try to think of something to say >autism engages >There. Are. No. Words. >"well, have a good night user" > they go to a party, I go back to my room Reeeeeeeeeeee. i didn't ask for these feels
>buying beer yesterday >hot as fuck girl in line behind me >offers to pay for my beer >I don't know what to say >stay silent >she gets ID'd >turned away cuz no ID >punches my arm playfully >"oh well, next time ;)" >y-you too
JUST fucking kill me I literally said nothing the entire time and stood there silently like an autist
Jackson Sanders
>trimming trees in a rich neighborhood (great for forearms and shoulders btw) >fell a borer infested ash before lunch >during lunch go to fill up water bottle at spigot >milfy woman wearing yoga pants appears >says "looks like you're working really hard!" >say yeah but we're on lunch right now >asks me how long I have for lunch >say half hour >she tells me to give her a holler if there's anything I need >goes into the house across the street (not the house we were working on) and waves to me before she shuts the door She had a nice ass too
Gabriel Smith
what else would you have done? hey bb u wun eat my poo puu bag wit da seccs?
the chances that you would realistically get anything going off of that small encounter are basically none
Kevin Foster
>>fat kid behind me keeps throwing swedish fish in my fur
Samuel Edwards
A simple "what about you?" would work user
Logan Martin
Stupid man. You could have fugged.
Tyler Phillips
>go to store >mirin qts >qt look at me in disgust >sad.jpeg >buy some oats, milk, greek yoghurt and whatever berries are on special >go home and continue to be sad
Connor Phillips
You underestimate how much of a sperg I am
Ayden Rogers
>finish a set of cable flies >leave to get some water >see a guy adjusting both at different heights to do his own cable flies >change direction >finish last 2 sets doing dumbbell flies
Ayden Lee
You'll make it bro.
Fuck those cunts.
Joshua Scott
happened a few weeks ago >hanging out with friends in their dorm playing vidya late on a Friday night >realize I forgot to get my run in, been doing M/W/F runs pretty consistently and I don't want to miss a day if I don't have to >say goodnight to friends, start timer, and head outside >It's about 1 A.M., a lot later than I'm used to running at but campus is well lit >only big deal is all the people out in groups (going to parties and things, I guess) >start jog >most people get out of the way when they realize I'm coming so I smile and nod at them >I've got my music on, it's a cool summer night and I'm literally running circles around all these chads, feels fucking good man >turn around near the edge of campus and head back towards where I started from >there's a big group of frat guys walking towards me, one of them is waving at me and laughing but I don't know him so I just smile back, I'm in a good enough mood that I assume he isn't laughing at me >his group is taking up almost the whole sidewalk but I squeeze past, he says something as I run by like 'yeah, get fit boy' >almost run into his arm even though I've already passed him, that's weird >think at first he was trying to pat me on the back for some reason but his hand seemed a bit low >feel good anyway because he was cheering me on >keep running >mfw five minutes later I realize he was trying to smack my ass and I smiled and nodded at him I'm a guy btw
Bentley Morris
Hey hot stuff lemme get them digits
Brayden Walker
Oh my god. I completely forgot about this happening. I used to get it all the time. And when I noticed it happening I would start stuttering.
I haven't had it in probably 5 years. I think working in a grocery store in a low socio economic area helped me out. Dealing with dickheads all the time made dealing with normal people much easier.
Andrew Butler
I had this when i was in school it was One of reasons i got bullied.
Elijah Ross
>what else would you have done? hey bb u wun eat my poo puu bag wit da seccs? talk to her? >>>/reddit/
Leo Price
fuck that tell the guy what's up
most people just say sorry and realize they are less than you
Chase Davis
HOW TO BE GOOD AT SMALL TALK
Answer compliments with thank you instead of awkward silence. Plus return the compliment if appropriate.
Answer any questions directly, in simple terms, and without details, no one is interested in details. Return the questions, for instance with what about you like user said.
Don't know what to say? Don't feel like talking but the social situation makes it necessary? Make the other talk more than you by asking questions about their life, feigning interest in their answers, and building remarks and more questions on their answers.
Time for you to go? Looking for an easy escape? Emphasize how much you appreciate their company, but unfortunately have to go now. Well, that was really nice talking to you user, I should get going, see you later and/or have a nice evening and/or let's meet again soon, bye!
Daniel Martinez
>>mfw five minutes later I realize he was trying to smack my ass and I smiled and nodded at him >I'm a guy btw neat! lucky you, I love that sort of compliments
Sebastian Davis
working in retail actually helped me with shit like this.
I also used to tremble when I was nervous, but that was cured too from either experience or putting on weight.
only thing I feel when I'm nervous now is that feeling like i have to take a huge shit.
Jose Richardson
>not asking her to grill up some eggs
Justin Stewart
>gorilla costume >One ticket for chimpanzee Fucking lost it. Thanks user
Jordan Rodriguez
also
TAKE YOUR TIME TO SPEAK IF YOU NEED TOO. Don't rush and say 1000 words a minute You look like a bigger fool if you say 1000 words that don't make sense than if you have a second or two of awkward silence but provide a good response.
Example:
Girl: Wow user you look huge! You: THANKSYOUDOTOO
Or
Girl: wow user you look huge! You: ..... Thanks!
It's not lifechanging if someone starts small talk with you
Kevin Harris
Yeah, I was kind of surprised by how flattered I was, even though I honestly can't say for sure if he was making fun of me or not. I think I was enjoying the running so much I just kind of decided to take it as a compliment. I've never been complimented on the street by a stranger before, so that was neat in itself.
Eli Morales
every fucking tim.
Eli James
In retrospect that last line came off a little ambiguous, so to clarify: my realization was that he had tried to slap my ass and I HAD reacted by smiling and nodding, while still being unaware at the time of what he had been actually trying to do.