Tinder

Is tinder a scam? It feels like a scam to me.

In what way?

Everything I've heard is that unless you're a chad god you're not going to get anything but fatties, and even then most the girls would string the Chad along for self validation. I wanted to make one to get laid and find a fwb but it sounds like a self esteem generator for women and little else.

>the only three people I know who use it got a chick pregnant and are stuck with her now

Probably.

I just moved to a new area a few weeks ago for work. Downloaded tinder for the first time because i know literally no one, and have been on dates with 4 different girls and had sex with 2 of them and have continued to date 1. Was so much easier than i could have imagined it would be.

post a shirtless pic as your first pic. Tinder made me go from kissless virgin to fuccboi king.

Damn, that's pretty impressive. Are they good looking?

I have a gut though, even if I'm cutting. Is it not worth using tinder until you have ottermode?

dont do that, put a very normal picture of yourself as your first pic, just make it a good one. But in your others you need a mix of pictures of you with dogs/other animals, you out at bars etc. with your friends, you doing outdoors stuff(shirtless approved here). For example i have a plain picture for my first, then a picture of me with my dog, then a picture of me rock climbing, and a picture of me at the lake on a boat with my friends shirtless. Have successfully gotten laid on tinder, and i am 100% sure its bc my picture selection is good.

I always only hear this shit from Veeky Forums, and if you're taking anything from Veeky Forums seriously then you're a retard

the one ive taken out more than once is a solid 7.5, the others a little more average, but its not like im looking for a wife or something so id say pretty damn good for what it is.

>going to buenos aires for the weekend
>nothing to do
>load tinder
>like literally 100 girls
>not a single compatibility
>return to my town
>"nobody new near you"

ok

argie girls are worthless in those apps, they value themselves too much, again, not worth it m8

>(even tho I fucked 15 grills thanks to that shit)

Its alot of miss, you'll swing the bat around alot and get alot of strikes before you even by some luck touch the ball.

My experience with it and my chad friends has been garbage. Its all bullshit, apparently the algorithm if you swipe right too much the thing will throw you into the bot area, making you less visible. Alot of women are bots and the few that arent probably already have alot of dudes to pick from. The female pool in it is depressing how low it really is and alot of fat girl angle shots.

Interesting to know about the swiping too much thing. Kinda felt like that was the case as I spent a good week swiping selected profile,s then said fuck it after only get two hits from what ended up being bots or scam accounts.

if you're in the top percentile of men no, if not then yes

it's a sexual meat market

Guys wtf, how many matches do you guys get a day? New to tinder and have gotten the pathetic amount of 4 in 2 weeks.

Have I overestimated my looks?? I swear im not bad and my pics are the fucking bees knees. Help me

post pics

I knew I was moving to this area (Navy) so I duped my phone's GPS to think it was here when I still had a week of leave left back home. Scored some matches, set up dates, and got my first PacNW poonani the day after I arrived. Met my current gf a little later using tinder too.

I'm living a very loose and young life right now though, I'm not looking to put a ring on anyone's finger at this point. I don't think I'd be using tinder if that was my endgame.

At first I used to get 5~ matches a day in a big city but out of boredom I usually just right swipe everyone and I've heard it makes the tinder algorithm classify you as a bot and make you less visible.

If you see a major decrease in matches suddenly, then you've probably been marked. Just don't use the app for 3-4 days and then try and you will get a handful of matches

Fuck i remember when it first came out, everyone had it and thats why it was so sick. Fuck all bots and actual normal girls. Now that its so old the only chicks that actually go on it want validation if theyre hot and wont actually meet up and the rest are sloots who actually wana fuck but are 5/10s

I wanna download it again but got no recent pics and dunno how ill get any without them looking forced lel

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get rid of the emojis you fucking twat

K

drop the golf pic, you look fedora AF

The golf pic..

Cmon bruh

chicks love guys with money, aka guys who golf

Fuck, do you stay with the bots permanently? I was pretty discerning with my swiping, but I still swiped a lot of girls today.

>mustache looks like shit
>golf pic who cares
>rodeo pic super gay

where's the shirtless pic

Learn to talk to women in real life homie

Ok, but still doesnt explain sparce 3/10's matching surely, or are girls that fucking fickle?

>this is what fedoras think

get off the internet, and get some real life experience.

i've fucked 5 girls from tinder in the past 4 months, It's not very much but i consider myself a 7.5/10 and every girl i fucked has been way hotter than what i would feel comfortable approaching in a bar.

The type of people who are saying its a self esteem generator for women are insecure faggots who have never seen a pussy in their lives.

Women not only need sex as much as us, they also crave companionship and romance, the trouble with tinder is alot of them are on there looking for relationships, when ideally you should be hooking up on tinder nothing else.

let's be honest, you wouldn't want to date someone long term you met on that app.

with that being said, everyone gets to that point in life where they find themselves on a dating app through different circumstances

if you drop your shitty judgemental attitude you can find some really cool girls on there and once you get to know them you can look past the fact you found them on a dating app.

that second paragraph wasn't really directed at you but at the other anons in this thread.

like i said bro because its so old now the only chicks on it are fussy asf because all the normal chicks are out doing shit irl lol

>first pic is a selfie
>only other good pic is drinking beer
>pic of you drinking fucking beer
>no exciting pics adventuring in the outdoors, surfing, snowboarding, hiking etc.
>emojis
>joke in the bio completely irrelevant to you or your life

yeah your tinder profile is chipper!!

i agree with this but it really depends on location. where are you from?

>I have no knowledge of the topic but heres my opinion anyway
Veeky Forums: the post

Its free how could it possibly be a scam?

OP here, I've been in two LTRs and one fling IRL so I know women pretty well, I was just curious about tinder. I wouldn't mind getting a casual fwb off of their but I just got out of a long relationship so I'm not looking to get back in.

Who the fuck goes on a hookup app looking for Mr. Right though? That doesn't make any sense.

>for tinder

no faggot stop

>expecting women to make sense
there's your problem.

Tinder is pretty cool if you're not an ugly sack of shit, all i've ever heard is my mates complain about it, personally I find it pretty reliable to get laid.

not really sure what you're trying to quote me on, but ok, i guess you're mad you couldn't get laid on a hookup app

I move between NZ and Aussie every month or so for my job, both of those locations i've found it to be pretty consistent

I'm an incredibly average dude and hooked up with two girls in the first week of using tinder. It's not hard but it is boring.

Grindr, Hornet, and Scruff work much better. No need for matches or swiping nonsense. Click, chat, hookup. Pic related. I'm a white guy in Asia.

>Tinder is pretty cool if you're not an ugly sack of shit, all i've ever heard is my mates complain about it, personally I find it pretty reliable to get laid.

Well I made one shortly after this thread, got four matches. Unmatched one because she was dreadfully boring, one unmatched me after responding to me, and the other two didn't respond. I guess I'm ugly m8.

are the chicks in aussie harder to get? these nz girls are so fucking rank compared to the aussie birds

you forgot to say nohomo

If you're ugly, it's pretty much a scam.

t. ugly guy

depends what you're into, the girls i've matched look identical to the ones here in NZ altho slightly more tanned, definitely get more matches in aussie but i have a feeling it's because my location is more central.

give it time, your profiles only been up for a short while. btw, don't spam swipe or you'll lower your fucking tinder ELO, i'm not even kidding about this.

Basically everything about being gay in the current year is better than being straight

>get off the internet
>I consider myself 7.5/10

Wow do you're above average? Below to average looking guys won't have the same results

>tfw 27 and too old for Tinder

Enjoy your youth while you can, guys

forgot to mention i was in Gold Coast and Melbourne

I meant form your own opinions and take what you read on this website with a very large grain of salt.

Most guys can probably become above average in appearance by dressing well, being fit and living a semi interesting life. Don't sell yourself short

>don't spam swipe or you'll lower your fucking tinder ELO

It's kinda bullshit that their pro version gives you unlimited swipes and yet they punish you for swiping right a lot

what do we do now

O shit is Addie back?

I'm a girl and I use Tinder, and I've had very good experiences with it. I haven't met any bots. You can actually meet some very nice men on it, although they tend to be somewhat autistic.

Now, before you say anything, I have a non-Chad male friend who uses it and he also gets dates very regularly from it, once or twice a week.
> Why haven't you fucked him
He's Asian and only dates Asian girls, and I'm white.

He broke up with his gf so he has time for us again

I don't think he's posted an update pic though so he probably looks a bit shit

Yeah no shit. It's like a free dick smorgasbord for chicks. Female life is ez mode

Tinder is literally easy mode if you're a girl. If you're even an average looking girl, you could swipe right on 90% of guys and get a match.

Post pic

Literally any girl on tinder can get dicked in one simple swipe if they wanted to. half the chicks on tinder arent dtf but just want random guys to spill spaghetti so they feel good about themselves, the remainder are probably disgusting

not her but you probably want to remember a females goal in life isn't to get raw dogged, it's to have a stable relationship with a man who can provide.

hence demand for females on the app is obviously greater than supply.

I may have just gotten a new fuck buddy from Tinder. She seems crazy and slutty and last week I rawdoggeed her and now I'm really worried she could be one of those crazies who get off on spreading AIDS.

I texting her to hang out tomorrow and she responded way too enthusiastically so I'm pretty sure she's either going to kill me or put things in my butt.

Why? I said exactly that, except not as crudely. I get a lot of matches and go on a lot of good dates with good men.

I think that if you're a good looking man with a good personality, you'll be able to find a gf easily. I know a hot guy with a good personality and he got his nice gf from Tinder

wow we have a chad here, he even writes like a chad top kek

An app to find women so you can spend money on them

the whole games a scam senpai

that being said I have several dates to fuck after investing them

Listen to everyone.

Women have always been in control of dating ever since they got "equality".

The reason society was "controlled" was because it kept things pretty socialist.

Tinder is like ultra-steroid capitalism for dicks and clits.

She can pick anyone. It makes it 10x easier for the ultra hot chad to get laid, and 10x harder for the uglier guys, because it increases the range of visible suitors dramatically.

Its a buyer's market. Women get to choose. Not men.

>implying there are nice girls on tinder

All the nice girls are usually taken and thats because they dont go on tinder etc

If a girl needs tinder to meet/fuck someone then they usually have issues.

sorry to break it to u bby gurl but hmu if u want sum fuk

>It feels like a scam to me.
what did he mean by this?

>it's to have a stable relationship with a man who can provide.

hahahahahh

>I always only hear this shit from Veeky Forums, and if you're taking anything from Veeky Forums seriously then you're a retard

Then I guess

>dont do that, put a very normal picture of yourself as your first pic, just make it a good one. But in your others you need a mix of pictures of you with dogs/other animals, you out at bars etc. with your friends, you doing outdoors stuff(shirtless approved here). For example i have a plain picture for my first, then a picture of me with my dog, then a picture of me rock climbing, and a picture of me at the lake on a boat with my friends shirtless. Have successfully gotten laid on tinder, and i am 100% sure its bc my picture selection is good.

and >post a shirtless pic as your first pic. Tinder made me go from kissless virgin to fuccboi king.

and>I just moved to a new area a few weeks ago for work. Downloaded tinder for the first time because i know literally no one, and have been on dates with 4 different girls and had sex with 2 of them and have continued to date 1. Was so much easier than i could have imagined it would be.

are also invalidated for being on Veeky Forums. Unless you're one of those people that is cherry picking.

>oh no, only the negative/bad looking responses obout tinder are retarded to believe in.

Yes, eventually I found a nice engineer who takes me to the ballet and theater on the weekends. He's also willing to wait for sex and is interested in marriage. I'm actually surprised to say that he was not in the minority. Most of the men, 80%, I met were similar to him. I'm actually curious to know who using this app for casual sex.

>unironically ruining an engineer life

>Fuck i remember when it first came out, everyone had it and thats why it was so sick. Fuck all bots and actual normal girls. Now that its so old the only chicks that actually go on it want validation if theyre hot and wont actually meet up and the rest are sloots who actually wana fuck but are 5/10s

Seems like what's being stated is that fucking sites have to be only alive for 4 months, so that everyone gets in on it early. After a year, you shouldn't use those sites anymore because they're trashed by bots.

>If a girl needs tinder to meet/fuck someone then they usually have issues.

QFT.

There's a saying: Women need dating sites when they're too shit to be in real life.

That's just what a bot would say

How is that any different from men?

Very different.

Women can just walk outside and have 1000x guys come at them.

The ones that end up on Tinder are the ones that have 1000 of guys coming up to them, but scare the guys away because they're literally fucked in the head, mental patient tier, not Veeky Forums mentally fucked, but actually mentally fucked.

Have you guys tried "Bumble" yet?

Because in a buyer's market, you have to be real shitty for someone to say "sorry, even though you'll give me something I crave, I prefer not to be near you let alone trade".

A decent, good looking guy can have a 1 in 50 batting average with girls in real life, because he's trying to sell to someone who has their pick of millions of vendors.

This x100

If a guy wants to fuck he either has to put in mad fucking work to get a girl to fuck OR be a 10/10 and end up putting in no work to get a 7/10

A 7/10 girl can put in no work and pretty much fuck any guy where a 2/10 needs tinder

Yep, I met the girl referred to in thispost, said Tinder just because I'm not sure how common a thing Bumble is. Haven't had much luck with it but then that might be because I'm a scrawny jew manlet with an ugly face.

i read about how much work guys have to do on tinder to have success (be handsome, be very social, pick the right photos and put them in the right order, be funny, be witty, etc) while girls dont have to do shit, and it just seems lik a waste of time

>I'm a scrawny jew manlet with an ugly face.
>says how you just got a fuckbuddy off tinder

okay dude

But girls don't want to just fuck, much less fuck a 2/10

Maybe not straight up fuck ugly, but definitely not classically handsome. More of a modern art type face, most girls find me pretty ugly but a very select few really like it. It's definitely noticeably Jewy.

As far as the scrawny manlet part- about 5'8'' and fluctuating between 120-130 lbs. I don't belong on this board.

good for you user
relax mate.

Back to the ovens kike

Thats the problem lool

you kind of sound like me, short scrawny ugly jew face

I feel like this kind of response is trollish faux SJW feminism tumblr hipster shit.

No one can be that dense.

Gay dating sites are garbage.
The people that hook up are trash and have probably slept with half the town.

You're just upset because your white women are all right wiping Jamal and Tyrone like good goyim. They all saw The Force Awakens just as we planned and the white race is doomed.

>load up Tinder in NYC
>nothing but nogs, girls upstate 100s of miles away, and single moms

Not really. If you're too shit to hook up in real life you're probably below average. They have no advantage when there's a 1:1 ratio

>Not really. If you're too shit to hook up in real life you're probably below average. They have no advantage when there's a 1:1 ratio

Someone doesn't understand economics.

At least I understand women

Checkmate, autists

Look at China. There are literally 120 men to 100 women, but they're mostly 2/10 poor men. Thus there is a surplus of men, yet many women are single and unmarried forever. Women who would rather die unmarried and alone than marry a 2/10. The only reason 2/10 Indian men get any sex is because of arranged forced marriage

Since you no one will give you a response just wanted to point out that you are 100% correct. Women get attracted to a man's identity, they crave it and creating a life with that identity. This is why they can love fat men as long as they present an interesting life. He doesn't even need to be rich. A man on the other hand will never be attracted to a an ugly woman no matter how many other virtues she may have.

My cousin is 20, shes a legit 8/10. Now I have Veeky Forums/years of porn under my belt, so I can tell you now my rating is no normie-tier. I rate most women

Don't have to tell me. Tell

What sorts of issues does she have that make people run away?

She's very random and aggressive. She can hold this back briefly, but then she just losses all inhibition and goes crazy over the smallest things.

You might be thinking all women do this, but no, this is on another level. Like mental-institution tier level of random outbursts of aggression.

She is very bad at holding this "issue" back, so much so that (as I said) gets her fired from every job she takes.

>tfw 2 pictures on tinder
>tfw not even that good looking
>still match with decent girls and don't even talk to them