Tfw after a weekend of lifting you realize you're still alone

this desu

LSD has made me quit smoking, drugs and all I wanna do is workout and study

lol, also tinder sucks these days

I wish i wasn't so afraid of the gym.

go where the love is. If you're not happy you need to actively do something. These can be things about your person (social skills or whatever are not genetically determined and not a personality trait, you can work on it and get better), or it can be external things, like the place you live, job/studies etc.

Read social skills books. "how to win friends and influence people" is good if you can put the skills to use.

As for school, you need to figure out what you want to do, but if that isn't coming to you then work out what you can do until you figure it out. I'm not sure my major will be what I want professionally, but I know the knowledge will open avenues to side projects I want to pursue.

28 and actually alone here. It gets worse, senpai, not gonna lie.

>after a weekend of lifting I realize that I still have to go to work on Monday

and so the cycle repeats

>Be in first real relationship, happier than I've ever been in my life.
>After a year, it falls apart suddenly
>After breakup, purge all reminders of ex
>Devastated, spend months trying to recover, but mostly just become more reclusive. Lifting, school, work.
>Today, find note crammed behind my desk, pic related
>Tfw I was cheated on a few months after this note was written

Hold me. I don't think I'm gonna make it.

"Hey user, what'd you do over the weekend?"

"......"

She's terrible at writing; you dodged a bullet.

Humans are liars.

Was this written by a nigger?

>gratest

confirmed

It was sorta an in-thing we did to spell things like nigs. Idk. Nice digits btw.

Not everyone. But yes, most humans.

tinder was amazing when it first came out. these apps get bad quicker and quicker after release as time goes on

I can't really leave. I have to stay here and help my mom with the bills and life. My dad was a drunk and he left us when I was young, so it's just me, my sister and my mom.

I help by providing food for the family, so if I left then they would be fucked.

>tfw after five years of lifting you realize you're still alone

As of now I am an accounting major. I liked it at first but now I fucking hate it. I kinda just want to switch to business admin but I feel like I will not be able to get a job if I do that. And yeah I've read that book before. It really didn't help.

At what age did you realize your life was going down hill? Also is there still a small part of you that thinks you will make it in the future?

>delete Facebook
>get on Tinder
literally not possible

>26 and still a neet
No job or school in several years
Working on turning shit around but it's looking real bleak

containment thread

At least you're not ugly.
I've come to accept it, though.
>tfw

How the fuck do NEETs survive I don't get it.

mommy and daddy, government bux, mooching off random people.

In my case, having a dad who was all too willing to support me and enable my bullshit of dragging my feet. I don't blame him for my being a neet though, that's definitely my own fault. I guess on the bright side at least by being around I caught him having a stroke and got him to a hospital in time, became responsible over him and have been helping him out since then, the experience has helped me grow up a hell of a lot and was a huge motivator for going back to the gym.

>tfw graduated with a good stem degree, but unemployed neet for 1+ year

I wonder what life would be like if I never tore my arm...

You're a bane on society and should kill yourself. There's nothing you can do to get back your lost time and it's too late to change your lifestyle.

Bane?

Kek, you are literally me.

>22
>just started uni because I felt being a neet melts my mind
>needless to say I dislike my field and never want to work in it
>no friends except if I drink
>pretty bad at forming meaningful relationships

It's gonna be allright someday I hope.

Tfw 5 day split not because in gear but i need lifting to be happy

I feel like this is a lot of people mostly because I'm you as well. I mean fuck man who wants to actually put in 4 years to get a degree that makes them 40-60k / year?

can you change your field/major?

i powered through my major even though i didn't really like it because it would lead to a well-paying job and my grades in it were pretty good.

ended up hating my job and life. dreaded waking up in the morning knowing that i'd have to go to work.

What do you do ?
How did you fix it ?

>tfw it's 6pm, I've eaten 2200 calories and feel like a bloated piece of shit
>tfw will never be able to reach my lean bulk intake of 2900 calories
>tfw will never make it

>tfw no amount of lifting will ever absolve you of terrible luck

do phat or PPL instead of a split instead if you call about gains and you wanna go 5 days

nigga just eat some nuts already

(no homo)

Fucking hate it when people ask me this. I live a boring life, so I usually have to lie and say I did something fun when really all I did was work, study lift and jerk off to milf pron.

>not lying in bed enjoying the endorphins and DOMs

Go online you stupid fag.

It's fucking easy to set up a quick date these days.

>tfw after a week of lifting you realize you're alone and free to do whatever you want, no one to hold you back, no one that rely on you, you hold the reigns to your life and if you're miserable you only got yourself to blame

that's neat user, i'm 31, also around 4 years since i graduated, also don't know what the fuck to do with my life, friends all over the place etc.

i'm pretty happy and not at all worried about my future though

What do you do for a living?

I was this way until I joined a frat. I'm not even in a top tier one, but I'm still having fun with a group in the chapter who I'm closest with, and during parties and tailgates some 6/10s are very receptive to me because I have the FRAME AND HEIGHT, but not so much face.

Learn not to give a fuck, senpai.

>tfw you return from a vacation with your GF and she says she doesn't know if she's feeling it anymore and therefore wants a short pause, where none of us are allowed to do anything with anyone else
>tfw I go out to a housewarming, kiss a girl there
>tfw I go to a club after housewarming and kiss a second girl there
>tfw the weekend after I fuck a third QT in my roomie's bed
>tfw GF breaks up with you
>tfw you're still a fucking mess despite the fact that you KNOW that countless of women are interested in you

My GF was attractive as fuck, but still, there are so many attractive girls out there, yet I can only think about my GF. The thought of her getting another dick makes me fucking vomit

At least I can focus 100 % on my body again

What kind of gay shit did you have to do to join the frat?

Have you opened up to her?

She doesn't know I cheated on her during our pause, no, if that's what you mean

What if she cheated on you too?

>tfw have severely aspie man-child autistic older brother who gets into arguments with my dad (threatening him with a hammer for turning off his computer last week) for being a NEET and not leaving his computer all day

Then what? Nothing I can do about that

nothing, got a bachelor's degree in economics but no real prospects

will probably get a store job or something until inspiration/ambition strikes

money doesn't worry me, i plan to live single and childless so i require little, got enough saved up to cruise for a while

Couldn't you get a Government job? Like something entry level? Also don't you feel like a shitty person for working at a store? I mean I work at a restaurant and every time I go in I feel like I am slowly dying. I've been there for too long and I want to get out, but I really don't know what there for me.

>frat

Literally paying for friends

It's paying for alcohol and guaranteed weekend plans for 4 years

You know you don't just get to join right? There's a bidding process, then pledging to see if your a good fit

You are a great guy for still caring about your family user, hope you and your family can make it and have your own life soon

> tfw the initial thrill from joining the gym and making your first gains is wearing off and you feel the crushing return of loneliness return

Thanks man. I just feel like the pressure is on me because I should be done with my studies and I should have gotten a real job, but I'm still in college, still behind in my credits and still working at a shit job.

All my friends are leaving, I'm still a virgin and I've never had a gf. I know I have my family, but I still feel so fucking lonely.

lifting is the only thing that takes the pain away.

Is it acceptable to ask two girls for their numbers simultaneously?
(i.e. "Hey can I get both your numbers")

If you're a 10/10 then yeah go for it.
Good luck, kid.

>I'm still in college, still behind in my credits and still working at a shit job.
>All my friends are leaving, I'm still a virgin and I've never had a gf. I know I have my family, but I still feel so fucking lonely.
Are you me?

>tfw every time you visit your parents they ask if you have a gf
>tfw they will never understand

Lots of people don't have real jobs while in college.

All my friends are leaving too, getting married or careers. At least you are in your situation because you're doing the right thing. I've just wasted my life and my parents are in good health and I'm in the same spot.

Iv'e never understood. We're all social failures and alone... yet iv'e never actually met a fellow Veeky Forums person or social retard. It seems like a perfect friendship.

> Both into lifting
> Both Social retards so no expectations
> Both pretty chill
> No homo.

Seriously, where are you people?

We're probably rare af but only seem common because we all found this site

I literally do not know a single person my age who is single

Are you me?

Seconding this

We are a tiny percent of the population
Just we all find our way to Veeky Forums somehow. I bet nobody else on this site is within 50 miles of me

I met with somebody from fit like a month ago. Got food, talked about how we're losers, it was a good time. I'm still pretty DYEL so I feel weird doing it for fit specifically.

>tfw have severely aspie man-child autistic older brother who gets into arguments with my dad (threatening him with a hammer for turning off his computer last week) for being a NEET and not leaving his computer all day

Holy shit user, I'm gonna pee my pants.

how old are you?

People tend to hide their pain in real life. Like I would never open up to strangers irl, but on Veeky Forums is fine. I'm sure a lot of people you see everyday are damaged.

that sounds fun mane. I've tried to meet up with people from /soc/, /b/ and here but everyone fucking bails at the last minute. I understand meeting people from Veeky Forums is sketchy, but still

I just want to meet some new people and make at least one new friend that lifts.