Sexual Health Gen

OP this happened to me 4 years ago and I'm still a virgin, so my advice is
1) see a psychologist about this. might have been anxiety
2) see a doctor about this, might be physiological
3) stop watching porn
4) always tell the girl beforehand that you are a virgin and what happened.
I didn't do the 4 before and this happened to me 2 more times with different girls. Not even kidding. I'm not making the same mistake again

I genuinely don't believe in ED
It just doesn't seem fucking real to me that young lads wouldn't be able to get hard, you slap your dick looking at a blank wall and your dick gets hard, now you have a woman thats spreading her legs for you and you can't get hard ? Fucko ff
straight up closet homo shit, probably spend to much time on fit

>posting from the womb
>decently experienced with life
>get stuck upside down with umbelical cord wrapped around neck
>this shit has never happened before
>no idea what to do
>this shit is fucking with my mind!
>I thought I was experienced with being a fully grown humannnn

>20 year old virgin but decently experienced with women
>virgin
>experienced with women

>1) see a psychologist about this. might have been anxiety
>2) see a doctor about this, might be physiological
He doesnt need to do either of these.

Just because he doesnt get a boner for one chick doesnt mean hes broken.

in my virginal years I was with 3 separate opportunities with 3 separate girls where they were laying naked asking me to fuck them and was as soft as ever
the anxiety of finally losing my v-card was so overwhelming it killed my arousal
eventually went to a brothel and since she was such a pro and took matters into her own hands (wink) it was no problem being hard
sometimes there is a thing called wisdom of the dick and it knew that if you lay with this girl it will complicate your life immensely and it would be better to merely lie low
since those long passed days I have had no problem with reaching or retaining erections
it's just a phase bro, don't worry about it
sex is no big deal, first time or otherwise
just let it go
more opportunities will come, just focus on your own improvement

It's nerves m8, and don't let anyone convince you otherwise. Has happened to me with every new girl I've slept with, but it'll go as your confidence increases.

And DON'T drink alcohol to calm your nerves. Whisky dick is a killer

pic related

he's probably ok I agree with you but the psychological is 99% of the battle then. That's why it's imperative that he gets full confidence again (going to psychologist to see that he isn't broken and to doctor to see he's ok physiologically)

The face and nod the guy in the banana hammock makes is priceless

literally 3 nights ago.

>be me
>23Y/o
>go in date with 8/10 qt mixed girl
>date goes well and its suddenly 2AM'
>back to my car
>not sure if we want to fuck
>4 am we want to fuck
>shes obviously mirin
>plowing her and she cums x3
>I still cant finish
>still cant finish
>still cant finish
>say "fuck" and stop
>shes obviously upset
>this wasn't the first time this has happened.
>chill in car for 40 minutes and then drive her home.

we have another date tonight.what do Veeky Forums?

>It's nerves m8
This. Just hang out and cuddle for a bit until you can unwind.

>what do Veeky Forums?
Fuck her again. If you don't cum who cares? As long as you have fun.

Or just pull out and fap on her tits.

just fake it (do some kegels) while wearing a condom, which you should be wearing anyway

This is also a good plan.

I don't fuck with dirty chicks and always wear a condom.
Don't need something venereal fucking with my life.

I guess I'm just going to fake it?

You could try emulating some of the causes of PE, like tightening your muscles and shit like that. You could also try to up the arousal level for both of you by dirty talking. Maybe more foreplay or something.

how come on fit, every guy always makes all the girls they have sex with cum a ton of times?

this. just fake your orgasms like the girl did with you

like ed, not being able to come can be anxiety related too.

I'd just fake it a couple times till you're more comfortable.

I'm surprised only one person so far thought this.

There is no way for me to prove anything. So I can only be grateful for the advice I did receive (even if it might end up being bad.)

Also since the issue started I don't think 3 different girls all faked it. But then again who knows?

Sometimes I wish I was gay :/

But fuck that, bit too gay

>how come on fit, every guy always makes all the girls they have sex with cum a ton of times?
It's not that hard m8.
Foreplay+clit stimulation + no micro dick= all the orgasms a girl could ask for.

Did she not even make any effort to get you hard or turn you on?

I've been kind of leading us sexually up till this point. She's very innocent and is learning, but I think she was too nervous last night to make any of those advances

>2016
>foreplay
>clit play

why

The 'girls can't cum off penetrative sex' is a meme, fuck them better

I buy boner pills now from a guy on Craigslist

This happens to me and I've been with 6 girls. It really comes down to how comfortable you are with them.

It always starts off like so:
> Be first time with gril
> Be nervous/anxious
> Be limp dick
> Try to focus
> Once she starts groping my cock everything comes back
> Fast forward 1 month
> Having sex on the reg
> Get rock hard by just grabbing ass

guys on fit make every girl they have sex with cum at least 3-4 times each session just from penetration

at least until the first 50-60 partners they have, then the rest usually cum just from looking at the guy

its why fit is so studly