Hey fit i just got hit hard today

Fuck that garbage man. Cut contact until you feel more functional.

>she just started having feelings
>started

yea thats what this is going to be man, she was so pretty too and out of my league, i kind of saw this coming though i have to say, i knew she still cared about her ex.

the thing is i want to cry but i cant, i cant even do anything except think about this, its so fucked.

she is physically and emotionally, i know that she still has feelings for me right now, right now im being pathetic with her trying to talk to her and i know this is the wrong way to go about it, you think i should just completely cut her off and see what she does? i know she is going to try to talk to me i dont know when but she will, shes an emotional mess.

if she tries to get back what do i do? how do i handle that? i know i cant fucking trust her anymore cause she was talkin to her ex the whole time after she said she blocked him, i dont know if she'll try to come back honestly, they went out for like a year and a half.

i wish i never met this fucking bitch but whatever, atleast she let me fuck her.

So, a woman acts like everything is fine, then suddenly breaks up with you because of feelings for her ex? How long do you think she took to get to this point? It wasn't over night! This is weeks or months of her thinking about her ex, and building up in her mind that she wants him, not you.

Now, she has finally decided to make the break, and has done it with no regard for your feelings, or any real explanation to help you make sense of it.

So, what can we work out from this? She has been lying to you for weeks, maybe months about your relationship, and she doesn't care whether her actions cause you any emotional pain.

And you want this woman back???

Better off without her. Block everything. Take that hurt to the gym. And give it time. you will get over her, and you will move on. If she still had feelings for you, she wouldn't have dumped you for her ex. And if she comes back and asks for forgiveness, you have to tell her to fuck right off, because she will probably do it again, or end up cheating on you.

no she had feelings, she said he acted on them wrongly a week ago she did the same thing to me but still talked to me, and she was back into loving me for the week and this time its worse.

I threw her shit at her when she came to pick it up and told her shes a disgusting person and to get the fuck out. i think ill just try to cut her off but its going to be so hard, i dont know what to do today at all.

Gotta debeta yourself over this girl. Obviously she doesn't fit you. No need to be angry or do it in some tantrum way. No need to waste your breathe anymore on this chick. Since you already feelsmode.jpg on her, wait for her to reply and say Okay. Done. Your done with her, done with thinking about her and now you got beneficial shit to think about. She played you by #usinguasarebound. Cry over the fact you got booty called, learn from it and go get yourself some finer pussy. I guarantee if you chill out and follow this advice she will be back. The goal is to be able to decline her when she comes back, that means you learned some self respect and prob got yourself some a+ pussy.

"I started having feelings for someone." is code for "I cheated on you a while ago." Sorry breh.

came here to say this

Lol thats some shit my ex would say to her faggy asian bf after i fucked her xD

she also said. My minds telling me no, but my bodys telling me yes. "Your so bad." as she spreads her pussy and sucked my finger.

To bad i dont want her anymore lmao shes just a hoe. Thats whay im tryba teach u anonbro this is the same chick who cheated on me. It was all her own insecurities. She cheated on her new boy with me. She said some hurtful ass shit like, i dont love him. He loves me too much. Then to me "you have a spell over me" "i love you" "your so bad baby oh, i cant say that" as she grabs my dick. lol sloots gonna sloot man. Fucking retarded

am i wrong to think this man makes perfect sense? Invading Poos that want to live in europe without having to work are disgusting

1st, take your broken heart and feels to /adv/

2nd, the only thing you'll get from taking all this bullshit your fucking thread has spawned so far is even more heartache. The "i don't know what to do" means "i'm fucking hurt and don't want to be" and eventually you won't, it takes time, that's all.

So, basically, to hell with that bitch and fuck you for making this thread here.

Now you get to become the ex she wants back.

This is a good thing user. Work on yourself. You're sad because you don't love yourself. Learn to love yourself and what she thinks won't matter.

I promise you there are other women who are hotter, who will like the new you more, and will be funnier, smarter, better in bed. Just don't settle for less. You deserve everything. Now start acting like it.

>am i wrong to think this man makes perfect sense?

Trump would say no, Hillary would say yes.

this looks like pasta yet I believe it

>my girl just broke up with me out of the blue when we smoked cause she just started having feelings for her ex
she's probably already lowkey fucking him. She did you a favor.

this man understands what most eurotards don't: immigration werks if you let in the qualified and, more importantly, those willing to work. Most euroshits either think immigration by itself is inherently wrong because skyrim belongs to the nords, or immigrants are poor babbys that we have to take care of because we're morally superior.
>mfw it took a polish """"""""""""intellectual"""""""""""" to realize this.
Trump belongs to the first kind of eurotrash mentality towards immigration.

>Trump belongs to the first kind of eurotrash mentality towards immigration.
>Is himself a son of immigrants

Pick the latter and none other.

Thread.
Move on Op. Win the breakup. Do better than she does.

Why do girls never respond in a reasonable length of time? Every single girl I've ever talked to takes like 2 hours to respond to the most basic shit

busy getting their asses eaten by CHAD

Sorry brother. Best thing to do ia ghost her and move on like you never knew her. She still has power knowing you're hurting. Don't be obnoxious and post about how great you feel, just keep doing you and DO NOT bring her up or allude to her in any way. Seriously, forget she exists. You'll still hurt and know she exists on the inside but there's no sense in giving her more pleasure knowing you're hurting. She'll realize she fucked up, or maybe not, but she'll never have the satisfaction of knowing she has anymore power over you.

Godspeed brother.

>do i just cut her off what the fuck do i do?

yeah but you wont because you're probably young and stupid

Grow a backbone and look for another woman.
She was willing to break up with you just because she was missing her ex's cock, so down the road she'd cuck you anyway. And she'd cuck you hard, m8.
Why the fuck do you want to come back to her with your tail tucked between your legs and begging for the relationship to be back, when she clearly rejected you?
You won't be happy in a relationship, where she is going to wave goodbye every now and then, when it's convenient for her to jump on someone else's cock and then go back to you for all those other benefits.
Unless you're a cuck. In which case - go for it, motherfucker.

I had this happen before. Things were going well with a chick and then all of the sudden she saw her ex out somewhere and she said everything was different all of the sudden.

A few weeks later she was back to telling me that she should have never done it, and it was a mistake and shit.

Avoid bitches like that at all costs. I don't know how long you were with her, but honestly she just showed you that she's not a girl you want to invest a lot of time and emotion into.

thank you dude, that really did help me understand this. She only cares about how she feels and doesnt regard others feelings, i dont want her back she isnt worth it.

its just the first day i mean i got the news this morning, so im gonna just continue processing it and dealing with it, i know shes going to hit me up sometime this week because shes such an emotional spaz, what should i do? ignore her? i honestly want her to want me more and i wanna tear her apart.

Shes very bad emotionally tried killing herself before and i wouldnt mind if she did and succeeded, not even sounding edgy but shes a fucking cunt man.

Im going to try my hardest to decline her but i have a bad feeling im going to talk to her when she talks to me again, im in such a numb state i cant even cry about it when i tried to, i just want to let go of my feelings but its just so hard man. The make it worst she was my first like semi serious relationship so i just got heartbroken for the first time.

thanks i hope so i want to give her hell, your right i do just need time but for now it just sucks.
your right, im glad this happened early on and like i said, i did really see this coming. if we were longer together i for sure would of been fucked way worse, shes a cunt who has no empathy.

user, Trump literally wants to build a wall to "stop immigrants from Mexico from taking American jobs."
His skyrim belongs to the nords is america belongs to the whites.
Besides, all Americans who are not 100% feather indian were all descendants, in varying degrees, of immigrants.

>Say ok bye and never talk to her again
Literally. That's what you fucking do.

what would this do to her? i want to make her feel as much regret as possible, would this be the way to go? cause im assuming being pathetic and begging her would just give her more power over me

Cut her off. Both end your interaction with her, and detach yourself from her emotionally too.

I know you want her back. But her actions have shown she is not long term relationship material. She wasn't able to commit to you. It will only be easier for her to abandon you emotionally next time. (But also, , more than probably.)

Never ever let her let her mean anything to you again. Be cold. No benefit of the doubt. No deluding yourself that she can ever 'change'. Kill the part of yourself that can see any humanity in her. The only thing she will ever be good for is a fuck when you don't have other options. But that time is not anytime soon. Not until you're committed to never letting her back into your life.

She wasn't good enough for you. Chin up, man. Better to find out now than later.

Can the mods here just rename this board to "Veeky Forums - Female Instruction Training"?

I swear to Christ. This board is such a fucking shithole. Every other post is some beta pathetic teenager crying about his girlfriend or some girl problem. Not even closely fitness related, yet the mods leave this shit

Unbelievable. How do they beta faggots here even GET girlfriends

stop illegal immigration not legal immigration you cuck

this thread really helped me man. Im realising it all too im happy this happened now than later cause i would of been absolutely shattered.

Your right it isnt any time soon, i really do have to commit to never letting this whore mean a thing to me, i need to cut her off 100% because she obviously doesnt care about me.

>girlfriend breaks up with you
>call her a whore
>crying on Veeky Forums asking for advice, posting paragraphs of whining

>says "she doesnt mean a thing to you"

Sure thing, you beta 15 year old

you do realise that this guy had his heartbroken hours ago? anyone would be hurt in someone, hes just trying to deal with it. You obviously have never been in a relationship

The way to make her feel as much regret possible, is to just move on bro.
Your goal should no longer be oriented on how SHE feels.
Your goal now should be oriented on how YOU feel.
Move on, either talk to another girl, or focus on bettering yourself.
Do not sit around with your thumb up your ass wondering what you did wrong, or how you can make it right.
Do not beg her for anything, do not even be around her.
If she texts you, ignore them. Leave her on read.
If she calls, ignore them.
If she send you shit on facebook, leave them on read.
Even if she fucking apologizes, ignore that shit.
realize that if she will do something once, she will do it again.

Girls will get away with whatever you let them, but when it comes down to the wire, you determine who comes in and out of your life, nobody else.

>calls the girl a "whore" and a "fucking bitch"
>comes to an anime imageboard to shitpost to other autistic people
>cries and spend hours posting and crying about it
>then says "she never meant anything to me"

You guys are seriously sad.

r9k is not fitness related, fuck off with your shit

Can someone tell me how this is the "fitness" board, yet this thread is complete un fitness related, just a beta kid crying about a girlfriend, and it not only is allowed to be posted, but has 50 replies and a lot of people replying, which encourages others to post their beta whining bullshit?

>using words like beta
your beta

I didn't pic related for one reason.

Veeky Forums isn't full of crybabys that have given up on life. This isn't a Healthy At Any Size hugbox. They/we are trying. And it's the making progress kind of trying, not the lying to yourself kind.

"Social gains" is a fucking retarded thing to say, but at least they're legitimately trying to better themselves. I can still respect that. And that's what keeps Veeky Forums one of the better boards.

It's not "/b/ - Shut-ins so thirsty and desensitized to porn that the largest threads are reposting nude pics shared by the handful of slightly successful autists that still need validation from Veeky Forums"

Or "/r9k/ - Making New England liberals believe in eugenics since 2009"

"Veeky Forums - At least they're trying"

someone answer this

I never really got that about women. People say that guys shouldn't text back quickly, because it shows that they are "waiting for the girls' text" or some shit, while the reason girls take so long to reply is because "they are busy"

it's like really... girls are on their phones almost every waking moment. Why would it take them a long time to respond to messages

i know what you mean. i mean it's one thing if someone texts you and you reply back within like a minute like you have nothing better to do with your life but reply to some text, but waiting hours when you have seen the text is just stupidity

Learn to type like a normal person.

illegal immigration can be cured though. Like you can come here illegally but there are grey areas that allows you to be legal.
People risking a lot coming to the US, most of them anyway, do so because they want to work.

some girls are on their phones almost every waking moment. girls are people, and people have different approaches to life.
You fuckwit.

>welfare is work

>US
>welfare
You cannot receive welfare and other benefits if you're not at least a lawful permanent resident, friendo. You cannot be a lawful permanent resident until you go through the process, which requires you to be petitioned by either a willing employer or a relative who is at least a lawful permanent resident (who makes at least $20,000 annually per petitioned person last time I checked)
tl;dr nobody rides for free in the US, unlike Europe.

triggered?

How would you prefer?

>My minds telling me no, but my bodys telling me yes
youtube.com/watch?v=gTXGL0xPyLA

Haha she started thinking about her ex because you can't satisfy her like he can.

She probably has been sleeping with him the last month.

C U C K E D

Nigga it's been one day. Took me ten months.

Everyone is different, maybe you'll be fine next week, maybe next year.

If there's anything you really feel you need to say, say it. Then move on.

I'm sorry op. It just sucks.

What's the rule of double texting? Talking with this girl on tinder then she stopped responding, been a few hours now, thinking of just sending her a text asking if she wants to meet up since we're like 1 mile away

do it you got nothing to lose bro, if you do nothing and she doesnt respond u get ur answer, if you do something and she doesnt respond u get an answer. It never hurts to just ask to go out so id do it if i were u

I'm feeling a little better already honestly. I realise we would of not worked and I do not want to be with her anymore because it was never work because of lack of trust.

I am obviously not over it 100% but im in the process of moving on.

...

Break her ex's legs

She won't have feelings for him if he's in a wheelchair

Think about all the girls you see in high school, around college, out on town...now imagine how many bitches leave their phones alone for any good amount of time. It's pretty hard to imagine right?

Face it she doesn't think you're worth her time, she saw your text didn't care to respond and blew you off. You texting her again will show how hard you're trying for her attention.

She doesn't respect you or your time so why message her again?