Is there a friend zone for women?

We all know what happens when nice but desperate guy tries to attract women - they gt friend zoned.

Is there any equal thing for women? Can a guy who is single friend zone a woman? If yes, when and how does that happen?

Fuck zoned.

holy fuckin pancake on that girl in pink shorts like wtf thats a fuckin negative ass jesus christ no squats can ever fix this omg

I'm pretty sure we do that to fat girls all the time.

Bruh come on

Yes. I'm single. I'm friends with a girl that's not so attractive and I do OK so I don't need to stick my dick in there.

But she chill and she cooks tasty food so why wouldn't I be friends with her?

I want to impregnate all of them.

The friendzone doesn't exist.
They weren't attracted to the dude in the first place. Its just a nicer way to reject someone.

There's a difference between being soft rejection and being deliberately used and played on.

>just don't eat like a cow
That meme needs to die. SKWATZNOATZ.

>Can a guy who is single friend zone a woman?
DO YOU NOT WATCH TV OR MOVIES
HOLY SHIT
ITS CALLED THE SHY GIRL WHO WANTS TO DATE THE JOCK BUT HE DOESN'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT HER
THERES SO MANY MOVIES ABOUT THIS CLICHE
ANYWAY IT DOESN'T HAPPEN ANYMORE
BECAUSE SHE CAN JUST FUCK SOME BETA KEK WHILE SHE SECRETLY LUSTS FOR THE CHAD
TL:DR GIRLS WHO GET FRIENDZONE JUST FUCK OTHER REBOUND GUYS

>DO YOU NOT WATCH TV OR MOVIES

yeah because those are representative of real life for the average bro

A girl just moves on to the next guy. They don't cry about oneitis problems on a Chilean eel soup cooking forum.

That's why you make a move and ask them out instead of acting friendly and doing favors for them whilst hoping they'll fuck you when you've not even made it clear that that's what you want.

IF U ONLY WATCH CAPESHIT SURE
BUT BELIEVE IT OR NOT THERE'S ALOT OF BETA KEKS WHO BECOME FILM DIRECTORS RETELLING THEIR SAD STORIES ON THE BIG SCREEN

It's called being ugly, or a friend's girl.

are you a girl ?

Of course do you not see how hysterically she types

I've definitely friendzoned girls before that were clearly interested in me. Varying reasons, but most of the time it had to do with who our mutual friends were, and if I wanted to get with one of her friends more.

It's happened to me before. I felt really bad about it, but there wasn't another option. Girl was a hikki and a NEET with more emotional problems than I can count. She'd attempted suicide twice, and she was anorexic. I started hanging out with her because I knew her through her sister, and she was pretty cool and moderately qt but not the kind of person I'd ever want anything serious with. She came onto me twice, and I turned her down. It hurt me to do it because I wanted to fuck her. Badly. She was so small and light, and a virgin no less. I felt like I could've picked her up and fucked her in half, and it would have felt great. I knew that pumping and dumping her would break her heart though, and I couldn't do it to her.

I've friendzoned a few chicks.

Most of the time it's because I'm not attracted to them.

but y tho

Yup. Happens regularly.

I have quite a few interests outside lifting, so the usual course of events is this

> At some kind of event/thing
> Don't have a chick with me
> Fall into normal, non-autistic social conversation with girl
> Respond to her positively, because she's interested in something I'm interested in.
> Get number, one of us contacts the other to do something
> Don't fuck her bc no spark between us, she's not kinky enough, or I just don't give a flying fuck

Funny thing is, I have about 2 male friends. Rest are chicks that don't act too batshit. Sure, I'm using them to make hotter girls a bit jealous, but in turn they get to use me as a filter for more beta guys. Some may turn into fwb for a time, but pussy is easy to get so why worry?

This was at my house

She's a skellington, squats will help a bit

Friend zone is just an excuse. When I got fit I suddenly found myself out of it in many cases. Go figure... all it takes is alcohol and aesthetics

because he doesn't want to stick his dick in crazy, duh. you pay for that shit one way or another.

>no ass
Must be Irish

A guy can do it when he is high-value enough. Attractive, highly-desired, fit, etc.

It's rare, but possible.

Yeah, I need emotional connections with average to good looking girls to fuck them and if I can't find this connection I don't want anything except friendship. I've had girls that wanted more but I declined.

I care less about emotions if the girl is very hot of course.

Yes, there are women I know that I wouldn't fuck or relationship. Basically every fat woman is in the friend zone if she has friends.

...

It's a pretty big problem for lesbians and REALLY fat straight girls

I remembered that time two chicks said they wanted to rub their tits on my chest and I told them to fuck off

I friendzone women sometimes.

I'm reasonably handsome and charismatic, enough to get female attention, anyway. I have a very flirty and outgoing demeanor, which makes it easy for me to cozy up to cute girls that I see regularly.

But I've lost my taste for casual sex and my private face is not the same as my public one. I'm actually very lonely, and I think that shows during sex, so I forgo it a lot to avoid the threat of intimacy.

I string girls along by being flirty, but often neglect to seal the deal, even when I know for sure I can. Basically I'm a tease.

I just did it the other week. Was seeing this Ukranian girl who was very aggressive with making out, feeling me up in public, yelling profanities etc.Also would say shit like how adventurous she is in bed, etc, but also contradict herself and said she doesnt really like sex because it's painful for her. When I would try to escalate she would push back and say something like "i usually wait about 4-5 months into a relationship before sex, silly!" So i told her a few days later that i really like her but its not gonna work

>mfw she wont stop posting sentimental word porn bullshit thingies on facebook related to relationships now kek

kek

Don't shit where you eat.

but what if you're hungry for ssssssshhhhhhiiiiiitttttt, senpai?

Yes. I'm currently doing it to 2 girls

YUMMMMO XDDDDDDDD ME LIKEY CHOCOLATE FUNTIMES IN MY MOUTH BUT MUMMY SAYZ ITS BAD FOR ME AND TAKES AWAY 1000 GBP ;(((((

>he still has a cuckbook account
>gives all his personal information to mark (((zuckerberg)))

Same man. Except I have never done casual sex as I have been dating/marriedthe same girl for 9 years.

I sort of friendzoned a girl I dated a couple of times. We kissed and shit, she kept wanting more but I wasn't willing to commit... she was cool and stuff, but had too many issues I wasn't willing to deal with just to bang a 6/10. She was heartbroken but she found another desperate 6/10 dude pretty quick. Glad for her 2tbh

bawww she was probably inexperienced but didn't want it to show, and was trying to impress you. I feel u, tho. I've met girls like that

I friendzone girls all the time of course it exists you probably do to.. Or at least id assume not everyone wants to have sex with every single girl they know. I dont think its some abnormal thing

I have friendzoned more times than I have been friendzoned.
>tfw good looking guy with trust issues and oneitis.

>But I've lost my taste for casual sex and my private face is not the same as my public one. I'm actually very lonely, and I think that shows during sex, so I forgo it a lot to avoid the threat of intimacy.

M8 don't get this real on me

If by friendzone you mean "not gonna fuck you" then yes, some girls are ugly AF or fat or whatever you don't like, if you actually mean being friends with someone without romantic feelings then it's kinda hard for us man but I believe it's possible.

>Can a guy who is single friend zone a woman? If yes, when and how does that happen?

Yes, I got friendzoned by a slightly autistic guy visiting my uni for a conference. It was not my proudest moment.

Then a year later I flew out to the UK to try again and he friendzoned me again.

Haha kill me. I still love him.

Honestly, I'd say is the invisibility zone.

Seems to me if a woman is around you, and you aren't attracted to her she's either invisible or awkwardly one of the guys.

same here without trust issues
another factor for me is that I don't want to rob anyone of their time

I have hooked up with more of my female friends over the years than not, many of the ones I haven't hooked up with have expressed an interest in hooking up at some point in the past, and I genuinely believe I could sleep with ANY of my female friends if we were single at the same time.

I don't think the friend zone exists. I mean even my fat friends who I wouldn't fuck, I'd be happy to fuck if they lost weight. So even my "friend zone" is more like a "not at present" zone. Which I think is all anyone's friend zone really is.

If they like your personality enough to be your friend, then you're half way there. They just need to like your body as well and anyone can work on that.

Having said that, while I don't believe in the friend zone there is definitely a fuck zone. You can easily be attracted enough to a friend to want to fuck them, but that's very far from wanting to date them. I've never developed feelings for any friend I've slept with, even one I slept with for over a year.

the fact that a "soft rejection" is necessary is so fucking ridiculous to me. Like, holy shit are you that emotionally unstable that a "nah dude" literally makes you wanna freak out ?

damn, being a dude is some heavy shit m8.

It's like you're PMSing, always.

respect.

kek'd so hard. nice one.

I wish women would just say "No" but most of the time it's some wishy-washy bullshit like "I can't" implying that some day it will work.

Frustrating and emotionally manipulative crap.

>Chilean eel soup cooking forum
I would definitely want to visit a forum like that, sounds delicious

even if you are not a girl, this thread would have made more point if girls posted about their experiences with the friendzone or fuckzone or whatever

>If they like your personality enough to be your friend
that's just the thing. Women don't choose "friends" because they like their personalities.

This desu senpai. They literally could fuck a different guy every week if they wanted to.

Same goes for the guy though

That seems like a missed opportunity

basically with woman if it is not a yes, its definately a no.
not that hard really.

its lik for date as well. you call her and offer to hang / coffe / run / weed
> if she says she cant but offers a counterproposal day - she is interested
> if she says she would really really really want to, but there is no counteroffer - she is not.

i had a girl who couldnt make sunday afternoon date. she had to work. so she offered sunday after midnight. i said i have work in the morning, she said it will be worth it for me if i wait.
i told her no decent girls are out after midnight sunday anyway (jokingly), she told me that we could hang at her place, that way she isn't out.

anyway, if a girl wants you, shell make time. or counteroffer. if she doesnt care - move on.


that is why i like to get a girls number, and then call her up like few days after for the first time. if i do not need to explain who i am (she remembers cause she liked me too), then we're good. if shes "annon who?" the i gotta be "annon from OP's gay party last week, member?" "ooh i member"
no she doesn't, she doesnt even care.

>The friendzone doesn't exist.
Sure it does, retard.

why is this board turning into /r9k/ 2.0

This

fpbp

>I have quite a few interests outside lifting
like what?

Was it in London ?

I've friendzoned girls for the following reasons.

>being in a relationship myself and don't want to cheat
>the girl is overweight or not good looking enough
>I'm too nervous or autistic to get the signs that she actually likes me

>if she says she would really really really want to, but there is no counteroffer - she is not.
One socially awkward girl did this to me many years ago. So I backed off, found another girl and actually stayed as friends with that one. Few years later it turns out she really wanted to date me, but was just autistic about it.

I friendzone them by just not talking to them so much. They message on facebook, but I just go offline "naw I don't get on much", but I'm dming the hotties through private messages always

I dont think he meant it black and white.

Thats what I am saying though. There are exceptions to this pretty good rule of thumb. Just sharing experience.

well if you are being used in the first place you're a cuck and it's your fault
i mean... nobody is forcing you to remain friends

ya i didnt but you arent really gonna linger around to actually check it out.
if a girl is autistic to counteroffer, she'll be autistic to date too. and if you think thats "cool" - it sure as hell is not.

dming?

None of them have ass

Briennezoned

if you think that friendzone exist, you are a beta cuck. that is a fact
people get in the friendzone by doing shit for a girl that you want to fuck, but she won't fuck you, and that is cuck

I didn't say it isn't obvious. Just that they need to learn how to actually burn bridges and not lead guys on.

>Implying being nice is the reason guys get friendzoned.

>implying its not awkward personalities and or unattractive looks.

Two of my female friends hit on me at the same time, I friend zoned the less attractive

at least 2 of them have ass

they dont want to becausw many of them do it and if they dont do it no one gives them credit, girls mostly give give them weird looks.

unless ofc shit hits the fan and friendzoned guy becomes a nuisance, then girls who burn their
bridges actually can say "told you so".

but some girls even find drama in guys annoying them so its another plus because their lives are so devoid of their contributions so they'll take anything.

if a girl can produce her own OC, she tends to be clingy.

The fuck are you saying? Is english your second language?

they don't need to learn tbqh. most guys just fuck off eventually and never call them out for it.

Yeah, it's called the "she's like one of the guys" zone.

Most guys are boring idiots looking for the easiest hole.

I've heard the opposite stereotype about the Irish

Not really. We call these girls ugly. Everything else can change

>Health and Fitness

Am autistic girl, can confirm I wouldn't be fun to date.

I mean I feel like I have done it to a few girls now. Ya'll never had chicks you weren't attracted to drop hints that they wanted the D? But I'm a softy and just worried that if I hook up with an ugly girl she'll try and stick around.

Literally me.

Like, I used to be an autism, but worked on it like gains.
Yet I still dgaf

Yeah Slavic girls tend to do that. Try to talk as if they've been a whore, even it they're not.

Yup I friend zone work sluts all the time

>22 year old chick with 2 kids works 10 paygrades below me, always asking me out for coffee and wanting to chill
Naw bruh

>25 year old chick with 2 kids with 2 separate dads asks to chill and watch some movies at her place, she's a 3/10

Naw bruh

>23 year old landwhale who suffers from "PCOS" always swings by my place and wants to stay the night

Swerve

Think about it, you guys probably swerve these types of chicks all the time. They might be good people and fun to hang out with, but NOT girlfriend or relationship material and definitely not worth putting the dick into

sometimes i do it just because i'm way too fucking lazy to pursue another relationship on top of my existing relationship.

i'll usually flirt until they start dropping hints and just never take it beyond that stage.

then they get frustrated and either fuck some other guy or write this passive aggressive shit on their social media, "blah blah blah if you love me let me know blah blah blah i hate when i get played/strung along blah blah blah nicholas sparks quote"

Had gf with BPD. Best relationship ever.

Health? Where. This has been "just" fitness for quite some time.