Sexual Health

No this is oic related

> how do i finger a girl?

Contrary to how it sounds you insert your fist into the girl and move it in and out as fast as you can, like you're trying to punch her uterus.
Every woman I've been with is surprised at first, but they love it after the first minute or so

>and also how do i finger a girl?

If this isn't bait, I'll tell you.

Biggest thing with hand play is start out slow. Move your hand down slowly, to build up anticipation. Rub and caress the outside first. When she start becoming aroused, lightly, lightly LIGHTLY, tease her clit. By that point she should be plenty aroused, so work your way back down for finger penetration. One finger first, using middle finger. Use your palm to place firm pressure on her groin, but with your finger start out slow moving back and forth before building speed. At that point just pretend your finger is a dick, mimicking the same thrusting movements, changing it up only sometimes with swirling and vibration. At that point you can then consider adding in your ring or index finger. Some girls don't like this. Once you've done a few rounds of this, finish her off with clit play and she should climax.

I have a lot of practice getting girls off with my hands. It's not hard, just don't be a fucking sperglord with it and start fisting her like a fucking chimp. Firmness not harshness is the key to handplay.

As a 23 year old, is it normal to go days without feeling horny whatsoever after jacking off? I jacked off on Saturday and its almost Wednesday and i don't even think i can pop a boner right now

product of fapping daily for years, bud.

>new neighbor just moved in to the house down the street
>mfw she's 27 and blonde

Oh God how do I tap this

Double dubs of truth? I need to hop on that no fap meme

24, masturbated daily to porn since forever, still get horny like I'm a teenager

This desu if op is serious. If I don't make my girlfriend cum from sex or if we're just fooling around it's easier for me to make her come just from touching her clit than with any penetration with my fingers.

A lot of girls at that age find virgins cute and sweet, it's not weird yet to be a virgin so you should be golden friend.

How do you keep a high libido?

No fap for 2 weeks. Still can't get hard by the power of my own thoughts. WTF i hate nofap now.

Also I can't get hard off my back, am I broken with circulation issues?

almost 26 here, glad i'm not alone in this. i can't remember the last time i went more than 3-4 days without jacking off and i can still easily rub one out at least twice a day. not sure why i'm so easily aroused; probably because i'm not sexually active

me irl

You need to seriously stop stressing about sex. Its not that big of a deal. It feels good but Its not that great. Focus on making yourslef a better person and living a full life and the sex will happen when it happens.

dont finger anything. rub, tickle and massage

if you want her to have a good time, warm her up by making out and rubbing her body

check vag, if its not lubed up then proceed to cunnilingus+finger bang. Only go as deep as shes lubed.
If shes not lubing, you are fucking up OP

If you press up to her stomach while finger banging it feels like shes getting fucked.

Rub just above her vag to hit her clit, and swirl her nipples to get her wanting it.

29 here, got a gf since 9 yrs ago, yerk to porn and sex her regularly. All she have to do is look at me and I'll get rock hard even if I termed it the same day. I've never understood the nofap noporn thing.

Dear OP,

This: reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/

Ignore the reddit, this is how I lost my virginity.
Thank me later.

Same here. I think I need to extend my Weekly faps to be only bi-weekly from now on.

>tfw lost my libido
>only semis now

Been fapping daily for years and it's never been a problem, should I try nofap?

Low test, im serious. Talk to a doctor, at 23 you should not have these problems.

Pretty sure its Honey Birdette. My fuck buddy is obsessed with their shit and it looks similar.

This is retarded

Okay I'm no sex master either but here's the thing.

One, every woman is different, maybe not drastically different but there are several ways to finger them and they will respond all differently.

Don't start by inserting your finger into the vagina like in porn. Porn is very wrong in this department because it's meant to be visually appealing for men.

Start by playing around with the vulva. Move your fingers up and down her lower lips, and gentle stroke the outer vulva area. There's a spot just above the clit where a lot of women enjoy being touched there, and some women masturbate by stimulating the area. Don't just start slobbering over the clit straight away.

After you've felt up the vulva, move onto the clit, gently play with it and stroke the area surrounding the clit.

Virgin shaming, the idea that you have to lose it by a certain age, is a plutocratic ploy to create a permanent underclass of wage slaves by tricking impressionable young people into accidentally getting knocked up and having to set aside their dreams to raise kids, pay for child support, accumulate massive debt, and palliate their misery with fast food, cigarettes, drugs, alcohol, and materialism.

People are having fewer kids then ever right now and we are using more fast food ciggarettes drugs alcohol and materialist trash then at any point in human history.

When people were pumping out kids and were forced by circumstances to put their head on straight they didn't throw their money away on silly bullshit as much and had no choice but to make do.

>People are having fewer kids than ever right now
>Population: 7 Billion and counting

Illogical

Dude, what countries have disasterously low birth rates and which ones have high ones?

The ones who were indoctrinated with what you're talking about for multiple generations.

You know, the countries that you are a part of and are associated with.

Kek

28, fap every day. Doing it for years.

Not gonna make it

Take one hand and grab her neck and hold her down for leverage.

Take the other hand and make it flat like youre going to high 5 someone. Then smack it flat on her clit. Proceed to rub all four fingers back and forth horizontally across her clit as fast as you can like youre strumming a ukulele. Continue to she wets the bed. Profit.

It's actually not that simple. You gotta hook up your finger and hit that g-spot. Do a combination of in&out motion plus g-spot massaging. You will only need one finger unless she's a loose sloot.

>virgins giving advice to virgins

Just eat her out and gauge her response. The clit has all the nerve endings of a penis, all in that tiny area, so focus on that. Be gentle, gentle, gentle. You can be rough when you're fucking her, if she's into that. If she's gasping you're doing something right, keep doing that.

Women get off by constant, built up stimulation, it's not like guys who want a lot of stimulation immediately. So definitely tease her, like a lot. When you go to eat her out, touch her all over, kiss up and down her legs, and just when she thinks you're going in, kiss up and down her legs again. Girls love that.

And also, if she really does care about you, she wants you to enjoy yourself as well. If you go into this trying really hard, and just trying to get her off, it's not going to be fun. Make it fun, make her giggle, make her moan, it's sex dude it's not that complicated.

>and also how do i finger a girl?

Just go watch a how to video on pornhub or ask your dad to show you. Both ways taught me how pretty well.

>has gf
>still virgin

How do people accomplish this? All my girlfriends I've fucked way before we ever agreed to "go steady"

Because you date sluts

OP has a pretty normal relationship by the way it sounds, especially for his age. Some girls just don't want to fuck on the first date, sometimes people date based on personality instead of sex.

>no fap since saturday
>literally had random convulsions in my balls and had a semi during my entire commute
does this mean high test

Eat her out for a while until you get jaw pain or she starts breathing heavily. Stick 2 fingers in and lift up and you'll feel a rough patch, rub against this. Use your mouth as well and enjoy yourself and react to her moans/smiles/etc

I'm a virgin btw

Do NOT eat her out, that is fucking GAY and she will think you're a WEAK BETA FAGGOT and will KEK you with TYRONE and CHAD.

No idea bruh, I'm just like that

How is it gay eating pussy? Men don't have a pussy.

Get outta here Junior

Finger her like you prettend to make a fire with two sticks

fanook detected

You don't seriously believe that do you? Every virgin grill I knew lost theirs by going out and screwing some random they barely knew because they found them attractive. If a grill isn't screwing immediately (with the exception of the seriously religious who live by tradtional values and wouldn't be having sex outside of marriage anyway) then she doesn't want to screw you at all and is merely taking validation from you whilst waiting for an attractive guy to come along.