ITT: Descibe the ideal man you wish you would have become, or will become. Descibe his virtues and believes. And I mean the believes he'd naturally aquire, not you believes that you have now due to being not valued by society.
And "be Chad" doesn't count. Rather describe attributes. Imagine a man who is happy with his life at 50, still.
Integrity
Service before self
Excellence in all I do
Also be Chad
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dat nigga who slay da pussy nah meen?
Be a perfect soldier?
There's a lot of believe in an ideology required to be happy with that. What do you want to service?
Did he speak for the common guy? I don't know, he seems privileged.
Will dat man be happy at 50.
I use to want to save people and be the good guy and all that stuff.
Then as I got older I realised people are shit and the thought of ever helping someone makes me cringe.
Honestly would be pretty happy if WW3 started, unfortunately that probably wont happen now since Hillary got elected and Trump wants to be friends with Russia. I was really hoping Hillary got in office US/RU relations could hit breaking point and trigger WW3.
Ah well.
eh, tired as fuck, meant to say since hillary didnt get elected...
cbf deleting and reposting.
>does what he wants in the limits of laws and not limiting other people, also applies to how he judges others
>has a desire to improve constantly though
>is generally a good guy
>Will dat man be happy at 50.
nigga sheeeit a nigga dat liv to 50 aint livin nigga gotta be steelin gurls n shit and makin sure erebody hate u best dey can
If I could undo my own conception that'd be ideal
I don't believe integrity, service and a standard of excellence are only qualities of a good soldier, I think they make a good person, as well.
nah nigga
only thing u need is a excelnt dick haha
>limits of laws
u rly fallo laws nigga?
ITT: Anons so far down staring at their navels that they forgot to lift
>If you can keep your head when all about you
>Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
>If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
>But make allowance for their doubting too:
>If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
>Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
>Or being hated don't give way to hating,
>And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;
>If you can dream- -and not make dreams your master;
>If you can think- -and not make thoughts your aim,
>If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
>And treat those two impostors just the same:.
>If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
>Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
>Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
>And stoop and build'em up with worn-out tools;
>If you can make one heap of all your winnings
>And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
>And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
>And never breathe a word about your loss:
>If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
>To serve your turn long after they are gone,
>And so hold on when there is nothing in you
>Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on! '
>If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
>Or walk with Kings- -nor lose the common touch,
>If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
>If all men count with you, but none too much:
>If you can fill the unforgiving minute
>With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
>Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
>And- -which is more- -you'll be a Man, my son!
Rudyard Kipling - If
>specin niggas a reed a book on here like u some sorta bookist
Kek meant the most serious laws like economic crimes etc, little speeding here a bit of weed there is not that bad
ShiggyNiggy
Sounds like a highly efficient person, but for whom. It seems a little too selfless to me. Put service above yourself as a virtue sounds very spooky.
>want to describe myself
>Realize i dont know what are my dreams or goals
make one of these, then make steps to achieve them.
figure out what you enjoy and how to make money doing that.
I like shitposting on the internet, so I got a job designing shit with CAD
Then this thread is for you.
Would have been a good soldier/spy desu
Always dreamt of not having a deskjob and wanted to be a man of action, was always fascinated with spy movies and war movies, always wanted to be that guy, even befriended a retired general who used to pilot reconnaissance planes and was well connected in the military, befriended him all semester even gave me tips how to survive enlistment, and gave me even more under the table tips of what to do and what not to do if you want to be noticed by NICA (our countries' intelligence agency), but most of all I just wanted to disappear, literally disappear, my home life wasnt very good, my highschool days was spent getting pushed around, I wanted to join the army to disappear and start anew, I always reminded myself that I wanted to be special forces, be recruited in special ops , but in reality, I was deluding myself and at my core I really just wanted to disappear.
I was about to enlist bros, ready to give everything away, but 2 weeks before I met my girl, and I was no longer able to make the sacrifices that my 'dream' job demanded, so I finished aviation and here I am working as an aircraft engineer
I always think of what if, I would often find myself daydreaming what could have been, what I could have become, where would I be now if I made a different decision 6 years ago. but I'm happy, about to get married, and I'm satisfied being this guy whos close to reaching 4/3/2/1 and having good beard genetics
>giving up goals for pussy
shibbydigly
I know its stupid, but i dont really regret it, were still together, is expecting a son, and I'm doing good with my job, ofcourse being a badass operative is also cool, but Id do it over and over again given the chance
Thanks for the longish answer.
What do you do in aircraft engineering (I've been working somewhat close to this)
Also, why do you want to marry other than it being your parents and wife's wish, with the argument of "muh tradition"? Any actual point to that?
Really? Not being selfish sounds "spooky" to you? I admire everyone who sacrifices for someone or something they care about. Be it the father (or mother for that matter) who works long hours for their family, the teacher who puts extra time and effort into their teaching or extracurricular activities, or anyone who gives a shit about things besides their own personal comfort and well-being.
Where I work at, I review plane maintenance and clear out cessnas, most days I just sign papers saying theyre good to go, on bad days a team would review a problematic bay area on white bodies.
>Also, why do you want to marry other than it being your parents and wife's wish, with the argument of "muh tradition"? Any actual point to that?
Well for one, I want to be what my dad never was, knocked my mum up and left, i know it might sound a little bit old school these days but I actually want to be a good husband and dad, I think Id be good at it
this but girl body doesnt really matter as long she has cute face and makes my heart melt.
Preferably some very small girl that i could be big spoon for
im 6'2
Yes, but I admit being self-centered. Might be that I'm wrong in that.
You dodged my question completely, being a good dad doesn't necessitate a legal contract (with very minor tax cuts but major risks associated).
Looks good.
>Where do you want to be in 3 years, and where in 10
:^)
Also, here a pic for you.
Oh, and google Karl Ove Knausgård (writer). I think that's a style you may like.
>those freckles
wright into benis
i have terriblle facial hair
i barely have any in fact, maybe little bit of moustache and goatee, cant grow beard to save my llife
late bloomer i think
im 24, thats already way too late for any blooming i guess
I didn't grow my full beard till maybe 23 user. I've been told I'm "hot" with it (although I find that hard to believe). I also didn't really get a good V shape till about then.
You're gonna make it
>ITT: Describe the ideal man you wish you would have become,
I wish I could go back in time and spend more time with my family and not worry as much about the future. Every day I look at pictures of my grandparents and my father wishing I could spend just 5 more minutes with them. I became self absorbed and isolated after I graduated high school and completely neglected my family. I was more worried about making money and securing a comfortable future for myself that I all but abandoned the people that built me up and cared for me when I was a child. I hope I can see them in whatever afterlife I'm granted and apologize for my selfishness. I hate myself.
>Strong
>Just
>Honorable
>Moral
>Intelligent
>Model Citizen
I'm going to unI for Police Studies and Criminal Justice with the goal of becoming a Detective for the RAMP so I think I'm on my way
hello benis
youtu.be
I was thinking about your outfit section. This famous writer dude has the hair you like (and that even though he's old), so maybe it carries over
Always improving
Unaffected by challenges
Driven
Fit
Deadly
Knowledgeable
Wise
Adaptable
Morally neutral
I want to be an androgynous qt straight boi with some gay tendencies for a few years first then after I have my fun I'll think on what it is to be a real mans man
Surprised there are seemingly some "older" guys here. I like that.
Also, morals seem to play a role for your ideal you's - I'm surprised.
;_;
Maybe live by example for some young guy now, maybe you get something out of that.
>Morally neutral
What did he mean by this?
Also, what do you do to get there?
>morally neutral
To not be blinded by a compulsion to be altruistic.
I'm 100% serious. Also Geralt too
I love this poem
My main goal is to just become happy with where my life has taken me. The secondary goals are to become successful but very humble about it, and retain a good moral compass. In short, I hope to be the man who when speaking, everyone listens.
I have the building blocks in place to make it happen. Just have to keep working at it.
emotionless robot that manipulates normies into playing into his plans and goals, of which he has many.
able to put on a fake front of almost any emotion in order to hide his real intentions which is total domination of whatever field of study or profession he chooses.
has a large group of friends who do not know that he is using them for personal gain
a large group of enemies who he also uses for his own personal gain
basically i want to be vladimir putin but with nobody knowing my true name . nowmsayin?
For what purpose does the malevolent aspect have to be part of it?
interesting
im allso sporting leather jacket
also some jeans and casual shoes
pretty much it
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Caesar wept at the foot of alexanders statue
>Outgoing, warm, charming personality that has a good time talking to anyone
>Handsome, admired by many women for my looks and can easily get laid or form relationships
>Travels frequently and experiences different cultures, has a large following on social media because of my awesome lifestyle
>Knows a little bit about everything; cars, planes, boats, politics, finance, cooking, cuisine, carpentry, etc
>Has a nice thicc body with manly v taper, obviously lifts and eats well
I'm halfway there, but I got my girlfriend pregnant so I think the other half (traveling, social media fame, random hook ups) won't be a possibility. Oh well
I want to be like the man in this painting.
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i have seen one girl sporting that classic hairstyle looking like from ww2
got my peepee semihard real quickk
I'd like to be like him as well. Then I could touch that little girl and it would be socially acceptable
He considered duty to others to be one's main purpose in life. I also read he resented his priveledge to a fairly high degree. Apparently he blew the Senate's collective mind when he told them the palace was for their use more than his.
Pretty cool guy, desu.
found the audiobook, sounds promising
This is me.
I'm 24 and 100% focused on my job and making money. Don't care about what little family I have.
I'll have to change this. I'll do it for you user. Your words may have saved me at least.
Smart, loving, motivated, hard hardworking and self assured.
I am most of these things at the moment, just not so self assured yet. I am slowly becoming more outgoing and I feel like changing industries but I don't know when is a good time, or what industry to get into.
Strong mentally and physically.
Determinated.
Dignified.
Caring.
That's all i'm trying to become.
>Isn't outworked by anyone no matter what
>So dedicated and ambitious that he scares the average person
>Cannot be intimidated and stepped on and can turn the tables very quickly
>There is always a feeling when he walks into a room even if people aren't looking at him
>People literally cannot say no to him
>Physique that looks like it has been through shit ton of fights are trials,a mix of fighter and bodybuilder and looks very intimidating
>Can spot the strong from the weak,the kind from the evil in a matter of seconds and acts accordingly
>Most importantly isn't phased by anything life throws at him but is emotional at times
...
Bump, I'm interested in your ideal images.
>me
>run marathons again
>grow a beard
That's it.
>be more social and outgoing
>Speak another language
>Learn some instruments
>Learn to clearly speak my mind and how I feel about things
I'm still young, and I can't even think of who I want to be in the future besides someone like my dad. He's very opinionated, kind, and strong, possibly the very defenition of an extrovert when I think about it. If something pisses him off, he wouldn't think twice about calling someone out for it. He doesn't take shit from anyone either, sometimes I wish I didn't restrain myself and just let whatever it is on my mind out like he does. Reminds me of the time he pulled out a knife on soon older dudes who threw my basketball across the court when I was playing. He's a bit excessive at times. That's one thing I'd like to keep in check though.
Someone who's not scared of signing up for tinder, much less flirting with a woman I wasn't introduced to by a mutual friend.
>a strong and confident ego
>selfish enough to do the right thing by yourself; altruistic enough to help your family, friends and the truly needy, but only when your own needs are met first
>the gift of framing conversation - bring somebody into your world and they begin to believe what you believe. And the first belief they absorb is what you genuinely think about yourself - if you have esteem for yourself, they will too
>able to see the truth in all things, to analyse every situation and understand why things are as they are - and how to use this knowledge
>able to trust your own thoughts and experiences; humble enough to learn from mistakes, and always learning and growing as a person
>Evola
>traditional woman
>non-degenerate hair
>lifts
Found the völkisch Iron Piller.
Hail victory
Is ther hope for white race?
seconded
These. To know my vices and not let them get the best of me. Noporn is fun, bros.
The ability to forgive.
I want to be Evola but not be paralyzed like a retard for drunkenly going on a walk while a bombing raid is going on.
Me jacking it in my office while I work on my cure for cancer after working out at the gym with sexy young early 20 girls; also, I'm a doctor who has met the Pope. Also, some grindr for mmf spice
Yes there is, mighty völkisch warrior. I lift for Mother Evropa.
Whats the iron pill, exactly? A mix of redpill, Veeky Forums, actual Veeky Forums, and white nationalism?
If you want more, just go listen to the Golden One and Natt Danelaw yell at you at the same time.
>tfw you know exactly what your vices are but let them get the best of you every time
Fuck
Knowing is the first step. Keep at it.
This nigga
>You dodged my question completely, being a good dad doesn't necessitate a legal contract (with very minor tax cuts but major risks associated).
apologies for the late reply user, I actually didnt, I'm not american so our marriage tradition is quite different, there is virtually no risk for alimony or custodies here in the philippines and the only way to fuck my marriage up is to actually cheat
I see, thx. (I'm European)
Pic somewhat related, an author who married a fairly ugly feminist, then became a superstar among teen pussy. I love the look on his face.
checkin
>tfw these threads are often better on Veeky Forums than on Veeky Forums where they just turn into hurr durr mai philosopherfu pissing contests
The ideal man I would have liked to become is not easily defined, as the factors that kept me from it have influenced me all my teenage and adult life also influence my perception on the matter. For what it's worth, here goies:
>stoic, almost aloof at heart but well versed in social etiquette and manners, a charming son of a bitch on the outside, but only applying so when needed to keep harm at bay or further personal goals, brooding and intimidating otherwise
>loving father and family provider, or hopeless womanizer I don't really care, just commit to one or the other
>beard, bearmode, booming voice
>flawless sense of style
>high interest in literature, politics, cultural BS, and all around sophisticated spectrum of interests
>8in donger kek
Needless to say all but maybe two of those are so far out of reach for me it gave me feels I never wanted to feel again. Fuck you.
Ignore spelling and wonky grammar, multitasking posting from mobile at work is a bitch.
The older you doesn't sound cringey at all!
both these people look like total cunts
Which two?
The arguably are. The one is the young adult 4 girls author of our time and the other is a born rich model that... welll
youtu.be
I never heard of that guy
pic related are two movie adaptions
en.wikipedia.org
youtube.com
in any case, that's the opposite example of what you want to be (except for the fame, of course)
Style and sophisticated interests. I still look like a Disney sidekick while being too much of a whiny bitch to pull off the stoic, and will never truly reach the other goals but those two I can at least influence greatly, or so I think.
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Have a family, provide for them. Raise tall, brave sons to send into the world. The older I get the more I start to believe DNA is all that matters, continuing your own line and giving your family an advantage over others.
Why tell yourself that you can't reach them?
Also, what I noticed in your list of interests, why did you leave out all the sciences? No interest or admiration?
He's a massive fucking faggot who created youtube liberal propaganda videos for the Obama administration. His books were adapted into films as a political favor, the same reason why Amy Schumer is remotely "famous."
>Why tell yourself that you can't reach them?
lemme give you a rundown
>stoic, almost aloof at heart yadda yadda
literally autistic, several mental illnesses
>loving father and family provider, or hopeless womanizer
I have a kid and proved that I am unfit to be a parent not for malintent but because of mental factors, so the first one can't apply. Second one, well, I wouldn't be lurking Veeky Forums if I could slay poon left and right.
>beard, bearmode, booming voice
Shit facial hair, shit gains, raspy faggot voice
>flawless sense of style
have that
>high interest in yadda yadda
have that
>8in donger kek
go figure
And I meant to include the sciences in the interest part. As in, I am on my way to a STEM degree and do some recreational reading on psychology and nanochemistry on the side for lulz