What do you lift for

i lift to one day hopefully attract a mate that will approach me because i don't have the balls to approach her

Mate you want that first impression of you to be a good one, it's easier to work with a girl you've already left snail trailing then to try and claw your way back by getting her to notice subtle changes in you

I lift for KP
one day i'm going to be her bf

They will, keep at it, you'll notice ones you aren't interested in first start approaching you, then finally ones you are interested in, keep on social media aswell my brother

or you could tell a funny joke

She's just perfect, i just want to be with her, cuddle, and all that, i know i must work hard for it, for her.
But it'll be worth it.

True jokes are a good way too

thanks bro

Sabina.

or you could do both and be even better than just barely good enough