Talk to girl in friend circle during get together

>Talk to girl in friend circle during get together
>We've sort of liked each other before but were never single at the same time
>We hit it off
>She starts telling me a lot of sexual and personal shit
>Light flirting
>Drop her off home
>She asks if I'd want to get coffee with her the next day
>Next day comes and we meet up for coffee
>Flirting and being obvious (I thought)
>Talk about personal shit, aspirations, goals, life, relationships, etc
>She doesn't seem as responsive
>Drop her off home and blurt out that I thought the date would be different
>She seems shocked I like her and upset that I won't be her "friend" anymore

wtf man if a girl asks you for a coffee, alone, what else is it supposed to mean?

Shit got me rustled

you were supposed to have coffee when you dropped her off the first time dingus

She got mad when you dropped her off at home and made no attempt to make a move. You friendzoned her in girl language. She got mad at you in retaliation when you said that to her after the coffee.

Keep in mind that all girls believe that every single guy is willing an able to make a move on them with perfect timing if they are romantically interested. If the moment passes and you do nothing then she will have her feelings hurt, believing it to be a rejection.

I was going to work, I had brought that up hours earlier. So she couldnt be angry at that

shes probably just being a dumb cunt and jerking you around, cut her off immediately for wasting your time

>So she couldnt be angry at that

'no'

Well neither of us have messaged each other since and I don't plan to.

Any advice to be more assertive in future?

Never underestimate how retarded females can be.

Sounds like she was having second thoughts about hooking up with you the day after, thinking it would ruin the friendship, so she projected that onto you, assuming you were willing to ruin the friendship

>wtf man if a girl asks you for a coffee, alone, what else is it supposed to mean?
That she's a boring cunt who likes men to chase her. Seriously having a coffee as a date is the worst