Does getting Veeky Forums in itself actually help people get better at talking to the opposite sex?
I'm in decent shape, and I've been improving, and I'm happy with my progress. But it hasn't given me the confidence to start talking to girls.
Any experience/stories?
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Dude it's literally a skill you can practice, never talk to anyone and always live inside your head and you become awkward, talk to everyone you meet and you become outgoing. I hopped on Omegle with a cam and mic and it actually got me into the real world talking to people.
>Tfw people in new life think you're the man
>Tfw GF and new friends don't know you use to be a beta nerd masturbating to dick girls
Problem is I run into someone from high school and I'm instantly an autist again, like I set a social skills precedent with people and then stick with it
>Problem is I run into someone from high school and I'm instantly an autist again, like I set a social skills precedent with people and then stick with it
Exactly the same shit for me user is this common you think?
>Problem is I run into someone from high school and I'm instantly an autist again, like I set a social skills precedent with people and then stick with it
Hmm, that's interesting. Now that I think of it, when I travel overseas I can meet people in general easily, although I haven't had any experiences with girls. But back home in the USA, I'm a recluse shut-in (except for when I'm at the gym, work, or school)
This, so fucking much
Game is basically making "mean" jokes while at the same time complimenting the girl and knowing when to back up if you go too far.
Don't do things half assedly.
Realize when meeting new people that they DON'T know you and you can pretty much act however you want
I'm nice tho
Confidence is key and knowing u is Veeky Forums is helpful. If you look like a porn star you might end up acting like star which may in turn also help with your confidence and communication. Being fit is just one tool in your poon slaying tool box. It's a spectrum thing. The more fit you are the less charm and wit you need. Your bulge and washboard stomach will tell ladies what's up with out your mouth needing to say much. Most important thing to keep in mind if you use this shallow method is your gonna get shot down but eventually you'll get a yes.
>But it hasn't given me the confidence to start talking to girls.
Meeting girls you don't know is hard. Talk to/hang out with friends who might introduce you to girls. Most people don't approach like PUAs, they meet girls through an extended social circle
>knowing when to back up if you go too far.
Here's the big problem with this:
Autism is defined by a lack of understanding social cues. An autist will never know what is too far. Period. Game over. Go home and lift more.
Veeky Forums people need a simpler game plan.
Literally give up on life and women and shame, then you reach nirvana and after bitches would follow.
>Talk to/hang out with friends who might introduce you to girls. Most people don't approach like PUAs, they meet girls through an extended social circle
This isn't an option for me. All of my friends are married or in serious relationships. So when we hang out, it's just us guys, and we usually swim in my friend's pool and grill food at his house. That's it.
So your still a pussy then. Keep lifting.
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>Most people don't approach like PUAs, they meet girls through an extended social circle
This. You need male friends, female friends. You have to be a normal dude to meet other people.
How do you make female friends if you're not in University, and you work in a male dominated career field?
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The best advice, non-memey, non-PUA shit, just sensilble advice
Don't you have any friends? Like at all?
His advice videos are THE BEST tools for gaining confidence out there
Yeah this is me
Man at that point just ask your friends if they know anybody who is looking for someone.
I'm sure they don't. But honestly dude, that would be really awkward. Getting "set up". That creates weird unnecessary pressure, which I'm not ok with. I don't work like that
NIggah then I dunno, join a club or something that you meet people at.
Well geez then have fun being foreveralone.
Man up you fag.
If you're an absolute beginner, like 100% unable to even say hello to women, start here:
That's vague
I'm mostly expecting this Tbh. I guess it's ok.
Getting Veeky Forums helps you get noticed, but it's not going to seal the deal for you, aside from maybe a few one night stand, or a friend with benefits if you're not 100% autist.
Most of it is just learning to socialize, meeting tons of people and having a large social network.
If you want to make friends, just go to events based on whatever hobbies you have.
LAN parties, comic / gaming / anime conventions, meetup.com, bodybuilding shows, powerlifting meets, raves, etc.
If you have at least some friends - even if a bit distant - try reaching out and get to know them better. You might extend your own social network via their friends that way, too.
Personally what happened for me was:
>20, kissless virgin autist NEET shut-in
>Start getting fit
>Start attending conventions
>Make friends
>Friends invite me to parties
>Go to more cons, more parties, and continue making more friends
>Social skills skyrocket in two years
>Become popular for the first time in my life
>Girls start asking me out
>Finally find one I liked
>Dated for two years, lost virginity
>Social skills with women improved thanks to her
Now I'm back to the "socialize & make friends" stage, but at least I'm not an autist this time around.
I don't know man I'd say make friends at work even if they're dudes and you go out to a bar or whatever with your dudebros and talk to chicks there. Hit on them, by them a drink, if you're lucky you makeout/fuck them right that night or maybe you just get a phonenumber and set up a date.
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>half the world are women
>>"I CAN'T FIND A GIRLLLLLLL"
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Not making excuses. But all of my co-workers are married and have families
Seriously, just practice socializing. Get comfortable talking to women, get comfortable talking to men, whatever. It all takes practice.
If you have the autistic drive to learn how to move a weight up and down more efficiently you ought to be able to use some of that drive to learn how to talk.
Your co-workers have female friends. Your friends probably have female friends. Your friends' girlfriends/wives have female friends. It's all about extending your social circle to meet them.
I'm not joking, but I've been close with these friends for 15 years, and I've know their wives for at least 5 years. And I've never met any of their friends or whatever.
I don't really give a shit about having a relationship or what not. As I am only human I just want to have sex with girls. My face is at least 8/10 (not some cocky kid, I've been told many times), and I'm working toward a 10/10 body. What should my approach for this be?
Suggest an event or something where they bring their friends. You have to be proactive with this shit if you ever want to see a change in your life.
If people don't invite you to shit, then invite others to your stuff instead.
Host a game night, or as the weather gets better something like a hike, BBQ, road trip, whatever.
Just find sex parties in your nearest city.
Probably won't find any public events outside of urban areas.
ALRIGHT FAGGOTS LISTEN UP
This shit right here is called Phenibut. It was developed by the Russians to eliminate anxiety yet not inhibit cognitive functions. I've been sheltered basically my whole life, but when I take a gram of this stuff, I go into social god-mode. It's almost like a low dose of molly. My confidence is through the roof and I have fluent conversation with everyone I have eye contact with.
HOWEVER, it builds tolerance VERY quickly and has potential to be addictive. I only take 1 gram a week on Monday to keep tolerance in check, but most people say you can take it 2 days a week if you leave a 3-4 day gap in between dosages.
If you have an addictive personality or a weak mind DO NOT TAKE THIS DRUG. The withdrawals are apparently brutal and I've read countless anecdotes of retards abusing this drug and having terrible side effects. Do your research, there is a solid phenibut sub-reddit with a half decent community (the other half is dipshits crying about the side effects of their abuse) that will answer your questions.
I mean it's easier to get girls with friends but if you're confident you can pull out any girl
You have to be confident and genuine but also reserved, normies dont see shit like we do so we have to frame our ideas a little different. remember to err on the side of caution because if you're attractive and you dont talk a lot about yourself then you're mysterious but if you're ugly you're a creep. Anyway the point is just ease into talking to people. start with cashiers or bus drivers then professors or coworkers and male students then ugly girls then regular girls then cute girls then attractive girls and so on. Make people happy and you will be loved where ever you go. you can be funny smart, sincere. everything just be genuine and happy
DESU if you want to get comfortable approaching women, you should just shoot shit with as many strangers as possible. Man, woman, old, young, people on street, cashiers at stores, whatever. It will make it easy to meet new people.
After that you can worry about spittin' game on girls you dig.
Try the three second rule. Don't think about a thing, just see the chick you want to talk to, breath deep for three seconds and immediately approach her.
The rest will be natural.
I know how to approach but i dont know what to do after you introduce yourselves and a little smalltalk
Solid advice
I usually take it for job interviews or tinder dates (no more than 3 or 4 times a month)