Daily reminder that marriage is a bad deal for men

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like u fagotz have a choice

thanks user I take that advice to heart


I'm 28, no kids, no marriage, no girlfiend

have wife and kid -- it's not so bad

living the dream

When I was 21, a few of my coworkers who were in their 40's at the time told me to try to make it until age 30 without getting married or having kids. They said if I can pull it off, I'd be much happier when I got older.

I followed their advice, and just dated or had multi-year relationships all this time since then (I'm 39 now).

Once I hit 30, that desire to get married faded away. Don't have any desire or need for it.

Also, got snipped at age 35 because I knew I didn't ever want kids, and I didn't want one of my future gf's to trap me with a kid because she accidentally got pregnant.

Marriage and kids are off the table for me. Feels good not having to worry about whether a girl will not like that. I tell them all upfront, and they still either fuck me or become my gf.

Liar, you've given up your free time for a thing that will grow up to hate you, and a wife that will likely get bored of you eventually.

I'm literally a touchless virgin.

Married with kids here. You're wrong. Well you're right if you marry a bad woman. Avoid this problem by marrying a good girl. Life is great for me. Marriage is a bull market upset by periodic dips. Ride the waves user

As an old guy, you are so dumb. Invest your time in your family and it has an incredible return.

Are you a piece of shit son hating on his parents?

marriage is good if you find your soulmate. it's not good if you're just doing it for stupid reasons. kinda like everything in life. hope this helps :^)

Me too. 31 year old wizard here. The only thing we have going for us is keeping our money.

>Also, got snipped at age 35

Friend of mine did that at 21... actually envious

Idiot. 50% of marriages end in divorce. It´s like flipping a coin. One outcome is hodling on to a decreasing hole and the other is losing everything.

some day you will grow up :^) or not.

Just go to a fucking hooker already.

>inb4 hurr durr muh purity and muh soulmate

Healthy men require some ass every now and then. It just makes everything better. Also, because you are pathetic fucks and missed out on crucial development stages you are likely very inhibited around women, and sabotage every little chance you may get. Just go to a nice escort (you should be able to afford one with all the money you are making from crypto, right?) and hand in that v card. It will get much easier, you will realize that sex is not that big of a deal, and will likely get a girlfriend afterwards.

>t. 28 yo loser who ended a 4 year dry spell with a hooker, and started dating a girl soon after

reminder that even with 21 bitcoins we will all die alone.

Every creature dies alone. It's every man for himself out there. Life has no meaning. You will leave this world the same way you came, without even understanding what the fuck just happened to you. Growing up means understanding this.

If you still have your father and mother (and they weren't huge cunts to you) go give them a hug, faggots.

I don't even want anymore, its just too much work.

>tfw 36. don't want kids ever
>took my 25 year old gf on vacation
>couldn't resist creampieing her (had been doing pullout in the past)
>tfw a super cheap morning after pill saved my freedom

Thanks, planned parenthood!

Please refer to Life is short, and nutting inside a girl feels nice. Cuddling is also nice. Go experience it, treat yourself. You should try shrooms too, while you are at it.

You are probably invested in your forever alone/misunderstood soul bullshit. Don't be. It doesn't matter. Nothing matters. Try to have a good time before your death comes. Take yourself, your history, your misery/whatever less seriously and have some fun.

What's the point of chasing money, if you can't even get a fucking blowjob for it?

dude you just killed a baby :/

I rather get drunk and sleep all day while checking blockfolio every couple hours. I don't see the point in chasing woman.

It’s a good thing 50% of marriages end in divorce.. they were bad marriages. Why keep a couple together that don’t want to be

Man, I don't know. I'm late 30s. Got marrried and divorced in my 20s. Pretty jaded on all that but desu, what I really want is a nice girl like age 18 or so to pump like 5 or 6 kids through. Not religious, though, so I probably won't find that. I think men have a biological clock, too. Maybe I should convert to islam and move to Morocco.

Some MGTOW bullshit in here.

Look anons, I was mgtow back when it was legit, not this 'wah wah women suck but lets talk 24/7 about them'. Most women are shit, but I've met a few that could have been good wives, its serious cope if you are like 'fuk that i'm going solo', you will regret it at 40,50,60 etc

I definitely recommend this

If you hit 30 and want to marry someone, go for it

Marrying before 30 is a fucking disaster

Married and divorced in my 20s here, now 37, luckily no kids

boomers and millennials made it impossible to find pure (good looking) women. Maybe I should adopt a child with good genetics and marry her when she grows up.

>Married and divorced in my 20s here, now 37, luckily no kids
Hey, that's me. I don't think about having a family normally, but when I get drunk I just want to impregnate. But then finding a good woman is something I have to do when sober, which is when I have no motivation to do that. Do you experience this, too?

yes, i know the feeling

Haha, this would be legit, a straight up hentai plot

I want kids, but I'm really worried about the woman just suddenly deciding she's bored and will take me for all my shit

>ITT /r9k/ refugees relate their feelings to other betas for mutual support

oldfag reporting. 45 years old, two exwives, the second leeched nearly $500k from me in the span of 5 years. No kids.

What have I learned? That men are compelled to make the most irrational, nonsensical decisions in order have the love, affection and companionship of a woman. My advice: don't ever get married.

better than chasing used goods like the rest of you betas

Everyone thinks they found a good girl, you pussy whipped dick licker.

formerly chuckville

oops forgot to reference it

THIS IS LITERALLY ME

Marry, but with prenups, no children.

Carefull to have the girls make small holes in the condoms that have daddy lazy mom free money.

>tfw never having had a gf and being forced to adapt to always being alone has made me completely immune to becoming desperate and doing stupid shit for love

It's s good feel. Sure I get lonely sometimes but it's always a transient emotion. Don't need to make a lot of money to live comfortably, no kids, no drama. I can't recommend this life to anyone else but I'm enjoying it

How does one find a hooker ? I am kinda scared.

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I'm in my twenties and have been married for two years and have no regrets.

I hate going out and socializing and shit b/c I'm pretty introverted but I love spending as much of my free time possible chilling with my wife (I have friends btw, I just can't hang out that much or I lose all my energy).

She is smart, challenging (intellectually, i.e., we debate a lot about history/politics/religion/society, which I love), loves football, values family above all, and honestly, I wouldn't mind being a complete NEET poorfag if it meant we could spend all day every day together.

>she's partially jewish though so I gotta make money before we have kids, which is why I lurk among you godforsaken swine

>Also, got snipped at age 35 because I knew I didn't ever want kids,
So you purposely failed biological imperative #2

All that's left is to purposely biological imperative #1

>(kill yourself)

I'm 30 and women rejected me my whole life. I'm honestly really fucking glad. I thank God every day.

You need to google how Plan B works

you've probably saved at least $25,000 from avoiding all the bluepill dating and other time-wasting behavior. i'm dead serious.

Was this not an overt reference to what Woody Allen did?

did you know this figure is old as fuck and it's now more like 30%?

Who are you trying to convince, user?

>Not producing offspring

Literally fucking cuck tier. What is the point of living? You may as well end it now and save yourself the time.

If you don't pass on your genes then kys

this

You're a fucking retard. You've swallowed up some utter horseshit propaganda that convinced you that you're any different from any other animal.
YOU'RE AN ANIMAL THE SAME, dumb cunt. You're not special.

When you don't produce offspring, you break a chain that has never been broken since the beginning of life on earth. All because some moronic magazine or buzzfeed article convinced you that having children is bad.

>Normies
Isn't it about time to admit this word means nothing? I've browsed Veeky Forums since 07 and all it means is "Anyone who isn't a total loser like me"...

>Starting from the 1960s, I noticed a dramatic shift. I do not know what happened but people started to become more primal and stupid
Sub 80 IQ, I gather

>most normies or 99.9% of the population think like
Gee, it's almost like the main purpose of life is to produce offspring and everything else is built around that

>We have not seen another Einstein since ww2 because the world is overrun by (You).
>Einstein
Einstein was a fucking hack, you utter moron. Go back to watching Rick and Morty or fucking kill yourself for being such a fucking pseudo-intellectual.

>its not like you brainwashed retards will understand. I'll start the plague myself
This better had been bait. You are literally dunning-kruger personified.

I hope you don't produce offspring, you'll be doing the world a favor

>Deleting your post
Don't be embarrassed (though you should be)

This was his post:

"Huh... I thought it was common sense to live for your goals. It seems that i was wrong and most of your normies only care about sex, eating and more sex. Do you know what separates homo-sapiens from the rest of the animal kingdom? Its our ability to ignore primal urges and live for our dreams... only the homo-sapien can do that. Starting from the 1960s, I noticed a dramatic shift. I do not know what happened but people started to become more primal and stupid. Fastforward to 2017, most normies or 99.9% of the population think like (You). They do not have any goals aside from what their brainstem tells them. We have not seen another Einstein since ww2 because the world is overrun by (You). Maybe we need to start a new plague/// AAAAA what the fuck am i typing, its not like you brainwashed retards will understand. I'll start the plague myself"

that dude was a fucked cunt but dont get so worked up user its no good

Not worked up at all. That's just how I talk. People are so sensitive to see swear words that they assume it's anger, w.e.

Don't be so sensitive.

Glad you pathetic white boys are killings yourselves so black people can take over your shit country.

>oldfag reporting. 45 years old, two exwives, the second leeched nearly $500k from me in the span of 5 years. No kids.

Really sorry to hear that man. its a damn shame that feminsim has destroyed the social contract between men and women to such an extent.

>My advice: don't ever get married.

I'm only 25 but that is pretty much what everyman has ever said to me in regards to marriage. Between that and all the stats to show it I would have to be completely retarded not to follow that advice.

But like you said so many men think they found a 'good woman' or just think it wont happen to them.

sighs, ive deleted my post because i thought no one will understand but whatever, it turned out to be true.

>You've swallowed up some utter horseshit propaganda
heh, believe me, i'm the last person on earth to be influenced by the elite (unlike you brainwash folks)

>YOU'RE AN ANIMAL THE SAME, dumb cunt. You're not special.
Tell me, I have a goal of starting my own space company. What is your goal? Who is the animal? The guy who only cares about helping humanity reach the next stage OR the other guy who only lives for sex (because that is what their brainstem tells them). You know, i despise people like you... normies like you are whats stopping humanity.

Also, dont bullshit me about humans being the same as an animal. We have the highest number of concentrated neurons, and the next one before us is a fucking chimp. And you dare enforce humanity--- probably natures greatest creation to act like a fucking chimp? Kiss your ass normie.

>sighs, ive deleted my post because i thought no one will understand but whatever, it turned out to be true.
Are you 15 years old or what?

>Tell me, I have a goal of starting my own space company.
10/10 bait hahahhahhaha

We are animals the same dumb fuck

>The guy who only cares about helping humanity reach the next stage OR the other guy who only lives for sex (because that is what their brainstem tells them). You know, i despise people like you... normies like you are whats stopping humanity.
"Tell me", dumb cunt... who will be hopping on this space mission of yours is there is no one having children?

You sound like a genuine virgin who is bitter and angry that people fuck and you don't, so you've convinced yourself that having sex is stupid and something only idiots do

This is honestly the twilight of white people. Too radicalized for their own good, hedonistic to an insane, self-destructive degree (pills, cocaine and bareback prostitutes, pal), lost sight if nurturing values, fueled by hatred for anything not following their standards, sheltered, etc.

/nupol/ is a case study for what the future holds.

>Are you 15 years old or what?
Indeed i am underage but not below 15

>10/10 bait hahahhahhaha
Heh, i rather die for my dreams than become a normie like you. Anyways, after reading your post, i think i have an idea of what kind of life you lived. See ya champ. My damn flight finally arrived.

imagine actually being this autistic

>The guy who only cares about helping humanity reach the next stage
how can humanity advance if you dont reproduce?

You need to be a good man in order to marry a good woman. Not many bizzers can reach the standard.

this is bait

ITT: idiots who think they've got it all figured out. Protip: watch Natural Law Seminar by Mark Passio.

God, you sound like the typical pathetic tradcon.

Raising a family is an amazing thing, if all necessary boxes are checked. But there are a couple huge problems. First, having children is not like it once was. It's exponentially more expensive today than it ever was. And that expense will always be reliant on the male. Second, promoting the idea of procreating because our previous generations did so, is pure animalistic tier autism. The first and most important part of starting a family is finding a woman who's not a whore and would make a good wife and mother. And if she miraculously checks those boxes, she also needs to be in good mental and physical health to carry a baby and pass on her genes. In case you haven't stepped out in the real world, that is maybe around 5% of women today.

The absolute worst thing a man can do with his life is start a family with a modern roastie. I've been around enough to know that every fucking dude out there thinks his wife/girlfriend is the most loyal awesome girl ever... Until he finds out the truth and she can no longer be a chameleon. Men are retarded in that way. All it takes is a blowjob for him to think hes got someone special.

Until women provide incentive to be of a utility and not just a walking blown-out pussy, there's absolutely no reason to be getting involved in the most dangerous contract a man can sign, a marriage contract.

I say this as a guy raised by two parents in a good stable household, great relationship with my mother, father, brother, and sisters... I have a small amount of very close female friends. I've dated someone on and off for almost a decade (in in my 20s). So I don't fit into the stereotype you probably want me to. But I wouldn't let my decent relationships cloud me from the modern day truths. Stop being a fucking shithead. At least admit that most women are cancer.

I've also never seen such desperate attempts by some married men to convince younger men to get married.

Here's a hint: if something is a good deal, it doesn't take begging and shaming someone in order to take said deal.

I do think there are some men who need to be married. The types that are pathetic pussy beggars who can't function on their own and would have overdosed on cocaine if they didn't have a wife (ahem, mother) to Keep them in line... For that, it's probably a good thing they are married. But for the rest of us, let us enjoy our freedom, we can handle it fine.

not bait just a fedora wearing 15 year old. This fucker cant make his own bed and he thinks he will start a space company....

i never get married or have a girlfriend unless i move somewhere else by myself and cut contact off.

gay rumors that "friends" spread around killed everything. yet they claim to be progressive people. one of them insists that im in the closet to others behind my back when they wouldnt believe him.

Probably bait, but there's truth in this.

Married guys are needed to fill the desk jobs out there. They aren't risk takers because they can't be, for the sake of their families.

Guys who build multi million dollar businesses are unlikely to be married in the early years (the leech ahem, wife, doesn't show up until after moderate success). There are a few outliers, but that's the general trend. So if your dream is to build your own platform/business, more power to you, user. Stay single and work hard.

Five to ten years before commercialisation of the artificial womb.

Tic toc. Paradigm change inbound.

having to wait 6 or 7 years to fuck her would be torture

> mfw biz never heard of prenups

I married an azn qt and things are pretty good. Yeah she gets a little crazy sometimes, but she's horny af, loves to cook and watches anime with me so I'd say marriage can be pretty sweet if you get a good girl. Don't put a ring on the first thing that sucks your dick.

>God, you sound like the typical pathetic tradcon.
And you sound like a nu-male, what's your point, beta cunt?

>that expense will always be reliant on the male.
The state*

>Second, promoting the idea of procreating because our previous generations did so, is pure animalistic tier autism
It's literally programmed into our biology, you fucking idiot. It's like eating or sleeping. We do other things simply to be able to procreate. It's why you have a job, it's why you self improve, it's why you have "drive" in the first place. You can't help it, it's just how it is.

>The first and most important part of starting a family is finding a woman who's not a whore and would make a good wife and mother.
This isn't a requirement, it's optional, you stupid cunt. You can have a child with a whore and it turn out okay, providing you look after it sufficiently during childhood, and providing the chick isn't too low IQ. It can still work out, the kid can still be healthy mentally and physically.

>she also needs to be in good mental and physical health
Wrong again, it's optional. There are many sons & daughters of nutjobs who turned out okay. Being the son/daughter of a nutjob is better than not existing at all, isn't it, genius?

>I've been around enough to know
You know fucking nothing you sheltered virgin

>say this as a guy raised by two parents in a good stable household,
Sure you were

>I have a small amount of very close female friends
No such thing you beta orbiter. You're a faggot

>I don't fit into the stereotype you probably want me to
You fit perfectly. You're a nu-male who thinks he isn't one. You're aware of the meme but think it doesn't apply to you.

it depends on the industry.
for realms like politics and business (like ceo of this or that) a wife with connections/smarts is actually a net positive.
for an entrepeneur probably not so much

No.

Except you're full of shit.

Why not look at examples of men who have created space companies?

>Musk
>Was married

>Richard Branson
>Was married
>Still married

>Bezos
>Was married
>Still married

You're fucking retarded. Literally just making shit up as you go along because it sounded good in your head or something.

>be woman
>good job
>if I get married to some poorfag he'll take half my shit
Whoever makes more money is losing when they marry. Fuck getting the government involved in personal affairs.

>2017
>not knowing that prenups have been thrown out in some cases before as if they never existed

>Why keep a couple together that don’t want to be
kids
inertia
existential dread

marriage and divorce are both bad. one being better than the other doesn't make it good. that's like saying getting maimed is good because it's better than torture.

but what if i marry a rich girl????

THEN SHE CAN RELY ON THE OLD MAN'S MONEY

Which you will still need eggs to use. Sperm banks are already a thing. Who is this really helping?

And that is why no one will remember your name

How many people know the names of their great grandparents?

How many people know the name Issac Newton?

Artificial eggs ( and artificial sperm but who cares ) have already been done. Years ago. From skin cells.

>mfw virgin here and there's no point in doing this for me

I wouldn't be able to get hard for a diseased riddled whore. If I have to take Viagra to fuck a hooker, it doesn't count.

Because that is easier than using real eggs. This is not going to end well.

making more money is more fun

Well, it's not like i'm going to reproduce industrially and declare total war on subhumanity and all that sided with it, starting the first galactic empire once Humanity have been purged of its inferiorities.
Don't worry.

PICKKLLEE RICKK!!!!!

Fucking faggot so by your logic poor africans are chads and Jonny sins is a cuck? get bent m8

>blindly following animal impulses cuz "purpose of life LMAO"
kys

Where do you think the states money comes from fuckwit?

>This isn't a requirement, it's optional, you stupid cunt. You can have a child with a whore and it turn out okay, providing you look after it sufficiently during childhood, and providing the chick isn't too low IQ. It can still work out, the kid can still be healthy mentally and physically.

you realise divorce fucks up children right

>Too radicalized for their own good
true, it's all those white muslims :cwl:

>hedonistic to an insane, self-destructive degree
hedonistic. have you ever heard of black people...? from their diets to their recreation to their values (or lack thereof), there is no better single word to describe black americans than hedonistic. for asians, take a walk into a casino in a white area. you'll be shocked that many asians even lived within driving distance.

>lost sight if nurturing values
see rates for marriages and nuclear families


>fueled by hatred for anything not following their standards
I guess that's just what happens when you actually have principles and teach your kids simple values like "don't steal" and then your kid gets his bike stolen by a group of black kids whose parents didn't teach them the same values.


>sheltered
Oh god, this fucking meme. "Middle America really needs to get out and meet people different from them!" Newsflash, you delusional leftist pussy: it's precisely those experiences that cause white flight. Your accusation of "fueled by hatred for anything not following their standards" explains this one perfectly.

Man oh man do you sound like a dirty mixed-race subhuman who passes soggy blunts from one set of filthy lips to another all day.

ok guys, take it to /pol/ please

This is what happens when you shill crypto on /pol/. Go back you faggots.