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29 years in few months

same

>28 soon

1 year or so

pls help me

yeah, turning 28 on the 4th of july

1: Body gains
2: Social gains
3:????
4:PUSSY!

Are counting up til loss of virginity if so then 14 yrs but currently about 3 months

The one I'm having right now, 16 months. I am getting more and more ready to kill

A couple months
Ussually frequently intimate with girls in between though

Longest
>7.5 weeks during shitty AF basic

Hold up you mean only girls?
>nvm

My understanding of the formula is this: body gains -> confidence in self -> social gains -> more confidence in self -> financial gains -> pussy.

Don't rush it.
Let all the emotions out.
A paradox, but you will figure things out.

22 here feels bad man

25 years and it doesn't seem to end

That feel man :()

Good routine for girth gains?

12 years and counting.
>tfw I will become 20 next Thursday

10 years this month.

Fuck it's the opposite here, gf has a low sexdrive. Twice a month if I'm lucky. She gunna get replaced if she don't pick her act up

Currently one month. Lost Virginity last summer 22

Guys tell me something
Before moving and coming to uni I haven't really had a chance to go out and experience lightlife.

Is it ok to go to the bar alone to try to chat up chicks? I'm not really autistic and may have some approach anxiety but I have approached chicks at uni before

I just wanna have sex, get it over with

About a week

Even when I'm not in a relationship I just pick up sluts from bars and clubs

Genetics 1xF
Alternatively a bullet to try again in the next life

I've done it. Awkward at first, but the plan was always to separate yourself and the girl from your respective groups anyway. She doesn't want to meet your friends, you just want a place to stand that doesn't make you feel self conscious

Hmm got any other tips senpai? Literally gonna go for the first time

Also I don't drink will that be a problem?

2 years. Would have been three and a half but for a six month relationship in which I had sex twice. I am aware of how bad that sounds.

Only cure is forced social gains, the anti monk mode. Go out all the time, even alone, even if you don't want to. Just go out and meet new people. Flirt, get rejected, turn around and flirt with the next girl you see. Stick with it and eventually get good.

No amount of self help or confidence pep talk will help you overcome whatever handicap genetics gave you. Short, big nose, thinning hair, any of it. Have to go out and find what works. And that involves finding a lot of ways the don't work first.

Don't know what it's like to go out without at least one drink, but I avoid getting more than slightly buzzed so it can't be that different.

Biggest key is to avoid the "just take a break" trap. You make the excuse that you're tired or overwhelmed so you'll just stand a minute. That's when you feel awkward about being alone and all the doubts kick in. Move in, get a drink (club soda is fine), pick your target and go. Or dance. Anything so long as you have a purpose, and you'll keep the awkward feels at bay.

If you get shot down, either flirt with a new girl right away or, if you can't handle it, hop to a new bar.

So don't overthinking. Thanks.
Also in general I've seen as long as I'm taking action the self doubt doesn't come at all. It's only when I start thinking...

But also how do I approach? I usually just say "hi I'm XYZ" and shake hand. What kind of girls do I approach the group's or duos what

32 years, and that's if being pushed out of my mom counted as vaginal in the first place

30 y/o virign here, turn 31 in august and trying to lose it before then

had a chance to lose it a few times, got perfomance anxiety badly. suffered from depression and anxiety since early teens due to heavy drug use

i've stopped doing drugs, stopped medication, started working out and im going to be quitting the internet/porn too (another addication)

wish me luck lads

5 years!? Holy shit bro. I can't go more than 3 days. I don't know how you do it man. You're stronger then me lmao

Roughly two years.

I had a glimmer of a chance to end it last weekend but I fucked it up at the last minute.

Since i started having sex, ive had 2 streaks of 9 months. Im currently at 3 months after my ex left me but ive started seeing this girl and am most likely having sex tmrw or later this week.

Good luck user

29 years.

29 khv. Good luck. I never got passed the first date with girls. Maybe not trying to push it so hard since if the do not message me after I do not either. Times that I did message after a date they flaked the second chance to meet them. Fbm

24 years and still going
what do?

Longest spell
>16.5 years
second longest
>~6 months

I have a hearing problem that makes it almost impossible for me to hear at clubs/bars. What do?

>Goin' on 6 years

I think its longer because I couldn't cum.
Does it still count?

College hunk here. I don't drink either and just go to the big club hot spots in my college town to dance. I went alone a few times when I first turned 21 just to get the feel of the places and learn how to dance better w/o my friends/social group around to judge. Don't give a shit, go alone/with friends/not at all.

I'm in the same boat. I personally prefer to think of myself as a virgin because I couldn't cum and she was ugly. If you want to consider yourself not virgin because you stuck it in then that's fine I guess it doesn't really matter.

I lost my virginity at 29.5 years, not even trying to.

On one hand I was extremely disapointed, but at least got the weight and anxiety off my shoulders.

On the other hand I was angry because I was so fucking close to get my wizard powers, damn her.

On dry spell since then, and I don't fucking care, sex is overrated and relationships are a chore, if it comes to me I'm not gonna refuse, but I'm not wasting my time looking for it either.

inb4 faggot, cuck, notest and several other memes

I lost my virginity at 29 with a whore, it wasn't that great to be honest. I never had a gf so I don't know how it's to have sex with someone you love or at least you don't have to pay to have sex with.

That aside, I still have sex with prostitutes but not regularly.

Longest dry spell lasted 9 months when I was around 21

Hang in there lads. Leave yer fears at the docks, thats one cargo i wont be carrying fer ye.

22 years, 23 in a few months

>18 years and 6 months

U sound like my friends that especially wasn't getting pussy

>"three months bro?!?? I haven't had sex in like a week!!!"

Love the guy but he wasn't getting fucked

Around 2 months

After that dick autopilot takes over my standards plummet and i fuck anything willing to put out

Speaking of which its last time I had sex was a month and a half ago...

Remember to put the balls in too.

Agreed. Reeks of bullshit.

I'm on a month and half. Had a steady fuck buddy at work which I thought I kept on the DL. Boss pulled me aside to tell me I'm going to be pushed for promotion but I need to stop. Least in gonna get promoted

the woman I love might leave me

I don't want anyone else

if she leaves I might try to commit suicide

or just live a lonely life forever

rent a small place somewhere and have a pointless job

I don't want to live without her

Longest
>15 years

Current
>almost a week

Good luck; I'm sure if you really want it, you can do it.
I'm also a 30 year old virgin but I've already given up on women (I never even tried) -- the wizard life is the life for me.

Let's use our wizard powers to rule the world, bb.

1 year dry spell since graduating college. I have no idea how to meet women anymore. When I go out it's just with dudes I know. I don't think I've encountered a woman in a situation where I could try bang her in the last year.

30 is still young, u guys need to just adjust and get where u want progressively

>30 years

Go to a hooker. It'll make the getting sex normally process easier.

>Stronger
>Not lazy/undesirable/warped by pornography

Longest dry spell (post losing virginity at 18) was probably about 6 months after my recent fiance breakup.

Had sex about a week ago. Bars and clubs are overrated and sex with whores is boring. Find some nice chicks who will become friends with benefits with you and fuck em till they start to catch them feefees, then break it off gently. Keep them as friends. Congratulations, you now have almost guaranteed pussy on lock for whenever you're not dating forever because you're still friends with them. Also the sex is better because you know them and they know you.

21 years lol

>2 1/2 months

This has been the worst 2 1/2 months as far as confidence but the best 2 1/2 months as far as gains.

>18 years
all I have to do i get fit and i'll lose my virginity haha right guys... guys...

I just realized how the setting affects your performance bruhs, usually when I fuck my gf on my room i get sleepy and lazy, and would usually only last a round or two because I always get sleepy and shit, took her to a resort and booked a room, and 8 rounds out of the window

what the fuck happened? was I programmed only to sleep on my room and no fucking?

I lost my virginity last week at the age of 21. Barely ever touched a girl before that, and now I`m in the process of getting a cutie 8/10 gf.

I think I made it lads. Life is good, just hang in there :^)

The same thing over and over will get boring and you'll start treating it like masturbation. It becomes almost a chore because it's lost its meaning. Also any palefag anons that have issues with keeping or getting boners, start taking about 2000 IU vitamin D supps. You fuckers aren't getting enough sun and it's harming your testosterone production. Taking vitamin D has totally changed my sex drive.

>2000 IU

this shit really work bros? its feeling like my erections arent as strong anymore and Im only 21

Almost 22 years
We're all gonna make it bruh ;^)

Why 2000 IU? Isn't 800 IU already at the upper limit? Been taking Vitamin D 'cause cloud-clusterfuck weather (also no dairy).

how can i shoot my loads a greater distance instead of dibbling out

2000IU is just personal preference. 800 wasn't doing it for me as well as 2000. Alternatively go outside for a while and run around with your shirt off. I work in a lab all the fucking time so I don't get as much sunlight as I used to.

During my relationship with my fiance (I'm ) about 4 years in I started getting shit tier boners or couldn't get it up at all. I started taking Zinc and Vitamin D supps and it drastically improved my sex drive. Like night and day.

FF to a couple of months ago, I was with my new girl who's a maniac in the sack and the same shit started happening (hadn't been taking vitamin D for a couple of months cause heartbroken yada yada). I started taking Vitamin D again and can match or exceed her in the bedroom. D and Zinc are essential in testosterone production and your levels need to be good anyway, but I admit it could be a little of the placebo affect as far as the amount goes. Just start taking some and see how you feel.

>tfw the last time I had sex was anal sex (with a girl)

25 years and counting

being an ugly negro beta is a brutal combo my friends

I really want to try it, is it cheap?

doe , is that you ? you stupid fucking faggot

Yeah it is. Way more expensive than just going outside though. I have a bottle of 60 tablets from Walmart for about 6$. It's good to get all your vitamins obviously, but this one in particular helped me a lot. I was considering getting testosterone enhancer from my doctor until I started taking some in the morning. Still might see if I can get some test enhancer just for the gains though.

Also mentality comes into it a lot. I know when I first started having softer erections I got performance anxiety like a motherfucker. This goes back to what I said in my first post about getting a FwB instead of some random slut, because she's more likely to be understanding with you and not make you feel like a piece of shit.

I take potassium, magnesium, zinc, and calcium at 100% RDI, it's only Vitamin D that I take 200% RDI (which is safe), but 2000 IU I feel is going quite overboard (500% RDI).

Have you isolated the effect of the increased Zinc and V. D intakes? And how long have you been doing it?

It's far better.

sex (loving gf) > sex (slut) > sex (prostitute) > jerking off (onahole) > jerking off (hand)

Vitamin D is safe up to 4000 IU taken by mouth daily. I personally haven't had any issues with the lower doses, but I have good healthcare and go to my doctor regularly for blood pressure checkups. The people that have been hospitalized for vitamin D intake were taking a metric dickload of vitamin D (something like several times 4000 IU). As long as you get proper checkups, monitor your blood pressure, and monitor calcium levels regularly you should be fine. I've been doing it about 3 years, though with a six month break like I said.

I take the daily recommended dose for zinc, but it honestly doesn't make me feel more horny. There is a marked difference in my arousal levels during the day with vitamin D.

Again, some of this might be placebo (I don't pretend to be a doctor), but it definitely works for me.

I disagree. Sex with a loving gf is different from slut sex. I like slut sex.

24 years here. Depressing. It's my fault, been obese my whole life. This is the first year I've attempted losing weight. I hope to be a normal weight by next year.

Approach anyone you're attracted to. Groups are probably better, because you're not making her abandon the only girl she's there with.

Do not shake her hand. Touching her arm, shoulder, or back when you ask her to dance/get a drink/chat is a good idea though. "Hey, I'm user, want to (do thing)?"

Sex with a girlfriend or friend with benefits is leagues better than sex with a slut. Slut sex is definitely better than no sex, but having someone who knows all your kinks and wants to please you is much better.

>32 years

Had one gf when I was 16 and I could've sealed the deal many times but I was too beta/nervous to go through with it.

Somebody please kill me.

My brother.

>I take potassium, magnesium, zinc, and calcium at 100% RDI, it's only Vitamin D that I take 200% RDI (which is safe), but 2000 IU I feel is going quite overboard (500% RDI).

YOu need as much Vit D as you need to get your levels to 40-60ng/ml (pretty good) or 60-80ng/ml (optimal).

Vit D researchers recomend 5,000i.u.'s as a maintenance dose.

If you're taking 2,000i.u./day and it's not bringing your levels up, then it's far, far from overboard.

"I feel that's an overboard amount" is simply a matter of ignorance on the topic.

>Way more expensive than just going outside though.

Jesus christ. Something like $40 will get you enough to last you a year.

And 'going outside' has lots of mythology to it. No, 5 minutes is not enough, and depending on the time of the year and where you live, you could spend all day in the sun and not get any vit d resulting from it.

>at uni
>haven't had sex in about 6 months
>almost every guy in my friend group brings back at least 1 girl per weekend

How to not be autistic around girls?

I don't really agree. Sex with my girlfriend is just alright. Sometimes I prefer jerking off.

>Good hygiene
>Fitness
>Smile
>Be genuinely interested in her and ask non-obvious questions
>Let her do the talking, agree with her
>Invite her to do fun things with no apparent ulterior motivation
>Seal the deal within three dates or move on