Veeky Forums feels - FeelsGoodMan Edition

>lifting for half a year
>get asked to spot someones bench on friday
>again on monday by different dude
>never been asked before
>do i finally not look dyel anymore?

Just joking i'm dyel as fuck, but it's still nice to be trusted like that.

god damn I hate middle aged wymon

>doing startbodyweight workouts
>doing inverted bent knee rows
>swap to straight leg
>its like 100000x harder

Same here, pretty much. As Rich P says: "We are all in this together!"

4 days ago I go out with some friends. A few of them females. All of them got drunk, and one of them starts squeezing my hand and pulling my sleeves up to show to others "my wide shoulders"
Felt good, not gonna lie.

gj my boy
make daddy proud

Veeky Forums give me your honest opinion about this the other day
>me pretty fucking dyel
>met this hot girl a few weeks back, we instantly got on really well
>she has a long distance boyfriend
>first time i met her, she told me she was scared he would cheat on her
>2 days ago, she stops by with my mate who introduced us
>we chat the shit for a bit
>it casually comes up that her boyfriend cheated on her the other week and then dumped her
>hug her jokingly as you do
>later on, telling me how my mate grabbed her aggressively earlier (somewhat jokingly as he was right there professing his innocence)
>she demonstrates how hard he grabbed her by grabbing me
>grabs my bicep
>tugs gently, then just kinda feels it and squishes it
>i sort of ignore her while my mate carries on trying to explain it was a light grab

At the time I assumed she was just surprised at how little muscle mass I had but later on she tells me we have to hang out as soon as I'm done with my coursework
Honest thoughts guys, am I reading too much into this?

go on son, shes game

>at uni's cafeteria
>cutie Asian next to me in the queue
>she mires my chest.
>I pretend not to notice but I'm feeling proud AF
>take the different dishes for my lunch
>she mires my upper arm as I reach to the plates
>I decide to double check how cute she was
>top_tier_cute.jpg
>she notices I saw her mirin and forcefully looks elsewhere until we split.
>I eat alone, close to the rack for used dishes
>Asian cutie finished before me and walks by.
>gave one last mir

Way too much.
Just hang out with her and don't think about it.

Women actually don't think badly about guys who aren't muscular, they only take it as a plus when someone's buff

this

Younger girls are cute, but don't cuck the guy

> tfw haven't had a cougar drop her comb around me yet
One of these days

thanks! sorry for not replying sooner, had to restart my comp
I'll do that and see what happens i guess

Oh she was like 25 not a cougar. She said her husband has been going to college forever and does nothing.

yes, she likes what she sees. females don just go around touching men or squeezing their muscles. if she didnt like it, she wouldnt have even touched you. flirt back, start lightly touching her, tease her, slap her ass etc

virginity or jealousy

That's a shame, I instantly imagined a cougar hairdresser

is she hot?

you're thinking too much about it

she clearly signaled that you're not giving enough attention to your 'ceps
do not even TRY to approach her before you've fixed this

goddomn I want good feels again..
been thinking about breaking up with my gf of close to 4 years. Feels like I have fallen out of love.. but she still loves me.
My workouts and diet suffers like crazy, and I am loosing test every day..

good feels where are you

>be out with the boys this last saturday night
>one of the boys gets kicked out of party and we leave
>tells the boys we gotta go back and fuck these people shit up
>blonde qt3.14, friend of one of the boys, hears me saying this
>says "you're all taller than 6 feet, you should have no problem"
>talk her up some more
>leave to fuck up the party
>crashes party
>comes back to small dorm party and just chilling
>blonde qt3.14 is there again
>sitting on bed
>qt3.14 comes up to me and asks to salsa
>she's pretty fucking tipsy
>admits she doesn't know how to dance but just wanted to dance with me
>sits back next to me on bed
>continue to shit talk
>says "usually guys when they're hitting on a girl ask her to dance with them"
>just continue talking
>she then says "you're really cute"
>smile at her and don't say anything because don't want to spill spaghetti
>repeats the same dance line
>just don't say anything and smile
>she feels rejected and lets it go

holy fuck Veeky Forums, what is wrong with my autism? This girl was really good-looking and I couldn't muster to make a move. This isn't the first time this has happened. I've had this happened to me many times.

How do I stop being a little bitch and just going for it?

she asked you to dance three times and you didn't dance?

Got my first 6plate deadlift, which was also my first 3x BW deadlift.

Natty? Good job btw. What's your deadlift routine?

lel

>How do I stop being a little bitch and just going for it?
were you drunk? being drunk helps
it might have the adverse effect of you eventually relying on alcohol to ever hit on girls, but you can solve that problem later down the road

Yeah natty, thanks. Been lifting for 5 years tho..

I just alternate week on week.
Week one I'll work up to a 10RM
Week 2 - work up to 5RM
Week 3 - work up to 3RM
Week 4 - work up to 1RM

Then I'll go back to the beginning and increase by 5kg and go through. If I fail, I repeat the same weight next time.

I do sumo deadlifts or deficit deadlifts (alternating weeks) for 3 sets of 10 after my main working deadlifts.

We danced the first time when she asked to dance, but didn't the other two times when she tried to get me to initiate

I honestly have a problem initiating stuff, all of my sexual encounters have come from girls initiating out of frustration from me or because they really liked me.

Don't mean to sound like a douche, but I know I'm a good looking guy because I always have a couple girls who flirt with me when I go out. I don't understand why I have this mental barrier.

I was not drunk. I have to be sober because of long history of alcoholism in family.

I fucking love the trolley memr.

With this haircut

I made a gym friend a few weeks ago and it feels pretty good desu. Now I just hope I don't fuck it up with my autism.

Willpower
You have it. Use it

Holy fuck there is no hope for you son

I know that feel too much.
>tfw you have a decent chunk of native american blood in you due to great grandparents on both mom and dads side
>tfw your grandfather was an alcoholic
>tfw you can never risk consuming the firewater for fear that it will in turn consume you

Tell yourself that if there isn't something physically stopping you from making a move that you actually would want to make, then you have to do it. There are enough obstacles in this world without your imaginary ones, man. This is practice for when you face something real.

Thank you Solaire.

>dumped by a woman I thought I was going to Marry
>mourn her like a week for a faggot
>mutual friend informs me of the circumstances, there was someone else
>I'm angry, lifting has never felt better
>When I first started lifting she (fat) said she wouldn't like me muscular, preferred me dyel
>this 7/10 she shit talk all the time started talking to me after the class we all have together
>hit it off pretty well, she heard about the breakup and offered her condolences
>going out with her tomorrow night

been a fucking roller coaster the past month but things are starting to feel good again

So much fucking this. My gf left me cause my lats were to small, dont do the same mistake with biceps.

>At the time I assumed she was just surprised at how little muscle mass I had

kek you people need help

So periodization?

>see qt from my work
>chat her up, feels good
>pretty certain she has boyfriend, check to see her status on fb, she does
>get a message from her later that night saying we should have a drink together
>uhh o-okay
> fast foward a couple nights and we are drinking alone together in my room
>her boyfriends name comes up in conversation but she kind of mumbles it and quickly moves on
>me thinking
>we go out for dinner and come back to drink more
>feel confused and dont make a move
>she goes home at about 1
>hang out again a couple more times but cant figure her end game out

should i make a move or could that be a big mistake? do girls who drink alone with you really just want to be friends?

hell yeah user
this time will be even better

>be me 176cm 90 kg fresh out of bulk md
>find a cute little asian chick
>she loves me talks about marriage and such.
>one day talk about ex gfs and bfs
>she says her ex was bodybuilder too
>think it was some manlet asian thinks himself as bodybuilder
>ask to boost your ego if he was in good shape
>she says he was too big like hulk and around 190 aussie
>says she felt like she was going to get crushed when she is with him
>but says he was a bad person and i am a better one in every way possible so she loves me
>immidiately regret asking
>monster hentai porns flashes on my mind.
>little cute asian girl getting crushed and fucked by some huge rich piana looking monster
>feel inferior feel jelaous
>ask her why did she even mentions being crushed and such
>she laughes it off
>immidiately lose interest in her. tell her i am going to sleep and shut down the phone
fuck Veeky Forums. why do i feel this way ?

>be me
>sitting in bus on my way to college
>qt looks at me
>I look back
>we look each other in the eyes a for a solid second

she definitely wanted my dick

>finished my run in the park
>wearing tight shorts because that's how I roll
>doing a slow lap for a warm down
>girl walking up the path towards me
>answers her phone as I approach
>holding phone away from her head for some reason
>she turns to keep the phone facing me as I run past
>mfw she made a creep video of me

>Implying these aren't the best possible mires

nice

i find Veeky Forums can affect my perceptions of the world a lot, maybe it'd be worth not coming on here so much? Or at least just think about and criticise the information you're taking in rather than just allowing it to enter your brain.

>break up about a month and a half ago
>working out with almost a religious fervor, powered all by hate
>feel myself get kinda bigger
>notice girls glance at me a little too long to just be looking at me
>friends gf complimented my arms

I feel like I'll be ok.

not in your fake version of real life, get off the internet and go outside, maybe read a book or something

from what little information i have, i'd advise you to tell her. If you're not into you're not into, you can't help how you feel about it, but it's not fair on her to keep her going in that case. I assume at the beginning the spark was there but things change and that's ok. If you like this chick, she deserves your honesty and communication really is the best thing in the world

i know this feel all too well.
i think it all depends on if you believe that she really loves you more, give her your trust and see what happens. worst thing is that she leaves u for a true alpha and youre back where you started

lol you didn't have to do shit man she had done all the footwork for you

just be cool and get up a dance, if you own it nobody will care if you can't dance. keep going dude you got this

yeah, you are right. the biggest problem for me is though, that I don't know if thats really what I want. My mind, my heart and my gut all tell me different things.. fucking annoying.

i dunno what she's at really user, she's probably into you and enjoys hanging out but is probably awkward about having a bf. if you're into the girl then my advice is to do nothing. Think about it, if you made a move while she was in a relationship and she obliged, what's to say she wouldn't do the same if you were her bf? girls have no willpower bro

i ain't got no clue what she's trying to do though, i'd say just go into it without expectation and see what happens

well your spidey senses should tingle a little. Body language or anything? Is she flirty or is she treating u like a friend? Try flirting. see what happens.

it's pretty normal to feel weird thinking about your partner being with somebody else, but just remember that right now she is with you and not some other douche. Trust yourself and all will work out

trust yourself bro. Don't cower away from your emotions but take control of them for your own advantage. big decisions always have an element of uncertainty.

relationships are hard but you'll figure it out user

You put too much stock in that stuff and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. You convince yourself that you'll become an alcoholic, so eventually you do. Try to develop a sense of your own agency man. Good luck to you.

thanks user, i think ill put her on the back burner and see whay happens

>pecs
>solid

>tfw barely native American
>punk band in highschool
>using fit to ward off hard drug and alcohol dependency

>Walking out of a grocery store
>gypsy woman holding a baby and begging for money
>walk past her
>she says "hey pretty boy, do you have some change"
>ignore her, fucking hate gypsyes

i guess she wanted one more baby huh

shoulda just talked to her. just open with a coy "oh, hey:)", next time you catch them mirin

Do you think I can ask our mutual friend to try to set something up between us? Or just move on and take the L?

She was honestly just so goddamn gorgerous

>thinking impressing 16 year olds is note-worthy at all
underage faggot please go

>finally managed to squat lmao1pl8
its all thanks to you Veeky Forums. I couldnt have done it without you.

>swolebro asked me to spot him for 100bells
>did it perfectly
>fist bump and a "thanks brah"

A-Am I making it?

>be girl
> be at the gym with brad and chad
> see an autistic man(OP) next to us doing some bar pickups off the floor
>chad whispers in my ear to make him feel better
>compliment him on his strenght
> i can see the betaness spill out
> he mutters > t-t-t thanks -i-im a str-ong m-mman
> smile and try not to laugh and leave the gym to go get pizza with chad
>embarrassed that hes hitting on me when i get out.
> tell chad hes got a nice ass
> nope .jpg autist heard it
> mumbles s-stacey Y-y-you to0
> get creeped out and leave

realest lad here

gl user

...

My Bulged disc is currently healing up quite well. Still hurts still not able to lift more than 10 lbs, but I am hopeful and sure of my back healing up

same, I just start categorizing people and lump them all together this can't be healthy

>categorizing people as the extraordinary or the ordinary
Calm down Raskolnikov

>Be me
>Been lifting to gain a bit of muscle, but mainly lose weight in addition to calorie restrictions
>Intermittent fasting to top that off
>Typically work out after getting home from work
>Enjoy being up all night, so i never work out earlier in the day
>Work out alone at home, no spotter or safety bar. Only a power rack and a bench with some dumbbells
>Take a preworkout after a small meal, wait a bit, then begin my workout
>Start benching
>Feel as if i'm not pushing hard enough and i could do more
>Kind of like a tired haze
>I force myself harder anyway
>FUCKFUCKFUCK
>About to cave and get fucked up proper
>Finish the rep in a panic and rack it
>Do this regularly

Is this just how it is, Veeky Forums?

I feel as if i'm stuck in a mental block holding me back. I know i can do more but, i can't muster the raw energy up to do it.

It's not as bad when i'm doing squats or deadlifts.

FUCKKKK all I notice is people's bodies. Its my dysmorphia spilling out like spaghetti

no idea what she's doing so you should dive in and find out

>tfw I might've found the girl of my dreams

She's smart, beautiful, kind and has the same basic values as me. Her hobbies include playing three instruments, singing more beautifully than any girl I've probably literally ever heard, reading actual literature (not just YA crap), writing, and running. She seems to be everything I could realistically ask for in a girl. I want to get to know her a bit better, but if nothing comes up that would disqualify her as a possible mate, I'll ask her out after a while. I don't know if she likes me the same way I like her, but at least she laughs at my jokes and is always friendly. I doubt she'll say no, when I ask her out.

However, she's 16 and I'm 20, closer to 21. Do you think it would be weird? I asked her older cousin, who is my good friend, what she thinks about this whole thing, and she told me to go for it.

Kek.

>However, she's 16 and I'm 20, closer to 21
I'm in America so this sounds sketchy as fuck. If your intentions are good you have an opportunity seldom available to modern men, to wrap this girl around your finger and make her an excellent partner. Go after her user, but be good and please for the love of God be careful (IE - nurture a relationship from a distance but FUCKING WAIT until shes of age) if this is in the US.

I'm Finnish. In here it would be legal for us to bang even now, as the age of consent is 16, but because we're both Christians, I won't smash until we're (hypothetically) married. So there's nothing illegal about us dating.

My advice to you would be asking her out right the fuck now cunt, take the shot

>she's 16
horrible idea. have fun dealing with her 16 year old problems

Go after her and when you have her, never let go. Good luck.

>being a pedo
hi bill clinton

If someone complimented me for a 145kg deadlift I would think they are mocking me for being a complete beginner.

Litterally nothing below a 220kg deadlift is in any shape or form even recognizable - unless you are a female and or weight 40kg.

Soon. I don't meet her very often, but I want to talk with her at least a couple of times before asking her out. In the coming summer I will act, if I haven't yet done so before.

She's quite mature for her age. Besides, she won't be 16 forever, and I'm looking for a life-long partner.

Thanks.

>dead lifting sixpl8 natty
>super average looking body

height/weight?
fuck I need to hop on the Ron's...

Good job taking her possible experiences away faggot

I don't understand what you mean, care to elaborate?

Deload for a few sessions