How are you holding up?

How are you holding up?

doing alright. planning to swim a lot this swummer.

no prom date, pretty sad about it

tell a girl you'll prone bone her into oblivion. that usually works.

I want to get stronger so I can reach average male adult strength, because I am a lanky manlet.

Looks I don't care about.
I have natural low BF.

same, I live in Florida and although i'm still overweight I have lost enough weight so far that i'm already feeling better about how I look so I think i'll start using the beaches again!

i wish the bays here weren't so dirty. im going to be swimming indoors.

Exgf just came round mine for dinner, was all going well, she then starts saying how much sex her and her now boyfriend have been having, I just stare blankly at her and say nothing, she storms out all mad.

Makes me feel like such a fucking failure and loser, just want to go fucking hit the punching bag till my knuckles break rn

Got a wedding in june want to have Someone to go with who is not just female friend.
Trying to go for tinder but I'm have some blockade Inside me
Feels bad man

Why are you associating with a woman that you're not related to and not fucking?

Just people watch, brother. Look for possibly a crier throughout the dance (breakup/douche date result) and sweep in for the prey.

Prom was overrated imo, 10/10 would not do it again.

Im desperate for any form of human interaction because im a loser and have no friends.

Got mad and punched the griptape side of my old skateboard, cut the fuck out of my fists, now it looks like i've gotten in a fight, im honestly such a fucking retards ffs

Go get a cheat meal to cheer up, lad. You'll make it, just lift the feels away.

I just realized i'm the tallest person in my gym
> too bad i'm a skeleton

I dont even enjoy eating food, im bulking currently as I only started lifting 3 months ago, I hate every single meal I eat, I rarely eat food and actually enjoy it.

>she came back to the gym again
>pretty sure she recognizes me now
>she's like a 7/10
>my gf is a solid 9.5/10

Oneitis is starting to reply less and less.

I think I must have pissed her off. What should I say to her lads?

I feel like shit

Don't say anything. Chill with the texts for a couple of days, try not to think too much about her. Being desperate and clingy is the biggest turn off for women

A friend of mine told me to confront her about it.

This lady at work today asked me if i was OK because she thought i had seemed distant at work for the past while but literally nothing has changed with me. Ever since she expressed concern for my well being I've been feeling sad for some reason.

is there something wrong with me

That's a natural response. You're fine buddy

my ex is ignoring me now for some reason

i dont think shes coming back

Difficult to give proper advice without getting full story, but if I were you I'd wait 3 days and then ask her what's up if she hasn't contacted you.

Also remember that there are millions of "oneitisis" out there for you. She might not be the one

Things fell through with this hot Italian girl I met at the pool a few weeks ago. Finally feeling better about it. Met another girl at work and she asked me for drinks, we've been talking a lot. Going on two week vacation in a week. Haven't been lifting as much as a should. Things are okay. I just really want a qt gf

you have autism
I will never ever understand people who let their emotions cause them to hit inanimate objects
seek help

Ignore her back and use your energy to hit some new PRs

We're all gonna make it bros

She's been contacting me every day, but she's also acting distant whenever we talk.

I don't know what's going on m8

Why can't women just act normal

I dont think I do, I just hate myself so I want to punish myself for being an idiot.

Did you ask anyone? Did you get rejected?
You can go with a group of friends or if you're already going alone, there will be a lot of girls that will also go alone or with a group of friends. If you didn't ask anyone on a date, there's your chance.
At least ask to dance with someone don't be a pussy, prom isn't a big deal but if you can do this once then it will help you talk to girls in the future
If you don't go don't stress about it

Pretty mother fucking pissed

>lift for years, like 6-7
>Low test results come in January
>Start low test dose in february
>muscles are big, eating at defect, and yet have only managed to lose 5 pounds of fat in two months
>Weight still jumps up
>Doing IF, max calories of 1800 a day, minor gyno popping up (had pre-pubertal and had surgery for it)
>Look amazing in tank tops and fatty bo batti shirtless
>Move to california in June and need to be cut
>17% BF and want to get to 14% at least
I accidentally broke part of a wooden fence I was fixing today punching it out of fatty rage. The fuck am I supposed to do cut down to 1500 cal a day? I lift 6 fucking days a week. REEEEeeee I am so envious of skellys.

Stop messaging her or message her less but not a lot less, just enough to show her that you tried. If she's not interested there's nothing you could do about it. I know it sucks blah blah you'll feel like shit but confronting her will make it worse.
Also if she's replying less and less that doesn't mean she's not interested, she probably has shit going on in her life

i didn't, it's my fault. I dont really talk to any girls. some friends want me to come along in their group but I feel like it would be awkward especially since they all have dates

I'm crushing hard on my company's client. She likes me too and the chemistry is obvious to both of us. They look down on any personal relations between clients and employees, obviously.

Shit, man.

Had a pretty devastating friday. One of those days where everything goes wrong. Continued into saturday. Couldn't really unwind on sunday, either.
Monday made everything good, again. Could use a lot of potential the day gave me, which lifted my feels.
I feel very good, actually. Still no gf, but I don't get devastating feels about my last crush. I may actually be over her, ironically now that we started talking again.
I should be more prudent, though. It's all just "what if"s and "would be"s, again, and things may go either way, however just the prospect gives me some much needed positivity which in turn gives me some energy. I'm not one of those purely stoic people who can just willpower their way through life.
Also people have noticed my beginner gains. It makes me proud I could even make it this far, which isn't a lot to many of you here I guess, but it's been the world to me. I kept my head in the game long enough to see progress, and although I've lazed out these past two weeks I'll definitely hit the irons again next week. Like music, I missed a few beats, so I'm gonna get back into the rhythm on the first.

I hope all of you get a moment to breathe between sets of life, Veeky Forumsizens.

Yeah, I've got nothing to offer here. Everything's going great for me right now, and for once I've been taking advantage of the positive momentum while it's here. I pulled myself out of a year long trough a few months ago, and things have consistently stayed alright since.

Just had gyno surgery on Tuesday. Can't lift for weeks. Feels bad man.

my gf and i have been fighting because she didn't let me know she was feeling bad so she was just being distant and i thought i'd done something, like, i'll take care of you, just tell me you feel bad you've done it before.

oh also she recently told me she's never really been that into muscles
i cried a bit

I skip my prom am I a loser? I work in Finance now though and 90% of the kids fucked up from H.S

Trying hard to stick to my diet
gained 20 lbs but all my lifts went up so im kind of in a weird place right now

i just wanna be sub 220 again ;_;

Moving to CA and I'm scared, man.

>saving all that money
>wanting to waste money in the first place to be obligated to some female for the night just for one dance with people you will never see again.

Iktf. Being an easy gainer is great for mass but sucks when cutting. I'm on 1800 too, 6 days a week with cardio. Losing little fat, still making gains. Thinking about 1500 but probably won't

Better than normal.

>all my friends are off at college
>got stuck behind because i fucked up a couple years in HS
>bored outta my mind and my hobbies only take me so far
>no one that i know is even in to fitness/biking
>single since the new year
>my doing, but still a breakup is a breakup

Worst part is, i feel like there's no point in trying to make new friends/relationships since im planning on moving off to college in a couple months

lonely as fuck, lemme tell ya

Major change can be scary so try make your fears as clear as possible. The worst thing about fear is it fucks up your rational thinking so putting your fears in a sentence or two can make you see them in a more objective way. Also, certain things won't change if you don't want them to change. So if there's anything in your life your comfortable with and happy about, remember about it once you're in CA.

I moved a lot when I was a kid so I know what it's like.

I've posted about my breakup in one of these threads in the last month, none of it seems real now. Her and her roommates are actively dragging my name through the mud and now I think they may try to file false charges against me with campus police, overheard them say that I planned to attack my ex. Sweating bullets because I'm a white guy on a progressive campus. I have a clean record and got in contact with a professor I have a long time relationship with. Wish me luck lads.

Fuck off I've been single my whole life. Most of this shit is your fault too.

Sorry to hear that about that man. You'll get through.

that must be a nightmare, these people are trash. hang in there buddy

that what you get for dating a whore.

never said it wasn't, dingus

Waiting for neetbux

Me and my ex hardly talk anymore. She'd talk to me daily and start the conversations for months but it's been a few weeks since she's said anything. Pretty sure she's finally replaced me, she mentioned going on dates with some other guys. I was just waiting on my new job to make a move but I waited too long I guess. I thought we'd work pretty well together but oh well

On the brightside I'm making some sweet gains and getting some nice upper body definition. It seems like every week I'm adding another 5lbs onto my lifts and they're still getting easier.

almost died yesterday in a fight, gym is getting tougher and tougher
lots of new warriors in the manlet pit

Dad is dying of cancer, work sucks and gets harder every day, gym closed due to caved in roof from thunderstorm, wife always bitching and nagging about everything... I'm doing fine I guess.

There's a rat somewhere in my room so I'm sleeping round my gfs house. Pretty scary shit lads.

>110kg bench press and afraid of a 1kg rodent.
>tfw my gf told me to 'man up'

It concinced me to take roids.

Just leave some food in the oven. Once it crawls in you know what to do

...

For the first time in a long time, I'm feeling pretty damn good.

Sell the oven on Craigslist?

You shouldn't keep that much contact with your ex.

i want to fucking die

fuck that that sounds awful. my ex gf left me 6 months ago and asked 3-4 times over that time to have dinner but she never follows through with it. i dont want to but part of me does, she slept with a new guy days after she left me over text and before we ever met to talk, ended up dating him 3 weeks later lol

christ dude that sounds awful, im in a very similar situation but dinner with my ex sounds horrible, even though i probably would do it fuck lol

You should be saving any and all contact you have between you, your ex, and her roommates as evidence if needed.

If all else fails at least you got a nice 100 post.

need a new job. other than that no problems

Got the balls to ask out an ex coworker. She said has a bf and I took it better than expected. We laughed about it before she left and said "I'll be around tho ;)" Idk what that means but I will have that ass on my face.

Don't. that's how people get into cutting. Learn to punish your body through lifting (but not snapcity)

Unemployed and it's looking like my only option is gonna be fast food for a third fucking time in a row. I love my gf but I'm not in love with her anymore but I'm scared to break up with her cause she'd likely try to kill herself. She's had suicidal problems in the past and I helped her get better. On top of already telling her I wanted to marry her a few months ago, even though now that isn't true.

I went out to eat tonight and the waitress was this perky young blonde wearing jean cutoff shorts. All I could think about is pounding that tight ass into oblivion.

Haven't been making any noticeable muscle gains recently, despite gaining 15 lbs over 7 months and strength going up not sure if I should keep going with it

Just go party instead
I went to prom 9-11 grade then senior year said Fuck it and parties with my bros
Possibly the best night of my life

I wish I never went to my prom desu. Things went south quick. Had an argument with my date a week before prom and lost my date, and just had a boring time.

Not well, figured out I fucking hate my degree but to poor to switch
At least I only have 24 credits left

I'm a kv with zero social skills. So while talking to a friend who's making it I said "okay, it's time for a change" so I got some balls and decided to talk to a girl in my class who's preety cute. I intercepted her at the exit, said "hey" and she didn't even looked at me and said "sorry, got to take this bus" (it stops right at the uni exit)

So yeah

today is 8 years since cancer took my best friend on earth. it's always my lowest night of the year.

Never had that advice before, so thank you.

I'm just afraid that I'll end up a failure. Its a pretty basic fear, but where I'm at now, I can coast by on some mediocre job. But when I move, I have the chance to actually do what I've wanted to do, and if I fuck it up then I'll have to go back to working mediocre jobs, but without something to work towards.

it's over. cut your losses. never approach her again. focus on another.

one more thing, if I ever catch you thinking about this thot I will slap you silly you beta bitch

my grandfather died on the 10th. everything's starting to go back to normal now. keeping busy helps

should i go out with friends tonight Veeky Forums?

Positive visualization will get you through this.

As will an epic Count of Monte Cristo revenge scheme

Man its not worth your own mental health, just get the fuck out of the relationship, anything she does is on her.

That's tough bro.

shit i know this feel
>its all my fault too

Good shit senpai. Sometimes, despite it all, it's good to be alive.

>As will an epic Count of Monte Cristo revenge scheme
I've information that will turn their apartment upside down, I could either email the girl with an anonymous email or just say it to their faces when I run into them. The one roommate is practically guaranteed to attempt suicide.

I know my ex will be back eventually, guy she cheated on me with looks like his mom drank while she was preggo, she picked him up because he's malleable, easy to bend to her will. I was a cuck when we started dating, it all started to go downhill about a year and a half in, when she asked if she could peg me and I said no and held that line. She was mean, selfish, abusive, mocked me when I started lifting and I think I will save my revenge for when she comes crawling back.

>she weighs 40 pounds more than me
I've already won

Not well at all.

I am anxious for some type of apocalyptic event to either give me a reason to live in the woods or put myself out of my relentless torment and misery.

I moved to CA and it instantly turned me from a 6-7/10 in my small town in the north east to an easy 3-4/10. Everybody is here is attractive as fuck, it's not a meme

went from matching cuties and some good looking chicks on tinder to literally matching nothing but absolute land whales and disgusting freaks

good luck bro.

Dude if you loved her that much try to work through it. Feelings fade sometImes but you can put effort into the relationship and come through stronger. Don't listen to all the pessimism, shits hard but give it a try

>I've information that will turn their apartment upside down, I could either email the girl with an anonymous email or just say it to their faces when I run into them. The one roommate is practically guaranteed to attempt suicide.

DO IT FGT

I'm still trying to get over my fat fetish.

>The people she thinks are her friends are ghosting her at the end of the year because shes such a crazy bitch
>a psychologist suggested shes in love with the one shes caused the most trouble
She'll know now or in the next two weeks, its a mercy really. They'll be able to hear this bitch cry all over London.

should i visit an escort? haven't been laid in 2 months.

nah

getting tired of fucking my hand breh
need a warm pussy

not worth it, have some respect for yourself

>have a bad break up 3 years ago
>hook up with a few random women in the mean time
>the last one was the only one I want to be in a serious relationship
>I end it because she just wants to be fwb


Did I fuck up Veeky Forums?

use the money you would pay the whore for a pocket pussy

you can warm them up

I'm going to fail my bvps class
but that's okay I'll still graduate with a 3.4

Nah, you know what you want and even if she changed her mind she sounds like kind of a whore. Do you bro, and don't compromise for anyone.

Would anyone recommend me to visit an escort if I haven't been laid in 25 years or do I still have some dignity worth salvaging?