/shg/ - Sexual health general

>used to smoke weed
>my libido was pretty high
>husband couldnt keep up
>stopped smoking beginning of April
>now I dont feel like having sex

I dont know whats wrong with me, I want to but I get dry as a bone and it hurts to go at it now. Because of it hurting, I dont want to have it anymore.

i had a similar problem, it went away after id quit smoking for a while. might just have to wait it out. oral sex, dude

I have MS and I had an attack 6-7 years ago that damaged part of the brain that controls impulses and now I engage in risky behaviours, constant masturbation, and I gamble a lot.

just have real sex and masturbate a lot, but you need both

> Get back to porn evenutally

This is where you messed up.
Stick to your imagination. Keep it pretty natural. Only a month without porn isn't a long enough reset time to rid your mind of the images and things you like to watch in porn. Honestly, porn is pretty damaging to your mental health. You were already a month in, try overcoming your porn addiction and enjoy fapping natty.

That sucks. I have shitty impulse control because of very different reasons, but it works different for me. Once I become aware of what the impulse is, it becomes easier to block. The problem is identifying the impulse and the reason it's there.

But what's the line between healthy/natural and porn?
I mean video of dancing girls or hot music videos are good or should I really stick to my imagination and only that.

yeah overall it can be treated pretty well with some ugly medicines except my mind wanders and suddenly I'm driving 200km/hr on the highway and getting a serious hit of dopamine.

I havent mastrubated in 9 days now and Im starting to have cool dreams about girls

I don't know but this is what my dick looks like after jelquing

>Prithee, m'Lady, might I throw my gaze upon your rumpscuttle?
>Yes, my dear, inch those court appearance trousers down to revel thy magnificent can
>Oh my indeed
>On first glimpse, mine heart leaps in rapture
>What is that over there, schnuckums?
>*Teleports behind you*
>Alas, I am closer, and with bottoms-bared you are vulnerable to my stealth attack
>*Crouches down at lightning speed*
>Why, greetings, fair arse. Might I withdraw a whiff?
>A gentleman cannot help but notice the arresting nature your curvature sports
>You are an arse that began its journey in full rosiness and pert quality
>However, blessed buttocks, like a daffodil that has been ravaged by slugs, you are now an arse that sags in a permanent frown, your crack housing a dark-grey fartdriller, permanently pungent
>The hands of the clock have not been kind, dearest arse, however you must now be ready for my hands, which I assure you.. will be... most kind...
>*Playful chortle*
>That's it, reveal yourself to me
>*Wedges buttockflaps apart, slowly, as the clagnut speckled hairs pull on each other and eventually snap apart, letting out a strong scent of rotting chicken and stale piss*
>*SNIFF*
>You did not disappoint me, my lower-class lovebug. It is a powerful aroma.. Thou hast revealed Thy favors and Thy bounties
>*SNIFF*
>Like the first guft of wind as you open a packet of sliced ham!
>Come on lass, you know what I require
>SQUEEEELDGE BOOOOOOOOOR BITOW POW POW BRAAAAAAAAAAAAAP BRAP BRAP BROOOOOOOOARRRRRRRRRRRRQUUUOP

what's good for benis health? besides losing weight and doing cardio

Male here, semi related. I've smoke weed pretty consistently since hs and am 25 now. Switched to only vaping 90% of the time about 3 yrs ago. I've noticed if I've just smoked I'm too analytical and can't get horny but come like 4 hrs later I'll be horny but go for weirder and weirder shit and want to be submissive. If I don't smoke I get horny in the evenings and will be more dominant, outgoing and attempt to get laid. I'll also be much more impulsive. Has anyone noticed similar?

I always seem to wake up just before i nut or just before i enter her, ruins my entire day

Also i pretty certain ive broke my dick, been jelqing for like a year now, had no problems, good gains, got drunk last thursday and thought fuck it ill do a marathon jelq session,

Was at it for like 3 hours, its been 5 days now and an i cant get an erection, i mean not a thing it just lies there motionless

wut

ur dik brokn man.

Last wet dream I had I was in a room with a couple Qts and I was spewing a bukake hurricane all over them for like 10 minutes. 10/10 better than fapping.

Probably only that. I'm right there with you user, I'm cutting out porn too. It's a rough process but I like to draw the line between, normal photos and using your imagination AND simply nudes. Nudes start you back on the slippery slope that is porn addiction.

First day it's nudes, next day it's anal.

what the fuck man

Yeah it's too easy to slip, especially here where /gif/ is so close. And even on blue boards, you're not safe.

>see a thread about nofap May this morning
>fuck it, why not see how far we get
>thicc high test sluts are getting posted everywhere
>my dick has been on and off hard all fucking evening now

Also, if I have a 6 1/2" girth, what condoms should I be buying because magnums seem tight as fuck. Are they supposed to be like this?

How long did it take to go back to normal

>magnums seem tight as fuck
DELET

I don't like oral, love giving my husband head but I feel weird if he goes down on me so I try to give him as much head as I can so he can forget about giving me any. But I jive it does go away, I can imagine myself being a nervous wreck at the store trying to buy lube

>a few moths ago I breakup with gf of a while
>we met at uni
>getting weird feels for a while
>ups and downs about the breakup
>meet girl at event at another uni i went to last weekend
>talk to her for 30-40 min
>she seemed pretty nice
>we seemed to have very similar personalities
>enjoy the conversation
>mid conversation I have to go real quick, someone else needed to talk to me
>forgot to get her name
>regret.jpg
>find her on facebook
>she is into extremely average typical normie shit
>stuff I find pretty boring desu
Should I even try to connect with her? I don't even know if I want a relationship at this time, but she seemed nice and was a qt 3.14

pic very much related

Girls wont fix your problems, user

I have a lot of goals in life I want to accomplish and women seem to eat up alot of time and money.
They also generally don't understand my drive towards achieving my goals or seeing my hard work pay off somehow. I could tell that my last gf was on some level jealous of the amount of interesting stuff I did, while she would not do much creative or productive with her free time.

I do want a life though, I don't want to just be one of these incredibly sad guys who does so much but at the end of the day has no friends or family in life.

Have the same problem. Now I have to force myself to stop death gripping it.

Posted a while ago about how my cut killed my libido for a few weeks.
I fixed my diet so I'm in taking a bit more fats, and suddenly my libido is back about 50%. I guess all that fat is important for test production huh?

lack of nutrition in general perhaps

I don't believe in the no fap meme, but damn when I haven't had sexfor more than a week with my gf I begin to get blue balls, It mainly starts after taking a shit. I end up having to tell my gf to take care of me on a quickie. We're very busy sometimes, and it gets hard to get around sex sometimes

I still get laid every other couple of days but when we can't come around it, this happens

Help please

>in B4 colon cancer

Felt like sharing, because I haven't told anyone about this yet, but saturday night was the first time I cucked someone, I fucked this girl who I used to be fwb with who got a boyfriend a month or so ago.
She's on birth control, so I came in her too, first time I've done that as well. Feels pretty good.

are there any ways to reduce test naturally? I used to be overweight and had lower test back then. Now its ridiculous, drive is through the roof morning wood and random erections all the time and im wanking like 3 times a day. Its actually a burden.

Not watching porn is more important than nofap, but it would be like trying to shit without taking a piss i guess

If you cant get laid like 2-3x a week, try changing up your schedule or doing it in the morning or something, if you can't do that you might just have to deal with it for a while

The second I begin to cum I'm instantly turned off and disgusted in what I've just done. Doesn't matter if it's by myself or with someone.
It's not even after I'm finished it's as it's happening.
Worst thing recently was while getting a blow job from some girl from tinder, came in her mouth and she kept on sucking loving every drop of it. After she finished she tried to kiss me and I slapped her, got dressed and left.

you might be gay, try gay porn

>Do you think someone can break his libido beyond repair? (because of porn addiction)
The exact opposite. My body has gotten so used to how often I jack off I end up becoming a being of pure rage and aggression if I go more than a few days. Four times a day keeps me at baseline.

gay porn makes me feel sick.
I'm gynosexual.

>stopped smoking beginning of April
Now why'd you go and do that

Nah my micros were okay. Daily vitamin and minersl levels were okay, but decreased energy from a caloric deficit and decreased fats defimitely did me no favors.

congrats?

It sounds like a cardiovascular issue.

Maybe get more cardio?

Also I would take a look at your diet. Too much sugar can dampen the libido.

Trying to get a better job

You think that could be it? I have been fed that women mostly get off mostly on visual stimulation and trust me I've tried to visualize something to get going but I cant. Maybe I should cut the sugar though I'm hoping that would help. Thanks for the tip

tfw small dong

who else ktfw

late bloomers like me have a chance?

Get good at stimulating the clit while you fuck and make sure your hips are loose enough to move freely so you can always give every inch you've got

Work with what you have because there's nothing you can do to change it

Buy lube on Amazon.

She probably liked that

>not letting a girl kiss you after she slurped your cum
You did good.

My vag got super dry when it got irritated by a change in laundry detergent a while back. Got some moisturizing gel specifically made for genitals and of course lube. Took half a year for it to go back to normal.

but i feel like im still underdeveloped all around
i started puberty really late
oh well

Your a fucking weirdo

That's realistic with MS? What part did it damage? Nuleus accumbens? I'm diagnosed as well but wasn't aware of such a thing.

I fap it to pr0n most days.
It raises what it takes o get me off but it's relative, I go two days without I get horny af.

>Might I withdraw a whiff

Is this guys face photoshopped on someone elses body?

shrug.jpg
Porn is nice for staying a horny mess while wearing a cuck cage

>tfw you get a prostate infection but can't afford a doctor so you just suffer through it for two years

I feel a lot better now but fuck me my libido is nonexistent

How do I get my dick like super hard and vascular, able to go multiple rounds, shoot ropes and veiny? A good multi helped, and I think citrulline malate did too but I wanna maximize those kegel gains

Magnesium did it for me.

The crazy dreams are a bonus.

Yea I noticed some effect from zma tho I thought it was the zinc. Mag does nothing for me it seem tho i take it. What kind do you use?
I just wanna.plow and love getting a tingly hard boner that pumps ejaculate

who the fuck wrote this masterpiece

Here's a (You) of which you deserve a few.

Aye, my dick smells like pussy for some reason. Which doctor do I go to? Regular or dick-related doctor?

my dick's soft because of under recovery, has nothing to do with porn. It only affects you mentally

goodlookingloser.com/get-hung/bathmate/bathmate-xtreme

>shoot ropes
Lecithin and pygeum.

As if anyone gives a fuck - as long as you can fuck long and hard, it don't matter shit
Saying this as someone who's pretty sure Veeky Forums has become more obsessed with dicks as more normies/gay dudes invaded over time
Oh yeah, if you're gay, you're fucked - those are the only people who give a fuck about dick size

I can't even last one day of nofap. Please help

I bet after a week of it I'll be jacking off to pics like this, man. Just restart from here and go three days.

Google theyfit. They make custom condoms, been ordering them for two years now. 8.5", 6.2" here.

Shit go a day with out. I jo once every two weeks now. I usr to do it multiple times a day

Try to disconnect from internet, you're more likely to break if u see slot of attractive internet people

shower after you wank for christ's sake

It's not that

>I feel a lot better now but fuck me my libido is nonexistent
If you're better/medicallyok the do these, eat more protein, sleep more, work out more/harder than you already do, have more sex and fap more when you're otherwise not doing that
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2013/07/no-fap-more-like-no-fucking-way.html?zx=5c392185e96536fa
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/09/enough-already-sex-and-baddassery-are.html
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/09/enough-already-sex-and-baddassery-are_07.html
>en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation#Health_effects
>europeanurology.com/article/S0302-2838(16)00377-8/abstract/ejaculation-frequency-and-risk-of-prostate-cancer-updated-results-with-an-additional-decade-of-follow-up
>webmd.com/prostate-cancer/news/20040406/frequent-ejaculation-prostate
>urology.jhu.edu/newsletter/prostate_cancer712.php
>frequenturinationinmenexplained.com/ejaculation-and-prostate-cancer/
>m.joe.endocrinology-journals.org/content/52/1/51.short
>answers.webmd.com/answers/5004889/what-nutrients-do-you-lose-when-ejaculating-or-masterbating-do-you-lose-testerone-
>healthtap.com/user_questions/1294935-how-long-does-your-body-take-to-replace-the-nutrients-lost-by-masturbation
>press.endocrine.org/doi/full/10.1210/jcem.85.1.6291
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2014/10/the-simplicity-of-dieting-it-really-is.html?m=1
>breakingmuscle.com/fuel/why-all-humans-need-to-eat-meat-for-health
>authoritynutrition.com/7-evidence-based-health-reasons-to-eat-meat/
>ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17520786
>I can't even last one day of nofap. Please help
Quit buying into memes. Do the above while you're at it too

Seems to check out as watching porn does the opposite for me and seems to fuel my libido and makes lots of kinky degenerate sex with my GF quite frequent and enjoyable. It's also not uncommon for me to have three orgasms a day. And I get off just about every day. Am 24 btw.

What killed my dick then if nofap is bullshit.

I feel like I'm the only dude who ever benefited from death grip. I used to have trouble holding my load during sex, but now from working on edging and using (I guess) death grip, I last a lot longer during sex.

She probably liked that. (2)

Nobody reads this shit, please stop posting it.

What did you do, or not do? Did you do the rest up there? Did you not? Follwing some other bullshit advice? Where you taking something.If you were half assing it that wouldn't have helped.
No

Well to be honest, I do agree with you. Doing nofap is kind of crazy since I don't see myself not masturbating for the rest of my life. And I believe it will only lead to more frustration wich isn't good in any way.
I did nofap and noporn. But got back to porn at a moment.

All I want is to reset my brain about sex. Not be a slave of porn anymore because that's what I am. I need it to get aroused.
Well it's not as bad as it used to be, I made excellent progress. But I want to be as horny as the 14 years old kid I was if that's even possible.

No feels thread so posting here
>on nofap
>out at some bars
>hook up with this chick for the first time in a long ass time, we didn't fuck but we fooled around a bit
>she seemed really into me and she didnt seem drunk, mirin gains, kept calling me cute (Idk why, I'm tall and muscular and I was lifting her around)
>get a taxi home with her
>before she leaves, give her my number and tell her to text me
>she texts me like 2 hours after I got home, thanking me for getting a taxi with her
>respond saying no problem etc
>she doesn't respond which I thought was weird
>Wait 48 hours
>text her saying Hey, to try and start new conversation
>No response
I don't understand

25yo virgin with phimosis here.
Any of you lads had sex while having a phimosis?

>I don't understand.
Women my friend. Don't try to wrap your head around it. Could be a thousand reason, or could just be a women's kind of thinking.

I first saw it from some /pol/ thread posted by an Irishman.

Any cutfags try restoring? Been trying it on and off but I can never keep a routine up.

Like why don't they just say they're not interested instead of being flakey bicthes so I can move on. They have autism

They get off on their social power.

Hey at least you aren't like me
>get cancer at 17
>chemo wrecked my sex drive
>vagina dry all the time, like barely any natural mucus
>finally out of remission after 3 years
>vagina is still dry
Anyway, I just give sloppy blowjobs and use the spit as lube most of the time. But I also bought a giant bottle of lube on amazon, and I use that like 3 times a week and it's lasted me over a year.

Anyway, in the vein of this thread; if you're a dude don't masturbate by humping the bed or your penis will be kill
herballove.com/articles/prone-masturbation-what-it-and-why-you-need-stop-doing-it