Been lifting for 2 years

i know a lad who's a huge weeb yet he still has a decent gf, maybe just an outlier

but it gotta help right? i mean sure, i have diagnosed autism, but it's not very visible to normal people right? and if i'm fit people will maybe like me

You need to quit no beer and start going to clubs and bars if you just want to get laid. Really easy if you're decent looking of fit. Just don't be an autist and act confident.

If you want something more, you're gonna have to get more social and look for girls you can start a conversation with. Or try online dating.

normie can smell it

TALKING TO GIRLS

YOU GET REJECTED SOMETIMES BUT YOU HAVE TO DO IT FUCKING TALK TO THEM YOU CAN GET GIRLS

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HOW MANY TIMES DO WE HAVE TO SAY IT

I don't know what to talk about. This shit feels weird and so forced man.

I will now close and report your thread because your OP image makes me really horny and this is a blue christian board. Please refrain from doing this in the future, my penis can only take so much tension, and I don't want to masturbate for fear of losing gains. Thank you.

-user

Of course it's forced. It's a scary thing. Everything manual and forced eventually becomes natural. Driving, a new job, a sport, pretty much anything that requires a little bit of exertion needs to be conditioned. Eventually it can even become boring. Just start slow and push yourself.

You can talk about anything. Girls actually don't give a shit. Just make yourself laugh. There's no secret words or codes you can use, and even trying to find it will make you fail.

Also stop taking rejection as a failure. Don't have a yes to no response ratio of women that you've asked out. The ratio doesn't matter. It's getting result in the end even if you get rejected 10000 times. A guy who's tried that many times and got a date is better than a guy who has never tried at all, no excuses.

Schedule attempts per week for yourself, like 3 approaches. You can do it all in one day or spread it out, and reward yourself if you achieve it. If just doing it is reward enough in itself, great.

It's scary, and there's no way around that. You just have to man up and do it.

>posts pic related
>wonders why he's a virgin

sigh...

A dyel alpha is going to get pussy a thousand percent more often than a musclebound beta. Do you know why? It's because the alpha makes shit happen and doesn't derp around in lala land thinking that lifting heavy shit makes them sexually desirable. Knowing they're sexually desirable makes them sexually desirable. Pheromones, homie. If you go around being internally a beta, then your body is going to send out signals that you're a beta and bitches won't want shit to do with you because you're poor breeding stock.

Didn't work reeeee

What do you talk about with them, I know people who speak with girls 24/7, what the fuck can they talk about all the time?

so you are saying that i was never supposed to be breed? makes sense, but i how do i stop my yearning?

wtf supermang

Accept that there's never any good topic to start out with. Just go up and say a funny line that legitimately makes you laugh inside, or just be honest and say you think they're cute and you want to get to know them.

At that point, ask an open ended question about something you legitimately care about. Ask if they like what you like, or make a comment about the situation.

You don't have to talk like a complete stud for 10 minutes straight and hit every single note. Talk for a minute and get her number. You don't have to be anywhere near perfect. There are gorgeous girls that rarely get asked out in person because people are so afraid. You can be part of the top % of guys that can get gorgeous girls without being genetically blessed.

Also know your goals. If you just want to have sex, you don't need to have a deep connection. If you want to find a girl you can get into a relationship with, stop talking to her if she becomes uninteresting.

Make the situation within YOUR control. Make jokes that you laugh at. Talk about things you want to talk about. Talk to girls that you want to talk to.

With all this, just don't make it complicated. The golden rules are 1.) Go for it. and 2.) Have fun with it.

Drink some fucking juice instead of that chemistry experiment and maybe you'd have enough strength to beat Sweden in ice hockey.

You gotta do it for more than 2 hours.

Just use tinder
> that pic tho

fucking sauce NOW

There's a lot more where that came from

It's too late for you. You've already seen 2D. To get IRL girls you have to actually approach them and court them, at which point it will become obvious that all of them are vapid, lazy, and care about nothing. Hollow on the inside.

>If you go around being internally a beta,
How do you change that?
I am deeply insecure and hate myself, also I'm ugly in the face so I know I'm not desirable. Lifting didn't help so far.

maybe thats why you cant get laid? you fucking weirdos

As if girls know about that shit unless you tell them.

>I'm ugly in the face so I know I'm not desirable
get plastic surgery then.

Not gonna happen for another 4 years minimum. I can barely afford to eat and go to school.

True. But then again, most people into degenerate stuff like this or worse arent exactly guys going through dozens of girls a year. Id wager most people who get off to weird fetishes are virgins, at least on this board.
So there seems to be a positive correlation between weirdo shit and virginity.
What was their first, being weird or a virgin? Did one influence the other?

there

Being weird obviously led to being a virgin, as well as to jacking off to tentacle porn, but jacking off to tentacle porn does not lead to being a virgin.

I'm not a virgin, but I think if I was attractive and sexually healthy I wouldn't have any of my sick fetishes.

Yeah im pretty vanilla, just like rough sex but the standard kind. No bdsm shit, humiliation or whatever. Most girls are really into it, so its a win-win
I know some friends who were already into anime when they were younger, like 12-13 years old. One has a girlfriend now, the other one is irredeemable I guess. Havent spoken to him in years
Another perfectly normal friend of mine like mutilated girls, like without hands or feet. He enjoys their positivity, having it very hard in life but being happy in spite of their shortcomings. He has fucked around 30-40 girls. Dunno what my point actually
Have you tried to stop watching porn? I jerk off but havent watched porn in 7-8 months now. Dont miss it at all

I don't even like anime actually, but I do like hentai and all that weird shit.

I haven't jerked off or watched porn in around 2 months, and when I do watch it or jerk off it's like once a month usually, if even that, and yet my tastes haven't changed much since I started watching porn at around 5 years old. I can still get off to vanilla stuff or even my imagination, but the fetishes are always there.

>no beer

Well there's your problem.

It's basically impossible for young people to socialize in this country if you aren't drinking.

>tfw no miko gf

I'm attractive and sexually healthy. I whack it to chicks peeing. Shit happens.