Okay Veeky Forums, I need some feedback on a situation that just happened.
>tinder date with girl, pretty qt, okay body
>end up going back to my place
>sex was good, her hygiene not so much, but whatever
>we get on really well, not sure I really want to date her after this, but going with the flow
>two days later she comes over for a booty call
>condom comes off when I cum, so it gets stuck inside her. Awkward as fuck
>she has to take the morning after pill. I offer to pay for it, doctors consultation, whatever she needs, she says its cool
>get a terrible sleep, so exhausted the next day, also still quick panicked from the risk of having got a girl pregnant, as she wasn't on anything.
>realise I don't really want a gf at all, and I need to get my own shit together before I can commit to anything, feel bad for kind of looking for a hookup initially
>today we talk, she took the pill etc so all good
>be honest with her that I thought she was nice but I'm not looking for a relationship atm, so I felt it was best to end it sooner rather than later
>she calls me a douchebag, says it's a big dick move to do this while she's feeling shitty with the pill (apparently it brings on really bad periods), and that she's seen this before with guys who freak out after the condom breaks or whatever
>tried to do the right thing by ending it before we got attached, ended up feeling like a piece of shit
I'm pretty sleep-deprived still, and the panic of having potentially impregnated her might have impaired my decision-making, but did I make a bad call here?
My reasoning was that if I waited a few weeks until she felt better, it'd be the same result but we'd have spent a lot more time together, so it'd be worse breaking up with her- this way we broke up before anything serious started, so minimal damage to both parties.
Now I feel like I may have panicked and done it too soon. I knew I didn't want to date her, but should I have held on for a better time?
