If anyone could help, it's you guys

So I just had sex for the first time in 2 years and I kept losing my erection during the act. She was mildly attractive, but chubby so it was hard to fully penetrate her.

Do you guys have any tips or exercises so I can keep it up longer?

How old are you?

Stop watching porn

Also, how often do you watch porn and how hard do you squeeze your penis when masturbating?

lol your dick is small

>stop watching porn

Kegals and oysters breh

I'm 22 sadly

I've watched porn for 13 years straight, and have jerked off almost everyday if not every other day at least once

Sadly yes at 5 in. So I need a way to compensate somehow

Also she said she's bi and had never taken a man before.

>She was mildly attractive, but chubby

Yeah I've got some advice, aim to fuck women you're actually attracted to.

Save that smoke some marijuana before the act. Works wonders. Gets you out of your head. Increases sensitivity. Just good shit.

Cialis. Don't fuck around making excuses, it's a medical condition. You have muscles that are too tense to let blood flow to your dick. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Don't listen to this loser unless you REALLY think the extreme porn you're getting into is becoming necessary to cum. Masturbating 1-2 times a day is totally natural. Watching porn isn't evil. It can desensitize you and that's something to keep in mind and cutting back can help. But don't demonize porn. Plenty of people watch porn and can still keep it up. Just ask a doctor, dude. Or google around then order Cialis from a canadian pharmacy

Maybe stop jerking your dick 12 times a day.

Kegels.

lmao

To add to that Cialis isn't right for everyone, so try Viagra and Levitra as well. I tried Viagra but it gave me headaches and congestion. Cialis makes me a tiny bit congested but no headache, and it lasts 36 hours instead of like, 4 for viagra. I only took 5mg Cialis every other day and that was enough for me, I get hard easily but it goes away easy too. Now they are much more persistent! Work out an order of powdered Tadalafil from a reputable chinese lab and you'll have a lifetime supply for a couple hundred bucks. (check steroid forums, those guys give themselves ED and have to treat it)

>Tadalafil
where do you buy yours from

>You have muscles that are too tense to let blood flow to your dick.
You could have just had a bad night, it happens. But if you notice being a problem multiple times, then talk to your doctor. This is a real medical problem that isn't you're fault. There are muscles that control blood flow to your dick, and if you are anxious they can get tight and restrict blood flow to your dick. Even without anxiety, in some people it just tenses up. They invented drugs to loosen these muscles. Take advantage of them.

darknet, but the prices aren't great. Been reading that canadian pharmacies are the way to go

>stop using steroids

canadian pharmacies as in driving up to canada to buy them?

Before you turn to drugs, try a cock ring. Don't have it on beyond 30 minutes, because its basically restricting blood flow to an extent and keeping the blood in your penis for longer periods of time; which leads to hardness and girth.

If you go down this path understand that it doesn't go on your penis as much as it wraps your balls and penis at its base. The idea is to pinch it at base to retain all the blood within the organ until you finish. That said, sex on average lasts for only around 8-12 minutes unless you have insane stamina in which case it can go for longer but still less than 30 minutes.

All the male porn stars have some of the the best dick genetics on the planet, attempting to compete with them is an exercise in futility--so I wouldn't even try, because that affects confidence and nervousness.

If you don't want to go down this path, cut back on the number of times you watch porn/masturbate a week to once every 3 days instead of every day, multiple times. Also DO FUCKING CARDIO. Cardio releases: Epinephrine, Norepinephrine; both involved in generating energy in your body. It also releases testosterone and human growth hormone. All of this makes you horny. Then, instead of blowing your load early; save and go.

Most importantly, chemistry is just as important. If you have good chemistry with a girl aka you want to breed her, your dick will get much harder than just fucking any random girl. Finally, diet, sleep and water intake all are just as significant factors necessary to maintain a good erection and being able to perform.

Your biggest issue is that you've basically gotten into the mentality of getting off to roid cocks devastating porn star pussy--& even if you don't actively think it, are subconsciously wishing to be able to do the same; but you're not them, and its something that you might be able to do if you had sexy every day/other day for months on end. But out of the gate, no sir.

Step back, change habits, slow and steady.

How about you fuck someone that turns you on?
If you cant find someone that turns you on stop watching porn for a while.

Yeah porn is a lie. When I was a teenager, I thought I could fuck anything I wanted to. When I finally improved myself to be able to attract tons of different sexual partners, the only girl I've ever actually successful maintained an erection to have sex with was my childhood friend with whom we have each other our virginities back in high school.

Porn was a mistake. Even with money and aesthetics I don't have the heart to be Chad because I don't got the dick to get hard to Stacey. I'm a pair bonding faggot Brian and all I need is my plain dorky Jane.

>Also she said she's bi and had never taken a man before.
shes actually gay and you probably shouldn't date here. this isn't gonna work out.

I'm in the same boat as you OP. Sex in the first time in a while that wasn't an escort, couldn't get it up (after fucking her the night before), and couldn't get it up the entire weekend I was with her. I decided to order some Cialis, but in my case I noticed I couldn't even get hard for 1-2 days after (basically couldn't hold a boner from Sat - Wed)., even from normal porn.

When I finally did get hard, I broke and fapped, even though I'd be seeing her again tomorrow - really hopes my Cialis is delivered by then.

I should note that when I did finally get hard I was taking 500mg Vitamin C and 50mg Zinc per day. You can easily get this OTC at CVS. As for Cialis (or Viagra), you should check the /fraud/ thread.

Also didn't help that she was a dead fish compared to the escorts I've fucked.

This is actually a huge dilemma to me. On one hand she's my best friend, I want to spend so much time with her, and I can see myself with her. On the other hand I can't tell if I'm sexually attracted to her, she gives terrible blowjobs, and escorts and strippers have spoiled me.

I constantly tell her to bite me hard (I have an oral fixation, I was a thumb sucker for a long time, and I would eat her ass if she would let me), but she doesn't cause she's scared she will hurt me (thats the point).

>Do you guys have any tips
have sex with a woman you are actually emotionally invested in

>chubby
why are u banging fat girls, op? that's not good for anyone.

Thanks everyone I appreciate it. This advice and talking bit with my uncle helped.

Just for closure, I'm not dating her, we agreed with a friends with benefits deal, cock ring may work for now,less porn should help, cardio helps me, and now that I've gotten past just trying to get laid, I can find someone who gets my motor going. Also I'm not going to take any meds and see how that goes.

Thx Veeky Forums I appreciate the advice. I knew i could count on you gnite

Maybe someone here can help me, too.

Was prescribed stims and they broke my dick, completely. I was on them from April 2014 until August 2015 and in spite of not being on them for two years my dick is still broken. I've only within the last few months regained somewhat of ability to get an erection when I go to bed and really think about it (I have to think about getting an erection now whereas it used to be I had to think not to get one).

Trouble getting hard, staying hard, not being as hard as was, leaking semen the second I'd go to wank, not ejaculating as much as I used to (sometimes I honestly have to look to find if I have ejaculated anything), semen dribbling out as opposed to shooting, not lasting long and a massive decrease in both libido and pleasure. Genitals look smaller, I feel numb down there. I stopped producing smegma for the longest time and it only starts up irregularly.

Since April 2014 I've woken with morning wood a handful of times and had no wet dreams, (stims destroyed my ability to dream, I used to lucid dream every night) I used to have wet dreams often (once had two in the same night when I was around 24). When getting off the stimulants my prostate/testicles ached so bad I had to go to the doctors. They said my prostate was fine.

I have a varicocele which is apparently benign (so says the public heath system. GP said he couldn't feel it, second doctor felt it instantly...) but I didn't feel it while on the stims and certainly did feel it getting off them.

I have felt/believed for sometime that I'm blocked up down there, urethra doesn't open like it used to. I can kinda feel it, don't feel 'open' like I did and even erections feel 'cramped' 'blocked' kinda. Think it's stricture of some sort.

Test came back two years ago at 24.2 (about 706 ngl). I thought this was a bit low but, considering I was in the midst of a heavy depression (partly caused by my sexual dysfunction) I thought it made sense.

Stop watching porn
Don't fap for 90 days
Improve your self-esteem (read: work out)

Worked for me, and I used to have serious ED problems for most of my 20s

Stop jerking off everyday, or if you where drunk maybe you got whiskey dick, But probably the former.

If she's hard to penetrate she's far past chubby m9

Stop masturbating. It's not a fucking joke

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Don't fuck land whales and you should be fine