/saturday feels thread/

You can pretty much cure anything nowadays with some antibiotics apart from herpes and HIV. HIV is extremely rare to catch via vaginal sex, and herpes infects something like a third of the population and doesn't even display systems for the majority of those infected unless the immune system is being compromised. It's worth the risk, and I always wrap my shit up of course. Never go in bareback that shit is not worth it by any means.

Chat her up

>Don't be insecure about your gf, that's how you get cheated on.

I guess, the thing is that her ex often hang out at the same places and it just makes me feel, the fact that the people in her friend groups fuck each other quite often is also not helping.

>did you break it off on good terms?
She was my first gf and I went completely emotionally codependent on her. She made the relationship a fucking horror in some places when it came to my feelings, but that might be cause I suspect that she has mild autism or something.
It wasn't really good terms though, I felt devastated for like 2 months.

>Just make sure you aren't going to fall apart man
I feel like I wont, the thing is I forget pretty much all of the 6 months we we're together and with that even the good and bad. I'm indifferent to her now (she's my classmate though), but I'm scared some bad feelings could ruin my week, but with all this in mind I still think about texting her every night for about a week, just to fucking learn about the relationship one last time.

I probably will

>I guess, the thing is that her ex often hang out at the same places

There's nothing you can do to control her my man, if you try and do that she will definitely cheat. If she goes off and fucks her ex anyways, well then just drop her and move on to the other one. Thots are gonna be thots.

As for your ex, get that much needed closure user. Especially if it was your first serious relationship, it's important to iron everything out in your head and move on completely. Good luck m8, don't take the tricks girls play into your head. Most of the time they don't even know what they are doing.

>in a relationship
>gf probably cheating on me
>didn't ask her
>chat her like 2 times
>she wants some time
>feelsbad
should i dump her?

You're right. By the way I don't try to control my GF in any way, just letting her do her thing, and yeah, you're completely right.
Regarding the closure, I'll muster up some courage and text her, she might have me blocked or something though, so maybe I'm stressing over nothing.

if she is making you feel like shit then yes. you deserve better then that

Nigga im fucking dying here...mentally.
I am on a 20 day streak of no fap and the urge has come back full force.I also don't play video-games anymore(havent played for at least 3 months).
Now what has happened today was that my relatives came to visit me (im now in uni) and i didnt have time to study in the morning.I have a test that covers 150 pages in 4 days.
I kept wasting my time and now im fucking pissed at myself,i spend all day on this fucking site instead .
So now i am stessed out as fuck and this is the first time i realized why i watched porn in the first place.
I watched it to "check out" to feel nice and to stop worrying.To feel content.Even if i didn't do anything to deserve it.
>I had an amazing gym session yesterday though

>tfw still sore from my last arm day
>have another arm day today after lunch

god i love DOMs

Do you have an idea why your previous relationship didn't work out?
I'm in a similar situation, but it's to early to text my ex

I think it's because I fell deeply in love with her too soon, while for her it was just another relationship and that she wasn't actually in love with me. She was sending me mixed signals through all of the relationship, which none of my two close male and female friends understood (of course me neither). Yet she'd initiate stuff when I seemed to be close to ending the relationship. She was pretty much tormenting me, be it on purpose or not. Another thing to confuse me was the constant sex, which just didn't make sense considering she maybe wasn't even in love with me and I was far from attractive.

I still haven't texted her. I saw some of the last messages from the last conversation and they kinda made me mad.

>I kept wasting my time and now im fucking pissed at myself,i spend all day on this fucking site instead .

I feel you bro

Love of my life just re-entered my life two weeks ago after she saw how weight I've lost

Turned my life upside down bringing up all these feelings again. She wants to leave her husband, I know I need to stay away from her but I just feel possessed about her.

I bought a plane ticket to visit a city near her so if she is for real she will sneak away and see me, if she doesn't then I will know and I'll just focus on having fun in different place.

I date women all the time but she was really special to me, I wish i could turn these feelings off

>re entered after seeing all the weight I lost

Not gonna make it. Suddenly now you're good enough? Don't fall for the meme Bro, she only like your body

Are you me? It sounds very similar.
Maybe it would help you, if you text her.
But watch out, I think feelings like that can come back easily.
I can't imagine me talking with her this year, without my feelings coming back.

Not texting her doesn't really impact my life in anyway, but as I've mentioned multiple times I've got this itch to talk to her and close things off, but I'm scared of all the crazy feeling, which I've forgot, coming back, like you've said and it possibly impacting the self-betterment journey I've set out to, or my current relationship, basically everything a depression episode could fuck up.

In what way are our relationships similar? I was certain that this was a unique shitfest of a relationship and no other could ever come close.

Sounds amazing but also she’s probably a sloot :/

> set PRs on weighted pull up and dips (30kg and 75kg)
> feeling more motivated and full of purpose
> thanks to this adding weight to lifts I stalled for a long time
> feeling stronger
> soon to be 22 year old KHV

It's weighing down on me man. It might be too late for me. pic related

You're down with fucking another man's wife? If she does it for you she'll do it for someone else. That's how it is man

Bad.

I don't want to let my friends know, but to be honest I just don't talk to anybody anymore.
Skipped the gym so I could catch up on school work, but I need up just staring at a wall in a brain fog.

I got nothing going for me, and everything I do lately I don't care about. Can't bring myself to care.

Is he going to marry a dead chick?

>fed up with being treated like a pice of shit and being abandoned by people on regular basis
>nobody says it out loud but I bet it's because I'm badly out of shape
>had an awesome GF who just "stopped being romantically attracted to me"
>cut calories intake by A LOT
>make some DIY lifting tools since I'm too shy and autistic to even order real ones online
>not following any real "plan" since I need extreme variety of exercises or I will get bored soon
>sometimes I run sometimes I lift sometimes I cycle
So far I've lost like 7kg and I feel a lot better. Hope I'll make it. Figured I can always neck myself if I fail.

>Saturday feels

Depression is hitting me again

Not sure what to do, I don't workout anymore and I just want to go one day
Everytime I go i have a good workout

I just dont get out of the house anymore, cant seem to get my mind on track to better myself

I've done this before, I have become so weak these days...

>really good looking guy
>was shy and played too much WoW when a teen
>lost all my friend from school
>don't really have any now
>no social circle
>never go out
>really hard to make friends at this point
>girls always miring and staring anywhere I go
>happens in the gym all the time
>don't wanna start trying to chat up random girls in public as it seems weird
>loads of matches on Tinder
>currently have 90 notifications on it
>never met a single one as still kinda shy and would rather it be someone that I kinda know
>getting drunk alone tonight

Fucking state of me HAHA

If there's anything you HAVE TO make yourself do, it's go work out.

It's a mini thing you can accomplish and it beats sitting at home.

I understand you user. It doesn't feel like it will get any better, but you have to hold out to see if it will.

Im pretty much in the same boat. Ive just learned to enjoy being with myself. Getting really into reading has helped me. Also speaking of WoW, you looking forward to the classic relaunch?

I'm gonna stay away from it even though I would really like to play as I was fucking addicted to WoW a good few years back. Now I'm getting older I don't play videogames as much but I still like to play Overwatch quite a bit

>classic relaunch
wait, are they making legacy servers or what?!

I havent played any games for about a year so far, thanks linux, but man I know I wont be able to keep myself away. Played WoW for about 10 years, so trust me my dude I know that feeling of addiction. For some reason I think I'll be able to handle myself.

Yeah man, at Blizzcon they announced official classic server. Won't be out for at least a year though

WoW runs out of the box on WINE with the same fps and all

t. I play it

oh wow, well, that's something to look forward to

Just get an escort like I did
It will remove the layer of mystic from sex

Current WoW just doesnt grab me at all anymore and I was never a fan of private servers. But thats nice to know, hopefully thats the same for classic relaunch; id hate to dual boot

Well Vanilla worked ever since I can remember so if they don't fuck it up it should be cool.

>machine next to one where a girl is working out
>she seems excited when I move to it
>smiles and looks me directly into the eyes when I am doing a set
Now I can sleep in peace, this is a huge advancement

>tfw it’s been a week since my gf broke up with me

Sucks desu, but using this to get big

Got 2 tests on Monday but I don’t feel stressed about them which is nice. I feel like I know the material except some small things that I still have time to look over. I’m just extremely happy that Thanksgiving break is next week, I can’t wait to see my family. Just got to make it through these 2 exams and it’ll be smooth sailing. Fitness wise cut is going well, lost 24 lbs since I started in August, feel great, looking a lot better. Lifts are pretty much the same but I don’t mind. Social life is going well, have some really great friends here at uni, we’re going to see a movie tonight. Started talking to girls more to try and get social gains, stepping out of my comfort zone a bit. Just small stuff but it’s more then I’ve ever done before. Overall life is looking up bros. Schools getting me down a bit with how much I feel like I picked the wrong major but I feel like it’ll workout for some reason. Not worrying about it though. Just trying to make it through today. Keep at it bros. Life is a present. Love you guys.

Nah man, I don't if they are that similar. But there are some similarities, like the urge to have a closure and things like that.

I normally wouldn't bro, but fuck I wish i could turn these feelings off.

It seem they were seperated for a while so far, he even had another girlfriend.

>have ex fwb of 18 months
>moved for final 9 months of school. 4 months later
>frequent nude skype sessions
>she gets a bf 6 weeks ago, no more nudes
>realized i wanted her as my gf
>last week tell her i want her as my woman
>rejected with "sorry, i can't. I'm in a deep relationship with this guy, we've even talked marriage"
I've been no contact for a week, and feeling a lot better about the situation. I'll be home in 3 months, and see if i can steal her back. This video helped put a lot of things into perspective! If you had a recent breakup, give this a listen
youtube.com/watch?v=ewafMrJCe1I

For anons that were cheated on:
youtube.com/watch?v=5QYxuGQMCuU

i just want to hold a girl tight against my body and feel like that she wouldn't rather be any place else

Moving towards darker times up here in the north so my mood tend to be pretty low. I'll live.

Want this feeling again, user.

There's a reason she is your ex. Don't be that guy.

Supposed to have a Netflix date tonight from Tinder but she isn’t responding to my message. Hoping she doesn’t cancel, already rescheduled once. Fucking roasties.

Which girl should I text to try to do something with tonight?

A: qt Russian exchange girl. Tbh, I like her the most (pretty, funny, smart), however, I'm not sure she sees me as more than a friend.

B. Blonde girl. Not the prettiest, but she made out with me at a party. However, she didn't respond when I tried to text to try to go out.

C. Tinder slampig.

>inb4 "text the one you actually like"

I'm worried about weirding her out if I blow up her inbox like an Indian dude.

The reason we weren't official is because i didn't tell her my feelings. She wanted us to be a couple and has had a crush on me for 6 years, but i thought she was 40 lbs too heavy to publicly state she's my gf. Otherwise she'd be mine, and i wouldn't be on this iranian basket weaving forum. If only i told her my feelings of wanting her, or if she lost that damn weight so i can proudly tell my parents this is my woman. Her rebound guy is a pretty pathetic version of me, she told me this. And she even told her bf about me from the beginning, she told him i'm way more handsome than him and he was jelly. Their relationship doesn't look like it'll last, and i'm hopeful to get her back. Bitch is mine

Take A

Try something with A, if it fails and you still want to get laid this night, pumpndump C.

Dont do anything with B. She has literally ghosted you when you tried to get more. She's a confirmed party thot

Always go with Slavic girls

>tfw grandad is 185cm
>tfw uncle is 180cm
>tfw dad is 173cm
>tfw I am 166cm because my mom enforced a strict diet on me nor encouraged any gym exercise
>tfw gym

Being a manlet is exhausting. I'm only proud of my frame and my back, I have broad shoulders from swimming since I was little

It was an OK week.

>Attended gym every single day I was supposed to. French class too.
>Met British chick on Sunday, we fugged on Monday and Tuesday, then she flew off because her holiday was over. Feces was very affluent.
>Arranged for an interview with a new company, money will hopefully be better so I can move out finally.
>Driving lessons start on Monday, I want to get that license as soon as possible.

Problems that I would like advice with:

>Stalling on the heavier lifts (deadlift, etc). I will focus on eating more, sleeping better, is there anything else I need to know?
>Cheating ex sent message today wanting to meet up to "catch up". How do I best handle this?
>Friends will be leaving in a few short days for a long time. How do I best deal with the solitary blues?

Keep on doing these things mate, and keep a journal. You will understand its importance once you start with it.

There is no special secret to talk to girls. Actually text the one you like, it will come natural to you. Post reply with screenshot.

Fucking phone

*didn't enforce a diet

*gyno

The only thing that keeps me motivated is when I see even shorter guys or fatasses with their girlfriends. If they made it, so can I.

I just want to go outside, but I have nothing to do outside and nowhere to go

I don't know anyone here, I have no dog, I really have nothing in life right now except wealth

>Cheating ex sent message today wanting to meet up to "catch up". How do I best handle this?
Delete
Ignore
Blacklist
>Friends will be leaving in a few short days for a long time. How do I best deal with the solitary blues?
Stay in contact but not too much, try to find new people in that new job you're gonna get

How do I know if I should break up with my gf? I can't decide for the life of me.

Just for a walk mate, no music, no looking at your phone, just focus on your breathing, it's great you'll see

Brother just left to the Military. What do bros? He's literally been by my side for 18 years and he's just gone. He should be in Montreal now going to Quebec. Cried for a solid hour. Pouring one out for him and the brave fallen men today.

I can't do it man

there's people outside walking their dogs, the only time I can go outside and not worry what people think about me is 11pm at night after /I've drank a fifth of liquor and go walking around the streets alone
I have no dog, I have no friends, there just is nothing for me in this world

I wasn't made for a world like this, I have been alone tooo long

when you think of her what emtions do you feel?

>the only time I can go outside and not worry what people think about me is 11pm
Nobody gives a fuck and neither should you

go buy a dog

Get a dog. Take up 3 gun.

Become the John Wick you always wanted to be.

> Got a gf, well paid job, an apartment, an ottermode body, and all material possessions that I currently want.
> Still empty.

I would have probably killed myself already if I wasn't a coward faggot.

not good right now... not good.

we just moved in together and now im having second thoughts

im afraid of being alone though. ;_;

i would prefer loneliness to being with someone that makes me miserable

>Keep on doing these things mate, and keep a journal. You will understand its importance once you start with it.
Anything specific I should put in it?

>There is no special secret to talk to girls. Actually text the one you like, it will come natural to you. Post reply with screenshot.

I just feel a little weird sending an unsolicited "wanna meet up at [x local restaurant or bar] around y time?"

Should I try to go with a bro, so it isn't just me alone?

Cheers mate. We'll definitely keep in touch. Problem with the new job is that it will be work-from-home. I'll be probably hitting the bars though, chat up strangers I find interesting.

Your thoughts. It's how I started.

(Not him)
You would think that, though.
But for me, the idea or concept of someone to possibly change - or something external to change trumps my own ability to change.
It's like a projection of guilt. If you "decide" to cut contact or end a relationship or something else, you choose the outcome. If you bargain and work in conjunction with someone for a result, it's only partially on you when the outcome is bad (for you).

It's a bizarre mix of emotions and truly a modern mans issue. Low T and inability to say "fuck this" doesn't help.

Remember

>Your thoughts. It's how I started.
Dunno if I wanna keep my autism written down.

Put it this way. Once autism is written down, autism has evaporated from system. Then it builds back up. Then you write again and flush the autism. How do you think poets and people who use logic to write started off? I'm not saying you'll be a poet, but writing is one of the first things a human did once he figured out he could put down his thoughts on something more solid than speech or brain.

Don't go with a bro, it will be even weirder. Keep the spaghetti in neat containers inside your pockets so it doesn't spill. Your "meet up at x/y/z place?" message won't be unsolicited if you have already got a conversation rolling.

>broke through OHP plateau
>new squat PR
>invited a childhood friend to visit a museum tomorrow morning
>from her texts, she actually seems excited
How do I initiate and seal the deal?

>Don't go with a bro, it will be even weirder. Keep the spaghetti in neat containers inside your pockets so it doesn't spill. Your "meet up at x/y/z place?" message won't be unsolicited if you have already got a conversation rolling.

I appreciate it. Between my own spaghetti and some circumstances beyond my control, I've only now started getting any attention from women at 21.

Started a month and a half ago. Shed tons of weight and gained so much strength, endurance and core stability. I have an insane amount of energy to deal with whatever bullshit life throws

Now I can't function if I'm not in the gym 5 days a week. I count calories and macros like nobody's business. I went through the supermarket and felt like the guy from They Live with the glasses on, everything looked like shit except actual healthy food.

If I'm bored I go on Veeky Forums to laugh my ass off at ostrich and bloatmaxx memes

Feels fucking amazing man

Seriously you can do a lot better in terms of your hair and facial hair. Get some sun, too.

All in on A, but don't push it too hard. Fuck B, go for A, dump a load in C if it doesn't work out. B sounds like a cunt.

It might be worth visiting/moving to the areas of the US that have a significant population of East Euros or Slavs to see if you can form a connection there or to visit East Euro just to see how much you would even like it. You might also find that the East Euro US enclaves might be more like yourself and accepting of who you are than the people in your ancestral homeland. Either way, good luck on overcoming it, user.

OK, I'll try to do so. I gave photography as a coping mechanism but I think I'll find time for a journal too...

I put 3 scoops of creatine in the same glass and its sooooooooooooooooooooo gross.

I can choke down shitty shakes all day but this lads..

>i've been on this website for 7 years and I'm only taking weightlifting serious now

>mystic
take an English class

>fatty neck's himself
>rope snaps

He let me go

I kno. Better use that iron wire.

Going on a date for the first time in over a year.

I don't even know what she looks like. Friend of a friend set it up.

>Last number in this post determines her score out of 10.

>"FeeIs" garbage
>Non fit posting

Um, no :)

>Saged, repoted

Congratz on hooking up with aids infested hag u fucking idiot

That thread still on?

There is this one girl at university, and I just can't get her out of my head the last couple of days

>see her at the library sometimes
>we smile at each other
>even saw her on a long distance bus, she was a friend
>too autistic to engage in a short conversation,although there would have been an opportunity
>didn't see her for a while after that
>saw her again on tuesday or wednesday
>she was talking to the receptionist at the library
>big smile when she saw me

I only ever see her there. Don't know anything about her whatsoever. Problem is I'm not even at the university that much because I only have my thesis left. What do? Bums me out,feel like I lost a good opportunity