>gf constantly complains about wanting to lose weight >try to take her running but she just complains the whole time >try to get her to eat less but she just eats whatever she wants all the time eg glasses of milk with every meal despite me telling her that it's like adding 500 extra calories to her daily intake >still complains that it's impossible for her to lose weight despite not doing anything that would actually make her lose weight
how the fuck do i deal with this?
btw she's not fat, she's 147lbs at 5'9
Isaiah Taylor
drop her
Lincoln Harris
my gf is the same bro. We started on a weight loss journey together, I've lost 25kg and she has lost less than 5kg.
Aiden Miller
>try to take her running but she just complains the whole time
fuck running, get her on SS or SL.
have a t-rex gf.
Ayden Perry
>The complaint of straight men everywhere since time immemorial Honestly bro get her a female pt or a (not hotter than you, possibly gay) nutritionist and pt. She'll listen to them because they're not you.
She's a girl, which means she secretly thinks that you're with her because she tricked you, which must mean that you're an idiot, so why ever take your advice on anything? Every female has this perception.
Josiah Campbell
why should he get her a PT when PTs dont actually do anything useful? complete waste of money
Hudson Fisher
True, actually. I guess I mean a coach or something, like a masters league running or swimming club. The point is that she'll never listen to him because she thinks he must be stupid because he finds her attractive.
Alexander Powell
drop her lad
Jaxson Miller
You can't fix stupid, OP.
Aiden Sanders
>She's a girl, which means she secretly thinks that you're with her because she tricked you, which must mean that you're an idiot, so why ever take your advice on anything? Every female has this perception. I never heard this before but it makes complete sense
Henry Perry
have you guys ever wondered the kind of bottom barrel girls that Veeky Forums guys would have as their girlfriends?
Jace Thompson
>add an alpha, domineering voice in her life
lmao OP, good luck getting cucked by her "totally gay" black boyfriend in a few months if you do this. Assert yourself or get cucked.
Cameron Ortiz
My girlfriend has been "starting her diet tomorrow" for two years.
Jacob Wilson
Her not liking running doesnt mean she hates all exercise, it means she doesn't like running.
That being said, if she doesn't care enough to do any work then she's just going to keep complaining. Keep helping her until something clicks or dump her if it's driving you crazy.
Cooper Jenkins
talk to her make her water fast use the dread game if you get that desperate
Caleb Barnes
GIRL Here
This is complelty false, I actually find it hard to trust trainers and I think they’re idiots but if my bf who lifts tells me what to do ofc I’ll listen to him, he doesn’t want my money like trainers he wants what’s best for me
Seriously, get off r9k
Mason Lewis
I'm so sorry to have to tell you this, but Veeky Forums is pretty much /r9k/ with "What lift should I do?" tacked on to the misogyny.
Ethan Long
>She'll listen to them because they're not you.
>tfw gf is like this >Have to tell her 'I told you so' again and again >'user why are always right!' >Still continues to ignore my advice
Jordan Thomas
Stop nagging her, you're not her mother. Just put in the effort you're willing and when it gets to be too much (which it seems like it has), then stop wasting your energy on it. Make it clear that you are happy and willing to help and that she's welcome to ask for advice or help. Then find something better to do with your time until she decides she's ready to make a change, or you decide to move on. It's ezpz bro.
Aaron Harris
given that about half the people on here dont even lift anymore it might aswell be /r9k/ just a bunch of faggots complaining they cant get a girl because their eyes arent at the right angle or some shit.
Liam Diaz
your gf presumably isn't making any attempts to cure you from being a dumb gay frogposter so you should follow her example and do nothing
Austin Ramirez
this. also OP, she is not even overweight. she should not be losing weight. wtf. her complaining means she is not getting enough attention from you. childish? yes. overweight and needing to lose weight no. also, you are a complete fag for making this thread.
Lucas Cruz
My ex would never take advice from me on things im an expert in. Instead she asked complete clueless idiots (female friends) who gave absolute shit advice. I guess this is the reason.
Henry Lopez
>Triggered b a cartoon frog
Back to >Reddit mate.
Luke Cruz
Stop lying, you've been found out.
Dominic Jackson
As a PT I dispute this.. Pay me money pls.
95% of my job is motivating someone.. it's a shame, I got into this to work alongside people who love weightlifting as much as me, but all I get to work with is the elderly or severely overweight people..
Nolan Brown
Running is painful for fatties. Try more low impact or fun exercises with her. Also offer up an incentive if she loses the weight. Like a very expensive clothing item she can't yet fit or something else she really likes. Lately my catch phrase has been "bitches be shoppin" because I fucking love shopping and every woman I know loves shopping. We're very materialistic creatures. I'm a cgl crossboarder and if my boyfriend offered to lay down $300+ on some Japanese burando if I would wake up at 4 am and go running, I'd fucking do it.
Andrew Hernandez
DNP
Elijah Green
>she's not fat >she's 147lbs at 5'9
pick one
Levi Adams
>Using material goods to motivate fitness Neck yourself
Grayson Turner
>she's not fat, she's 147lbs at 5'9 HAHAHA
Hunter Lewis
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Blake Nelson
it really is, however the moral factor and security factor of them being there specifically for your needs, is met.
this is kind of like how people who just start working out join a gym. it's an excuse to workout. or how they buy into a ton of things surrounding working out. it's an excuse. but these choices we make can help us stick with becoming better looking and healthier. with this comes the understanding of what we really need, baseline, versus what we want to have which is merely relative to the baseline.
Camden Baker
T. Never been to r9k
Aaron Reed
Kill her
Dominic Cruz
Go get raped, roastie
David Cook
My gf is 150' at 5'2 and not fat It's all about dimensions with girls, especially if they got that godly fat ass gene
Asher White
Why don't you find a gf you actually like and share commonalities with in the first place? Is it because you're really desperate to get your dick wet so you'll fuck any willing wet hole and call it good? Ever hear the saying beggars cant be choosers? Get some standards and date someone who shares common interests in the first place and b.s. like this won't be an issue. If youre not good enough to have standards, then go work on yourself before taking it out on others .
Joshua Gonzalez
Sounds like you have some deep personal issues and could use a therapist (psychologist not psychiatrist) yourself
Owen Hall
So what's the excuse for all the BFS I've had that never listened to me or took my advice? The last one ended up with a stolen motorcycle because he decided to listen to his male friends over his gf.
Logan Morales
user if that makes sense to you, you should seek professional help
Leo King
>listening to a women >EVER Atleast you know your ex isn't some cuck
Brandon Brooks
I sure as fuck would never date a guy from Veeky Forums knowingly. Like 80% of you have shit personalities, and 99% are just physically ugly
William Wright
That's a healthy weight for someone that's 5'9 you retard. Have you ever actually looked at a medical bmi chart? Do you get your ideal weights from the covers of playboy? ( they lie btw). 5'9 is as tall as the average American male, if a guy said he weighed that much you'd claim Auschwitz. Seriously, go Google bmi charts and take a nice long gander you fucking moron. Meanwhile we have a 40% obeiseity rate in the population that's the real actual problem- but sure, sit there and call a healthy bmi fat, you retard
Dylan Martin
The motorcycle one is actually my current bf, and has said many times he should've listened to me and expressed that he was sorry for not listening to me. Since then he's actively tried to listen to me more and actually takes my advice sometimes. But a simple retard like you probably can't comprehend listening to another human- particularly a girl- and growing from listening to their advice. I pity you, simpleton >all those wrongful assumptions I'm sure you're used to doing that by now too
Jayden Martin
lol right, might want to get his test levels checked sweet heart.
Benjamin Campbell
How do you know what we look like? a girl browsing fit is 10x worse
Leo Campbell
She'd be called fat if she ever went to Korea or China
Blake Hughes
t. Insecure roastie cunt who knows he hit it on the head
Nolan Phillips
This right here. I NEVER trust a man who listens to women, he'll either be a backstabber or ultimately spineless.
Mason Allen
>She's a girl, which means she secretly thinks that you're with her because she tricked you