Take personal responsibility

Take personal responsibility
Do something that scares you
Make a damn schedule

Aight, thanks senpai

>Do something that scares you

This is something I forgot until recently. If you're always in your comfort zone, you'll always do the same things, and always get the same results.

Y-yes Peterson-sama.

schedules blow

Unironically good advice

It took me 6 month to muster up the courage to start bjj. I started 3 weeks ago and got invited to the bjj club Christmas party. How do I pretend to be a normie

I read it in his voice

Make the ideal you strive for what you could be, and compare yourself with who you were yesterday rather than who someone else is today.

that's what's good about lifting. You can NEET around all you want and still be a better person the next day. Checkmate prof

Watch them and imitate

What scary shit should I do bros?

The only things I can't think of are:
-Stop using shitty home gym and go to real one. (Anxious about locker room)
-Asking out a stranger

Anyone have anything else decent I could add to this?
I'll probably try the gym thing but the force of autism is too strong in me for the second, at least as I am now.

So do the same thing normies do?

Ask people about themselves, show interest.
You do it right all you have to do is smile and nod.

People like to talk about themselves.

Locker room is a non-issue. Just don't dawdle without your clothes on, no one wants to look at you anyways.

For #2 have you tried online dating? I'm an autist who'd probably shit myself if I had to ask out a girl in real life but I'm doing decently well on Tinder.

Anyone read his new book?

Just show up in your gear.
I walk to my gym in my gear no matter what the weather and I always wear shorts and vest (tank-top to Americans) because it hardens me up to the elements to walk there and back even in rain and snow, I even walked during a storm with unbelievable winds that were blowing manlets over.

Yeah but I'm concerned after the post workout shower.
It's a small thing since in some sense I know nobody cares, but I still can't help but be afraid.

fuck off with your memeteacher

Similar here but that's because I have this gnawing fear that I take showers the wrong way so anyone who saw me would laugh at me.

Right squatting 120kgx5 let's go

>take showers the wrong way
Explain?

>be genuinely interested in other people
>ask people questions about their interests
>leave the squat plug at home
>both arms in or both arms out, if you leave one arm behind you are going to be submitted

fag

>tfwiktf
:'(

Fuck you Jordan it's easy to point the finger when you are a well functioning normalfag

>dubs of good advice and self-improvement

>figure out what people like about you
>don't try to imitate someone else as your act will always fall short of the real thing leading to a self-fulfilling prophecy of being in the shadow of everyone
>don't pay attention to things that people don't like about you
>take that one thing that people like about you and make it part of your personality 100-fold
If people like that you're nice, exaggerate that.

e.g
""Nice"" guy- quiet and friendly to everyone
"Chad-nice" guy- unironically helps drunk people all the time, lends strangers stuff, offers people to ride in his car all the time, gives homeless person change, goes out of his way to be nice to everyone that it dominates everything else about your personality
(Obnoxiously nice and trusting)

It also took me some courage to give my first bj. Good on you.

Lmao what?

I can't think of anything I'm 'scared' to do just things I don't want to do