How is the vibe at your gym? Nearly every time I try to be social it ends up being so painfully awkward. Thing is it's been like that at every gym I've been to (commercial and college gyms) I'm aspie and a not so obvious phaggot, so no test filled ego though I'm decently strong, and I try to follow all the rules, yet people tend to be cold. Is it me or is that just the general gym vibe?
Disliked at your gym?
You probably just come off as a weirdo.
No offense.
Have you ever been approached by ANYONE? Male or female?
I made friends with tons of people all because they ask to work in and then I just converse from there. Otherwise I rarely go up to talk to anyone and I'm socially retarded most of the time. (Thanks gym pump)
dunno man I feel when people notice your consistency they start to like you. Even if your gym is packed, there's only half a dozen people at most that go at around the same time on the same weekdays without fail for months on end.
Who the fuck goes to the gym to socialize? The only person you should be looking at is you in the mirror.
how the fuck do YOU not come off as a weirdo being socially retarded? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I have the same as OP, I feel disliked
though people did come up to me to ask to work in many times
I don't want a deep life story, but even saying hi or something to someone I've talked to before tends to be super weird
Yeah good point, when people ask to work in it tends to be be an easy conversation, but it's the people that you see every day and you make eye contact and don't talk to until one day you kinda have to to stop the weird tension
>be newbie struggling to add plates on bb for deadlifts
>guy says “you know its a lot easier if you slip a 2.5lb underneath the plates that are already there”
>make a joke about how i was trying to make a one handed row exercise out of it
>we both laugh
>thank him for the tip
>continue workout
I go to my college gym and on the surface everyone looks pretty hostile but they are actually really cool and polite
Are you a chronically masturbating porn addict who also is looking up stuff that most normies if they saw it would think you're fucking sick in the head?
Didnt know this tip.
Thanks for sharing user.