Saturday Evening

Too bad it's the boards ruIes, and these threads aIways end up deIeted :)

>Saged, repoted

:)

I already watch corey wayne. I do the shit he talks about.

I dont over-text
I contact the women again a week later after they flake then drop them if they flake again
I dont become an emotional tampon

Ive watched 99% of his videos and it applying it in reality gives me limited success.

Janitors little helper does it for free, such a good boy yes he is... who's a good boy? You're a good boy yes you are

Just ordered food, feels like I'm under stress or something

I am autistic, an engineer, and never do anything other than work or go home/store

Cringe i know, but this weed is having me try new thiings in life

Hmm, when they flake... is this generally from a confirmation text? Seems weird, his videos and book changed my life

>holidays coming up
>still single

>holidays coming up
>single again

Girls from tinder usually just say they're not available or say they're ill or some shit or stop responding

The girl i was greentexting about has flaked on me 3 times not including this friday. After the second flake i left her to intiate contact and didnt text her and she did when i saw her and kissed her. she then flaked on me a third time which is when i told her we should stop seeing each other until she gets her shit sorted out. Telling her that was probably a bad move because it made me look kinda butthurt/needy i would think but like i said she seemed keen until she just began ignoring me.

pathetic

>have no friends, never do anything with anyone
>when late summer rolls around, i referee soccer on weekends through mid november
>be social there, know people, get exercise, earn money, etc
>today first saturday after season is over
>back to being in my room alone all day

sigh

I feel you senpai

>tfw used to go out most weekends with my bros
>they never want to do anything anymore
>sit at home thinking about what I want to do and end up doing nothing

>How y'all doing today?
I am doing good, just finished studying for the night. Plan on relaxing and getting some rest.
>Lifts going up?
Yeah, and the gains are coming with it too. Feels really good.
>Diet going strong?
Kinda haha not really ON a diet, just trying to eat a lot.
>>Feels feeling still there?
Oh yeahh. I pray this qt comes in tomorrow at my job. We've talked before, however I don't think I'll ever get to see her outside my job.

Feeling strong, sat at the dinner table eating chicken and rice at 1:00 am, while the gf sleeps.

o shit i see you in every feel thread. chin up mate at least your going out and putting yourself out there

Solid Saturday, lifts been goin up nicely and I'm hitting some goals I set for around thanksgiving weekend.
Coming home from uni on Tuesday, excited to see the senpai and my dog again

Clean your room user, in all seriousness. You'll feel better.

I developed a shoulder impingement and have not lifted in a solid month and feel so incredibly shitty. All my lifts were going up and I am starting a new job next week. But the past month I have been sitting around on Veeky Forums shitposting constantly and playing vidya. I have a doctor appointment Monday morning to get it checked out but I just feel down not going to the gym regularly.

I downloaded Tinder today and got a few matches. wat do

give me some retarded shit to say while I drink

Everything's gay since I went on a date with a girl last night and we hit it off but she said she's "polyamorous". Her cuck boyfriend is way up north so I might just bang her anyways and not really have a relationship. I really want to be in a loving relationship but this isn't going to be it.

>girl I had crush on isn’t into dating.
>it’s cool though. No hard feelings beyond a bit of disappointment.
>might still run with her some depending on how I feel
>OHP PR yesterday

Life’s going pretty good.

Also pls help me fit. I need to get laid

>recently have been doing good in the gym
>things have been going decent/good overall
>play football with friends over the weekend
>dive for a catch and land on my back-ish
>I think i messed up my back again (recently had surgery in May for a herniated disc)
>no gym for now, gonna rest since I'm in a lot of pain and think I ruptured another disc
>had to end things between this girl I was in love with because she didn't feel the same
>realized i'm absolutely shit with girls
>almost everyday at uni I eat by myself for lunch and dinner
>feel so alone
>and to make things worse
>last night I woke up crying because I had a dream about my dad (he passed away when I was a child)
>everything feels so bad and down

I don't know what to do. I can't even exercise because my back is in a lot of pain and it's affecting my right leg. why me

Trying to muster up the work ethic to finish my paper for uni

>have qt gf
>she loves me
>in love with her
>worships the ground I work on
>started dating a year ago
>feel us drifting further and further apart
>see her less and less
>im watching TCM at home and shitposting and being an insecure little bitch and overthinking our relationship
>shes gonna get off work and go to the bar with her work friends again
>at least i have running

"ay babe u wan sum fuk?"

what app is this

Bumble

black flag is a good band

T A L K T O H E R A B O U T I T

>PR'd front squats this morning
>came home to freshly baked banana bread and an omelette from the gf
>morning sex is best sex
>did some thrifting, found a $300 cashmere sweater for $5 bucks
>dog's blood test came back, his kidneys are perfect
>went and played some EDH with friends, won
>home now with gf, she's making turkey chili while I drink a beer, pet my dog, and shitpost

It's a good night, bois. I'm glad my crazy nights out are mostly behind me. Happier with who I am, now.

I have...it doesn't help. Or it does it at first, and then things just go right back to normal.

I'll never understand how someone can be so loving and giving and devoted and then be so detached and removed the next second. I've told her how I always feel like I'm number 2 to her, and she seems to get it, but it just doesn't change.

it doesnt make a difference that i "put myself out there" with it though. i know a lot of fellow referees and get along well with them but i never even communicate with any outside of the games i do with them

Chin up everybody
Your girl is out there
When you become the man she deserves, she will come into your life

>me, 25 year old autistic loser
>still live at home with parents because expensive here and also a loser
>mother goes out of town for weekend for work
>have to be at home with my father
>he's as much of a shut in as I am, never does anything on weekends and barely even leaves house (have never even seen him do a social activity with anyone besides my mother in my entire life)
>have to hear his constant criticism about how i have no friends and the constant degrading about it

at least my mom knows how much i hate myself as a person and doesnt bring it up. he just always has to say it, always shove it in my face, and he's too fucking autistic to see how much it pains me, so he continues to do it

another great saturday

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Have you tried a Chakra pad to ease it off? Always helps me when I fuck my back up

When you become the man women deserve you won't feel like you need a GF anymore.

Used to be the most beta incel on planet earth and after getting fit, social gains and job gains and fucking 20+ girls I am afraid I will never be able to settle down because I like being alone too much.

Can share stories if anyone's interested

I'm starting to feel the same, go ahead.

I don't know what that is, you mean like a heating pad?

>long distance relationship
>gf loves me more than i deserve, talks to me all day everyday, wants to skype for as long as possible whenever possible, sends letters/gifts by mail
>i love her too, serious wife material
>rarely ever get sex, only when i get to visit her
>want to do nofap but it only increases my urge to cheat

why ldr?

My fuckin gym bro keeps making excuses to not come with me. I think he's intimidated by me because i'm farther ahead then him. Dunno what to do

Oops I think I mixed up the name with something else Indian. Anyway it's a bed of nails that helps alleviate soreness through use of acupuncture.

this is going to sound autistic, but we live in different countries

>the man women deserve

>thinking that the only men women "deserve" is some super high level guy

holy shit dude

Aight...

>be no one other than myself 5 yrs ago
>crushing HARD on this girl, she gives me all the signs
>she's beautiful, smart, cute
>she always wants to meet up but comes up with an excuse at the last minute... you know the drill.
>she's the sweetest girl ever so I figure it's legit (lol)
>finally ask her out point blank... says I'm not her type
>FINALLY realize I'm not her type because I'm a skinny son of a bitch, no social skills and a turboautist
>start training like a madman. picture her face every time I need to hit a PR. actually working
>2 years later I'm actually looking pretty good. fix my shit teeth and got a good job in IT paying awesome money (120k)
>leave home country to US, bang locals and tourists.
>make it clear I don't want a relationship but they always catch feels and I have to drop them, have to keep 2-3 fwb and switch them every few months
>was super excited when it started happening but now it's just normal life
>one girl told me I'm a heartless son of a bitch who doesn't care about anyone and always leaves people behind
>couldn't wait for her to finish so I can go home and watch Netflix
>suddenly remember girl from 5 years ago, message her on gram asking what's up
>she's super excited to talk, saw me traveling around the world, pictures at the beach, I look like a completely different person
>realize she's actually super boring and not that good looking. I've banged and dropped girls much hotter, smarter and more interesting than her
>if there was a non-autistic way to thank her I honestly would. as cheesy as it sounds she's one of the reasons I became who I am today
>still think of her from time to time as she was pretty much the catalyst for my transformation

honestly it's not that interesting. but yeah my life is pretty good right now thanks to this girl. I do feel though that my shitty experience with women when I was an incel fucked up my ability to be in a relationship. might have to fix that sometime

sorry I was just quoting the guy I was replying to... every person "deserves" someone on his level I guess if you wanna look at it that way

Getting my dream gf is the only thing that gives me drive in this life. I know i'm chasing wind but i don't care

Good shit, crazy how easy it is to put pussy on a pedestal when growing up. It's a powerful trap that many men never get out of.

yeah its a good thing guys here on fit dont put pussy on a pedestal now, never see guys crying about not having girlfriends and talkign about their ideal women and all that

>Y-yeah
To be fair, a lot of these guys are fresh /r9k/ers or are still beginning the start of their journey to Mire-halla.

It was a deep hole for me to climb out of. But now that I'm out my love for myself is so great there's no place for anyone else (sorry for cheesiness)

A lot of it was understanding that even the sweetest most innocent girls want a hot guy. And that hot guys are "allowed" to smash and drop nice girls. Dunno if that makes sense

Chad does what he wants

So some-fucking-how I've been talking to this celebrity chick recently (she's the lead actor of a very popular series, not gonna say which). Basically it turned out we had a mutual acquaintance and we met at a party. We've actually been talking a lot and it seems like she's actually flirting with me whenever we meet (she never looks away from my eyes when we're talking and she's constantly touching me whenever we hang out, and we actually have a really good time together. I've also noticed she doesn't do this to other guys.

Anyways I've never been in a situation (and never thought I would) where an actual famous person seems to be into me. How do I not fuck this up?

I'm definitely not a chad, just a normal guy who bangs girls
In my (humble) experience many of these can bring you from able to bang to not able to bang. e.g. writing love notes, bringing flowers, etc just desperate clingy shit that I used to do 5 years ago and now cringe at the thought.

there was one time where I actually got to a second date with a girl and started talking about "being together", needless to say there wasn't a 3rd date... at the time I didn't realize what I did wrong but now it's just painfully obvious.

a friend of mine has a model gf and I have no idea how he does it. I would totally get nervous and fuck it up.

good luck senpai though I know you can do it. keeping my fingers crossed for you brother.

yeah it's fuckin surreal. Thanks bro

Which commanders are you running user?

What are you talking about? These threads always hit bump limit lmao

user take a long look at it and think about how much she means to. If you love her, it's not worth cheating.

Just enjoying a nice Virgils root beer and casually watching porn. Have a Tinder date tomorrow, gonna go see the new Thor movie, then get Mexican food, head back to my place, and fugg. Gotta make sure to slip a thumb in her butthole.

I think I missed a big opportunity, guys
>Have quiet 8/10 girl in class
>Listens to earbuds all the time doesn't interact with the class
>Heading to truck after class with friend
>Talk about how I feel like I'm on the teachers shit list for sitting next to an idiot.
>Girl speaks up from behind me
"Try sitting in front of him, It always feels like she is talking to you"
>Turn around crack a corny joke and she laughs
>Foot halfway in my truck
>I'll see you later
>Girl has a pained expression but smiles
"Yeah you too user"
>Realize too late she wanted to talk

Did I miss my chance or do you think that it can be salvaged?

last work out was good
back from party drunk
tfw no gf
gg back to my feels
gay

Went out to a bar for a friend's birthday. I was talking to some girl that was there, but she seemed pretty drunk and I was having trouble understanding her, so I was just nodding and being polite.

Eventually, she leaves. I turn to my friend and he looks fuckin pissed. I asked him what was up, and he asks me why I'm not flirting back with the girl. I look over at my other friends, and they're all like, "yeah man, she was really into you." I laugh and say they're just fucking with me. Nope. Dead serious. They spent the next 5 minutes breaking down every flirty thing she did that completely went over my head.

I guess after 4 years of being single I don't even notice the signs anymore. Kek. She was pretty hot too.

>went to a college football game tonight and met a qt.
>we talked for a bit and I added her on snap.
>out of nowhere her brother turned up and told me that she's too young for me.
>turns out she is still in high school (17) and she's just visiting her brother.
>we chat for a bit and then I leave.
>at around midnight she snaps me a pic of herself under the shower just barely covering her boobs with her arm.
>I respond with a chest/abs pic and receive a blushing emoji from her.

Not gonna lie I felt like a sex predator right after I sent that snap. I have my bachelors degree (22) and she's not even out of high school.
It's legal in my state (Florida) so I don't have to worry about any legal repercussions but it still feels weird as hell.
Should I go for it? She is super cute.

Talk to her next class period

Girls at the gym boyos
that girl that you ask for a lift off on bench because she's the only person there whose name you know
that girl that you see at the gym and then at the cafe you go to the same day
how to open

>Been missing days intermittently for the past month
>Relationship on the edge of falling apart
>Gonna have to quit my dream job because I can't make the schedule work
>Quit tracking calories and fell back into old eating patterns
>22 and still in community college
>Went on a nice date with my gf to an extremely great restaurant, was great until we talked about Us
>drove home in complete silence
>Just gonna drink all night after quitting six months ago
I don't know why I thought I could ever be happy.

I woke up again this morning.

I was sore, mentally fatigued, and emotionally drained.

I tried lifting, I didn't feel motivated.

I tried eating, didn't have an appetite.

I tried painting and playing some games and doing my homework. I couldn't even do that.

I did some chores, washed the floors with my hands and a cloth just to see if I could feel like I did something.

At the end of the day, no matter how many smiles I give, conversations I have, jokes I tell, I am alone with god as my witness.

I haven't accomplished anything. I am unlovable and worthless.

I used to diet and excersize a lot

only a week into my diet and 5 days of working out (was drinking hard liquor every day for a month and now I dont drink anything)

already dropped 3 pounds probably just because of not drinking and eating super healthy

not bad so far, love the newbie soreness

You eat like you work in tech

If family makes food and offers me some outside of my diet, I just take a bit, because cheating is apart of every essential diet

I've lost like 200lbs, look normal now, yet I still am having the same (lack of) success online dating.

I guess "making it" made no difference. Can't even get a fat girl to reply more than a word or two. Ugh... I didn't get fitter for them but I always figured it'd be a bonus.

I decided to bulk instead of cutting for the summer.
Will bulk until end of 2018.

Can't outlift a shitty personality.