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I have a problem
My gf(the first woman who has ever loved me) is a fucking land whale
I have been wih her since I was 15. I used to be a fatass back then, all girls thought I was disgusting but her.
Since then I have worked hard to improve myself, I'm in good shape, but she's still fat as fuck and I find her more disgusting every day
Lots of hot women want to be with me now but I'm stuck with her
What the fuck should I do?
Should I stay loyal?
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Of course not retard
beach the bitch
Make her change or change her. You decide.
I am a straight male but even would consider fucking you over your gf. it's that bad. no homo.
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kill her for biofuel
Newfag
On the other hand, you've been with her since you were 15 and you still can't communicate like an adult. Maybe you deserve her.
ditch that bitch son
Ask yourself these questions:
Would you still be with you if you were fat and she was in good form? And why was the fat girl the only one interested you back when you were fat?
Exactly why are you stuck with her? If she's not putting in the effort, why should you carry her weight (figuratively and literally)?
the fact that ur calling her a whale means you dont care about her so stop hurting her and let her go. yes shes also dumb for not getting in shape to keep you attracted. but ur also just leading her on with her wish i dating a fitness model type. i had to the same but i still cared for her, but she just wasnt even trying and was just having me like a trophy. happiness is more important even if it means breaking hearts
Drop her
Pic related
Jesus that me sad
Think about your future children, give them better genes
Someone post the picture of the fit dude fucking thwt hambeast please
This pic is older than the Internet and OP is a faggot
iktf
op, you gotta dump her. she's going to hate you but i was in the same situation where i let unconditional love keep me sedentary. i hate my ex but at least i have the drive to do things now.
Me to
Didn't you try to post this on /pol/?
Here you go OP, this should clear things up for you - the bit about us men clinging to the first woman that satisfies us because it's convenient.
If you leave her, NEVER let your lifting standards slip, or you'll be back to square 1, minus the fat ugly gf
I'm actually going through something a bit similar -
>gf is a partial cripple
>has depression & anxiety issues
>is a doormat to others, struggles to stand up to anyone other than me
>actually cheated cos she let a guy fuck her after he persisted asking (she was in another country when that happened)
>showed my attempts to raise her self esteem these past 3.5 years we've been together have been for nought
>Want to do better and get a better woman
However
>used to be a pathetic weeb
>she gives me praise and encouragement regularly and means it, has done most of our time together
>helped my self esteem grow and always tried to help when I was down.
>lights up when I'm happy
She has many good points to be fair, but they are slightly out-weighed by her faults, which never seem to change.
I suppose OP we both gotta ask ourselves, what shall we prioritize? We both feel we could do better, move on with our lives, that our old help has become a hinderance.
Sound like she got with you cos she couldn't do better at the time. Now you can.
Personally I would encourage you to leave her, spread your wings and not look back.
If she was the one who got Veeky Forums would she stay with you? Probably not
seems I forgot the link.
here
youtube.com
I would encourage the rest of you to watch this for the hell of it too. The reminder will do you good.
came into this thread to meme at OP
left with feels
She literally let another guy fuck her you dumb faggot
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>actually cheated cos she let a guy fuck her after he persisted asking (she was in another country when that happened)
>cheated
Man.....
inspire her to work out, I did that with my mom, best feeling ever
just cheat
and you should definitely cheat
behold, also the men that would REEEEEEEEEEEE and lose their spaghetti first if the reverse happened. next time you see some fattie turned hot ditching their husband or some guy losing a limb being ditched, don't fucking dare bring up the female loyalty issue. bunch of h y p o c r i t e s.
>not dumping the bitch after she cheated
if my gf did that, i'd strangle her, then the guy she cheated with, and make her watch me fuck him in the ass, whilst watching gay porn and choking myself
you won the internet today my man
escalatedquickly.jpg
Holy cuck batman
fuck off
no u
If you're not married it doesnt matter desu.
fuck off
f...fuark...
fuck on
I was in there before it 404'd.
fuck in
>gf is a partial cripple
>is a doormat to others, struggles to stand up to anyone other than me
I don't know if you did it, but you did you cheeky bastard.
damn, that video is so true
Why do i feel
fuck /out/
>What the fuck should I do?
You should fuck off to that's what you should do.
You two are codependent dipshits.
You forgot to say no homo
>>actually cheated cos she let a guy fuck her after he persisted asking (she was in another country when that happened)
leave her
This
A woman doesn't love you if she would let another man into the temple of her body. Be a fucking man and kick her to the curb.
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>and you should definitely cheat
Kek'd
how is it bait? seems real
whats the story behind the picture then?
I don't think anyone on Veeky Forums would complain if a fit girl left a fat guy though. If she was able to improve herself but he didn't.
Please just never say that faggot line ever again.
All these monogamyfags in this thread
It's a tad awkward since we'd moved into a shared house a few months previously and are stuck there till the contract finishes end of next june.
So gotta get along till then.
I don't like being alone and we'd set a decent routine - cooking for each other, etc.
Also, she's the only girl in the last several years who wanted me.
Other women just don't seem to even notice me.
I actually have a few times over the last 2-3 years of our relationship, but I've grown very used to her always being there.
All my past relationships ended badly, me blaming myself, feeling shit, etc.
So I made sure not to let myself get too emotionally attached to her, when she told me, I felt annoyance and dissapointment - I'd put quite a lot of effort into her since we got together.
I'm currently looking for a replacement but I'm not expecting much luck.
I stopped lifting about a year ago (shoulder injury) and haven't gotten the motivation to return to the gym.
also, sounds like the dude was pretty desperate - she was on her period at the time and all.
Up until a conversation we just had a moment ago, she was still thinking we might get a place just to ourselves next year.
I have shot that down and strongly hinted we're only together because we're currently stuck together.
Yes I am and have long been a coward. You guys helped give me enough perspective to get that sorted.
I''ve had a long standing fear of being alone forever, guess I'm kinda autistic like the others on here.
Slowly working on the socialising but that's slow going too.
Ahh well, any other comments, criticisms welcome
Yup, seems so. I'm working on it tho
I plan to, it's just we get along well together,
are stuck living together, till june next year,
and I don't want to be alone, kinda short on friends atm as well.
yessir
>forgot
You're gonna be with hee forever I can tell, and you'll get to an older age where you have a horrible sinking feeling of regret and spiral into a mid life crisis depression.
Fuck the lease, man up and pull out.
why am i sad
I've seen others fall for that shit, I've heard the stories mate.
I've had enough time to decide that I'm not going to let that happen - she doesn't want children or anything and I'd spend a good part of my life looking after her. Not gonna happen.
Believe me, as soon as we're no longer contractually obligated to live in the same house, I'm parting ways with her for good.
because he left someone who was ugly who cared for him when he too was ugly. there's a strong implication of humbleness, unconditional love, a bond and potentially happy future being broken for the benefit of one.
It'st still sad, but I would agree with why he did it.
>partial cripple
>depression and anxiety
>doormat
Not even your pic faggot, post real pic of gf
I'm sure you can find someone new who'll love you just as much for who you are.
You can't stay with someone just to protect their feelings.
Some relationships end, some people outgrow eachother.
You put it as "stuck" with her, so you're not into it, so you should leave, you're not actually helping anyone living a lie
FUCKING NEW FAGS GET OUT OF MY BOARD
You can literally suck farts out of my asshole.
But all the old fitizens Zyzzled out.
Why would you post this?
Talk to her about it, if she doesn't change her diet and doesn't exercise everyday then she doesn't care enough to be with you. I thinks it's time you deserve a woman in your league
Grow up.
Then you should rich out
no u
Word to the wise, user - never have both of your names on a lease. If it's in her name, you can bail. If it's in your's, you can kick her out. I know it's a tough situation, but don't let those feeling seep back in. You have to rise above your insecurities. We're all going to make it.
girl in pic is dankiidoll u fucking larper
Nice try faggot I recognize the Veeky Forumsizen and the tinder whale he fucked.
If you are happy stay with her
Only get rid of her if you are sure you have something else lined up. You are likely autistic, have no friends and afraid to approach women like everybody on this baord. So if you dont have anything else it can be a long hard road.
Also you are a lot more attractive to women if you are with another girl (especially one below your standards) If you break up with her you may not seem as attractive to other women.
it is bait, that picture is some tumblrina or some shitty blogger that hired a stripper to get a photoshoot of the type "look Im a fatass and fit guys love me"
bet the guy wanted to puke the whole time
also 2/10 made me reply
Try and get her Veeky Forums. If you tried and failed, give her the Ultima, "get Veeky Forums or I'm leaving, I refuse to spend my life loving someone sitting their way into an early grave."
>Don't leave her because she's fat, leave her because she doesn't care about living.