I have a jerb, I make meh money but I hustle two side jobs too so I can put money into crypto every few weeks.
My main issues holding me back are all sexual.
>used porn so much from ages 12+ that I can barely get/keep erection >addicted to reddit, craigslist, dating sites to find hookups >never had long term gf, just an endless string of fuck buddies or one night stands >best times ever were when I actually made it 60+ days of no porn/NoFap/no orgasm at all
What the fuck can I do to break the cycle? I've cut back drastically but anytime I get bored my mind immediately gravitates to random hookups.
Only positive here is I don't have a kid or any long term relationship to deal with which gives me decent freedom and flexibility, and some spending money which I use for crypto since I'm kinda a jew with my funds.
I will give .05 eth to the best advice in the thread.
Sometimes I hear something and it just clicks. A friend told me "carbs are poison" and I immediately eliminated excess carbs/sugar from my diet. Like right away, no questions asked and stayed with it. So tell me something that can change my life and post your eth address.
In before "porn is poison," I've heard and thought it. Be creative or original.
Gavin Perez
Make a bet with your friend, or group thereof.
Tell them you'll give each one of them $100 if they ask you if you fapped or slept with a women before a month of actively meeting her and you won't be able to convincingly tell them that you didn't. Till the end of 2018.
I'm doing something very similar (without the hookups part) and it works beautifully.
Connor Miller
Your only hope is to buy link.
Jayden Sullivan
Join the army, go to stan for a month; no such problems anymore :)
Brandon Peterson
only thing you can do is make a commitment to yourself to be a better person. i don't think extremes and hardlines really are sustainable solutions - what works for me is saying that today i will be better than yesterday.
it's a low bar to set and essentially you're saying that i will not commit the same mistakes today that i did yesterday. I won't eat an entire pizza. I won't bang that fat chick at the bar just because i can. I will take responsibility for my choices and recognize that I can make other better ones in the future.
tl;dr - grow up and own your life
Julian Miller
I own a little over 10k link, will be adding more in the near future
Blake Johnson
just go all in bcc right now and just yourself completely
Matthew Baker
You're not the only one, brother. My life would be gangbusters if it weren't for some sexual issues.
Gavin Green
I posted this in the "proper" forum (adv) and barely got replies. Biz is best forum
