Realism

>I ONLY LIFT FOR PURPOSE NOT TO KEEP MY DEMONS AT BAY LOL IM SO SUPERIOR TO EVERYONE, LOL I HAVE PURPOSE, I HAVE PURPOSE, GUYS I HAVE PURPOSE!!! HEY EVERYONE!! I LIFT FOR A PURPOSE, BOW DOWN TO ME!!

She's probably texting with 4 other guys, it's common.

But user, lifting is my purpose.
I lift so I can lift more next time, so I can lift more the time after that, so I can lift more the time after that time, etc.
My original purpose, to get fit was only a way to attain a different goal; to get girls. But girls have lost nearly all value to me over the past 2 years.

>have oneitis on coworker
>saw her in the elevator yesterday
>had a brief awkward conversation
>i keep thinking about her
>i'm sure she doesn't think about me
what do?

Ex sloot?

i know

Worst part is in my case she doesn't use much social media, like me, and her sc score only really increases whenever she sc's me

had sex recently and now i dont care anymore

I honestly think I hate women in general more now, almost all of them are horrible people in one way or another

Seriously when I think about the guys I know, for every 100 cool not shitty guys there's like 1 not shitty girl

Irredeemable people desu, should be beaten daily

Woman are spoiled by men in the same way rotten children are spoiled by their parents. We created this monster.

yes. too many dicks. and it's not just that, it's the lack of self-respect and how she allowed herself to be treated by these people. like some 15 year older boyfriend cheated on her, was sending literally the same messages to her and some other chick. yet, a year or two later she pretty much continued being his booty call. another guy kept her around for casual sex while he was looking for an actual girlfriend, and she agreed to the arrangement. he kept dumping her when he found someone, then taking her back when it didn't work out.

I think it's the lack of self-respect that bothers me more than the number of dicks, honestly. it's a shame because she's hot and has lots of other great qualities, just not much self-confidence.

>my gf fucks niggers while telling me she misses me
>my gf wasn't fucking niggers while we were together

pick one friendo

U should look for new gf but still sleep with her

No, I don't want to become a generate myself.

*degenerate

Oh, in that case maybe realize that she seems to be trying to fix her shit, start respecting herself and dating better people (you).

NO STOP WE WILL GET BACK TOGHETER

But that doesn't harm you m8. Her lack of confidence could be improved with you as she realizes she's worthy of a real relationship.
Or you could exploit it to keep her in submission, if you're into that.

but can he really live with that? can you live what that? knowing what she did with these other guys. What does she do with you?

Jesus I gotta give you props on how you can actually put up and stay with a literal fun dumpster. I don't think I could do that....

Dump her and stay single until you find a good wife-material woman. Sluts are no good, and I bet every time you look at her you see her past reflecting in her eyes.

That is no way to live, user.

yes, she has obviously done a lot of soul-searching and is fully aware of what she has done and why. and she hasn't cheated or been dishonest, she has been way too forgiving and loyal to people who didn't deserve it.

I know. There are lots of good things about this girl, I just struggle to get over her past.

I don't know if I can live with it. But she's loyal, honest, funny, hot, has a high sex drive, has no contact with exes, extremely supportive and doesn't expect me to buy her stuff. Since no woman is perfect I fear I'll just replace this problem (her past) with some other shit.

I'm addressing the fact that her self confidence is the problem, not how many dicks she took (which every guy could choose to address their own way).
Call me a cuck, but if I were in that position I wouldn't mind it at all as long as she's giving me 100% during our relationship, isn't hung up on her own past, and her body hasn't gone to shit because of it.

>tfw thinking about skipping today
>see this thread
I'LL LIFT FOR YOU BROTHERS

Have you ever been with a woman for a long period of time? There's always some issue. If it wasn't her past there would be something else, like jealousy, nagging, prudishness/low sex drive, bitchyness or whatever.

Definitely considering it.

You seem wise. I think I'll listen to you for now.

Thanks for all the advice, Veeky Forums. I have a meeting now.

>Have you ever been with a woman for a long period of time?
Nope. Women these days are cum dumpsters like yours (No offense) and frankly I don't settle for that. I've been in relationships for but I found out that they were "ex"-sluts a couple weeks later and broke up with them, but to be fair it was only 3 relationships so those were just my brief experiences

How did you find out about their past?

>be Stacy
>Fuck Chad and tyrone, be the slut at the parties for years
>Then search a loser who started lifting some time ago
>I SWEAR I CAN CHANGE

Saw a picture of her with her new dude yesterday.
I thought I was over her by now but this single fucking picture made me really, really angry.
Fucking dude is 3/10 babyface dyel manlet with a malformed nose and she's looking at him like she used to look at me.
Luckily my training partner this evening was a good friend and took some good hits for this fucker.

I've talked to some women since she left me but either I wasn't interested or they were already committed and I don't like being that guy.
I'd consider myself somewhat decent looking and have no problems with confidence or socialising.
Do you guys think tinder would be an option for me? Maybe chasing some sloots will take my mind of her.

Don't succumb to degeneracy.

>Maybe chasing some sloots will take my mind of her
You can't really fill the void with tinder sluts. You would probably be happy in the moment but the day after you'll feel like shit and still think about her. Best is to just try to find another gf rather than wasting your time and risking your health with 1 night stands. Idk tho
I honestly don't know. This happened like 4 years ago and I don't have very good memory. Only thing I remember is talking a lot and it was through text.

Tell me, do you have a problem with visiting a nation like Germany or Japan? Do you not use certain products because in the past they went against your own principles? Would you not work for someone or hire someone who in the past did some bad things but has discontinued that lifestyle?
I'd say if you answered yes to most or all of these then leave her but if you answered no then you should really consider staying. Honestly can you look to your past and say that you haven't done anything that you now wished you didn't and would never do again. If you can see all these great qualities and you guys have a genuine chemistry, why let her past get in the way. Help her to change and if you find that she is unwilling or simply can't then leave her but everyone deserves at least that chance.

Not the guy you replied to but..

I have problems with germans do this day. Gestapo beat relatives of mine to death for information. Japanese are racists fucks who look down upon me and my northern-germanic race, so yes I have problems with them.

We can grow from each time guys.

Rejections are just personality reps in the set of life. Just make sure your form is correct so you don't become bitter before your time.

Lol what dummies just tell the info :)

Yeah, tell them where resistance people are, so that they can all get rounded up and killed.

That said, the SS soldiers and wermacht treated us well in every other regard. After all they thought we were ubermensch.

Gestapo was something entirely different and makes me hate germans to this day.

>she doesn't think about you at all

...

I used to think Hitler was blown way out of proportion with how bad he was before I learned that he intended to massacre 80% of my people and enslave the remainder (British). What a horrible thought that is.

It's a bitch getting colonialized by a civilized nation, innit?

you find out by talking to her. if she refuses to open up*, then something is wrong.

*about anything, not just the topic of her past

This, tinder sluts won’t help you. After I got dumped I started making up for lost time and it was a lot of fun, but I was left feeling worse off emotionally each time because I realized I was looking for a partner but just fucking these skanks who I know wouldn’t be acceptable

>ex
no slut can delete her past and move on, SLUTNESS IS IN THEIR GENES

Ask 25% of the world (including murka). No one beats us on colonisation. However there is a big difference between colonisation and massacring or enslaving literally the entire population

Veeky Forums should be purged of this whiny emo girl shit every single day

this motherfucking board turned into /self-pity/

>tfw have gf
>tfw OP's post still hit home

>mfw don't think about her at all except when I see threads like this and want to make a smug post about not caring