Tfw you have to emotionally abuse your gf by randomly ignoring her to keep her off balance

>tfw you have to emotionally abuse your gf by randomly ignoring her to keep her off balance

Why do women force us to treat them mean, Veeky Forums?

Gains arent enough for them.

They literally have to make sure you're attractive enough not to really need them

>ignored ex (kids mom also) yesterday
>invites me to a bar that night
>decline
>she shows up at my door at midnight all hot and bothered
>get some good lovin from her
Feels good man.

Lol. I thought I was the only one.

It was so good when I first got ripped I did a cycle my gf.was clueless and just loved it..I kept ignoring her talking to other girls and when she wanted my 4 incher I'd say nah I've already wanked today

I relapsed on heroin and am small again training again as I lost all my gaonz

>feel a bit sleepy
>gf wants to cha
>just turn my body away from her and shrug her cuddles off
>hear her whimpering
>pretend to be asleep
>next morning she sucks my dick
>big smile after i cum

this so many times

I really wish we just chill and have fun and sex and be nice

I'm as laid-back and even-tempered as it gets, I litteraly fake being angry or some kind of retarded passive-aggressive plays just to keep her happy/in line

women just feed off drama, the good and the bad, real or fake, doesn't matter, they see smooth sailing as the relationship going stale

>2 days ago
>i love cooking, worked in restaurants, I like good food without paying retarded amounts and she could barely find the handle on a frying pan, so I do all the cooking, she washes up
>she loves my cooking, always has, me cooking with just boxers or an old tracksuit seems to be a litteral fetish for her, she goes nuts
>cooking 2 days ago, when she arrives
>I see straight away she's in a bitchy mood
>call her over to taste
>throws me that look of pure hatred and despise only angry women can pull off
>whatever.jpeg I know it'll pass as soon as she gets a good plowing
>pretend to be deeply hurt for 2 days "if that's what you think of what I love in life, what does "us" even mean', and all that crap
>after 2 days of no pee-pee and long face, she litteraly melts down
>tears+screams+more tears+frantic fugging
>she's litteraly in heaven, that we share so deep a relation that I open up about my feelings, yadayadayada....
>nearly screw everything up by falling asleep while she's talking
>all that drama to be back to square one, laughing and chilling, which we never needed to change in the first place

>mfw when women

I really would like to hear femanons' views on these discussions.

>That we share so deep a relation that i open up about my feelings

Okay I've been with my gf for too long or something but what? Are most women so fucked up they think it's almost impossible to get someone to open up to them? Inst that what happens in a normal relationship or have we rally jumped off that point?

>Are most women so fucked up they think it's almost impossible to get someone to open up to them?

answering
The way I see it, it's just that women just "feel" more than we do. Our baseline mood is kind of even all the time, no ups and downs, chill and enjoy the good moments. Their baseline is a roller-coaster on crack.

Thing is, we can't seem to be able to analyse the other gender outside of the filter of our own gender. So we think it's crazy up-and -down, they think it's vibrant fulfilling relationship.
They being so full of emotions, can't process the fact we simply do not have that "volume of feelings" so if we just act normal, they automatically assume we're holding back, because that's what they do when they go for normal (those blessed first 3 months, where you think "oh, she's different" until the first time she throws a hair dryer in the TV or melts down because you have no opinion on the color of her shoes)

other example:
If I have a problem, I want to be left alone, and my gf constant questions and probing get on my nerves real fast.
She does this because when she has a problem she wants me to ask and probe and talk, and if I apply my own "filter" of "leaving her alone" she'll resent me, because for her that means I don't care.

it's literally impossible for a woman to be attracted to you, unless she knows you're willing to walk out any second.

it really is unfortunate but this is how women are. you can't be mad at them like you can't be mad at your dog for not understanding english.