So what's on your mind, Veeky Forums?

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Run in the rain to her house or something along those lines. A grand gesture followed by a passionate kiss can save this.

Are you giving me Taylor Swift advice?

Something similar happened to me too a couple years ago user. Had no idea girls saw shyness around them the same as getting straight up rejected instead of as the guy liking her but just being nervous. If you're young you'll improve from this and know to be more aggressive next time around.

Damn you should be over that stage
I had to ruin about 4-5 opportunities before I got how to operate around women
You gotta crash and burn sometimes but then you also need to get back on the horse too

The problem is that I don't want a next time around. I want her. We are genuinely fucking made for each other. It's scary how similar we think and act and speak and everyone else in the world could see it the entire time except for me.

I spent my first 18 years of life in all-boys schools. I spoke to literally 3 girls total before I was legally an adult. I've only recently come out of my shell and opened myself to new experiences in the past few years, but shyness has always been a problem for me. I refused to even be in pictures from about the ages of 10-21. I was a ghost even among my own family.

Starting to see the true nature of the world

We are the outcasts of society, we come to Veeky Forums and Veeky Forums is a containment board from the govt isn't it

This is like a prison for your mind, just keep coming here over and over again, never go out and live in the real world

Yeah bro your are going to crash and burn a lot just take notice of what made you fail and make sure it doesn't happen again

My exgf recontacted me saying she wants to see me, get a coffee together and what not
I'm not really sure about what that means since she's my only ex. And not really sure what i'm going to do

also I put on weight this winter bc I have exams and I just want to have time for sports again

>The problem is that I don't want a next time around. I want her. We are genuinely fucking made for each other.
>oneitis

Why didn't you experiment with guys? Or have maybe you have? Nothing wrong with practicing with your buddies.

my ex

>I spent my first 18 years of life in all-boys schools
You literally should be an alhpa male then.

Nothing

What made me fail was self-doubt and fear of rejection despite everything telling me to do it, including her herself. I honestly want to just go for it the next time I see her. Spur of the moment kiss. Hail Mary.

It's oddly mutual oneitis. She said our very meeting was "fate". All because she missed a fucking train. Within a week of telling me she likes me, I was getting two-page long texts with shit like "I'm not saying you're the one but..." and "like, I think I met you for a reason and I needed to tell you before I lost you forever" and all that shit. We're two cringey spastics, but she's certainly the more grounded of us both.

I'm not gay. As hard as that may be to believe.

>I want her. We are genuinely fucking made for each other. It's scary how similar we think and act and speak
Not trying to purposely depress you here but this is probably false. I've felt the same way before and have had the same feelings of regret with that exact thinking. If you really believe this though you gotta go all in and soon. Don't wait any longer, try not to explain yourself to the point where she has pity for you but tell her you don't want it to end and kiss her.

> I'm not gay. As hard as that may be to believe.
Me neither, but i always was afraid of girls as a kid so I never was around girls. Now forward it a decade, I know the feeling off having a cock in my mouth.

Just saying, being an autist will grind you down into a straight faggot with no self respect.

Not everyone is a faggot

>What made me fail was self-doubt and fear of rejection
It might feel that was but trust me the more stuff like this happens the more you realize you just didn't know what to do
Take your bumps and keep going

The similarity thing is true. Everyone acknowledges it. Even her. People don't talk about us individually. If she's somewhere without me, they ask where "the tall version of you" is and shit like that.

I knew what to do. I just didn't do it.

t. Demon
Kys sodomite

Holy fuck are you me

I want my father back. He died a year ago and I felt no sadness. The feels are kicking in now and I can't take it anymore I need help but I have no one.

>I knew what to do. I just didn't do it.
Did you want it?

Just so you know, writing "shadow banned" in your posts disables it temporarily. The replies you are getting know is to trick into believing that you are not shadow banned while you in fact still are. You'll go back to getting 0 (you)s in the next thread.

It's the other way around, if you don't spend time with your own gender when you grow up you will seek it out when you're an adult by sucking dicks. Or you simply didn't have a father and you compensate by being a faggot.

My mind is focused on the pain in my neck I got from going too heavy on the barbell rows today. It is also on my macros, trying to plan them out since I'm off to a bad start. The back of my mind knows there is no woman who wants me and I'm trying to tell it to ignore women.

Yes. I wanted it badly but I pussied out. The moment was there. We both felt it (and acknowledged it later after it had passed) but I bottled it by getting too inside my own head. I knew she wasn't a fan of kissing in public and I knew there was some people slightly down the road in view and that fucking stuck in my head for some reason and I froze.

wow... that's mean.... and uncalled for...

Depends on what you do for legs I guess. Don't sprint too frequently.

she doesn't want you to "go back to being friends" she wants you to be what she sees as a man and make all the the moves. Literally just call her up and grab her tits your dick will take care of the rest.

Having a gf that's similar to you is a bad thing. People like other people who are similar to them because it's comfortable. But that also means you won't grow as a person at all.

BPD mother totally destroyed me. Had to fight back from depression and rebuilt my personality. Have to deal with constant sabotage of my diet/family business because there is a demon residing in her that wants to destroy anything worthwhile. Anyhoo hows your guys day going???

>Yes. I wanted it badly but I pussied out.
I'd consider that not knowing what to do
Being good with women requires failure for the majority of us

Fuck it, I'll let Veeky Forums make the call for me.

I see her on Monday. Do I go for the kiss? Y/N

holy fuck you retarded beta pussy

How can you be so beta?

A. Go talk to a therapist. No amount of gains can fix anxiety and low self esteem like that.
B. If she’s had feelings for you for years, just go for it. Like, you’ve literally had this girl for years, and yet you’re still worried about coming off as an autistic to her? She already knows you’re a beta cuck, and if she doesn’t, tell her that you’re pretty anxious. It’s so easy to fix so much of your life just by talking about your problems

Then what the fuck are you waiting for you nigger, go for it or I'm kissing her

>therapist
Not an option. I'm from an insanely conservative family in an insanely conservative culture. If anyone found out I went to therapy I'd get laughed at for life. Between my own pride and the pride of my family, it's just not an option. Would you believe my country has a young male suicide epidemic?

My self-esteem is steadily improving. My problem is that I normally need to make a really egregious mistake for it to finally click in my brain.

I think I've gotta go for it. I can't imagine living a life never knowing for sure.

I feel like my friends just don't give a shit that we've been pals since we were all fucking 5 years old. Ever since I moved it's getting harder and harder to stay in touch with them and I can never get in on their plans.

The first time I invited them to my new place one of them managed to get their car towed the day of the trip. It's like, how are you not more careful about that? Do you just genuinely not give a shit that I want you guys to come over and made this whole trip plan for everyone?

And now they're trying to do it again and their car broke down in the middle of the desert...so I'm just waiting on them to update me on whether they can still make it.

If they end up having to go back home this may be the worst fucking birthday i've ever had, and that says something considering recent years.

Drive to them. Meet them in the desert and have a cookout while you wait for a tow truck.

>that feel when you can't squat 2pl8
Fuck this feel.

This was last night at like 11 PM, about 4 hours from here. And considering I had been up since 5AM that morning probably not a good idea.

I asked them if I need to pick them up and they told me to stay here. I just really want to see them again, I miss my old friends so fucking bad and never get to see them.

They're trying m8. Give one of the a ring and ask them what's up.

Just do it, faggot

Unfortunately she lives about 40 miles away. So I don't know how viable running to her house is.

They're not up yet. If I know my friend it'll be 10 at the earliest (neo-liberal california time, an hour from now).

I think I tend to vent my frustrations on one of them privately because he seems to be the one at the helm whenever something goes wrong and will never say "Hey, I'm sorry I fucked this up" even if it means ruining a plan we've been making for months.

Still bro-love him though, I just want to see them all.

It's been two weeks since I broke up with her. I did the right thing by ending it but I miss the warm embrace of another person so much...

Well, there is this one boy. Nice, cute and we understand each other. But he is ending his last relationship and I don't belive he want's new one yet. I don't know what I should feel.

Yep

Flip a coin

fag here,

same thing that is always on my mind when I first wake up. Getting bent over and banged like a screen door in a hurricane.

C A L I F O R N I A

all-boys schools should be considered child abuse

It just looks eerie without the penis, fucking puritan burger mindset

They're far and away the best schools in my country though. It's not even a contest. My parents have lived below the poverty level since they were born and they wanted to increase social mobility for me in any way they could and opted for education so I could get a middle class job at least.

Do it, bitch.

Need your advice bois.

25 years old, I've been single for about 6 months now since me and my college sweet heart split up.

I work in an environment where my coworkers are 90% male and the females are spoken for or trolls. Plus making eye contact too long would constitute sexual harassment.

Where do you find dateable women after college? Tinder is full of 5/10s that think they're goddesses thanks to thirsty betas, and I'm not religious, and faking it seems toxic.

I wouldn't have trouble attracting them. 6'1", decently handsome, make just south of 100k, and I can contain my 'tism. My problem is just that there's dick everywhere I look.

Do anything. Literally anything, find any excuse to go to a hobby or somewhere that involves social interaction.

Where do you live?

yoga classes

Damn, thanks for making me feel better about my own girl troubles user...

My girl troubles = I'm not good enough at pickup yet to have a non-stop stream of girls to bang.

I'm tired of politics. Wherever I go, people talk about politics.

Even Veeky Forums is becoming a /pol/ meme.

thinking of finding a nice coastal city to move to, maybe somewhere in europe thats not a refugee shit hole. my nose has been plugged for the past week, and ive heard salt water fixes that. plus, i really like the ocean

Have decided I've had it with the Canadian climate. I'm moving to the southern United States.

Now I'm just looking at job postings.

> EU
Go away cuck, I don't need soyboi's in my country

and what country is that, faggot?

Southern Europe is probably best. Somewhere like Slovenia. Balkans do get migrants, but they're too poor, so the refugees carry on "fleeing" through several safe countries before reaching the rich countries in northern and Western Europe. 10/10 women too who haven't been ruined by feminism.

Only one that matters

> Balkans
> not shithole
Pick one

>imblying im an amerimutt

>not being ruined by migrants
>not already shithole
You have to pick what type of shithole you want.

I knew you weren't American because we don't allow soy cuck fags like you

>tells me to leave his country
>says he knew i wasnt american
amerimutt education

How about neither?

See
For case in point

>amerimutt chimping out
>politics

Bro, you have to learn to be honest with your partner. Not being able to tell them that is going to kill your relationships.

Try again. Talk to her. Explain to her what you just told us. Communicate. She can't read your mind any more than you can read hers.

It's hard and it takes practice, but you got this.

I think I'm into guys. All i think about when im in the lockers on campus is sucking the dude next to me off.
How do i explore this better?

Repent.

I'm generally 100% against porn seeing as how fucking degenerate it is, but i'd say just watch some gay porn and see how you feel about it. If you do eventually get to a point where you think it's something you're into, go in search of some gay or bi guys who want to mess around. If you're feeling ballsy, ask one of your straight friends if they want to, that's what I did. Best of luck to you m8, you're headed down a hard road.

Progressive overload, treat it as you would lifting. Start easy with feminine men then slowly go into more masculine women and finally normal women. Cure your mental illness my son

Dubs say do it gaylord

>masculine women
There's nothing wrong with liking tomboys

No, stay a prude virgin until marriage. As God intended

How did asking your friend go? I know a guy who is probably bi but Im shy just trying to type this out.

Ive already been watching gay porn and honestly it's more appreciating the gains on some of the guys on there. I mean it still turns me on either way.

There is this girl talking online with for about a year. I realized recently that I have romantic feelings for her, after I got jealous when she said she may like another guy. She is a bit older and we haven’t met, since we live in different countries. I used to believe that it’s weird to love someone you haven’t met but after the daily chest pain, my constant thoughts about her and inability to sleep because of those two, has changed my belief. Before meeting her my life was in the shitter, I had to stop my professional tennis career due to a leg injury, and combining this with my afterwards awful university grades made me consider suicide daily. I lost all of my gains due to poor nutritional habits and lack of exercise using my leg as an excuse. After talking with her for this year, I have gradually seen an improvement in my life. I started going to the gym, my grades improved, I started eating properly and finding meaning to life generally. So, some days ago, I confessed to her that I liked her. I expected a flat-out rejection, and I could accept that, regardless the pain I would go through. The problem is when she didn’t really reject me, but couldn't believe that I liked her, but she felt weird and bad (due to reasons) and decided that she wanted to minimize her contact with me. This pained me to no end. For the first time in my life I got drunk, only to be able to pass out and forget for a while. I accepted her offer, because most of all I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable or bad. The day afterwards, she contacted me and told me that she was like a mean bitch, and didn’t want me to stop talking to her, but I know that every action has a consequence and she still feels weird, so we don’t talk as we used to be. What do I do/fit/, I am afraid to returning to a lazy slob but I really love her. It’s my first time feeling something like this. I had never cried before due to emotion like this, even when my grandparents died.

My dad died 8 years ago, once the feels hit they never go away, you just have to go through the grief cycle all the way to acceptance. It blows, but you have to let the feels flow through you. Also therapy helps, if you're into that shit. And for reference it took me 6 years to make it to where I am now emotionally

I left my gf of 2 years half a year ago. I was being so stupid and immature. I left her at her worst, she was diagnosed with liver cancer 3 months prior to our breakup. I cant fucking forgive myself and have begged her to forgive me and take me back. Shes just wonderful and I was being so stupid. Shes thinking about getting back together and texts/calls me almost everyday, but says shes afraid I might hurt her again which I totally understand.

How do I make this right bros?

you say that you were stupid and immature - what change has happened to you since so that you would not repeat the same mistake? can you guarantee that?

gotta take the good along with the bad, be it illness or death. its part of life's package.

maybe give her a call and meet up. open yourself up and see what it is that drove you away, and find a way to make peace with it. firstly in your own heart, then move outwards from there perhaps.

gotta be more selfless.