>be loser who graduated college almost two years ago >after already taking five years to graduate >still no real job >live with parents >work at local really swanky gym >free all-inclusive membership so that's nice at least >just lift weights at home, but use pool at gym for cardio >lots of college kids back for winter break, they work over the summer and winter breaks >one super qt working in my department >haven't figured out just how old she is yet, pretty sure she's a sophomore or junior >worked with her a bunch these past couple weeks >seem to have a couple shared core interests >not sure if I totally like her, but definitely have a huge crush >seems like she might like me too >smile at each other, converse and joke around a bit at work >I was cripplingly autistic from childhood though, up until pretty much my last year or two of college >still not entirely free of the ever eternal tism prism >thoughts of failure and her secretly finding me weird/not being interested in me at all haunt me constantly >one day on my sort of break, throwing some bantz at her >she did this one work task on her break that I usually do on mine >tell her I'm bored and got nothing to do cause she already did the thing that I usually do to keep myself occupied >she spaghetti's a bit, tells me if I'm bored I could go check out the book she brought with her that she's reading >excitedly quips about the book's theme >go and peek at book >actually not too far off from my general tastes >interest intensifies >begin trying to social media stalk her to find something to work into future convos >she only has one social media account that I can find, and it's not one of the more detailed ones >I can work with this though >appears to be a liberal arts major >further snooping reveals her particular major surprisingly has some pretty intense overlap with my STEM degree, actually took some classes that cover some of the more in depth and difficult topics from mine >interest increases further
Cnt...
Adrian Lopez
Cnt.ed
>learn yesterday that she's going into the city for the weekend >never get a chance to ask her what she's going for >spend all of today in agony, refreshing her page to see if anything pops up confirming what she's doing in the city >terrified that she doesn't actually like me at all, will be partying/at some social event and meet some other guy this weekend, and forget all about me >won't see her again till monday, won't see her at all on tuesday, won't work with her again till wednesday >pretty sure she's going back to school after wednesday >wednesday it will be just the two of us for a couple hours at a time when not many people will be at the gym >this means I have one, maybe two chances tops left to get her number and/or ask her out >still not even totally sure if she's actually into me at all or is just nice >terrified that even if I do get her number, she'll meet plenty of other guys at school because of how cute and neat she is, and completely forget about me >all while I would continue to crush on her big time and miss her when she's gone because there are no other really cute/interesting girls at work >continue to wallow in the feeling that I'll stay a miserable, directionless college grad with no prospects forever >there is no escape from this hell
Samuel Morgan
ask for her number the next time you're about to be off work. its really not a big deal, girls give out numbers to alot of people. Just do it kinda low key, but be definitive about it. dont text her till friday and ask her out to a coffee shop.
Hudson Torres
she's leaving soon?
bring that up or something, ask her to dinner or for a goodbye drink, go from there and keep in touch.
or just nut up and ask for her number before you leave work.
Mason Myers
Problem is, I'm pretty sure she's gonna be gone by friday. My other big concern is that even if I do get her number, she'd be gone until her spring/summer break. I feel like it'd be rough trying to keep her interested just through that for however many months, especially since we don't know each other super well yet. My hope would be that we could just hit it off over text and maybe I could go visit her at some point (her school doesn't seem terribly far away, assuming my sleuthing has given me the right school), but that seems like a stretch.
I actually don't think she's legally old enough to drink yet. Already planning on trying to bring up her leaving though, figured I could use that as a good segway into getting her number/further gauging her interest in me.
Adam Russell
jesus christ just ask her out you fucking pussy
Jaxon Hall
as long as you don't text her much it should be ok. I mean is the school within 1hr drive?
Wyatt Reyes
I'd have to ask her to go out literally the night before she left...asking her out right now is more of a scheduling issue than a balls issue here.
Close to two hours, so still not terrible. I'm more worried that she'll be doing things with other guys and I'll just be one of a bunch of guys. I think when I get to know her better I'll like her enough that I'd like to move towards a relationship, but that'd be too weird for me if I knew she was just being casual with other people between now and the next time she's home. Like, we've flirted enough now that I feel like it'd be a weird (for me at least) interruption of the escalation we've got going if I get put on the back burner for however many months. I wanna text her enough and for her to WANT to text me enough that'd we'd be able to keep escalating through text while she's gone.
Gabriel Johnson
look, being an alpha means not caring about other men EVER. and you'll never get into her pants by texting, you have to make a move dude. move your stupid schedule around and make a move on this bitch. I'm assuming you've never kissed/fucked a girl before, so you have no idea how little value girls place on their pussies. >tldr, get your tongue in her pants asap and then ghost
Aaron Bennett
>all this repeated "she will go out and meet other guys and forget all about me! she's so amazing and will meet a guy so much better than me!"
stop. there is no bigger turn off to girls than guys who think and act like that. it's so unappealing in every respect. she also doesn't owe you shit, so you wasting mental effort thinking about her with other guys not only fucks with your mind but also how you approach the relationship you have with her.
ask her out. you know your schedule better than anyone else.
ps) she isn't going to save you from feeling like a miserable, directionless college grad with no prospects.
normal people want normal relationshipers, not fixer-upper's
