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Tell us how you got fit, how it felt, and how people's treatment of you changed afterwards.

bumping out of interest

people lost all respect for me

>lost 37 lbs
>people that seen the difference are nice
>they critique my /fat/ life really harsh
I am still fatass but less fat. From 255lbs to 215lbs. Still dyel but what can I do on cutting.

fatmode grants bonus muscle, its just not visible yet. keep strong on de way of de cut brudda

>fatmode grants bonus muscle
yeah, but only in your legs and calves. most fatasses are weak as fuck in their upper body, but ALL former fatasses have shredded calves

is that the fist of bloat?

I'm still a NEET, so I don't fucking know?

I went from 30% body fat in high school to 12% over the course of around 5 years. I lost a lot of it my senior year, maintained around 15% all through college, and then dropped down to 12% after I graduated (25 now).

>How I did it

CICO with eating clean, PPL, and do your cardio (HIIT or LISS, doesn't matter). Just make it a habit and your body will change. There's no magic pill Dr. Oz weight loss magic. If you do Intermittent Fasting it's much, much easier to do CICO. I never fucked with Keto just because I fly high performance aircraft for a living, and I can't risk passing out and no carbs increases your susceptibility to GLOC.

For men I didn't really notice a difference in the way they treated me. It's always your personality that matters.

It's a hard dynamic to explain for women. As a fat guy, you're much more approachable. They will talk to you, because you're zero threat whatsoever to them. You will be the token funny fat guy. It's easy to make friends with all of them, and they will always try to set you up with their fat friends.

In college, I lost my chub, and it turns out I had a pretty handsome face underneath, and a nice jawline. When I added my muscles onto it, women were very polarized. It was either they outright made an effort to avoid you, or they made an effort to talk to you. I had plenty of female friends in this time, and actually started getting laid. I was probably 15 to 20% body fat when I was getting laid the most, usually by fucking my female friends' friends.

Then once I graduated college I dropped to 12% body fat at 180 pounds, 6'1" and I've been able to maintain that. At this point, I find it hard to make female friends, and my friends get weird when I'm around their wives or girlfriends, and you do catch them checking you out.

Taking home a girl from a club or a party is nothing now, but it's nothing to be proud of. Once you nut and your mind becomes clear you wonder if you had it better when you were a fatty.

Do you got before / after pics?

I didn't take a before pic. Too ashamed, and I didn't really go through a massive weight loss. It was extremely gradual.

Late Teens: ~30%
18 to 23: Hovering between 15 to 20%
23 to now: 12%

This was me when I was probably 16 or 17%

>morbidly obese through childhood
>turn 22
>be 400 lbs
>no one talks to me
>no gf
>hospitalized with pneumonia twice
>say fuck it
>buy a load of yellow pills
>cycle a bunch of them and starve myself
>lose all the weight in under a year
>now 24, 5'10 and 160 lbs
>girls look at me
>too socially autistic to talk to anyone
guess it could be worse

post loose skin

Lost 100lbs, recently got a new job and my coworkers treat me like I'm one of them. They think I'm a bit thick but it's actually my debilitating social anxiety making me stutter and be non sensical at times. What you gonna do lol?

>overdose on anti psychotics
>didnt work and in my depression eat myself up to 280 lbs over the course of a year
>sit around alone
>no friends since 5th grade
>get my GED to avoid people at my school
>sit alone for nearly half a year not talking to anyone and feeling sorry for myself
>see a Veeky Forums meme on /pol/
>decide too check it out
>find Zyzz
>motivated_as_fuck.jpg
>be a retard and dont read the sticky the first couple weeks
>get laughed at and even banned for a few days for asking stupid questions
>get around to reading the sticky
>get a gym membership
>decide to try to take control of my life
>go to the gym every day for nearly 6 months
>eat around 1200 calories a day including a lb of chicken breast every day
>get caught up in the sip™ meme
>start losing weight like a fucking shower head loses water

Can confirm. Got fat but kept my martial arts quads and calves. Building the upper body back up with lifts as I cut, but already my calves and shit look hot.

>its been 11 months at this point down to 180 lbs
>take a selfie for the first time
>send to thot i met online but really liked at the time
>afraid_as_fuck.jpg
>she says im hot as fuck
>what.jpg
>get more confidence
>start to socialize more irl
>dont make any friends but gained alot of experience not being an autist
>down to 180 lbs now at 6'2
feels good

>be a fat fuck 310 pounds
>lose a lot of weight get down to 160 pounds
>people worry and I say I should put weight back on

I'm 5'11 and went from 250lbs, fat and weak to 215lbs, lean and strong in about eight months. I'm on my second cycle of test which helped a lot but I also ate extremely clean and spent about 2 hours in the gym, 5 days per week. I had to change virtually every aspect of my life to make such a drastic improvement with my body. It feels really good. I have had ex girlfriends coming out of the wood work and I get a lot of attention from girls in public and get respect at the gym for lifting big/having an intimidating presence.

>Tell us how you got fit,
Veeky Forums helped, I had mucked around for years before finally losing it all/lifting. For ages all I did was cardio, didn't even work on the shit I was eating. I knew I started putting weight on in highschool but it was partly due to muh issues that it took so long to overcome.

>wasted years

>and how people's treatment of you changed afterwards.
Family acted all silly saying I was anorexic and shit even though I clearly wasn't and not to lose anymore as I was "wasting away".

Got a lot of attention after I lost it (strangely still got attention when I was obese though).

Ive told this story before, may change from earlier versions but that always happens

>Be super fat kid after parents divorce
>Dad is Army NCO and Mom is a severely greedy person
>Keeps me fat and under her control well into my early teens, and I was fat enough that I still have the stretchmarks to this day
>Dad has to see me every weekend, and I can see the pain in his face when i cant run or play with other kids without being winded
>My clothes look like shit
>Them chins
>I know he hates how i look and is frustrated, which frustrates kid me because i know whos fault it is for only feeding me shit food
>Dad pushes me into a sport finally around 10 years old
>Its football, and im a lineman, go figure
>Mom is against because MUH POOR BABAY getting hurt and shit, but i quickly shed weight
>He comes down to see a game, and while i am mediocre he sees me after the game (Mom never watched) and tells me how proud he is of me
>Gives me one of his Achievement coins and tells me that only great men of change get coins like this
>SwoleChestofPride.jpg
>However my mother finds the coin after some time, i assume she threw it away because i was never able to find it again
>Pulls me out of football when she realizes it gives dad any kind of pull with me
>get fat and depressed again
>Around 14 or 15 I finally pop smoke and go to live with my dad after years of begging
>Dad is excited, gets me back into football
>Shed all of my weight and actually look like a person again
>Still remember the day I was sitting down eating some cereal and reading a book, and he walked over and put his hand on my shoulder
>"I could not be any prouder of you" He says, and gives me a pat before walking away
>Felt good
>End up joining the Army and getting married
>Was in for four years
>Dad looks at me with pride instead of shame

Ive gained weight since the Army but its just turned me into a badger body than my old otter mode body. Currently working on core workouts

>23 and 224 lb at 5'8
>my mom, dad and sister are morbidly obese at this point
>have no fucking chance since no one in my family exercised/dieted
>in a completely toxic relationship
>constant fights, she on the daily would talk about killing herself
>she was also depressed as hell, a cutter, addicted to weed, friendless, and refused to get any help
>relationship + college + laziness all ballooned me to fat god hood of 224 lbs
>eventually move away after finishing college for a new job
>relationship on it's last threads fails a few months later
>after a few months of mourning decide fuck it I can't just sit at home and mope
>go hiking and cut out a lot of the junk food I used to eat
>over the year I hike a bunch of shit and have aspirations to climb Mt. St. Helens in 2018
>get a personal trainer to help teach me how to lift at all since I never fucking knew
>learn that lifting shit is actually fucking awesome
>go from 224lb probably 30% bf to 170 lb maybe 18% bf.
>tfw parents are happy for me
>fitness friend of mine is happy that I changed my life
>tfw can actually wear tight shirts without feeling shame
>tfw 25 now and my life is on the upwards stroke

the only thing I wish I had done was started lifting in high school. this shit would have boosted my confidence so hard and saved me from being a fatass all throughout college.

>be fit at 18, cardio bunny twink at 160 lbs
>college happens
>career happens
>parties happen
>wake up at age 30 and 230 lbs
>zero muscle, all fat
>can't fit into my jeans
>go buy new jeans one size higher
>can't fit in those either
>go buy MORE new jeans and get home and fucking cry

>read the fucking sticky
>stop eating pizza+cookies+beer every day
>start eating lean meat+veggies every day and weigh every ounce
>lose 2 pounds a week like clockwork
>takes almost a year but finally weigh in at 150 lbs

>everybody impressed
>everybody asked how I did it
>tell them count calories and that's literally it
>they either don't believe me or they pick out one part of my routine and go "OMG that's bad for you" (coffee for breakfast, diet soda, eating lots of meat, etc.)
>don't give two shits
>guys at the gym have noticed and these huge bodybuilder dudes have commented on my weight loss
>feels great
>time to bulk now that I know I'm capable of changing my body
>wasted my 20s, not going to fucking waste the rest of my life

you ready for the gayest story you've ever heard?

>be fat fuck
>have obesity health problem
>feel like i'm on the brink of death
>listen to trump rallies
>watch the original evangelion + end of eva
>i've been a little faggot like shinji all of my life running from problems
>trump wins
>120 pounds lost since then
>time to make me great again

That's not gay, that's good.

>just make sure you keep going and become a National Socialist

>September 2016
>210 lbs (95.3 kg), 19 y/o collegefag
>Be overweight most of high school + college (3rd semester in)
>1 mile "run" in 16 minutes
>Have friends but weight made it hard to connect with others super well, self-conscious af
>friends usually poke fun of me being overweight, stopped hurting after years of that in HS
>meet girl, she's super cute but out of my league
>Lose ~5lb November because wellness class in uni
>girl says something about slight weight loss
>ask out a bit after that, get quietly rejected
>Fuck it, new semester, changing shit up so chances of that happening will go down
>limit calories to 1500/day, running/gym 5x/week
>Progress is progress, losing ~10 lb/month from cutting hardcore
>start browsing Veeky Forums to help with style because of needing new clothes, self esteem booster

>July 2017, 145 lbs (65.7 kg)
>first time being this light in years, scrawny as fuck but look 10x better
>People I haven't seen in months seeing me and saying how proud they are, how much better I look
>No gym but doing manual labor job over summer, super slight gains but still super low bf%
>Actually had a shot with girl who rejected me before, no relationship but having someone to fuck around with was nice, but didn't last


>Current day
>~150 lbs
>Started bulking 2 weeks ago, 2700-2900 calories
>run 5 km minimum 2x/week, 7:30 pace no problem
>almost at sub-6 min mile
>Gym 6x/week

I never felt like people treated me poorly when I was fat because I was nice. I'm still nice, but I'm also skinny, so people treat me a lot better than they did before. Reaching a milestone where people you know are saying they're proud of your accomplishments is the best feeling in the world, especially when it's something that you spent every minute of every day working on for months on end.

Pic related, face differences. Don't have any pictures of those similar angles in the past few weeks, but nothing has really changed. my friends say I have a great jawline but I can't tell if serious

>they either don't believe me or they pick out one part of my routine and go "OMG that's bad for you" (coffee for breakfast, diet soda, eating lots of meat, etc.)

Fuck 'em, good on you for getting back into shape. It's so annoying when you have a routine that works, and you're seeing progress, only for someone to nitpick one specific thing and lower your self-esteem

>Family acted all silly saying I was anorexic and shit even though I clearly wasn't and not to lose anymore as I was "wasting away".

Same shit happened to me. 5'11 180lbs, still cutting from being a fat piece of shit and still in the overweight area of the BMI chart, my mother would see me and tell me to stop losing weight, since I was skinny enough, and that would get me pretty pissed because I knew that wasn't right at all. You look great man, it was in your best interest to lose weight and you stuck with it which is what matters/

Went from 110kg to 90kg but gained a bunch of muscle so the total fat loss was like 35kg probably.
Have stretch marks and sort of loose skin on belly as you cant really fill much muscle in there
Girls used to like me and I had several chances of getting a gf (wasted them all). Now girls appear to hate me and am a fit no gf virgin

I feel you.

Same thing at 18, why did I restrict calories back then? I was always in the gym. Do valet through my 20's with no gym time, start desk job at 30, 2 years later had to upsize my to wardrobe.

At least losing weight has been easy since I woke up.

I shouldn't read threads like this at night. I'm down 30 pounds. Makes me want to throw around kettle bells.

Also, OMAD makes it impossible to eat more then 1,200 calories a day. Fuck it I still lift heavy and get enough fats/protein.

>Tfw you put 20 pounds on your bench, 50 on squat and lose 30lb at the same time.

How tf do you increase your max when you're cutting?

Noob gainz?

310 down to 255. Im doing it Veeky Forums

You look great user. Keep it up!

thats pretty kick ass dude keep tha good shit up senpai i believe in you

Thanks man! First time I've posted, i was really anxious about it but that made my day.

>I fly high performance aircraft
is it possible to specifically apply to be an AWACs pilot?

Why is it women never seem happy with their friends weight loss but men always are?

Over the last 4 years I have tried to lose weight time after time, but I always failed. I am now back at it again.

The difference now is that my sugar addiction is virtually gone, which will make a huge impact. My family is also cutting down carbs and serving better options. These factors were not prevalent in my previous attempts. I also have a friend who will not stop nagging until I come to the gym with him.

Heaviest 255 lbs, currently 242 lbs. No real difference, but still on a great path.

My motivation now is a certain girl, I know that the more fat I lose = higher chance to get with her. However cliche that may sound it gets me to the gym and makes me skip unhealthy food most of the time.

Even though I have not yet succeeded my tips are:
1. Never give up. Even if you fall one, two, five, ten times, just get up once again. In the end this is your only choice if you want to succeed.
2. Find the root of your weight gain. For me I have periods in which I gain large amounts of weight. All these periods were when I was living alone and got bored and fed my boredom with large quantities of bad food.
3. Get addicted to the lifestyle. When you start going to the gym more and more, your reward system primes you for it and you actually start feeling good about working out. Also, when you are in a training phase you do not crave bad, greasy foods. You crave healthy foods that builds your body.
4. Find a training form that you actually enjoy.
5. Surround yourself with people who enjoy a healthy and active lifestyle. I am lucky in this regard because many of my closest friends are gym rats who are seeking aesthetics.

You're making Zyzz proud, mate. Keep going and never stop.

>20
>Ask girl out
>"Ok!"
>Proceeds to blow me off for like 5 weeks
>Finally tell her to fuck off
>She tells my bud she only did it because she felt like I was desperate for asking her every weekend and now that I was done with her she missed my attention or some shit
>All I wanted to do was see her, no idea how that is desperate but whatever
>Started going to the gym because I was pretty mad about the situation and just needed to blow off steam
>She kept passing messages through my friends and would sometimes hit me up with random shit and it'd just fuel my anger
>Eventually she subsided after my lack of will to do anything
>Anger was still there and kept going
>Now 9 months later
>Lookin good
>Still no gf but get mires from time to time

You can increase your max when cutting from noob gains. So as long as your defect isn't too severe youll be ok.

>Used to get looked at with disgust
>Avoided by people
>not no gf mode, but only ugly thots
>bullied (that stopped for a year after I broke some dudes arms)
>I hated myself, and got to the point where I tried to kill myself.
>woke up 16 hours later
>go to mum "I want to die"
>14
>Start turning life around

So I started taking eating and fitness seriously, lost 40kg, am currently at 100kg, 13% bodyfat.

I started training towards the army, got in, then medically discharged due to broken L5.
>was in the candidate pool for SAS

>now date 10/10's
>don't sleep around, only sleep with girls I'm dating
>happy
>"Oh my god, is it weird that I find your hands sexy?"
>"Holy fuck, when did you get so muscly?"
>"What the fuck, you should play rugby, YOU'RE SO FAST."
>"I wanna taste you..."
>"I want you inside me... fuck"

Went to america on a holiday

>Mired by american girls
>Black woman comes up to me
>"Dayumm son, you look like a million dollar linebacker"

But best of all with everything that's changed for me:

>I feel loved
>No one fucks with me

Did I made it

It made me honestly feel like a completely different person. Both from my perspective and other's. It's honestly amazing how much better people treat you just by looks alone. Though, I wasn't the biggest fan of it at the time.

>in high school was 90kg fatass, bad acne, lazy shit tier hair/clothes
>nicknames were endless
>go to uni in different state a couple years, slim down
>now 76kg and a bit more muscle
>one day old mate invites me to his 21st
>alright i'm gonna go, cut a bit more beforehand , get some nice clothes
>show up, his mum is answering the door
>"hi i'm old mate's mum, nice to meet you"
>"hi, you already know me though, it's user"
>"WOW user i didn't recognise you at all."
>see mate
>"jesus user you lost a lost of weight"
>running into people response is usually "holy shit almost didn't recognise you user"
>can finally chill with old schoolmates without being designated fatass
>still working to make it

Feels alright if im honest

Solid shit man.
I am basically in the same boat. I started at 315lbs and am now at 230lbs.
Lift weights too!

gj user
we are all gonna make it mate

>be 21
>ottermode
>6ft 140 lbs, lightnong quick
>martial artist, never had an ounce of fat on me
>father dies in 40s due to heart trouble/ poor health management
>ex says its on me because Im a bad son
>stop working out
>drinking a 24 pack a day
>smoke constantly
>fast forward a year
>life back together
>290 lbs
>in serious relationship with another woman
>shes fat
>im fat
>look back and wonder what happened to my fitness
>procrastinate
>half ass it
>4 years later only lost 10 lbs
>realize im going to die in my 40s and leave my newborn son in the same emotional hell I was In
>decide to go hard or go home
>go paleo 6 days/week
>go to gym 3x week
>pushups/situps daily
>run daily
Im 250 now. Still working on it guys. Decided I dont wanna be ottermode again and im going for athketic/built

I got knocked down pretty good and spent fat too long trying to recover in comfort. Anyone else make this mistake?

sounds kinda pathetic

You made it brah.

Honestly it was, handled things pretty badly and given my time again id've done things very differently. But im here now on the right road and thats what counts

m or f?

You're an inspiration man, thanks for sharing your story.

Proud of you user. Shits hard but it's worth it

Here's my story if anyone cares
>King of overweight manlet
>Nobody looks at me in public
>Drop 30 lbs
>Wear fitted black tees
>Eye contact from every single girl

It's honestly very encouraging, almost surreal how people look at me now.

He fucking made it.

More female interest. I’m still skinny just not dyel skinny. I’m 170 at 6’2 and 12% bodyfat so it’s skinny enough where I look decent for girls but dyel for fit standards.

>Been fat most of my life
>I think I was Veeky Forums in my teens when I competed in judo
>I trained 4 times a week
>Teacher used me as an example for the rest of the group
>Family had brought me up to think that I was less than a human
>So there are no pictures of me from that time and I couldn't look myself in the mirror
>got fatter when I got older
>Train and lose weight
>couldn't afford membership at time or depression hit harder
>Could never stay even slightly fit for any period of time
>Two years ago, dad dies
>Realized the extent of his abuse
>Lost 60 pounds in less than a year
>Still fat
>Got my Veeky Forums-game together
>When my confidence is at it's top I sometimes get looks
>Men compliment my beard
>Men mirin' my clothes
>Y-you too

I'm getting there lads.

Some girl who was in love with me just ignored me after agreeing to a date, I hit her up a week later and she didn’t even fucking respond lol. Here’s to hoping that thot misses my attention soon.. I need to meet more girls..

>be fat kid all my life
>got even fatter during parent split
>get out of HS, be 130ish kg (first pic)
>start lifting and cooking myself
>get reasonably fit (second pic)
>get with gf
>shit is abusive
>don’t realise
>she stops me lifting
>stops me going martial arts
>keeps me on a tight leash
>finally get out of there
>gained all my weight back; 125kg
>broken and messed up, but free of any more damaging (3rd pic)
>go back to lifting and martial arts to deal with the depression
>slowly come down in weight
>keep doing it, more out of habit to avoid bad thoughts than anything
>notice change (4th pic)
>get excited
>get focused
>make massive weight loss gains in about 6 months
>got down to 76kg with decent lifts

This is me now, we’ll about 3 months ago before I started my bulk again. Back up to 88kg but lifts are dramatically increasing.

To anyone who’s been fit and got fat and wants to restart; don’t think of it as retracing steps. All you’ll do is depress yourself with thoughts of “Ive been here before.” This is a new journey into a new you, sure some lessons will be the same but this isn’t the same journey, don’t compare yourself to what was, but focus on what will be.

we're all gonna make it

>6’5”
>375lbs down to 275lbs after like 14 months

>looks much fitter with clothes on since I’ve played football throughout my life and my weight has fluctuated in the past
>also black so I get that natural muscular aesthetic
>getting girls attention now
>they tell me I should stop and I’ve lost enough
>they don’t know about my love handles and malleable doughy pubic mound
>still too scared to fuck interested grills because the jig will be up once I remove garments

Just more motivation to keep going, I suppose. I told myself I’ll stop once I feel comfortable taking my shirt off and/or I lose my FUPA and get all my dick length back, so I’m thinking I need to lose another 40lbs at least.

Root for me boys. Gonna run as long as I can when I hit the gym in an hour.

>275 lbs
>natural musclar asthetic

u have 70" hips lamo

My body perception never matches my actual weight. I mean, I wear size 40 jeans right now. Plus, my upper-upper body is the part that looks decent contrary to my weight. Broad shoulders, nice traps, upper chest is getting flatter, etc.

stretch marks are badges of battles well fought user. I am proud of you

my auntie asked me if I started doing sports, that's pretty much it

because women are shallow pond scum

confidence is good

but everyone has work to do

pics

On phone, sorry if the picture is rotated.

Me at 325lbs-330lbs in September.

1/2

At 285lbs-280lbs few weeks ago.

I know I have a long ways to go still.

looking similar to a buddy of mine
he lost a ton of weight too over a small amount of time with the right diet and going to the gym with me
just keep on and you can do it bruv

in sophomore year of high school i got really thin, lost 40 pounds.
nobody noticed besides the teachers

fantastic work my bro, keep it up

From
280 to 170
Fat woman ignore you like the plague. Shit ton of attention from 6's and 7's sometimes the odd 8.
Weak men look at you with a fuck you attitude. Strong men are friendly and like to talk. But everywhere you go heads are turning. After a while you accept you are attractive now. Gets pretty annoying sometimes.

Down nearly 40kg, just for off diabetes meds after being diagnosed 9 months ago. I feel fantastic, but I still have weight to lose and muscle to gain.

People I know are asking me how I lost weight, but otherwise I haven't noticed much change.

Thanks guys. I’m kind of in this by myself so the encouragement really is welcomed.

youre not alone because were ALL gonna make it

Dont let the fat powerlifters get you down bro, you fucking made it.

Kek at the boxer bro. Keep it up you just might make it

>Automatically being respected everywhere I go

Feels bretty gud fammy

Gym chad who fucked like at least 6 girls from the gym in the span of a year became more hostile towards me, tried dominating me like a bully and then when I didn't budge, he became more friendly with me and now I've been hanging out with him every now and then.

Women are wicked creatures. Glad you made it, user.

Dominate and bully how?

>be kid
>have shit parents
>mom always leaves to go out, buys me a pizza to keep me company at night
>hit 350lbs when I was 13
>fast forward 17 years
>be 600lbs life huge
>no idea what i weigh
>had enough, want to change, but wife constantly sabotages
>Never wants to change, she's huge as well
>everytime I try to change she gets angry
>finally had enough of this shit
>kick wife out
>file for divorce
>takes a year or so to get my shit worked out and stop the yo-yo
>keep to it for 7 months
>solid losses
>face gains
>now 380
>people that know me respect me a lot more
>begin getting female attention, not the most attractive women, but some are pretty cute
>actually feel like people want to be around me for the first time in my life.

I'm still going but, fuck, I can't even imagine what it's going to be like when I lose the rest of this weight.

I'm more angry with myself for not divorcing sooner and getting my head sorted out, feel like a blind man seeing for the first time.

Nice work dude

I've heard a similar story before but I never really wanted to ask an IRL friend this. How does a girl stop you from lifting and training, like what does she say and why do you think she said it?

>count calories
>reduce carbs, increase protein and fiber
>embrace /bwg/
>lost 50 pounds and got BMI under 25
>bf got much more handsy and initiates sex more often
>coworkers keep saying I'm skinny for months, omg user how did you do it?
>people generally treat me better
>confidence levels at all-time high
>now working on getting really lean for the upcoming warmer months
>bonus: fat women look at me with utter disdain
Honestly I don't look great, but I live in rural flyover land so almost everyone else is between chubby out of shape and landwhale.

>tfw OMAD at 3100 calories

Life is good.

...

This is hitting me in the feels because I'm a dad. My boy is four and no matter how active I keep him and no matter how healthy I feed him, he keeps gaining weight because his mother feeds him garbage and makes him watch TV all day. We trade him every Friday and keep him for a week. She is a genuine piece of shit person and mother and I'm trying hard to get full custody before he starts kindergarten to avoid him having a story like your's.

Walking into me, doing things as slowly as possible if he saw I was waiting to use the machine/rack/faucet he was using, staring me down etc. Really autistic shit.

Male, I just like long hair. someone on Veeky Forums thought I was trans when I posted a face pic. Do I just look androgynous or something? I always thought I looked distinctly male

Not great advice but I just lifted when I felt recovered and ate less. Had no program but I guess it just worked cause I was young. More fat to Normie than fat to fit desu, have been doing 5x5 for a couple months though. Still scared to gain any weight back lol. 25 pound differences btw

This

saaame
Im currently losing weight and I've noticed my calves and legs are huge compared to most people. So I won't worry about growing them, I just have to maintain them and get a stronger upper body wise.

>lose 80 pounds
>look in mirror
>still see a fatass

>6', used to be 160lbs
>worked my way up to 170 with muscle
>used to get looks all the time
>move to suburb for job, no friends nearby
>working full-time + full-time grad school
>stress starts getting to me
>start stress eating
>cheat day becomes cheat week becomes fuck gym
>develop a gaining fetish
>balloon up to 230
>ff two years to last month
>depressed as fuck
>decide I'm sick of being a fat fuck
>start dieting at 220
>lose 15 pounds in a few weeks
>got compliments last night from friends
>starting to get looks again
>gym soon

I'm down to 205, ultimate goal is 165 by June before I start bulking.

We're gonna make it lads

I want to fuck me until death daddy.

soon