You didn't pass the bf application

Realistically how long do people even do shit like this in long term relationships.

Every guy I know that’s been in a relationship for longer than a few years is lucky just to get unmotivated vanilla sex a couple times a week.

It seems like the longer you’re with a woman the less kinky sex aswell as overall sex. It becomes almost like a chore for the woman.

It makes me wonder why people sell relationships as being about “Le easy access to sex” when it’s just boring repetitive unmotivated sex where at least one of the people aren’t even enjoying it anymore.

Take into account you’re living together and have basically become roommates over the years. All the little things you do that annoy each other that weren’t apparant in the honeymoon stage of the relationship.

This is why I feel it’s so dangerous to get married unless you’re both ready and willing from the start to know you’re doing it because you love each other and want to have children together. The sex life itself is fleeting, a lot earlier than most people think. You’ll get comfortable together and it just won’t be the same thing.

A good analogy : When you first have sex you’re at the top of your game, you’re the best version of yourself physically and sexually, you’re getting millions of dollars. But as you get paid the millions and get comfortable you begin to slack on your game, she gets fatter, you stop being as autistic with your diet and lifting, you lose muscle and gain fat, your erections aren’t as strong, her sex drive diminishes, she doesn’t feel comfortable with her body anymore, neither do you, sex stops being exciting and it becomes annoying. The frequency of your sex drops significantly, at this point your gf only does it because she feels bad if she doesn’t have sex with you at all, you feel like shit because you can see she’s clearly not interested, you begin to move apart and before you know it you’re glorified roommates.

At least you get girls to mirin at your chiseled body

RIGHT?

I almost had this and then we broke up right before valentine's and she promised to do this. We were getting expensive bottle of wine and hotel room

Well its been 3 years and has gotten hotter tbhfamalam im sure there will be a time when sex drives slow down but honestly its been better every time since we started and shows no signs of stopping. Even when i proposed it got crazier. She even said she felt more comfortable with doing more things because she has a commitment. We dont even do toys or anything like that she loves to dress sexy and is a former pageant model and dancer so always stays fit. She walks around the house in thongs and a tshirt and loves being sexy. And i make sure she knows i find her attractive. We literally just fucked before i got on here shes asleep next to me.

Also to add on about being annoyed with one another. We dont really get that from each other. Yeah we are people with different interests but we dont get annoyed of each other. Ive never been annoyed of her even when she wants to do the girlish stuff and makes me wait to eat before she snaps a photo. Idgaf i know her snapping her little photo makes her happy. Youll understand that one day. You let a bunch of the little shit go because in the end it doesnt matter at all.

>tfw no gf
>tfw ex is probably fucking some dudes right now

Its fun stuff. Guys put alot of pressure on themselves for valentines. I was strapped for cash that valentines so i just made a picnic lunch and took her to a free park and we chilled there for like 6 hours until we gor hungry again. went home cooked her dinner and then she fucked my brains out. She still talks about it from time to time.

>A good analogy
> Proceeds to read "analogy"

Nigga have you had sex? Your first times arent all that great. The more you do it the better you get yoh retard. Thats like saying your first 135 bench is better than your first 405 bench. Dont be a retard.

People report the best sex when they don’t live with their partner in the same house.

It’s harder to maintain that intense level of attractiveness to each other when you’re seeing each other pooping and peeing and coughing up flem, farting and all that stuff humans do when they’re in their own house with nobody around.

MAybe I have a mental problem but the moment I move in with a woman I start seeing her in a more sister/mother role. There’s no more excitement of you getting all hyped to go to her place to fuck her, you’re just with each other constantly and it begins to not feel special or exciting anymore, so the sex suffers dearly,

To think you’re immune from this is to be delusional. Why do you think so many relationships end?

This

As a guy in a long term relationship, the passion is just not where it was when it was new and we didn't live together.

You get used to the sex, the sensations, the smells, touches, sounds, etc., and you spend so many nights watching tv with your partner that they DO become something like a roommate.

There was a time where I fapped to porn more than I had sex because I was just sick of sex with the same woman, the same positions, and the same experiences every time, it just didn't feel special anymore.

don't have a TV, problem solved.