Veeky Forums feels - Abstract Edition

That's incredibly stupit. Romance takes upkeep. Prom's going to be hella awkward when you haven't hung out with this girl for months anxx suddenly you want to act like her formal date. If you want something cool to happen on prom night, you should be laying the foundation now.

I don't want shit to happen on prom night, but after, I mean it's in like a couple of weeks so it's no big deal

She has a fantasy too. Do you think it entails what you're describing right now? What if she really wants to not wait but she slowly starts dreading you because you aren't giving her what she wants.

Someone else offering an ACTUAL relationship will always win over Mr. Wait-for-some-undefined-moment

>host new years party with some of my friends
>hook up with one of my female friends
>we meet up some more after new years
>have sex and cuddle a lot
>she's developing serious feelings for me fast
>tells me stuff like "I think I'm going to fall in love with you"
>I don't really feel that way about her
>all my friends tell us how cute we are together
>my friends tell me "it's great to see her this happy, don't you dare fucking hurt her user"
>her best friend tells me "you're such a great guy user, she really needs someone like you"
>can't bring myself to break it off before it gets worse
>she's an integral part of my social circle
>if I hurt her all my friends will hate me
>never had to reject a girl
>my inability to act will spiral out of control
>already feel trapped
>how the fuck did I get here

she's really nice and cute and always cooks food and bakes stuff for me, but I'm not really that attracted to her in a romantic way, I'm just unable to hurt other people

You learned a new lesson. Doing nothing can harm situations. If you lie you are just making it worse. You fucked up not cutting it off quickly. You won't let it happen again.

Just do it.

Maybe you're right, maybe I am, and I tend to trust myself kind of more than some user poster on an anime image website

checked

And maybe she hates what you're doing. Just go find out. Or ask your mom lmao.

You’re fucked now kiddo. Honestly, just cut your ties now. Be honest but be nice, kind of hard she will be hurt no matter what

>be me a few years ago
>parents fought a lot
>mom was a bipolar fuck who refused to get help
>she'd leave you at the store if you pissed her off
>dad was gone a lot without a word
>probably work
>had this kick ass dog growing up
>wouldn't hurt a fly unless that fly hurt me
>would fall asleep in front of the heater with him as a pillow
>a good, loyal dog that'd follow me around while I did the chores for the day
>graduate high school
>go off to college
>highlight of coming back home is seeing my good old buddy
>he used to sit at the window sill and wait for you to come home
>fast forward half a year
>buddy isn't doing too well
>lost his sense of smell
>cries when he walks too much
>eyesight is leaving
>come home during spring break fearing the worst will soon happen
>had been lifting and went up from a medium to large in shirts
>revamped my style
>new clothes, short hair
>feelsgoodman
>after a 6 hour drive I make it home
>go around the house to the backyard to surprise buddy
>he's laying on the porch asleep
>as I open the gate he wakes up
>his hair stands up and he starts barking the kind of bark that you know isn't a "hi new human friend" bark
>mom doesn't know why he's acting like that
>be home for about a week and buddy refuses to let me near him
>just lays on the porch all day
>go back to college
>a month or so later buddy dies

I think about this too much. Is it because of my gains that he didn't recognize me? Was I selfish to go to the gym? I should've taken him with me to college. I shouldn't of left him there. He made the shack I grew up in a home and I just don't know how to feel when I go to that house cause I can't stop thinkin about that fuckin wonderful ass dog

I didn't even get to say goodbye to him man

Sometimes when dogs sense it's their time they show unusual behaviour, like trying to run away from their owners. Your buddy did not want to make you sad and that was his way of running away to die. It's not your fault familia

kekd

>Don't know if GOMAD is a meme or not

>have gf
>been together for 7.5 years
>become friends with a group of 3 girls and 1 other guy
>realize last november I've fallen in love with one of the girls
>we work out together and hang out a lot
>we talk about some real shit too
>Have a feeling she's only into me as a friend though
>she's leaving for a year abroad in 5 months
>no idea what to do about any of it
>can't talk to anyone because all my other friends are either friends with gf or other girl
>bitch about it on Veeky Forums

Sorry for your loss man. He had a good life with you I'm sure. Its up to you to remember the good times, keep his memory alive and move on.

brah. how old were you when you hooked up with your gf? to be together 7.5 years is gnarly if you hang out with people doing a year abroad

>7.5 years
>Not married or having a kid

?

do you still love your gf? do you really "love" the new girl?
Really think about it before you do anything stupid, a 7 year long relationship is a really long time and you don't want to fuck something like that up that easily. If it backfires you will regret it for years. Especially if she is leaving in 5 months, long-distance stuff rarely works out, so have to ask yourself if it's really worth it.

she was 15, I was 17. Long distance relationship for 3 years, she's moved in now. I'm still in college finishing my degree.

Not my thing

That's what I'm asking myself. After 7.5 years it's hard to say if you love someone, or you're just used to having them around.
I haven't fallen for anyone in 8 years, so I have no clue what I feel for this other girl, except for the part where I want nothing else than to be with her.

>>go to her place, talk things through
>>tell her to just say no but she doesnt
>>dont get a conclusion but she takes my hand and messes up my head
That was where you were supposed to kiss her, user.

>invited to girls formal
>she's coming to mine
>she's actually really nice and a solid 8/10
>keeps the convo on snapchat going even when i let it die

prayers i don't balls it up anons. Feels pretty good though, first girl to give me attention (outside a club) since I found out my ex cheated

rooting for you, user. Don't forget to give her attention too though.

>it's in like a couple of weeks
Prom should be in May...

>Stressful week at work
>Not been able to sleep nor eat properly
>Been failing at lifting recently, snatching and clean and jerking 10 kilos below my best lifts
>Competition next weekend
>Was gonna hit new comp PRs but now probably won't even be close
>Technique getting worse every session, getting stressed, vicious cycle
>Will probably catch a wicked disease due to lowered immune system and undernutrition

Is your name Richard?

Clear your mind through meditation or something, seems that you just need to reset your emotional state

It's not. I do know a Richard though.

My strength is where it's at. My front squat is going pretty nice. Did a double at 90% a lot easier than expected. So yeah I need to fix this. Got a day off tomorrow so will try and recover. Thanks, man.

been playing it chill but like whenever i send everyone a snapchat of cheat meal after my exam she replies asking how it was and all so we've been talking fairly constantly until she's just fallen asleep there.

On a serious note anons she's a really fucking nice girl. Is gonna win "lady on the streets but freak in the sheets" at this formal. But my heads starting to screw me already. Ex cheated on me 7 times. Any anons been through this and how did you trust new girls?

thanks though user

could be British, I'm at a girls formal this week and mine in like 3.

can be difficult user. I know 2 people at my high school went out for 7 years. When they went to uni they basically looked at it objectively and said we're just doing this for sex and brokeup. Guys best friend swooped in and now my good mate has lost his gf and best mate. I'd say the girl had caught feels for the new user and started to push things towards a split.

I had this exact situation dude... didn't act on it in time, things got awkward, prom was weird, now we don't talk and she hates me.

Make a move, user

Holy shit I got the perfect abstract feel

>oneitis told me she dreamt about me
>made her "wake up in a good mood"

He loved you user. But his time is gone, he would not want to see depressed over his passing. Cherish his memory, tell people about him.

>this hurts a lot to type knowing my dog just turned 9, over half her life span and only has a few left

God damn. Tell me more.

>havnt been to the gym in 2 weeks
>can feel the gains slipping away
I’m signing up at a new gym tomorrow, wish me luck lads

Well she actually happens to be my ex. The reason why we ended was more because of circumstance, not because of how we felt about one another. Thing is, I've done everything they tell you to do- dated other girls, banged random sloots, given it time (it's been years) and I still can't get her out of my head. Zero doubt I love her, and zero doubt she at least still feels something for me. I don't know what to do breh.

This is actually spot on. I almost blew my chance with my current girl cause I didn't kiss her when I really wanted too. Everything turned out ok but that's one of my biggest regrets in my life that I didn't have the balls to do it. You'll know when the moments right also if she holding your hand then your in bro

>be at the gym
>hit new PR on OHP
>see a tall (I'm 6' and she was taller), ridiculously thicc grill
>think how great it would be to ever bang a girl like that
>come home, shower and throw a bath robe on
>start playing my favorite vidya while snacking on some chips
>catch myself in the mirror
>mfw it hits like a freight train that I'm a 23 y/o, virgin man child living with his dad
>mfw realize I've literally spent all my nights like this for the past 6 months
>mfw know why I could never score a girl like the one I saw at the gym

abstract kind of feels lads

Having a hard time with depression boys. Therapist can't see me till next week, wanted to break down at work.

Also probably won't ever find love again. It was nice while it lasted, and I've been doing great for months moving on, but no it's all sweeping back. I don't really miss her, which is sad, I just want someone to think I'm attractive and worthwhile spending time with.

I can't brain too good now
I haven't even done basic workouts in the last few days and I've just been eating sleeping and watching porn and jacking off.
I have to get out of this hole fix myself up and get into some holes.

>on a 1500-1700 calorie weight loss routine
>trying to go from 170lb to 160lb with as much body fat loss as feasible
>tfw no energy and my lifts are going to shit
>benching 25s while everyone around me is 1pl8 minimum

I just want to get strong and shed all this fat that I had for the past 15 fucking years. I wanna look in the mirror and be happy with my body and know the stretch marks won't come back.

>lifting to keep depression, anxiety, existential tread and tfwnogf.mkv feels at bay
>starting to notice first gains, feelsgoodman.mpeg
>lift as hard as possible as much as i can, maxing out at 4-5 days a week
>on friday i tried to go the gym when i was tired and sore to keep the pleasant feels rolling, had to stop after awful cardio (horrible time) and only a handful of lifting sets
>saturday was ok, started to feel really depressed by that night
>sunday was a trainwreck, spent all weekend locked in room playing fallout 4, met cait and developed crush on her becuase mfwstarvedforfemaleattention.jpg
>had to turn the game off and get a breath of fresh air to wash off the awful feels
>wake up today, feel even worse than the night before, make it through the day somehow and get to the gym again
>hit new PRs, good feels back, not looking forward to my next rest days

wew lads

Made the mistake of looking at her snap story today. Pic related--it me.

>crushing on a waitress
>Have her often when I go
>Out with friends one night, she's serving us but I'm DD
>Finally get the balls to tell her she's cute and ask for her number
>She tells me she thinks im cute too and gives it too me
>Never happened to me before, feel fucking great
>Text her
>No response

Why the fuck would she give me her number and call me cute if she was just gonna ghost me. It's worse than just saying youre not interested when I originally ask. Just say no and I'll say alright, have a good night.

Fuck this, I'm just gonna keep lifting and get huge. My mental state and grades have already gone up, hopefully my love life will catch up

>be a fat neet for my whole life because lmao mmos and anime
>now i'm fit but i realize i lost all my friends and i don't have any new ones
>want to go to a night club but anxiety hits when i'm reminded i'd have to go alone
>get depressed

The only thing i look forward these days is going to the gym, that's the highlight of my life, fuck.

I'm fucking hungry but I've eaten enough. Falling asleep on an empty stomach is so damn hard.

A little more hiit cardio a little more carbs a lot more caffiene and a little less comparing yourself to more experienced and bulking lifters!!!

You got it bb

>You got it bb

thanks buddy I'll make it for you

Good/Bad Feels... I guess lol
>be me
>be winter bulking
>want to cut but refuse till I can 3 pl8 bench for 6-8 reps
>did 285 for 4 today, getting close to goals
>not worried about girls, took vow of celibacy for next two months
>not really celibacy but don't give a fuck about thots, I have my goals and no distractions

I weigh 240 uhggg but I'm close, I can't wait to cut and look like Adonis but I have to put faith in the process

I want to be single but am married. There’s no way out for me, she’ll take everything.

Intermediate fast so you don't have to

Ah man I know this feel. I’m 22 and have done pretty much nothing of note with my life, I just go to the gym and go to class and do nothing else.

>I just want someone to think I'm attractive and worthwhile spending time with.
lad take this feel somewhere where I can't feel it as well

desu it sounds like you have something really comfy going on

the grass isn't always greener

I'm trying to get myself out of the rut but most of my friends are too far for me to go hang out with (I was a semperfinigger) and I realized that I just shut myself in when I got back home, I spend most of my time in class taking notes, day dreaming and the time in between is spent doing procrastinated homework.

>Knees are fucked/
That's it for me lads.

>Girl lead me on like crazy
>After a while even for a beta like me enough is enough, tell her to fuck off and break all contact
>She still has me added on snap and watches my story
>What the fuck
>All my friends who break up with/get broken up with say the girl always deletes them after
>Trying to forget about her
>Only time I feel ok is when I'm in the gym
>Buds are dyels and complain I have been cutting time with them for lifting
>They are right, I go even when I'm sore just to blow off steam because I'm just mad or down all the time
>I'm probably gonna hurt myself because I want to be lifting really heavy but am still new so I am frequently biting off more than I can chew
>My only friend who lifts told me straight up I'm gonna die if I keep on like this
>For some reason don't care

I got an pretty ugly gf.
>qt in like 5% of circumstances/lightings, bit looks like a goblin in 30% percent of lightings
>sticcc mode
>has weird health issues that give her gas and dietary restrictions
But
>cooks for me all the time, shes hypoglycemic, so mostly protein and no sugar. steaks, pot pies, etc
>cuddly as fuck (not a positive for some but big plus for me) and extremely affectionate in general
>hilarious, cracks me up
>not clingy, basically lets me go rogue for days at a time without any worries
>talks through her issues like an adult and doesnt do guessing game bullshit and shit testing
>rich ass family, last weekend took me on a snowboarding trip to her aunts cabin at a resort
Its a mixed feel. Best dating experience ive ever had but man she is ugly sometimes. The sex is either amazing or awful.

Oh man, you gotta get rid of that. I never ask for a snapchat from a girl I'm dating unless she basically forces it on me. I know when we break up, I'm gonna see shit I don't want to

Oh, also shes on ssri meds, so she cant orgasm. No matter how good my dick game is and all the foreplay in the world cant do shit unless i break out a utility belt of toys to help. Feels bad man.

try to do something on rest days
like walks in the park or something

I've been cheated on a few times, so I know what you mean about trusting another girl. But sometimes you just gotta say:

"Not every girl is your ex"

I had some good times with many different ugly girls, but fuck man sometimes you just want to bang an 8, you know?

>tfw meet new girl
>tfw hung up on ex
>tfw part of me wishes I was busy enough to blame loneliness on job etc

just end it. don't know how much longer I can stay on this treadmill

>tfw depressed for months
>tfw medication makes you feel better but depression remains
>tfw you'd an hero if you didn't have family that it would fuck up

I just don't see the point to life lads. I feel like Solomon in Ecclesiastes

>mfw mood swings again

How do I deal with this shit, I know I can because I've become self-aware about it but its like trying to stop a speeding train by throwing yourself in front of it

Hey dude I’m pretty similar too especially going clubbing when you have no friends

I have a girlfriend though and I’ll tell ya it doesn’t solve everything now it’s

>tfw you want to go gym but she says no
>tfw you’re on a cut and she’s pressuring you to junk eat but not pressure you at the same time

>tfw it’s been two weeks and you haven’t gone gym and you lost your gains

>tfw she says oh but I don’t like your muscles

Yeah nah I know people would say to drop her but it’s been 6+ years and I actually love her too

>Yeah nah
Brit, Saffa, or Bogan?

>lifting for a few months
>know i shouldnt be expecting to see much
>but constant doubt in back of mind as i lift, 'is this the right lift to be doing? the right form? the right routine?'
i cant stop thinking that im doing everything wrong and im wasting my time and a year from now i'm still going to be a hungry skeleton except with a belly from all the eating

another dream about my ex after 15 months

haha this is great i love dreaming about us getting back together every single night and forcing myself to snap out of it before it gets too real

I’m a facken bogan cunt. The fuck is a safffa tho?

Wouldn't you like to know ;)

Cape Town?
>moar liek Rape Town

Topkek and yes
Hope you're not in Melbourne.. hear it puts San Francisco to shame

Actually, I am in Melbourne, cunt.

Surprised you've heard of us, desu. It's not a very large town.

Have you checked your privilege today, you fucking white male?
>*is it actually that bad there, though?

No, it's not bad at all. Almost no shitskins around, and the beaches are choice. Lots of conservative qts, and tons of engineers in town.

>Tried 330lbs diddly today
>308 went easy
>super happy
>went over my head and tried 340
>wouldn't budge
>Pissed
>330 with mixed grip worked
>not happy like with the 308

wtf

No shit? That's great to hear. I heard it's not even a left leaning bias, but full on es jay dubya.

There are a lot of facken chinese tourists though. Was there 2015, had good time

Totally incorrect.
Nah, they all go further south, to Miami, or inland, to Orlando (and Disney World)

I didn't know Miami and Orlando are in Australia

>gf of 1.5 years
>loving, warm, caring
>since december text are getting less and shorter
>sometimes insulting
>doesn't want to spend new years eve with me but alone at home (she had to take care of dogs and doesn't celebrate anyways)
>meet up after christmas
>find out she didn't tell me a lot of things (buying stuff, doing things, going here and there)
>texts me drunk two weeks ago, wanting the D
>LDR, so I decline
>after that, again, nothing for a few days
>asked her several times whats wrong and told her that she has changed
>she says all is well
>I feel like she doesn't want me in her life anymore for 8 weeks
>sent her a breakup message yesterday (because LDR)

I dun goofed, didn't I?

Also: If this would happen to you, how would you react? And could she fix this situation for you? If so, how?

Sorry for blogging.

No, they're in Florida. I live in Melbourne, Florida.

In a similar boat. Dated a friend of mine for a while and was too pussy to escalate, which caused an argument, which led to "breaking up". Thing is, I think we still like each other. We certainly act like we do. I asked her out and got a "we'll see" which usually means yes for her, but now I'm not sure.

Wondering if I should just outright tell her I want to pick up where we left off cuz it was going somewhere good if I'd just done something.

>meet some girls
>meaningless sex
>still havnt found anyone like her
atleast im gettin stronger and bigger

I would kill you and rape your gf

>tfw it's been more than two years
>tfw have dated, have fucked random girls
>tfw I've done everything they tell you to do to get over her
I got deadlifts tonight. I'll commit them to you, user.

Fuck, sorry to hear that man.
What's the circumstance?

Thanks user. I moved plus different faiths.. the latter never came up while we dated but I knew if we went the whole 9 yards it would have.