How much casual sex do I need to have before I start looking for a good girlfriend?
>fat 20 year old virgin
>lose 100lbs and fuck a girl
>casual sex is alright
After years of porn and now trying to improve myself, casual sex dissapointed me. However I'm worried if I don't up my numbers I'll end up with settling worse than I could of gotten. Any advice?
Stop obsessing over sex. Just find a woman that you love. The sex will be godly. The difference between casual sex and love sex is massive.
not op but
>find gril i love so much
>she is really into you and has a cute face, kind of chubby tho
>cant get hard in bed due to love anxiety and performance expectations when we tried
>try a 2nd time and same thing
>she had very low self esteem and it nearly ruined us
>split up and go our separate ways because she wasnt ready for a relationship that i wanted
it ruined our sexual relationship and it became platonic friendship after that. dont know if i dodged a bullet or it was for the best. her body was 3/10 at best but she was the closest human i've ever felt not alone with. i wish my dick just would of agreed.
That suck, man. I don't have any good advice other than try to find a way to solve your problem.
> rating your soulmates body 3/10
she was a landwhale dude, dont worry about keeping your dick harf
You're all way off your base lines guys
> when you first get one girl you like sexing up it's way easier to get more
> have more women
> care less about each one
> they instinctually pick up on this and believe you're high value
> they worker harder to please you
> ????
> profit
Having a (ONE) gf is for suckers
Nah bro, I've lived both those lives, and I can guarantee the one where you actually have a girl you care about and trust and can share EVERYTHING with is 10x better than infinite sloots.
sure, for a while. Nothing lasts forever user
This. Casual sex is slightly better than masturbating. Love sex is like masturbating your heart.
If it’s a serious relationship, remember you always want to be the slightly better looking partner. It gives you a slight edge, makes her less likely to break up for some frivolous reason, makes her more conscious about her appearance since she knows you could probably do slightly better than her, etc.
So if you’re a 7, aim no higher than a 7; maybe an 8 would be manageable, but it’s really pushing it. Any more attractive and she will be constantly looking for opportunities to get out of the relationship. Plus, if you do end up breaking up with the girl, you’ll always be trying to fuck women at least as hot as your ex gf otherwise you’ll feel like you’ve completely dropped down a level. Having a 8-9 gf and then having to resort to fucking 5-7s for a while after breaking up is really shitty (personal experience).
Of course if you’re just banging sloots it doesn’t mater how attractive they are.
I don’t understand this shit. If I have feelings for a girl my boners are 10x as hard and activate being within 10 feet of her.
People only ever fall in love with those who are on their level, and when you are in love you don’t look at your partner as a number on a scale, they are above those standards and of a different domain of attractiveness.
You’re right, but still, at one point in time you did judge her as a number out of 10
It’s important I think to be honest with yourself about whether you and her are about the same level for the sake of a happy relationship
this is so fucking gay, are you all NYRs?
you PLAN and try to IMPROVE yourself while CHAD says whatever he WANTS and still gets ENTHUSIASTIC blowjobs
If you're a 7... you're not fucking getting ANYTHING in (current year). Maybe 1's and 2's if you're extremely lucky and in the right place at the right time.
t. 2 who thinks he's a 7
This.
Bullshit. If a girl is bad at it it will be shit anyway and if there's a girl who's really good but you don't give a fuck about her you'll have great sex. Don't fall for muh feels. You're an animal.
>You're an animal.
one driven by chemical reaction, in love being the greatest, releasing dopamine levels similar to drugs like cocaine. try get that from your lust fuck. who needs drugs when your body can already give you the high naturally.
no sex ever even compares to drugs, orgasm maybe but that only last like 3 seconds while drugs last for hours
>need to have
None.
this depends on what kind of guy you are.
For me this is completely true to the point where casual sex does not interest me in the slightest but for other guys this could be the complete opposite.
I have actually experienced something resembling mdma for several hours after spending a day with my crash. It was a really strong feeling, maybe even better than mdma. But when it comes to sex it always depends almost solely on how much I like the appearance of the girl and how good she is at sex. If a girl is just lying on a bed and do nothing it will be meh-tier sex no matter how much I love her.
>"could of"
I hope you never get a girlfriend.
>"would of"
I hope the girl kills herself and then you get sad and kill yourself too
Married user here. Love sex is great and all, but nothing beats casual sex with a rando who has never gone through a pregnancy while you're away on a business trip.
>How much casual sex do I need to have before I start looking for a good girlfriend?
the autism on this board is staggering sometimes. like, what kind of question is this even?
>tfw too ugly and prudish for casual sex to the level I've never kissed a women I didn't date seriously.
Jokes on me because I've been kissless and sexless for 2 years.
While this is true I ocasionally get the freedom to fuck a random thot and the exitement over that makes GF sex better for the next 3 weeks. It's different.
You have to train and get experience before you can have a sucessful relationship dumbass. If you've been getting laid since you were a teen then it doesn't matter but if you're like OP and were a virgin until recently, you need to make up for lost time and build up a back catalog of past lays.
sex is fun and all, but it is really only multiplayer masturbation. Stop worrying about it.
Don't fall for the "need to get your numbers up" meme. Getting your numbers up only matters insofar as it gives you an edge in experience over a girl. So, essentially, the main "benefit" of a high number as it goes up is that it lets you pull rank on bigger and bigger whores.
This is all totally pointless if you've already realized that casual sex is a meme and you want a good gf. If your low number/fact you're not trying to get right into bed is a problem for a girl, she's a slut and you next her.
>You have to train and get experience before you can have a sucessful relationship
I guess that's your excuse for not having a relationship?
Out of the 7 women I fucked (6 normal girls and 1 prostitute) I only really enjoyed sex with one. Granted, she was a long term girlfriend I loved and we went raw, but she was head and shoulders above the rest. Emotional connection is important. Sexual compatibility is important.
Too much sleeping around can burn you out (man and woman), but too little can be a disservice for yourself too.
Oh, and it usually takes time to get used to the other person, their tastes, etc. Generally sex with someone you have slept with many times > sex for the first time with someone new.
>You have to train and get experience before you can have a sucessful relationship dumbass.
Sad that people think this. I've been with the same girl since I was 14 (22 now)
You guys are such faggots.
>Just find a woman that you love
NO NO NO
Casual Sex has nothing to do with having fun, no one is saying that is better then sex with the Person who loves you/you love her.
Fucking sluts / casual sex has to do with evolving, with getting confident.
Bc only if you are confident and an behave like an Alpha, only then you will have a succesful relatioship with a nice looking Girl!
PERIOD.
Faggots, stop being beta and go fuck some pussy.
So OP, go fuck as many Girls as you can.
Dont stop if you fall in love, fuck as many you can, until you really believe that you are an Alpha man tha can have a Girl whenever he likes. Then and only then you are ready for a relashionship.
Love is an illusion, just fuck sluts
Every girlfriend I've ever had has ended up making me miserable and made me feel like a bird in a cage
dubs of truth!
Damn. A tripfag that actually knows what he's talking about and isn't a massive fag.
Kek