Who /contentwithbeingaloneforever/ here?

I see so many threads about loneliness and tfw no gf. Anybody else here totally fine with being alone? it's so much more peaceful. All I do is lift and pursue hobbies that interest me.

Everyone should be content with being alone.
Honestly, the dating game is 90% looks, but if we really want to go into semantics and argue about character and shit, you should be a man who is content with being alone to get someone.

The desire for a girl is mostly desire for your long lost childhood, you are looking for a mothers love. You are looking for a sea of acceptance and belonging. You are looking for someone to share your deepest secrets with, someone to 'get' you, someone to understand your struggles in life. Someone to share your story with.

In reality, no such person exists. Women are not capable of loving you like that. A women's love is more akin to how a child loves a parent. They need protection, they need boundaries to feel safe.

>“Men remember being boys. Man has a lucid perspective in comparing the diminished affection of his adulthood to the greater bounty of his childhood. Women do not experience such a significant loss of affection. As such, man is forced to realise he will never again be loved so profusely, for the boy gets his fill, but man loves the most to be loved the least. The profundity of maternal love is longed for, but forever gone. A girlfriend cannot provide that and is loathed to do so should a weak man demand it. This is perhaps the bitterest of all the pills.”

Make no mistake, women can be fucking great. They are beautiful, the smell nice, sex is fucking great, and they can lend you some emotional support (sparingly). Just don't expect to find some magic savior who will 'get you' like no one else and will turn your shit life into some state of perpetual bliss.

TL;DR: man the fuck up.

>Inb4 some underage autist calls me a fedora tipper or replies with an Elliot Rodger image macro

It's lonely

Shut the fuck up you beta bitch. You're just making excuses to cope. Real men either get pussy or go full Elliot Rodger.

I found a nice forum and made a few friends there. Now when I go out in public I feel a lot less nervous. I know I don't have to impress anybody, nor do I really care since I'm no longer desperate for attention. I just go out and have fun and other people seem to like it a lot more too

i've always been jaded enough to know that i will never find a casca. it doesnt stop me from secretly thinking about it though

I don't want to discourage anyone, I'm an old jaded faggot pushing 30. You can live through some pretty fucking intense highs and lows next to a good girl, and at the end of your life only the accumulated experience will matter.

All I'm saying is that the last person who loved you unconditionally was your mother. Men are better off with shedding this longing for the perfect partner, but most won't.
Just try and keep your expectations realistic, guys.

(Also I fucking loved Casca's VA in the original series.)

r9k would love you

OP I havn't been in a relationship in over a year and a half. I'm 34. When I began dating/having sex I was 18 and was in numerous long term relationships, one failed marriage, another failed engagement, was into crazy BDSM parties, and never really took time to regroup before I had a nervous breakdown when I turned 30. I took a year off of dating, went back to college, then got into another long-term relationship that didn't work because I never fixed my own issues. I have bipolar and it's well treated with meds but I still suck at relationships. I'm about to start grad school and I've accepted that I might not date for another two years or so. I don't want or have kids which makes it harder because so many single people my age have kids. I would rather be single had have my time to excel in school and other interests I have and not be financially destitute than be in a relationship with a single parent and their kid(s) leeching my time and sanity. I was bi-sexual for awhile but I can't stand the LGBT scene that is nothing but sex, which is something I really don't fucking care about anymore (I even began no porn a month ago and feel so much better).

I'm getting my shit done. I'm a honors student about to start grad school, have become involved with a very large good church in my area, have a great relationship with my family, have time for my art, music, and things I enjoy doing. I also have a good group of friends and can find someone to go out to have fun when I want to go to a show or bar or whatever.

I'll only get into a relationship when I'm sure that the boundaries will be stable, that neither of us is a head-case, and that we will enhance each others lives emotionally. If that never happens again, so be it. I can't deal with shit relationships anymore.

>I was bi-sexual for awhile
nigga you gay there is no bi you either like sucking dick or you don't

Don't kid yourselves, you only got used to the loneliness and as soon as you experience anything social you'll want more of it