Men who have gotten fit while being in the same relationship, how has your gfs/wifes behaviour changed

get yourself a better girl then user
also
>not fucking your girlfriend before AND after your workout
its like you dont want to make it

>lmao lifting is a meme because you're a twink and girls still love you

>Not fucking your girlfriend before, after, and DURING your workout

Became more aggressive insecure and lazy.
left her to fuck sluts.

I never have sex before exerting masculine energy whether it's working out, hunting, fishing, fixing stuff, engaging in violence, or building stuff. Call me crazy but women have a draining effect on men.

audible kek

It's less women and mores so the act of sex, you just released alot of endorphins, which is what your body would also use to help you exercise.

You are physically drained on the hormone, not mentally by the woman. Same thing would happen if you were gay.

>started dating bf
>saw he was going to the gym regularly
>ask him to be my gym senpai
>been working out together for a few years
>improved both of our bodies
>feel healthier and attracted to one another
>motivate one another and nerd out over Veeky Forums things

We still aren't at our goals because it's easy to be a bit fat and happy due to being in a stable relationship.

But overall it's been good to have more things to do together and feel better at the same time.

Well shit, if that's good enough for girls then I should be solid.... right?

lol

you aren't ripped, youre a twink and she is probably some 5/10 meh

great progress man

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this just proves how being more than a DYEL is a waste of time
women are so easily impressed, going beyond this is just autistic

What. You're not even slightly muscular though.

He's fitter than 90% of the population and has decent chest and abs. Nothing spectacular but it's definitely a visible V taper and enough to impress girls.

>be fat, but have a nice face and good job
>in a relationship with an awful bitch
>get fit
>leave bitch

>wake up

She left after a year and a half LOL

Yeah, I was asleep for way too long.

are you a woman or a homosexual?

she didnt care when I started
1 year later
she still didnt care
2 years later and im kinda buff
get compliments from friends that I got in shape and get hit on by random girls which never happened to me before
>girlfriend still pays no attention to my body whatsoever
>she starfishes during sex 100% of the time, closes her eyes and never makes a sound until its over
>tried to break up with her half a year ago but she threatened suicide and I couldnt be bothered so we stayed together
>started fucking a 16 yo I met clubbing a few months ago
>great sex, she's all over me during it, moans and tells me I make her cum
>still really love girlfriend but the sex is awful and communicating isn't helping
>16yo told me she loved me last week so I said it back
>kind of have 2 girlfriends right now
>never been more depressed in my life
>school pressure adding to my depression
>lost the will to live months ago and just going through the motions to make people around me happy
will it ever end Veeky Forums?

>literal pedo

you're fucking garbage. get your shit together.

16 is legal where im from though

Got in a similar situation.

The solution was to aquire a third girlfriend, which is even more carzier in bed and even younger

lol fucking ignore the other guys.
Break up with your 1st gf. Honestly, she can't keep you down forever like that. She won't kill herself, trust me OP. She sounds like she has Borderline Personality Disorder. Break up with her and pursue that 16yo qt and fuck that pussy daily.
P.S. 16 is legal in most countries

>tried to break up with her half a year ago but she threatened suicide
Sounds like a real mature sane person ypu're dating. Send her to therapy.

>literal
Oh boy

underrated comment

Where do u live that 16 year olds can get into clubs?

holey moley. at the least one of you three will be committing seppuku sometime soon. break up with the 1st gf before its you.

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start a test/tren cycle that shit cured my depression real quick

What do you do if you're on your 5th gf who's a baby and get depressed?

Date a pregnant woman ::for the fetus::

Good progress, nice to see being a fat fuck doesn't effect your present aesthetic. Much deserved

this, tbqh.
Just never fall for the trap of bringing your GF to the gym with you. She's a goddamn gains goblin who'll want to leave after 30 minutes or an hour

Same here

GF likes my body but said she liked it before anyway, so no real difference there. The main difference is that I now have a higher expectation of what my partner should look like, whether that's fair or not is debatable.. however she does occasionally gym with me (once or twice a fortnight) but has put on at least 5-10kg of fat whilst I've put on about the same in muscle.
She does get a bit salty at times especially when I try and help her at the gym or if we have an argument, "not everyone has 2h to spend at the gym every day" etc and the whole "society expects women to be skinny" etc.. which is bullshit, deflecting the blame so you never have to take responsibility for your own appearance.

When I started lifting I got swole enough to date my future highschool sweetheart. The leaner I got the fatter she got. Ended up in the same weight class and finally broke up. She went from 140 to almost 200. Just showed me how lazy and complacent women are.

are you literally retarded? Im quoting what the fat bitch said to me

>at the beginning she was like "I dont care if a guy is ripped"

Im not saying I AM ripped, I have a long way to go, I am just noticeably different than in my starting point, stupid double niggers

yeah normies are so easily impressed, being slim is like 90% of the work, just do some crunches and cardio to look like the guy in fight club and they'll be like ZOMFG You're so athletic!

same

sometimes I go to fuck some girl after my shift and then I hit the gym, my performance is not so good as when I go fresh to the gym

post pic fagit

thanks guise

Woman.

>and the whole "society expects women to be skinny" etc.. which is bullshit, deflecting the blame so you never have to take responsibility for your own appearance.

>girl I know started randomly bitching about having to shave her legs and how inconvenient it was
>this is a women who only likes really buff guys
>point out that working out is more commitment than she has to do for shaving her legs or doing her make up
>'YEAH BUT THATS HEALTHY AND EVERYONE SHOULD DO IT'
>Has been getting fatter year after year and continuously complains she has no self control
I want off this planet.

Just gotta have some rough hype up sex, then hit the gym for some PRs

I just realized people who post stories and mires like this probably look as shitty too. You're not even ottermode. Just plain DYEL. It truly is all about the face fucking lol.

no fuck you and your "opinion"

My last ex was a gains goblin
>last ex
>ex
>EX

She’s still lazy. Still won’t come to gym, and it pisses me off.
I say va fangool to it all I got me a nice cumare on the side.

good riddance

It hasn't, cause by the point I've made visible gains our relationship detoriated from the gf/bf phase. But that hardly an example, since we are friends for six years and renting apartment together for four now. So we were nothing more than fuckbuddies, both have aknowledged we didn't feel THAT way for each other.
Build homegym together though she doesn't use anything much but a squat rack nowadays. Visit local swimming pool together as well.

you are dyel though lmao, not even ottermode because bf% too high

Your gf has problems. Dump her ass.

my hero

My missus did the same.
She has put a fair bit of weight on since we've been together and I'll never forget the shit she was giving me when I started lifting. When I first started writing down what I was eating in a day just to check calories and stuff she gave me the filthiest look and said 'I fucking hate people who count calories'

Feels bad man

She grew distant and then dumped me. I thought she was the one

She's supportive and happy I'm taking care of myself.

Doesn't go to gym herself because of work but then, she works at a warehouse so she stays in shape doing that. Except she has to lift heavy unwieldy shit and I worry she'll break her back one day.

these are the people posting in mirin threads :(

>tried to break up with her half a year ago but she threatened suicide
Not your problem. This sort of thing is surprisingly common with women, and they usually don't kill themselves. If she does, it's her fault, not yours. Time to leave her, user.

I agree, he's not impressive or something, but he's way above the average 30 y.o. guy, which is by far enough to get girls between 18-25.

>ITT people with shit taste in women

I've seen my gf's hot boy folder. There were photos of scrawny boys, traps, bears and ottermodes. I never had a body matching any of those ( except maybe when we started dating I was closer to a trap, at least I had the ass ). When I started getting chubby, she was always playing with my stomach. When I started getting fit, she's feeling up my biceps etc.

Stop dating trash tier women.

A 16 y.o. is a full grown up woman, that's why it's legal in every single European country you fucking retarded Murican.

Been together for 5 years but over the last year I've grown tired of her. She loves the hell out of me but I want to get away and go cocoon mode. I just got a new job and have been getting fit for the past few months after recovering from a back injury and met a cute little 22 year old that I'm interested in now. But I still live with the first girl.
My 5 year relationship feels overbearing but I don't have it in me yet to leave her until she's able to take care of herself.

she sounds psychotic

you're a piece of shit.

People grow apart, user.

Really? That's what it takes? I mean, I guess that's a good thing

He has said nothing to warrant this

>she loves the hell out of me
>people grow apart

Nice immediate contradiction, cuck.

>love can't be one-sided

Sometimes I feel like that but the truth is, she depends on me entirely so I won't leave her until she's able to take care of herself. We both moved from our hometown, which is 7 hours away, for school. I'm graduating in a few months which is what this new job is about but she's still working part time to cover her car payments. But my work is more than enough to cover rent, utilities and groceries.
I want out of the relationship to grow on my own but I can't leave her to fail. I don't have it in me to do that.

you remind me of that one pic thats been posted here of the fat wife who left her husband after years of marriage after she lost a ton of weight.

>Thinks just because his gf likes a wide range of body types that she's some top shelf chick.

Shut the fuck up mate

She left me
I think she wanted me to chase after her but I didn't want to look weak to I let her go, she asked me to pardon her and I refused

That makes my statement even stronger... it is YOU who cucked out and swallowed the goyPill.

I've been with my wife for five years. She got with me when I was about 260lbs at 5'10" and she was around 130 at 4'11".

I'm worked out fairly often for about two years now, but just finally started watching what I've been eating which was TRASH. Ive now lost 40lbs in three months and am now down to 211.

I still have a ways to go to get rid of this beer gut (I stopped drinking) but my upper body is really starting to finally show what I've been developing and she fucking loves it. We have sex every day unless she's too sore. Relationship is better than ever.

She let herself go because I was already fat. Now that I'm losing weight she's gotten motivated and started counting her calories herself without me trying to convince her or anything. I think she doesn't want to stay fat if I make it, but I'm not complaining.

Rob?

No, not Rob, but go give Rob a bro hug. He could use it.

kek
god bless mothers

That's probably how it will all turn out in the end. It sucks but she and I have been trying to make it work. She's the same person she was a year ago but I've been working hard to advance myself. I wonder when she will make her move to better herself more without relying on me so much.

Ditch the bitch user. You can do better. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.

an audible italian kek for your familiarity with our customs and traditions

>tried to break up with her half a year ago but she threatened suicide

My ex tried that shit on me too, I broke up a year ago, spoiler alert : she's still alive

It's a fucking lie user. Don't trust her bullshit, break up and live a better life, you're better than this bullshit

>she started to use our homegym too and wants me to spot her turning her pornstarbody into thicc
>Dickgains and my body turns her even wilder than before, we fuck at least once a day like animals after seven years.
>Now chases thots for us together with me
>Homegymcooldownfucks after workouts are now a regulary thing
>Is nine years younger
>Earns much more than meine and pays everything

Its surreal Veeky Forums i love her so much. She even took me as a fat blob

I'm gonna have a we-need-to-talk talk soon, this just might make me want to record it all just in case.

PLease. how are you doing this. im 27 and a virgin. fuck man

I already lifted when we starting dating but I've grown a lot since and she's always very happy to see the results. She works out herself too, so that's nice. We encourage eachother to go but we're also ok with it if it doesn't work for a certain reason

This thread is gr8. love to be reminded that im busting my ass at work and school and the gym and i still dont get any pussy for years .