ALPHA advice

HI
I am 19 year old i finaly got to have a relationship with a girl who has commitment issues
But she dosent want to call it a relationship
She wants freedom
She wants to be also with other guys
She says she cares about me and still wants to see me
But what hurts most is that we fit so wel
Im with her now fot 4 months
Even thinking about how normal for her to cheat on me is distrubes me
What should i do? Wil things change?
Is she fucking with me? and just using me? and the whole commitment issue thing only a excuses for being an attention whore/whore?

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>obvious cluster b personality disorder
Run away and don't look back

There's 3 types of relationships.
1) Monogamous and commited, none cheat in each other.
2) Fuckbuddies, both hang out together but cheat on the weekends (they both know this but pretend they dont)
3) Cuck and toth. You stay home while she gets stuffed every friday night.
There's also three types of men.
1)Alpha
2)Beta
3)Omega

This guy fucks, listen to him
Anyway, not Veeky Forums related. SAGE.

But how do i get alpha like im not realy into go fucking bitches im more of an feel guy
Do i need to stop being like this?

She's looking for a chad

Its easier said then done
> Just imagine you find a girl who listens to same music as you and same humor but she also has mental disorder is there a way to cure her?

Smash 'n dash

>cuck
Never gonna make it

The fact that you're here asking this question is the exact reason you need to fuck her off and start trying to find someone else.

No she likes me she realy does that why she is stil talking to me and wants to see me
Idk Veeky Forums
Maybe you guys know it better maybe is she just a slut

GTFO ASAP

>No she likes me she realy does that why she is stil talking to me and wants to see me

Yeah man, you can tell by the way she's trying to fuck other people.

Using the word alpha is low test to begin with.

No.
Just leave, you're too young to be settling down with someone who won't respect you.
Be firm. If she still wants more dick, then dump the slut, because she is a slut.

Look buddy. If you really want to be a cuck nobody's stopping you, but why do you expect us to tell you it's a good idea?

>She wants to be also with other guys
>She says she cares about me
Hahahahaha
this bait makes me laugh.
To think, cucks are a real thing, too!

I expect your guys advice but what if she realy has mental disorder?
Is there any chance i can make it different for her?

He is trying to convince himself that his bad decision is a good one.

>I'm in a relationship
>she wants to see other people

gonna be real with u chief, she's not into you

>>obvious cluster b personality disorder
>look this up
>girl I was interested in fits in 100% with a Histrionic personality disorder
Holy fucking shit mind blown. Shes like a textbook definition of this.

kek there's nothing you can do about someone not wanting to change, lots of people have been there and the people that stayed in that situation are either miserable or are lying to themselves by saying their okay with it or have a mental disorder themselves and like seeing Tyrone pound they're missus

She says she is scared to have real feelings thats why whe dosent want me talking with her about the whole relationship thing
Im not that of a cuck im meanwhile talking with other girls just incase she is fucking with me

>mental disorder
It's called being a slut.
She's also got a case of liarbetes, common with women in general

>dosent want me talking with her about the whole relationship thing
Red flag, you're on the hook m80.

Move on or realize in a few months / years at worst that you should have moved on.

She has mental disorder she said she tells me self like she isnt a bad person realy
She says is better for us if she stop taling to me because she even feels bad how she treats me but there is a part of her that wants to be with me
Maybe i should train my feels out and forget about her
> Oke now we talking what should i train today what are some intense workouts

Mate I know you don't want to accept this but for real she's lying to you to either string you along incase she gets no dick or is attempting to protect your feelings.

Neither are good but one is worse than the other.

If you're talking to other girls then you have no reason not to block her out of your life and move on. If she was as into you as you say she is then in a months time she'll regret it and try to come crawling back into your life. If she doesn't then you got out just in time.

I wonder how many other people she has said this too while they've been "together".

So i should just test her if it all is true?
Like i go out with other girls and see is she gets jelous?

the more you are trying to bind her, the more she will be dusgust from you.
To attract her, dont care about what she does and what she says. Most imporntant think, fuck other qts, alot of other qts. Dont always have time for her, coz you are fucking other grils.
Then and only then she will be attract to you, so attract, that she dont going to Need other guys cocks in her.
You just must be an attractive man, then she is your.
PS. NEVER say that you love her or you care about her!

>start no fap a week and a half ago
>girl i used to know in college sends nudes out of the blue on wednesday "by accident"
>start texting raunchy shit back and forth
>more nudes on thursday
>asks to watch me play with myself
>can't, at work
>don't talk again till today
>ask her about her weekend trip, left on read
>say "no? welp it was nice while it lasted"
>she says "it's probably better off this way"
>i ask what she means by this
>she says "you're not seeing them again"
>tell her "ok" and leave it at that

Now, I don't particularly care about her, but I want to understand where I fucked up in case something similar happens with someone I actually care about.
I think she texted me in the first place cause she wanted attention, which I gave in droves beacuse i was horny as shit and she was talking about how she wanted me to cum to her nudes, not to mention the nudes themselves.
My theories are that I went from too much attention to too little too quickly, that she simply stopped being horny and now wasn't interested, or my lack of cooperating with her requests for jerking off at work turned her off.
(Is it worth mentioning she said that I was being too rough with the sexting and that she liked being "worshiped" what ever the fuck that means?)

Thoughts?

Don't even see it as a test, just see it as moving on. All the time you care you're going to be miserable to a degree.

Keep getting fit, forget her and see other people. Then if she comes crawling back and stops being a turbo slut you can make a decision on what you should do.

Lesson for sure learned m8 i wil never tell any other girl that i love them
But im not all about sex desu the whole sex thing realy disappointed me i just dont want to feel lonley
Are all women like this tho?
Maybe i should buy a dog

She wants to see you get with a bunch of other girls so that she knows your a stud. Not clingy and lonely and pathetic. Then she will find you attractive. And want you.

She probably got another guy to also send her his dick. Then when you followed up with the "no? welp is was nice while it lasted" she probably just laughed at you and fucked you off.

Bruh I got a dog instead of a girl, it actually filled a void and made me a happier person then because I was happier and more confident I actually found a homely girl that I trust not to slut around.

Dogs are sick cunts.

What do you want from her anyway? You're fine with her fucking Chad Thundercock on the reg, just because she likes the same music as you and she shares your sense of humour.

Is that enough to go through this shit for? She baked your noodle so hard you're asking randos you don't know from a bar of soap for relationship advice, while she's slurping on a thousand dicks not giving a shit about you.

Is her taste in music gonna' be enough to silence the little voice in your head even if she does pity you enough to call it a relationship?

>I fuck other people all the time but trust me, I’m not a slut.
Shut the fuck up.

literally in the same situation

theres nothing you can do but take advantage of the intimacy while it lasts, while disconnecting yourself from her where you can (hang out less, dont buy her shit etc), so when she does actually move on, you don't feel like a cuckold but instead a fuckbuddy

I don't know if this will get through to you, but just get out man. I've been there and it was the roughest three months I've had in years. She will cheat on you, she will blame that shit on you somehow, once you're gone she will find someone else in a matter of days without a second thought. Not worth your time and you'll just look like a fool to everyone around you who has enough perception to understand what is going on.

Easier said than done though. Or you can just keep on being a cuck and have her leech money off you while she fucks other guys and you sit at home laying awake at night wondering what the fuck is she doing now.

Quads of truth

What do you think I could've done differently?

rip, same thing happened to me, feels bad man

Nothing man, she made her mind up and you weren't part of it.

The only thing to do is run, run run and don't ever look back. Shen want you but as a emotional and monetary support my friend meanwhile she rides the dick carousel until she get fat used or bored whatever happens first, she want you like her lifesaver boat.
>Be me
>Start uni met this girl
>She's my age but her body is kinda milf like but not into it so whatever
>Fast forward some months
>We have mutual friends in uni so we start talking
>Fallinginlove.exe
>I tell her how I feel, she says she feels the same but she doesn't want comment bc she was hurt in the past
>So dumb that I say fine
>We were "dating" for like 3 months until she got bored of me and that's was it
Don't do the same mistakes my man, she don't worth the suffering

Nothing, you didn't send your dick so she got someone elses which is all she wanted.

You could have not followed up with "no? welp it was nice while it lasted" which would have made you seem less pathetic but at that point why did it matter? She'd already decided she didn't want to give you more nudes.

You aren’t in a relationship you cuck. You are either a friend or a fuck buddy. Accept the role already

Yeah she want to see me friday
Gonna ignore her a day before and say no sory i have other plans and then go to a bar or something
Maybe the only chance that she wil ever love me is the abuse the fuck out of her

well no all woman are like this, they are woman that can be monogamous and love sex and they are womans that can be monogamous and dont like sex too much.

However, for you the most important Thing is to be attractive, coz only then you are the one who will choose which one should be your gf.
The most attractive Thing is being confident, having Alpha Qualities. Most important Qualities
>Confidence
>dont fear rejection
>you dont bind
>you lead, take decisions
>dont fear losing someone
>dont take her serious
>care about yourself
>do what the fuck you want

If you act Alpha, womans will come, or better, you will Approach them and they will open their legs.

Whats the most alpha thing i can do this friday just to fuck her up she wanted to see me this friday

wouldn't necessarily need to "abuse" her, just take advantage of whatever you can get out of her without getting too emotionally attached, so it hurts alot less when she does fuck off

Punch her in the face.

>The most attractive Thing is being attractive
ftfy

So it was my refusal/inability to send dick pics that turned her off
See, there's always something I could've done slightly differently to get better outcomes. Now I'm better prepared in case it ever happens again with a different girl.

You just conviced me

>Maybe the only chance that she wil ever love me is the abuse the fuck out of her
enjoy the ever increasing mutual emotional abuse, while you both try to out manipulate each other.
Here's a protip: she is probably much better at it than you

Lad, just dump her, she's a slut and it's not good for you to stay with her, you'll just become bitter and jaded.

>So it was my refusal/inability to send dick pics that turned her off
Wrong m8.
She had already decided and had obviously got what she wanted.
Literally nothing would have changed the oucome.
You send her dick, she ghosts you anyway.

Nothing. She's obviously got a grip on you and you're too much of a faggot not to do whatever she wants. The moment you see her you'll turn into an emotional pile of shit.

Just stay away. She won. Don't go back for another beating.

Dubs of the truth, same thing happened to me too

Good God, I can’t get girls but OP can? How fucking pathetic am I?

Some would claim OP didn't actually "get the girl"
Might just be that he is a bit more social or just happened to be in a situation where a thot realized she could string the poor sapper along for money and/or ego boost.

This kind of girls like it when you treat them wrong no matter what they say but user I know you aren't that way, in the end she is going to revert back everything and you are goin to end up more depressed bc she's gonna make you believe that it's all your fault.
>Girls are sick at manipulation

There's always something you can do
I have no idea what that thing was in this situation, but thinking you had no chance is the first small death that leads to total obliteration

>Whats the most alpha thing i can do this friday just to fuck her up
text her you want to fuck her like a Little slut, you want to see her swollow your cum, use and drop her.

Unless you truly believe that this is the girl that will deliver that ultimate ball-job don't waste your time.

Whats the most chad way to dump her?
Should i just delete her from everything like out of nowhere haha or
Or
I should be more meaner?

Do you think you have mean to her in you?

OP

Please don't do this to yourself, when I was you're age I was also excited to finally meet someone I felt like I connected with despite the red flags. Trust me when I say you don't want to do this to yourself. There are many many better girls out there who will not only share the same intrests as you but also want to be with you, just you. Cucking yourself is not a good way to gain respect or love and you will just end up hating yourself in the end. Run, run far away and find someone you deserve.

No my friend, dont be mean to her, this is not Alpha.
The most Alpha would be just to not care about her and not giving her your time.
That means, dont even block her, just let her text you, look at the text 1-2 days later and dont even answer. If you answer, then at least 1 day later.
Stay always calm. If she ask you whats going on, why are you so cold, you say nothing, everything alright Baby and ignore her.

To do that you must have Options, most important think to act Alpha naturaly is to have Options. So you must go out and Approach or do alot of good online game (tinder and shit).

Real human bean real human hero

Nice would do

My ex was like this, I was shocked when I found out that was, it's her to a T.

I’m a 29 year old virgin.

you just have to beat her at her own game and prove to her that you are the chad she needs by fucking other girls. yeah it's a knockdown blow to you that she won't commit for you but you got to get back up and push forwards(fuck other girls), this will make you more desirable, and if she still not into you maybe you will find someone better along your journey anyway. gl mate

This is absolute shit advice. You think it's good, because it doesn't require you to cut contact completely. You're still gonna live with her name in your phone and hope in your heart.

It might be good advice for someone who knows what they're doing, but you're obviously in over your head. Just cut your losses man. When it comes to fucking with other peoples' heads she's already showed that she's much better than you. Do you go up to big fucks and try to punch them in the face?

Did this bascketweaving subreddit crashed or was it just me?

That's the real attitude: wanting to learn from mistakes

A-Shouldn't have waited that long for talking to her, when a girl wants dick, she will get it; if you deny her dick, she will find it somewhere else.

B-Shouldn't have just denyed her, but rather, told her something among the lines of "hey, I'm at work right now, but just after work I'll make up for the wait", rahter than just telling her "no" and stop talking to her you mongoloid.

C-after B you should have tried escalating it to a more physical place, like netflix and chill or some bullshit like that

Wtf should i do else?
What is my best option and how should i do it?

Thanks for the protips my guy
The reason I haven't shoved my dick in her pussy is that she's approximately 8 time zones away and will be for at least a few months, something I realize now I should've mentioned in the first place.

You have to realise that she's fucked up beyond repair, or at least beyond your capabilities. Once you've realised she's never going to be with you, or love you or whatever it is you thought you could get from her. You need to cut contact with her, but more importantly you have to realise there's nothing you can do.

If you don't see her often just ghost her, she's not worth your trouble. If you see her often, like at work, you're gonna' have to tell her to her face that you're no longer interested in whatever relationship you think you had and then ghost her.

She's never going to change her mind about you. Your best option is not to fuck around with this anymore. You can't win her over, but at least you don't have to put yourself through this shit.

well this is Kind of true, this is why i said, to do that, you must have Options. Other Girls that you fuck.
In case you are not capable to do it, then block her from everywhere and Forget her.

This world continues to disgust me. You will too OP if you continue this shit. Is sex that important to you? You wont change her. This isn't some romance movie where she breaks down in your arms saying she loves you. Find someone better who deserves you. This is just not right.

Just read this whole thread and it is fucking bait. Nobody is as pathetic as op. Sage

Kid if you don’t leave her she’s going to fuck you up and eventually leave you. Cut her off completely and move on. Don’t even give her a chance to change her mind. Tell you she wants to see other people was her making the decision for you. Seriously get out now faggot

>not fitness related
>not even greentext
>sentences like an 16 year old
>problems like an 16 year old
>being this new
Fuck off

You're being used and you're also being retarded for even being in this kind of a relationship. That sensation of ''fitting together so well''? Guess what lad, she's just trying to act like something you'd like so you'd deal with her ''commitment issues''.

Admit it, you're a cuck that's desperate for some shallow semblance of a friendship or a relationship and you're willing to deal with a slut that will probably cuck you harder down the line with potential pregnancy of a child that's not even yours.

Sort out your own issues in regards of loneliness and desperation for human contact, since you clearly have them, because what you're doing now is not healthy for you.

She acts like this because she has the power. She knows guys WANT more. They want the whole loyal girlfriend experience. And by not giving it to them they feel insecure and crave it even more, while she dangles it in front of them. Making them think "I gotta show her I'm worth it" "I gotta show her I love her more than anyone else could".... And thus comes all the presents, the fucking, the gratification and the ego boosts right up until she hits 23 or something and starts getting wrinkly and decides to settle down.


What you need to do is treat her as a girl you fuck and chill with sometimes.

Use her to gain leverage and illusion of 'abundance'. And make it known that you don't actually date her and don't even like her that much. Treat her like she's a tag-along.


You'll get other bitches and (hopefully) stop caring about her because you'll realize that you "fit so well" with pretty much any cute girl who sucks your dick (SRS).

OR she'll realize you're not like one of the other desperate guys trying to make her their girlfriend and actually want to commit to you.


Just fuck it. Fuck it my dude. Tell her the fuCKING THE TH FUCK THE FUCK AHER AI i HATE THER TH OS MCUH I WANT TO KILL THE MA ALL THA I THA I WANT TO THEUCKING DEATH MATE i WILL KILL VERYONE TIF THEY ONT STOPF UCKIGN WITH ME I'M FUCKING EBETTER THAN AEVERYONE AND THEY SHOULD FUCING KNOW IT FEAT US FUCERS FUEAR IM THE BEST EVER

Difference between beta and Omega?

Break up with her and move the fuck on.

>asks how to be alpha
>on fucking Veeky Forums
you wanna know how to be "alpha"?
stop caring about uselessly vague terms like "alpha" or "beta"
literally just do what feels right and nothing can go wrong

>that sperg out at the end
Top kek

no Veeky Forums related

Then there’s guys like me who have a committed relationship but then cheat when they or their gf go out of town. Who else here is a scumbag ?

In the exact same situation as you OP
Here, I made a thread about it on adv yesterday Best thing for us is to get out it seems

>listening to the same type of music means you love each other
Nigga thats some middle school shit, dump her and move on

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