Veeky Forums feels thread

Uni friends tend to be lifelong, good for you, bro

Still improving on lifts?

Good job, man. Keep lifting

I know that feel, bro. But if she only came back because you were stronger/ more aesthetic, you wouldn't be happy.

Don't let it go, man. That's called becoming mature

Good luck, bro. Don't let the desk job be a gainz goblin

You're gonna make it, bro. Get into pro wrestling, and become a high flier. Instant puss

Going through a divorce with kids, myself, lad.
Be happy you didn't get married, trust me.

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A girl I want to bang beyond words called me hot today, yet I'm too much of a poozy to capitalise

I fucked up and injured myself because I just started lifting (again) so I've been out of the gym.

Also I'm still pushing away vague thoughts of wanting to off myself, it's getting boring.

Chad the fuck up.
If you don't get it in with this woman, I'm coming to your house and 1rm-ing your mom

What's your injury? Get your ass in the gym and lift something that doesn't fuck it up, more, you vagina

I wasnt able to move up to 95 lbs from 85 lbs bench press last time which sucks. Hopefully I can get higher than 4 reps today but I need to find someone to spot me.

Personality tests say that I’m an extrovert but I don’t like being around people
Also trying to make a YouTube channel, need to get a mic and I’ll be set

Bretty good. On a work semester and pretty much spending all my free time lifting and with family. Making social and gym gains. Still no gf after 3 years though

You'll do it, my dude. Are you eating enough?

You sound like me.
Btw, don't get disheartened if you don't get many views for a good long time

t. podcaster/ ex YouTube fag

Finally got over my anxiety and returned to TKD classes. Felt good to be there again; depression really did a number on me. Bulking right now, just ticked into 1pl8 ohp and 2pl8 bench each for 5x5. Feeling really strong which is helping the depression.

>1rm-ing your mom

im on the best shape of my life (i was a fatty) and im scared ill lose it all once college starts again
also im pretty lonely lately barelly talking to anybody

Thank you user I will try and chad the fuck up

My gf died a month ago from a car accident.
I took a few weeks off from the gym and went back there just a few days ago.
The thing is that this gym is where I first met her, and we would always work out together there.
It just feels so weird. When I go to bench, I look up expecting to see her spotting me, but she's not there.
I'm thinking of canceling my membership.

Good shit, my mang. You're officially into serious lifting territory

Keep going, bro. The better you look, the less lonely you'll be. Trust me

is it normal to lose complete interest in a girl when you find out she has a boyfriend? like no matter how much youre into her, it just instantly shuts off and you start over looking for a new one

or do you pursue her and convince her to be with you instead? it just seems odd to me

>Keep going, bro. The better you look, the less lonely you'll be. Trust me

Where does this train of thought come from? You can be fat as fuck and still go out and fuck ladies and have friends. Go to the gym and try to open up a little. Join clubs in college and talk to people next to you in class and SMILE. Being Veeky Forums is fine, but being a lonely weirdo while being fit is pointless

Of course it should make you lose interest retard. Do you really want to be with a woman who you convinced to leave a relationship? When the next guy better than you comes along she'll leave you too. Stop overthinking everything. That loss of interest comes from basic common sense.

Don’t do it bro. What would she think if you quit? Just hang in there man.

DON'T YOU CANCEL THAT MOTHERFUCKING MEMBERSHIP

What the fuck would your gf say?
Let me lay some shit on you, nigger. She might be gone, but what the fuck would SHE want you to do? You think she'd want you to let yourself waste away, and live a depressed, lonely life while becoming a fat, slovenly mess of a man?

Fuck, no.

She would want you to be the best goddamn person you could possibly be, and live a life worthy of the man she loved. Don't you give up, because her shot at life was taken away from her. Don't you fucking give up, when you know for a fact that, if she were given a second chance, she wouldn't waste a second of her life being unhappy or not taking care of herself.

You go to that gym, and do an extra rep for her, every single set, you hear me?

Had a date with a very respectable and very pretty girl today. Was a bit awkward, but since it was the first time we hung out without mutual friends, I'll let it slide. She was wholly interested the whole time, no phone, or anything like that. I really like her, although here's hoping I don't get crushed in an hour when she comes to have me help her with homework. She deliberately chose a room that might have other people in it, so I get the message and I won't make a move quite yet, though I will ask her to hang out again if all goes well.

If you lose interest, you lose interest. Nothing wrong with moving on because a roastie missed her shot with you. Fuck 'er.

It'll likely only make her want you more. And that's among the Chaddest things a man can do.

Normal. Only soyboys dream about taken girls.

Thanks man, yea I feel it’s not too bad a numbers for 90kg bw

Might have a date tonight, pretty excited

You're right, that it's possible, but confidence isn't something every man has.
If you look good enough, and hang in the right crowd, though, you won't need it. Roasties will come to you, people will find you more interesting, and, as a result, your confidence will rise, as well.

>be fat
>gymhard2017.jpg
>holidays happen
>gain back 10#
>overtime making my bank fat but keeping me from going to the gym
>set up gym in my work area (chemical manufacturing)

just trying to make the best of it, focusing more on diet, doesn't help that i drink like 10 beers a night

thanks for shedding some light my dudes

I asked my crash out several days ago, she didn't say no but she said she had to think about it (she's just broken up with her previous bf and he still trying to do something about it so it's not completely over yet). Today she kissed me on the cheek as a goodbye for the first time. A-am I going to make it or it means nothing and she just being easy on me?

im inlove with this girl, shes so nice and likes to hug me a lot, everytime she does it I die a little inside becasue I dont know if she does it because thats normal for her or becasue she likes me.

Started taking creatine again and I'm pretty fucking hyped for the next few months. Also can't wait until I can run around in a T-Shirt again.

I still feel fucking empty and drained out though. I wish I could just cry it all out and become a positive person.

Everyone (and I mean everyone) gains a bit over the holidays. You just have to roll with those punches. Keep going, now's the time to re-dedicate yourself.
Try to cut back on the beers, though, my friend. Or at least make room in your diet

are you me?

underarmour wojack is the most depressing of all the wojacks, why is this /fit? explain

I got fat Veeky Forums. Its been 3 years and I hate myself now, more than ever. I gained 120 pounds due to meds and now that i don't need them, I just want to lose the weight. im only eating 1500 cal per day, high protein, low fat, moderate carbs of course, but i can't get over the hump i'm on. The first 20 went great, but i've been at the next twenty for over a month now and i can't seem to adjust my routine enough to hit it where it counts. I think i might have some hypothyroidism going on now though. i just dont want any more pills.

>lifting and cardio going fine.
>feeling good after workouts
>diet going ok
>career is good
>friends are good
>hobbies are good
>reading Jordan Peterson
>room is tidy
>going out to talk to girls on a regular basis
>still no gf

Got really drunk, told my friend and crush to stand up, grabbed her shoulders, got rejected. Haven't spoken since.

It means she doesn't know if she's ready, yet, and feels like you'll be a serious commitment, if she says yes. Don't feel bad for yourself, if she just says no, and does her own thing, for awhile, but don't wait around for her, either. But for now, nurture the relationship, without being clingy or overbearing.

Talk to her, user. One on one.
Find a way into her DM's, or if it's comfortable, call her. You'll find out.

Take some time to re-motivate, user.
Look at how far you've come towards your goals, refocus on your fitness plan, find that original obsession, and make it fun again. You'll be okay.

have fun crashing in 10 years

i got a sex friend this weekend, have a job interview tomorrow, i will masturbate furiously today until i get so tired i need to go to sleep

i still find going out to make friends really boring, so i guess baby steps

eh, you don't need a girl right now. better not to look actively and just fall into it when its right.

how much cardio are you doing? i'm not outright fat (tfw skinnyfat) but last time i cut i noticed that when i added in a good bit of cardio, it had a huge impact on my weight loss.

also look into refeeds or cheat meals. that might help. good luck user!

Well he's just sitting alone in the empty apartment and doing usual things that keep him going, many can relate to it here I guess.

dont be a rebound... and maybe she sees you as more than one so wants to delay something for a bit..... or shes just letting you down easy

26 living with parents here. It really messes with your self esteem.

What did he mean by this?
If that were a viable tactic it would have worked by now.

There's nothing wrong with putting effort into fixing an area of your life that is deficient.

hear my feels
>together with gf for more than 4 yrs
>she knows this guy she since 10yrs, he looks like schwarzeneggers son but even more pudgy and badly clothed, they're best friends
>she tells him nearly everything, they write all the time and if she goes meeting someone it's him
>I don't really mind apart from a few times, but i always joke how I'm just her fuck buddy
>recently i was buying her kinky panties and accidently read message from him popping up on her phones screen
>something along the lines "id buy you decorated ones" and a blush emoji
>im kinda annoyed by this clearly he wants to impress her
>i confront her and say why she'd tell somebody male what i bought her and what she thinks hes trying to say to her with that message
>she says it was a joke and she didn't tell him it was kinky stuff
>i say yeah right, I'm a man and i know we're all horny shits
>she says for her he's not a man kek
>we're both mad at each other
Thanks for reading my blog folks
Am i just out of touch? I'd never share that kinda private info with another girl
But apparently I'm the bad man because i want to separate them apparently

probably she cheated on you and feel guilty therefore she is acting like this, wanting to make you feel like you did something wrong, bullet dodged my friend

Hired a hooker yesterday for shits and giggles, got my balls drained, some solid investment advice, and she's gonna set me up with her friend who isn't a hooker
She also called me cute which was nice, but I'm not sure I can believe her given I'm paying her to be nice to me

Hes a beta cuck tf are you concerned about

This. It hits close to home because he is obviously actively trying to improve himself based off the thing in the background and how he looks yet he still is feeling hard

nah man, i was "that guy" and i fucked the girl a few times when the bf was being edgy

The whole beta orbiter thing is very difficult to deal with.

I know from personal experience that I have been made out to be just a weird nice guy by friendgirls who would get kinky with me later.

The bottom line is that any hard dick in her vicinity is a threat, but behaving accordingly makes you look soft and can eventually kill her attraction towards you.

I met her when I was a fat fuck and often tells me about how I look better and that I am more huggable, how can I tell the diference between her normal behavior and when she is interest in someone?

Another day another hungover workout.... I need to fucking stop drinking

You are a bitch for letting that go on. Be a man and tell her to cut that shit out

you cant women are stupid

>finally overcome my shyness and autism
>everything thats left is a boring weird guy who seems like he has no emotions
Is this hell? My friends make fucking fun of me for always talking in the same monotone voice and never laughing. Should've stayed autisimo, atleast the girls found me cute for being so shy back then.

Make it today, user. Thats what Im doing. Do it together.
My whole schedule is fucked today thanks to going out drinking yet again way too late. Im done with this shit. I can be charismatic without it and Ill actually remember my nights.

Pathetic. Imagine how good your workouts would be not hungover

>monotone
>never laughs
>overcame autism

user, I...

I'm you except I could do with more/better friends and I have zilch chance of a GF right now. I haven't had a girl for years.

However, thanks to lifting and making a success of my business, I'll be in a completely different league when I reenter the meat market. Who knows, I might even get a grill who doesn't dump me.

I was that guy either, but I also was a fuckbuddy of a girl with beta friends whom she didn't consider as men. They tried to do many things, but there was no way they'd fuck her or anything.

Still feel like shit after end of 5y relationship some time ago, I posted this a few times already and people told me it gets better (which it's starting to do mentally) but physically feel like shit.

I think your instincts are right - he sounds like an orbiter who 100% wants to fuck her. But it also sounds like she's never ever gonna fuck him, just likes the attention I guess. Still a fucked up "friendship," would frustrate me if I were in your situation.

>suddenly fall in love with a girl after YEARS of apathy of that kind
>she has a boyfriend

you’ll never be able to live this down man, just so you know

For the second time since i started hooking up with this guy i met, right before penetration I go completely flaccid. Both times when i try to work myself back up nothing helps. I even tried turning on porn. Its fucking embarrassing. I don't think ive ever felt like less of a man over something before. The guy was totally understanding and still wants to meet up, but now im afraid its gonna keep happening. It feels like lifting is the only thing that brings me happiness, and the whole reason i lift ive fucked up. Just having a bad time right now.

Not OP. What do you mean?

Think he means that this plan isn't going to end well.

Probably that he has to live with a thought that he's paid for sex. For some, it may be not a big deal, but sometimes it can be hard to overcome.

What, getting a hooker? I don't care what my American friends think of me getting a hooker, and my at least half friends from back home have fucked hookers or strippers for money

>mfw look up "why do I sound so monotone"
>first things I found is an article about autistic people and why they always speak monotone
What the fuck man I'm fucking worried. I wasn't serious when I said I'm autistic. Just meant the Veeky Forums way of saying that I'm a bit weird and an incel

You could just be boring...

It's just nerves dude. Obviously your dick is still working, and the guy sounds like he's cool with it, so just relax and give it time.

Just imitate alphas. Pick someone else to be. I watched a fuck ton of Mad Men last semester and ended up acting like Don Draper at bars. Swear to christ just thinking about him whenever I spoke made me seem less eager, more mysterious and confident, and I got laid. Props to Don.

no i mean he’ll never be able to forget that he fucked a hooker to get back on his feet or that he believed her compliment or that he’s using her as an in with a “regular lady.” He can justify it, laugh about it, reframe the issue however he’d like, but he is now a John who fucked a prostitute and had to resort to paying for sex, it wasn’t as a gag, this wasn’t a gift at a party like with Hugh Hefner or Adelson or Wynn or Trump’s guests or something, this was him, as a desperate man, trying to “get back out there” by “practicing” with a lady of the night. Im sure she was nice, maybe even clean, pretty and did a fine job. But regardless, he is now a bit lesser, ever so slightly degraded in spirit, because he resorted to doing the debased thing, instead of developing some courage, being willing to endure the pain of rejection, impotency or struggling to copulate, he paid for it. That’s permanent, until the day he leaves this Earth, im sorry.

You probably don't know how she really feels about her bf. Maybe they're together because she's afraid to leave. Try to do something about it, don't give up instantly.

Nothing apart from the fact that she goes there to eat shitty food instead of a clean dinner
Thanks for the insight. The killing attention thing is correct i feel
It's frustrating. I'm torn between feeling good that she blubbers that guy to death on the other side I hate to think that im not the guy she talks to first. Told her that several times but she always thinks i want her to stop seeing him. The cycle continues

Watching the Falcon Heavy launch to feel a little bit human...

thanks for the explanation

Honestly mate, just lustful sex is the exact same thing as taking a piss.
Do you romanticize your actions everytime you go out to take a piss?

People making such big deals about fucking prostitutes as if it actually means anything else but getting your dick wet nice and easy. If it actually does mean more to you than that, then you're the one with problems.

>I hate to think that im not the guy she talks to first.
iktf very well. Maybe this guy isn't a threat but this whole situation doesn't seem good anyway.

How is paying for it any worse than lying for it? Or acting like a douche in a club?

i fear the rejection and having to meet her every day with her knowing what im thinking about

Met a cute Brazilian girl off of tinder last week, had a few dates. Meeting up again tomorrow for another date. She seems really into me, I’m hopeful. The way she squeezes me when we hug feels so heartfelt

Also consider the fact that she's apparently best friends with this guy, but talks shit about him behind his back to you. What does that say about the kind of person she is and her sense of loyalty? The more I think about it, the more perverse this whole situation sounds, especially the fact that you're being made out to be some kind of paranoid, possessive asshole.

So uh... maybe go talk to a therapist instead of randoms on the internet who are more interested in your gains than how you feel about your gf. You'll have to consider carefully if it's worth staying at that particular gym because it may only serve to remind you of your grief and what you lost and not the good times. It really depends on you and how you are handing your loss so go talk to somebody with experience but definitely keep working out somewhere. Also if you stay at that gym and can't handle it be sure to livestream the suicide for us and make it some kind of fit related accident like the homemade guillotine please.

the thing is you dont seem to understand that girls, always need validation, always not from you specifically but from other men, he gave her that by talking to her so she feel wanted, bitches are not from this world brah, swallow or get the fuckollow

You should see if male friends have been a pattern for her. Does this behaviour go back to her school days? It's a red flag if so.

A girl who is one of the guys is not good GF material.

TFW haven't had a heartfelt romantic hug for 9 and a half years and I'm only 24.

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>i fear the rejection
it's normal, but in the future, you may regret many times that you did nothing when you could. I was in your place, uncertainty is worse than reject.
>with her knowing what im thinking about
Have you told her? If you haven't, she doesn't know.