Who else here has made it? >Be me, >32 years old, >Make 90k a year (a ton of money for a single dude) >Educated professional. >Job boring as fuck don't even try and exceed at all standards. >Girlfriend has ghetto booty teaches spin class >Except my sex drive is like none, >Strongest person in gym except for one bodybuilder and one crossfitter, >In good shape >On track to bench double my bodyweight by years end. >Everything is boring and unfulfilling.
Seriously I lay awake in bed at night next to my girlfriend and shitpost on Veeky Forums. The high point of my day is working out.
What the fuck do I need to do to get some enjoyment out of my life? I'm becoming self destructive. I cheat on my girl with ugly fucking slags just because I'm bored. My job is meaningless. My house is meaningless. My relationships are meaningless. WTF, all the things I have worked so hard to achieve mean nothing now.
Fuck man, life used to be fun. I used to not have anything. I used to be excited if I had 100 dollars left in my bank account come payday when I was a teenager. Now I'm like "I have 20k extra in my bank account, what am I going to do with it?"
Does anyone else have this problem?
Evan Hall
Maybe if you had some values (aka self-respect) and not cheat, your life would have meaning.
Jordan Cook
No, I am a dropout fuckup but oddly enough once I'd given up and become a monkish pessimist I started enjoying things again b/c of low expectations
Mason Bell
Hobbies user, also self reflection and improvement, try something you are terrible at, an instrument or drawing. Pay for classes, deal with the fact you suck and don’t stop until you’re the best. But have a goal for the new skill, draw a comic book, play in a band on weekends, write a novel, have a deep understanding of calc you’ve become too comfy, push yourself mentally
Liam Jenkins
Travel mate. Honestly traveling is fun as hell, and being able to go out and eat different foods from around the world is the best.
Henry Nguyen
Literally head to another board and start doing what they’re doing. That’s how I got into fishing, reading, investing, lifting, and even social hobbies like watching sports. >tfw Veeky Forums gave your life meaning
Hudson Nelson
Kinda like you, but not really: >Be me, >32 years old, >Make 100k+ a year with wife selling porn >Uneducated >Job boring as fuck and don't even do much >Wife has ghetto booty but is white >My sex drive is like none >In "decent" shape >Insert nervous Wojack >Everything is boring and unfulfilling.
Carson Lewis
assume additional responsibilities. you generate no value or self worth if you're just coasting (as nice as your hypothetical situation sounds)
Jason Martin
I didn't want to get married anyway but you guys are putting me off it even more
Bentley Stewart
You sound like a 15 year old from a religious family who has to delete their browser history so that you're super religious parents don't know you visit a Venetian mountain climbing finger box message board. I'm envious man. I want to just give everything up and go work fast food. I worked at a Subway when I was 16 and we pretty much just got stoned in the cooler, made badass sandwiches for munchies, and made sure to give bitchy customers extra mayo from our "special" mayo bottle. I'm taking an EMT class right now, and it is pretty challenging. I'm enjoying it, and it is making me think I should go back to school, study for the LSAC or MCAT or take the GRE and get a hard science masters or PHD. I can't help but think that even if I get a challenging degree and end up a doctor or lawyer or astrophysicist, that I'll just end up bored with that job also.
Josiah Hughes
Post pics of your gfs ghetto booty
Leo Allen
I would say this as well, one of the most giving things for me personally.
Kayden Rogers
Yeah don't do it dude. It's boring mostly. Having to share living space sucks. Having to share a bed sucks. Unless she is willing to cook and clean and generally work to make your life easy, don't bother. Two poeple should make life twice as easy because you are both splitting the work, but really it just ends up making life twice as hard. She probably won't be willing to split bills with you. She probably won't be willing to give up her job. She probably makes less than you. If I wanted a room mate I would get a room mate. Marriage these days is pretty much just having a shitty room mate that you have to share a bedroom with.
Luis Nelson
What's your job? I'd kill to make 90k a year, I'm graduating Highschool next year and going into college and just want to make decent money.
Anthony Moore
>32 but unmarried >casually cheats on gf like a 21 year old frat faggot >brags about wealth wow i wonder what’s wrong with your life man? i know! you should go to the bar, hav another 6-10 drinks (you’re a heavyweight alpha male after all) and try to fuck even younger better looking women >my sex drive is like none bro >still cheats very gud user!
Adrian Diaz
I think you should see a therapist. You have the money for it.
James Reed
Don't cheat.
But to answer your question, you have to ask yourself the hard questions. Why are you bored? Why do you think things in life are meaningless? If you can't figure out the answers to questions like that by yourself, get a therapist and work it out.
From my perspective, I feel like I have days like you're describing. I also don't have much of a sex drive because sex is fucking boring. I was married for 6 years, and sex gets old after a while. If I had your money, and I'm assuming enough time off, I'd get into thrill seeking sports and travel the world. Both at the same time if I could. Go find some mountains, wear one of those flying squirrel suits, and jump. What places have you always wanted to travel to? And cut it off with your girlfriend, relationships are two way streets.
Even if you don't think you'll have a good time doing something new, try it anyway. You'll never really know if you like something until you've tried it for yourself. Here's a personal example: >Live in small town >One small theater company needed guys in a play >Friend somehow convinces me >Didn't wanna do it cuz it was the opposite of manly >Didn't wanna memorize lines and dance >Did it anyway >Had a great fucking time and now I have a bigger role in their next play
Get out there and do shit, dude. You have nothing to lose. Life will likely be fun again, and if not, then you'll at least have made some memories
Ryder Wilson
I feel ya op. My life's in a great place right now, but I feel depressed and want to just give up, roll over and die all of the time. Maybe I'm just lonely. Who knows?
Bentley Taylor
What drugs have you tried? Psychedelics are super interesting and could lead you to discovery new passions
Anthony Brown
Take your bitch out op go do something you havent before visit someplace doesnt have to be far you old tard
Mason Rivera
Underage b&
Ethan Rogers
>boohoo I have everything I want
Brandon Lopez
Find a girl you actually love (hint: its more important that you actually relate to her and enjoy spending time with her than 10/10), have kids. having kids is unironically the only fulfilling thing to do with your life.
Henry Cox
Probably should see one, but I'm not going to. I'm not an alpha male dude, and I didn't claim to be. I'm not proud of cheating, but it's a momentary release from the day to day absolute boredom. It is a lot easier to have sex with an idiot 20 something girl, than it is to examine why I'm so fucking bored. Get a STEM degree. The world is always going to need people who have an understanding of things that most people are too lazy to study. Lily pharmaceuticals (I don't work for them) tried to recruit me right out of college and was offering me 60k 10 years ago. I've tried every drug that is out there, from weed all the way up to heroin and methamphetamine. Drugs suck for the most part. I don't like them. I don't plan on doing any of them every again. It isn't worth the hangover, or the stigma that is attached to them once you reach a certain level in your profession. It's acceptable for someone fresh out of college to get high, it isn't acceptable for a 10 year veteran of the company to get high, even in their free time.
Juan Myers
you're probably lying
Wyatt Powell
Bench double your body weight? What are you, 50kg?
Thomas Hughes
this is one of the edgiest and most childish things ive ever read. I understand marriage isnt for everyone, but at least admit u just clearly didnt marry the right person
Robert Perez
>Probably should see one, but I'm not going to >It is a lot easier to have sex with an idiot 20 something girl, than it is to examine why I'm so fucking bored That's what your problem is, you're a lazy sack of shit
Jacob Carter
This is like a Doug Stanhope bit. That guy's a faggot too
Ian Anderson
Have kids faggot
Brody Cruz
I weigh in at 210 lbs. I currently bench 335, my new years resolutions is 405 by January 1 2019. I am no longer married. She lost her job, wouldn't get another one, started to cheat, never cleaned, and spent most of my savings. I probably won't get married again. Why are you do mad new friend? I most certainly am not lazy, you dont' get all the things I have in life by not being motivated. I don't know who that is.
Cameron Davis
>Why are you do mad new friend? I most certainly am not lazy, you dont' get all the things I have in life by not being motivated Sure you're motivated to be successful in your career and your fitness, but lazy enough to not seek help when you admit you should, or buckle down and work on your relationship rather than fucking sluts. Stop being a lazy sack of shit
Aiden Scott
Which stem degree though. I heard math/chem/bio are useless. What do you have?
Alexander Jackson
your life isn't boring, YOU are.
Don't be surprised if your girl cheats on you for being so boring too
get a fucking hobby besides lifting
Benjamin Nguyen
>I heard math/chem/bio are useless.
nice coping because you're literally too dumb to do STEM
Xavier Bailey
make 90k a year. not motivated to do anything.
explore religion for spiritual purpose. explore travelling to other country.
you are fucked, have some money but life is boring as hell and have no motivation to spend or make more money.
Noah Hall
This is the human experience, a person could have everything they ever wanted and still be unhappy. I think once you are no longer excited about pursueing something then you become depressed.
You feel no need to pursue anything because you don't really need anything else, but you should figure out something you wish to learn or accomplish and go from there. Or maybe save a bunch of money then quit your job.
Asher Edwards
>90K a year What's your job?
Nathaniel Anderson
>2 youre a LARPing faggot, and everyone who responds to this retard is just as stupid.
Noah Phillips
My friend was a math major, he doesn't use the degree at all
Adrian Kelly
who is the girl, OP?
Landon Martin
Well, it's really simple.
You lack any depth or meaning in your life. For me, a lot of life is about growth and challenge. The moment you stop moving is the moment you get bored. Keep in mind that boredom is pretty closely associated with depression.
Ask yourself why working out is the high point of your day. Is it because it's always a challenge if you push yourself? Is it because you get so see results based on the effort you put in?In general, It has a lot of meaning.
Let's look at the other aspects of your life. Your job. no challenge. Your girlfriend. Seems like you get literally zero mental stimulation from your relationship.
Options >Get better relationships. I don't mean with just women. It's important that you have male friends that talk with you straight and keep your shit together. > Find a more challenging job or go out of your way to do more in your job for the hell of it. > Find another way to grow as a human being in general
Colton Murphy
ANNK1 polymophisim
Luis Rodriguez
It is probably because you made it. In theory you have achieved what most to all middle and lower classes desire. A great stable job, good body, attractive gf and most likely no debts.
You probably never had a exceptional long term goal.
Jackson Long
Become a Nazi? I don't know. Finding an existential struggle against an insurmountable adversary is the way I have done it, despite humble means and poor position.
Kayden Nguyen
Why did nobody say start a family?
You're at that age OP, raise a kid right and not because you're bored with life... although it will stop you feeling unfulfilled.
The reason you're unfulfilled though is because none of those things you expected to make you feel that way are worth shit.
