>tfw gf leaves you
>been 3 years think about her often still miss her a lot
>see a random pic of her on social media after 3 years
>wow is this really her she changed so much do i even know this person
>in my mind shes still that 18 year old she was back then with the same voice etc
Fuck man
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Same except 2 years. It's what I imagine watching a daughter grow up is like.
Please tell me I won't still be thinking about my ex in 3 years. Its been 6 months since I broke up with her and I've fucked 4 other girls since but I still think about her every day.
>watching a daughter grow up
Delet
You need to be lifting more
>Gf cheated on me
>Broke up
>3 months later start hooking back up again
>Look at her pictures
>She has suddenly gotten repulsive and ugly af
>I'm getting bigger and better looking everyday
I get the emotional pain, but maybe you're just not enchanting your life enough? Reach your true potential bruh, trust, i'm sure you can do better than a THOT who leaves you.
love you
>not being able to recognise the person you used to be in love with
>that person grew older and changed her toughts and probably forgot even about you
Fucking other girls just made me feel worse dude, if there is a way out of this feeling, I haven't found it yet. Lifting is just a very temporary distraction, and even then it doesn't always work.
Honestly, to have 'loved and lost' is way, way worse than never having loved at all. I wish you anons all the very best in your endeavours; I truly hope you get past this stage.
I found a girl that was even better.
Pretty high status.
Me working out, getting better looking.
Then i'll get higher status.
Then fuck more girls with higher status.
Ya get me
Gotcha, rising to the top of the pyramid there homie.
That is where I've been going wrong, club hoes are a waste of time.
I don't hurt nearly as much anymore but I still always hope I'll see her car parked next to mine when I'm walking back to it after lifting. Everyday I hope I'll see it, and its never there.
thingken of you hurting, I feel for ya bros.
It took me about 5 years to be okay with everything that happened before during and after losing my first and only love.
I've come out stronger on the other side, and though it at times felt like time would not heal the wounds, it finally did.
I'm happy again and confident I will never hurt like that again no matter what happens.
I'll probably never love like that again either, but it's for the best.
Fucking new girls doesnt change anything. A new girlfriend would though
fuck off soyboy
worst amount of gfs is one
>ITT normie problems
I could turn my current girl into a gf but I don't think I'm ready for that. At least not with this girl. Especially when I still feel like I'd leave her if my ex came back to the U.S
Been a year since we split. Still think about her and check her social media regularly. Fuck... been lifting that entire time.
>Maxed my beginner gains
>cut from 175 down to 155
>bulked back up to 165 and still accumulating mass. (Trying anyway)
My life has improved a lot, but I’m still not happy. Good luck man.
Idk about that, normies would go out with their friends to try and find a new gf. Not sit at home contemplating suicide and looking for temporary relief by browsing a frogposter forum
great progress bro, you keep at it and I hope you find happiness one day, even if it's just vicarious happiness through a new relationship
>met up with ex-girlfriend from years ago
>she's divorced, 2 kids, overweight
>her once-perfect perky tits have been destroyed by pregnancy and ptosis
>this dumpy mommy used to be the tight qt I blew load after load in
>she's still pretty and I'll always care about her but it's just not the same
What a strange, new feel that was.
>split up with long term gf 11 years ago
>She's now a chubby hairdresser with kids
>meanwhile I post memes about depression on a Nepalese ironing forum
the feels in this thread are too real
Stick it to that bitch! While she's socialising at her day job and then goes home to her loving children, we've got our memes, r-right guys? R-r-right?!
God I wish that were me.
>mfw gone through a hard breakup, forced to deal with my insecurities and fears, get over it all after 3 months and find a new girlfriend 5 months later. Now because i've learnt from previous mistakes, i am in the power position, not overly emotionally attached like before and have the freedom to leave when i want. But I still have get my love and comfort but without the insecurities of being cheated on etc.
Guess some of us are just meant to develop while the rest of us are left here to rot and cry about breakups from a year ago. Weird. I'm thinking you guys just puttin the pussy on a pedestal, the more you realise how many girls out there, big tits, small tits, perky nips, puffy nips, big ass, tight pussy, so many different types of girls out there asking to be pumped full of spunk. The more insignificant that one girl who use to be your entire world was.
It's just the way men are compared to women. It's scientifically proven women get over breakups but men never do. Sucks. Here's the vid explaining it
>that pic
>tfw told her multiple times
>she still doesn't want to get back together
jesus christ
this
ran into ex girlfriend from when we were both 19
she's pretty much human garbage now
but i'm still deeply in love with 19 year old her
>3 years
7 here. she's married and getting kids soon. i am way more successful but every now and then i check her twitter. it's basically self-flagellation at this point, i dont understand why i do it
tfw i was the one who dumped her
That video is full of so much miss information.
>be 16
>have huge crush on girl that joined school in the last year
>she invites me out to a under 18 rock club night
>first kiss
>goes cold
>week later she's going out with a good friend on mine
>suffer for 2 years until i finally get over it
>25 now
>see her and friend couple times a month
>she still looks as good as she always did but i can now observe that objectively rather than pining for her
>start getting Veeky Forums in the last year
>noticeable differences
>dress better too
>last time i saw her my friends all commented on how good i look now
>she waits until we're alone to tell me i look really handsome
>later on in the night we are borderline flirting while her bf is drunk in the other room
>she touches my abs, gets closer to me, laughs at my stupid shit, playing with her hair constantly, tons of eye contact etc
>come to senses and leave room
>now cant stop thinking about her again like i did when i was 16
Fuck women. I'm not gonna do anything out of respect for my friend but I'm using her as workout fuel. I want her to see what she's missing.
How so? Genuinely curious.
This..not atttacted to her now-self but to the memories of who she used to be.. still very vivid bro i can always picture her voice and face of us when we were 17 to 21....
0:28
>women will experience more emotional pain
Its self reported, all the proves is that women complain more.
1:20
>women were more likely to initiate a break up which is back up by studies that women file for 70% of divorces and this is with a more difficult emotional road ahead as why would women take it harder....
1:41
>women quote evolved to invest more into a relationship a single romantic encounter could result in many years of lactation and a nine-month pregnancy
As I've said already said they don't take it harder and they don't 'invest more into a relationship', what they do do is leach of their partner through financial means, physically protection and mentally filling their need for compliments.
The wording in the video would imply men don't invest more in a relationship when the truth is they just aren't leaching off the partner.
>studies that women file for 70% of divorces
the reason behind this is because women aren't do not emotional care for their partner on the same level, when they aren't able to leach of their partner through financial means, physically protection and mentally filling their need for compliments they have no use for them.
While men have a deep need to care for women because in order to protect their young because women are weak. Sure they can easily have more mates but when invested in a relationship they will stick by their partners because of that need to protect them even if it results in no other personal gain.
4:01
>well at least women can recover
Because once they are have found another way to survive they have no more need to leach of their old partner so they have no desire to be with them.
I think you misunderstand a number of things about the video. I'm assuming English is not your first language? Still, at least you got the point of the video, which is that men have it worse.
>30 years old now
>been on Veeky Forums since 2010
>had 3 long term relationships
>engaged x1
>long time gf, cute gymnast from college was my fiancé
>relationship went cold, fought over little things
>eventually broke up
>all my ex’s are on Facebook
>ex 1 became an overweight stay at home mom with 2 kids, married some laborer
>ex 2 married some army dude and she finished an accounting degree, they’re doing well
>ex 3 (my ex fiancé) married and divorced 3x, has 2 kids with one army guy, 3 kids with another army guy, and 1 kid with some plumber, she’s divorced with full custody of all 6 kids and is now dependent on welfare
>some bullets dodged
>went back to Uni in 2012 after my undergrad, working a decent job at 115k / annually
>girls show signs of interest
>I still feel numb about relationships
>seems like women don’t know how to talk about problems anymore
>I don’t feel like investing time into a relationship if it’s just going to go stale with no communication after the honey moon phase
English is my first language :< I'm just really bad at typing. I didn't put a lot of time in to proof reading it because I was writing so much for a small question.
>I think you misunderstand a number of things about the video
I don't think I did but of course anyone would think that. Without saying what I misunderstood you aren't helping me.
This.
My ex from 2 years ago now looks fat and honestly really weird with all the makeup.
Suddenly realised I'd built her up in my head but that I dont even want her back.
Why does this shit not deleted but when I post thread about eye color I get banned? How is this thread fit relevant? Mods are a bunch of sjw politically correct niggers
What I'm saying is you take the points made in the video and provide your own commentary. I agree with some of what you say but when you declare "there's so much misinformation" then provide your own speculation on top of points made in the three studies linked below the video, I just get confused what your intention is.
>That video is full of so much miss information.
>How so? Genuinely curious.
>women will experience more emotional pain
Wrong = misinformation
>women file for 70% of divorces and this is with a more difficult emotional road ahead
Wrong = misinformation
>women quote evolved to invest more into a relationship a single romantic encounter
Wrong = misinformation
My commentary as you put it was just me explaining why those facts are wrong.
Same boat, user. We're all gonna make it, though. Keep lifting.
>ex fiance has manic depression
>takes her meds and goes to a therapist so its all good
>stops taking them and stops seeing her therapist out of the blue one day
>things get worse and worse and shes threatening suicide every other day and we always fight.
>pack my shit and leave because I can't do it anymore (though I still loved her with all my heart)
>we start patching things up
>she starts adressing her mental health because she knows its why I had to leave
>cheats on me with a friend on valentines day
>theyve been together for three years now
I hate it. All the suffering I had to endure so some other guy could have her at her best. Its been three years now and I think about her every single day. I want off this ride Veeky Forums but I dont know how.
literally r9k
>>women will experience more emotional pain
>Wrong = misinformation
Correct
>>women file for 70% of divorces and this is with a more difficult emotional road ahead
>Wrong = misinformation
Incorrect
>>women quote evolved to invest more into a relationship a single romantic encounter
>Wrong = misinformation
Correct
>having social media
Gay
>thinking about same girl after 3 years
Gay
So glad I was a miserable loser in HS and college. And that my first real relationship was awful. Zero nostalgia problems.
Don't worry, if she has a kid she will be back on the crazy train. Keep up the weights and find a more stable partner. You will make it.
>>>women file for 70% of divorces and this is with a more difficult emotional road ahead
>>Wrong = misinformation
>Incorrect
The first part is correct but the second part isn't. If I just posted the second part it wouldn't make sense.
this worked for me, was still hung up on my ex and would look through her social media and shit. Then i got my new girl who is million times better and more beautiful than my ex and i don't ever think about her now
>still think of her sometimes after 3 years because of social isolation
>replaces me with someone objectively worse than me
>see her on facebook after they break up 3 years later
>shes ugly
>shes lonely
>shes lame
>realize i don't love her, i love the feeling of love
damn i wish i wasn't a social outcast
My ex contacted me out of the blue after 3.5 years back in December. We started talking again and I felt a sense of normalcy for the first time in a long time. It's like we just picked up where we left off before we broke up. Then one day she tells me that her new boyfriend proposed and that she shouldn't talk to me anymore. Feels bad man.
But you're right about one thing. She changed a lot in that time. I was still thinking about her as if we were both 21 year olds in college, but that's not who we are anymore. Since we broke up, I've changed into a completely different person. She got fat, I got fit. She got diagnosed with lupus, I joined the military. She hasn't done anything with her degree and works at a shoe store, I'm a software engineer.
It's tough to do, but you gotta look forward user. Looking back on the relationship with rose-tinted glasses is a black hole that will suck you in. Times change, people change, the world keeps on turning. Don't you want that feeling of awe and wonder and uncontrollable lust that comes with a new relationship? Learning about a new person, their hopes and dreams and wants and needs?
It's weird man... especially if you don't see her in a few years, then suddenly see her, she's changed from the image you hold in your head.
This.
So there's hope after all. Thanks user, 2 years after the break up I still want to kill myself every day.
yes, after 3 years I was certain I would never stop hurting over it. I was thinking about her about every hour every day.
I can't forget, but I've stopped thinking about it so much and don't really get upset anymore when I do. Just keep moving friend, it'll all be alright.
Misinformation *
Yeah, I'm shit at typing. I worked it out but it was too late to change it. I got it right later on so thats something