Sex

>mfw the first time i bare backed a girl

Are you in love with her? If there's no deeper connection beyond the level of rubbing genitals, that could be a problem

All these methods to get back to getting hard again is a meme. Get up and go to a walk in clinic with a male doctor. I went and told him exactly what I’m going thru. I tell him I’m healthy and eat clean while lifting and don’t take steroid. He tells me that’s okay and that drugs like cialis and viagra is made for guys like us( I’m 23) with mild ed rather than 70 yr old guys. I prescribed me cialis 20mg and told me to take 10mg and increase if doesn’t work. I was going to visit my gf on the weekend so I popped half of it( 10mg) an hour before I knew I was going to get laid. I was hard like a rock. I lasted 40 mins and got hard again. I felt like a sex god and my gf was so shocked how I suddenly am having such hard erections( I am never telling her of the pill). I he effect lasted the whole weekend and could get hard anytime I wanted! I did experience some headache but I think it was because of her roommates doing weed. I did feel heavy in my chest but nothing dangerous. That shit is expensive but that feeling of being hard and last long and fucking my girl made me feel like a sex god

No , i don't feel nothing for her . We talk only if we plan to fuck if not no messages no nothing.

stop shitting up the catalogue with gay insecure beta sex threads you fat fuck

One of my online friend that has a doctor friend told me that are a lot of people that have this problem . Tbh the first time we fucked I masturbated 2 times that day and later that night I fucked with a strong boner. The problem is that it was ok , second time it felt out of place as much as a sexual pleasure can go.

Maybe you just enjoy sex when is when someone you have a conecction with. Is the same for me, I have to at least be friends with a guy to enjoy the fucc

I’ve slept with ten girls and really don’t enjoy sex. It’s such a pain in the ass to deal with women and I’m not a faggot. I’ve only had a handful of “good” sexual experiences and they were with girls i liked. I think my hatred for women fuels my disgust of sex.

This may sound memey, but is there a chance you're gay?

I have had sex with a lot of different girls and no porn addiction or anything. Let me assure you it's normal that you don't enjoy sex with everyone. You should enjoy sex with most reasonably attractive women, but maybe you were desperate because you were a virgin and slept with a women you don't really find attractive. Or sometimes the girl is perfectly fine but you just don't have chemistry.

You've only tried one women.
Waaayyyy to early to conclude you don't enjoy sex.

The thrill of the hunt is usually more entertaining than the sex itself.

This is true also. I get bored after i sleep with a girl once

>slept with ten girls
>don’t enjoy sex
>not a faggot
Eiher you are, or you have some other problem like crippling insecurity about your small dick.

delete this

Probably you are right , I always had problems with intimacy so from now on I'll try to know the person better before fucking.

Well , could be probably bisexual or something. I don't really find men attractive.

You right and make sense. Thanks

You mean flirting right?

I have insecurities too , but I always thought it's kinda normal for a lot of people.

Sex with someone you love is 100x better.

porn use, and even heavy internet use, can rewire your brain making it harder to find sex enjoyable.

The constant dopamine release from jumping from porn to porn, or picture to picture, or even consistent video game use, makes it so sex becomes dull. Sex ends up being like looking at one picture of a girl naked, without photoshop or filters or flattering angels, when your brain expects dozens of pictures, or fisheyed lenses with close ups of a girls tits.

cut down on electronics in general. it might help.

Is this /sexualhealth/? Listen I'm having an issue with my new girlfriend. She has the biggest vagina I ever felt. Granted she is tall (6'2) so I don't think it's that abnormal. She also gets really really wet. Never been with a girl that gets as wet as fast as her. So these two things combined makes it really difficult to cum inside her. I end up having to fake it a whole bunch and only end up cumming maybe a third of the time. And I can only cum with her on her back and be like rolling her hips back so I can get some feeling on my dick. She's super self conscious about her pussy, she always asks me if her pussy is tight enough for me and whatnot so I know other dudes have said stuff to her. I've never had this issue before and I'm not sure how to approach it. She's has super high sex drive and to often I'm just not cumming and end up faking it.

I really think this girl is the one, do I just live with it? At this point I gotta be mega horney to cum, like I gotta go days without cumming to have a shot of cumming inside her.

>i need help
then get off Veeky Forums butthead

>be me
>have shitty first time, can't nut
>have okay second time, just happy to nut
>have shitty third time, nut too fast
>during fourth time having sex i'm fucking her from behind, i slide my thumb over her asshole and she starts moaning hard and rocking back onto my dick and thumb, i wipe the sweat from my head and look down at her gorgeous round ass and think "this is the greatest fucking thing that has ever happened"

That thought sounds stupid but it's actually profound, your biological nature is to reproduce it's why the orgasm reward exists in the first place. My body and mind were in complete agreement and harmony, it was almost like a spiritual revelation. If you don't have that moment at some point there is something severely wrong. So wrong that it overruns your biology. It sounds to me like she's leading you around the bedroom, maybe you should try taking control. If you're not that into fucking her it sounds like you're not interested in her specifically, find somebody else. Believe me user, you want to have that moment I described.

Find someone who you find genuinely boner inducing

I'm not sure of what to say. When I started to have sex (I was 17-18) I did not enjoyed it, and I started my sex life until I was ready... I was 23.

I am 30 now and I have an extraordinary sex life, but it is something you need to work for.

My advice? Relax, man, there's no rush. Enjoy the ride, you'll like it in the end.

>was having sex with girls i considered in my league when i was an autismo skelly
>didn't really like sex much
>improved life heavily and got Veeky Forums
>scored me a girl i consider one of the prettiest girls i've ever met
>the sex is amazing
>i nearly lost one of my jobs because i just wanted to keep fucking going on her

the difference between "this will do" and "this is exactly what i want" is fucking insane

not per definition.
Sex with someone you like/respect and got a connection with is a lot better than it would be with someone you dont, but the sexual harmony between the two of you is much more important for the baseline experience; love is just the icing on the cake.

Pulling numbers out of my ass just for the sake of the (absolutely autistic) example:
Let's say you can rate the simply mechanical sexual experience from 1-10.
Depending on how much your animalistic natures/fetishes etc. harmonize, you get a x1-x5 multiplier
If you like the person, you get x2 on top of that
If you love them, a x3.

So a 4 with somewhat the same interests (x2) and being in love would net you 4x2x3 = 24
But an 8 one-night-stand with good connection (x4) could give you 8x4 = 32 yielding a better experience

t. 32-y-o- dude whom you wont believe due to all the autism that still has had regular sex over the past 15 years (longest break 6 months, 14 of those years in long term relationships)

This.
It can also be pheromones. A girl that looks okay can just not smell right to you.
Just you wait until you find one that does. You'll nut so much harder than you thought was possible from all your masturbation.

I actually forget to mention that I have a little bit of loose skin and I'm very self concious about it. This might be one of the reason I don't try to get into foreplay , kissing etc that leads to great sex. This woman doesn't really give a shit because she's not in the best shape either . But a younger , fit or slim woman will probably just say no and findustry someone better.

As people above mentioned I should try to know the person better and talk to her about it and if she's ok with it good if not bye. Hookups are based 100% on body I don't have that body even tho I am somehow fit by normie standards.

the intimacy guy is correct. sex is about quality, not quantity

>have an absolutely awful first time
>avoid women and sex for like 4-5 years
>decide I should probably give it a shot
>scared of how women can make me feel
>struggle to approach one
>fuck it up
>want to die
I don't understand how this shit works and it makes me miserable

instagram.com/karinairby/?hl=en
There are many braptastic pics to be seen.

>I don't understand how this shit works and it makes me miserable

That's normal, noone knows how it works for a long time.....
Just try and fail until you get better and succeed sometimes, later more often, later mostly succeed.
My best tip would be to not approach a woman with the intention of wanting to fuck her, but simply to look for a mutual fun time. If that is your goal, you're not afraid of failing, and you can even leave should she bore you (and try the next girl you like).
It's also fair to both you and her, and women will feel if you're desperately trying to bone them; yet they will also feel if you're being fair and yourself, and this is where you can try to tenderly but firmly push it in a sexual direction.

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Good goy. Nofap couldnt possibly work

You're probably fine, OP

There's this girl I've fucked a few times and I never really enjoy it. It kind of makes me sad because she's physically my type - kind of like your pic - and I like spending time with her. But we're just not sexually compatible.

I've been with girls I haven't found that physically attractive but for whatever reason I had amazing sex with. I once arranged to meet this girl off tinder and when I saw her in person I was pretty much repulsed lol. Had a few drinks and got down to it and fucking hell it was some of the best sex I've ever had. Never saw her again though because she was fucking ugly and had a terrible personality too

I like to be a bit dominant and rough with girls (nothing too weird - not even 50 shades tier) and when they're really into it it makes my dick diamonds. The girl I don't enjoy sex with is very vanilla and quite judgemental and bossy in bed so we were never going to have great chemistry

I'm still looking for a girl who I find very physically attractive, enjoy spending time with, AND have sexual chemistry with. I'll probably have to compromise on one of these areas though

Porn and death grip don't help but at the end of the day chemistry is just a funny thing

>this is fit related
If you have to reassure us, then you know deep down it fucking isn't.

who is this innocent young lass?

nvm watermark heheh

Maybe ur an gay?

Find hotter gf and try a few times

Do you feel a sexual connection with the girl?

Similar situation OP. I haven't cum at all tho. Seems like I can't.

I was facefucking her right in the middle of the park for over 45 minutes a few nights ago. I spanked the shit out of her for failing me and she loved it but really it's clearly my fault.

If anyone has any sex tip .jpgs. that would be great. I had a good one but I can't find it.

I can't tell you if you should keep her or not, but if your going to have a long term relationship with her, you must talk about it. Given how you care about her try to not make her feel guilty, but talk about it openly, look for alternatives so it is not frustrating for either of you

Low Test. Go get tested and put on TRT. Free steroids for life.

Pic? Having a hard time picturing this huge vagina

Op, you're finding out that just having sex is unfulfilling. Some guys are just fine with banging sluts, and thats okay, more power to them. However, for some of us, the only way it feels right is if we have sex with someone you deeply love and care about. Its really difficult to describe, but the mental pleasure you get from making love is much greater than the physical feeling of dicking some puss.

I think Dave Grohl sorta encapsulates it in "Everlong" if you've heard it.

youtube.com/watch?v=OgMkST2rUR8

Get a gf, wait to have sex for a few months till you've fallen head over heels, and give it a try. So much better than one night stands.

I mean really it looks like any other pussy, not big or small but it's on a chick that's 6'2.

This afternoon I had a girl biting her lip and trying to give me eyes like she was getting turned on as I was attacking her with a foam cutlass from Legoland.

Burst out laughing dunno if I can ever take her seriously again.

I think you might be gay

no u

relax. you're doing fine.

ive noticed that too
had some girls close to 6ft and they have been abit looser than the shorter ones
one 5ft girl was so tight i had trouble fitting 1 finger in at first. every time i would really have to make room with my fingers before i could even think about jamming my 7x5 pencil in there

>ur gay

You're a fucking queer, being married is aids and most of us would give anything to go back to the slut train
>if we have sex with someone you deeply love and care about
Love isn't real you homo bitch

What was her name user? How long ago did she hurt you?

Simple, you're gay. Fit men are way better than women, trust me. Especially if it's like competing

She's still here, that's the fucking problem goddamnit

Kegel exercises

Her desire is for you, and you must rule over her. Trust me user, you will be much happier.

The media jew has warped her in to something I loathe, she knows this and it makes her very sad but we stay together for our child. People change yo, stay single forever

re-assert your dominance.

What said was the truth for me.

>end relationship with gf in 2015
>start up no tinder/go out more
>manage to meet with some tinder girl with big tits
>go round 2 times before I stop over one night
>Get an erection for 15 seconds
>go flaccid before I even put a condom on
>so embarrassed and never hear from her again

>end up making out with a girl in a club
>take her back to mine
>we're kissing and she's on top
>can't get hard
>embarrassed once again

>see a female friend I've always wanted to fuck in a club
>go back to her place
>start making out
>I can't get hard
>tell her that it's pointless
>go to sleep and have sex in the morning instead

I believe I'm not one of those guys that can have sex with anyone. I think it has to be with people I'm comfortable with.

reading Veeky Forums and these threads has convinced me. going to start supplementing L-arginine and citrulline

did anyone actually feel their sex lives improving after starting supplementing these?

same. Nice dubs btw

Yes. My dick feels harder and it kinda helps you not lose an erection when putting the condom on.

I've been taking some horny goat weed with maca root to increase libido too. Kegels as well to last longer in bed.

Give it a try lad

Also I forgot to mention it really helps when doing high volume work at the gym. I supplement 1.5 g of citrulline an hour before i lift and I'm able to crank out more reps and I feel less tired

Didn't read whole thread but have some great advice.

1 forget a girls looks for a second. U have to have a sexual chemistry with a girl. What that basically means is ur bodies have to like each other. (Research pheromones) the way u can tell us through SMELL. Girls that smell amazing to you (actual body odor not perfume) will get u horny just by smelling them. The best place to smell them is around their neck. Try smelling them in the morning before any perfume is added. If u don't smell anything you aren't sexually chemically compatible and u will have bad sex/arousal problems. Etc. I have literally learned how to find girls with "the smell". And I find it nearly impossible to not be aroused by them.

2 don't jerk off as much. But no fap is a meme