Veeky Forums Feels Thread

I need to know where this cunt is so I can punch her in the face and leave her a disfigured husk of shit so she loses both guys

Lads, I am taking qt on a date this week

Two problems

1) I have few friends, and basically no normie interests. I study, lift, drink in dive bar, fuck around on internet...that's pretty much it. Not sure what I should do with qt? Literally no idea.

2) She is, I think quite religious...told me she doesn't like gay marriage or contraception. Not sure how to go about finding out if she's down to smash or not without scaring her away or hurting her feelings?

Minnesota my friend

>had to spend several hours working with my work crush today
>transmogrified into a spaghetti elemental
>manually walking, manually breathing, manually blinking the entire time
>marinara on the brink of erupting constantly
>somehow get through the day and NOPE the fuck out of there hoping I didn't come off like a total fucking weirdo
It's over boyos

>rainy
Eastern burgerfag

>other side of the world
Fuck...

passed my moto endorsement course with the old man today.

>tfw she hated me owning a motorcycle
>tfw I bought it with the money I had saved up for our wedding
>tfw she deleted all of out pictures together and I never had them saved
>tfw I was so close to normie life
>tfw she's gone and I'm at square one, and the only thing I love is my spite motorcycle

god damn I'm happy she's gone but my life is upside down. but I down 25lbs and my lifts are up 100lbs.

If you're doing that much working out you may not be giving yourself enough time to recover. I'd ease off a bit. Also I think you should just make a choice, either commit or move on. Maybe find a woman who you're not afraid of being with, maybe this one isn't right. But staying in limbo isn't a good idea

My fucking heart sank reading that shit. The way it was written was so methodical and without any thought or emotion in her heart. Stuff like that makes me feel sick, for it to happen to a fellow Veeky Forumsizen makes me feel even sicker. This has really fuckin put a damper on my mood for tonight

If she's that religious she's probably not dtf. And if you're looking for something to do, take her out to a nice dinner. Don't go to the movies it's too cliche. If you live somewhere warm, maybe a walk or a hike somewhere nice

Listen man, I know what you're feeling. I wen't through something very similar recently with a girl, I liked her so fucking much I just shut down as a person. So I asked her out, and she said no, and she liked someone else.

Boy did it fucking hurt, but I'm glad I just fucking was honest instead of suffering. I feel better now, still sad, still dreaming of her, but getting better.

You got me

>Been a month since my GF of 5 years left me after cheating on NYE
>No contact from her
>Im over the idea of getting back with her but being snaked by one you love still fucks with me
>Wanna meet new women but game is rusty
>Feel like Im starting back in HS again
On the upside no more missed gym sessions

Keep working out my man. As for your game, it’ll come back, just practice on tinder because lol they’re just thots anyway

>The way it was written was so methodical and without any thought or emotion in her heart. >Stuff like that makes me feel sick, for it to happen to a fellow Veeky Forumsizen makes me feel even sicker.

Women are the more pragmatic sex...their sheer natural, biological pragmatism is what makes them so frightening. It comes from the fact that they have always been physically weaker and had to consider the survival of themselves and their progeny under conditions of lacking overt power...but also, they don't develop higher aspirations like men because they're superfluous like men (a man must reach above and beyond to be worth something...I woman can always breed and is therefore always worth something)

Grendel's mother...remember the cthonic pragmatism nature (which is feminine) always, and fear it.

It sucks because I just can't afford to shit where I eat right now. I'm about to interview for a promotion that's basically a lock as long as I don't fuck it up, so I can't treat this like I did some summer job when I was a teenager. But try telling the feels that. The feels don't listen, they just feel. Good on you for going for it, though!

Just take her somewhere local where you guys can talk and get to know each other, first dates shouldn't be fancy. Also keep asking her questions about herself, you'll learn more about her and it'll make her think you're actually interested in who she is. Keep it simple bro, all that other shit will work itself out.

As far as the religious part goes that'll make it harder to smash, but play it right religious girls are just as horny as non religious ones

>*because they're not superfluous like men*

fix'd

>As far as the religious part goes that'll make it harder to smash, but play it right religious girls are just as horny as non religious ones

I prefer it desu. It's one of the last remaining guards against thottery

It hurts friends, you finally find the wifey you've been looking for and it turns out she's not interested or gay, or both.

Congrats man, it must be hard moving on from something like that. I'm glad to see that you are both emotionally and physically fit

I think I remember you from the last thread, how are you doing? I'm really sorry to hear that your GF did that to you, it's a fucking hard life. But do try and get back out there, even if your game is rusty. Maybe try a tinder just for practice, I've been thinking about that too. Been 4 years for me since I held a woman

>tfw no gf

I'm holding out hope that there are good women. Y'know I know there are, I've met them. I'm very close to my mother and grandmother who I'd consider sort of old fashion brick-shithouse women. There are women like that out there but you just have to weed through the shit

Oh I get it, hard to admit feelings to a coworker. Yeah that's tough, best to remove yourself from the situation. There's no convincing the feels to stop, but you can try to occupy your mind. Lifting helps with that, but when I was in the thick of it the feels tied me to the bed and I couldn't even move. It's tough, but just try to look towards the horizon

At the end of the day all you can hope for is that there's a thread on Veeky Forums with a community of guys who've had their hearts broken, we all know that feel

My day wasn't going well and user's story made me want to sleep to stop the pain

For breakfast, I had a bit of rice left from yesterday. Threw it in the microwave, added two raw eggs, some mustard, a bit of mayo, salt and pepper.

It got way too fluid to be eaten with chopsticks, so I got the great idea to add oats for consistency.

The result was a frankenstein being of a breakfast meal. I'm not sure how I feel about this.

Cheaters don't deserve second chances

Pictured; la creatura

I have no idea why you thought mustard would go well with that. You might've done better to cook it on a pan, but in all honesty it's things like this that keep me up at night. I'm sorry that you had to experience this

Why not just eat it with a spoon?

I love mustard, and to be honest it goes really well with it.

Using chopsticks makes you eat slower. Your body has time to adjust to the food, and it makes you feel fuller.

>I'm holding out hope that there are good women. Y'know I know there are, I've met them. I'm very close to my mother and grandmother

I don't mean to suggest "all women are bad because they have a calculating outlook on the world." I just mean that cold pragmatism and lack of appreciation for things that men consider virtues like honor and devotion are a "feminine trait"; they'll be present to some extent in all women. Maybe that reflects poorly on them, but there are plenty of masculine traits that reflect poorly on men too.

Masculinity and femininity all have negative and positive traits that are present to greater or lesser extents in men and women. The totality of the personality is what really matters, but it also helps to have an understanding of the general traits of the two sexes.

Feeln okay atm dudes. Met an escort last week couldn't gey dick up (first time) but going to get a job the make a goal to fuck most of them on the site, 1-2 times a month. Also doing golf, well driving range it's cool to hit shit. Thinking of saving up too and getting a gun license and end up shooting shit, deer and targets

Now I'm sure I'll reach the point of crashing again maybe? paying for fake compassion is gonna get old, but sure I'll enjoy it while it lasts

Thanks user

Yeah thats me. Im slowly getting better, still trying to focus on my life. I didn't realize the same user puts up these threads. You're doing a good service m8

People make mistakes man, but yeah after 5 years that's unacceptable.

Best advice I can give you is just keep working on you and becoming a better person. Don't focus on broads, just focus on you and have the mindset that whatever you're doing is the coolest shit ever. People will notice and want to gravitate around that energy. Before you know it you'll meet someone that makes your ex look like a dumpster fire. Keep pushing forward, and learn from this bitch. It's her loss bro

Sometimes I feel like I expose myself to the bad side of women more than the good. Maybe it's my fault, maybe it's a man sorta thing to do to look at the bad and avoid the good.

Oh I don't put up all the threads, I can usually manage 1 or 2 a week I got school and work. A buncha other people do feels threads, but I typically post as the Bartender for whatever reason. I like doing it, I like talking to people.

Often it can be hard to see the good. It can be hard to see virtues you don't yourself possess (and men and women usually have different virtues), whereas its easy to see people's negative traits when they hurt you.

I find prayer helps me with this--I've asked God, "allow me, Lord, to see as you see, to see what's in the heart of men and women and what really makes them good or bad, strong or weak". This prayer is always answered in some way when I make it. Just be prepared; God will probably give you a new responsibility to go with your new insight.

>Spend 2 years in a bridging course doing part time study
>Should have been 1 year and is equivalent to 1 year of the uni course I'm assured entry into, but the fuckery was so bad so many students were forced to do part time including myself
>People literally lost their jobs because of how they treated us at the start; basically a place where all the administrators seemed to be too incompetent to deal with the actual uni students so they were transferred here
>Finally finished a few weeks ago, but unlike previously they didn't send me a form you fill out nominating what you want to go into
>The entire point of this course was to get me into the bachelor course I wanted to do; this is expressly stated and the purpose of the bridging course, and was reaffirmed multiple times
>Apply as a normal student under advice from some staff who seemed like they didn't really know what they were talking about
>And these are the ones that my inquiries were directed to
>My bridging course has a guaranteed spot in the degree course; I'm worried that I'm applying the wrong way and they won't honour it, or assume I'm a regular student transferring from some other course
>Emailed the place where the forms went last year and told them what's up, and asked if I need a form
>Waiting to hear back; kinda a shotgun blast in the dark, but if the application I sent off today is wrong or through incorrect channels it'd be nice to know

I'm fully expecting to either be blamed for not handing in a form I never received, told I applied properly and later be told I did the wrong thing, or get in shit for emailing for clarification after bugging the other staff.

But fuck it. They dropped the ball. I just want to study without having to deal with administrators making me run around in circles. It's stressing me out majorly. And as much as I really hate it, kicking up a fuss and using the shotgun approach seems to be the best way to get things done at this school.

Dumped on NYE by gf of over 2 years

I've quit drinking, gotten myself back to working out and eating right again, and slowly building back confidence.

Only problem is I can't seem to stop thinking about her all the time no matter how much I try not to. I've been No Contact with her since Jan 3rd so at least that kinda helps I guess

On a less shit note, I started Gming a game of Pathfinder again. Pretty inexperienced as a GM, but it's nice to pretty much set up a world and have my players write a story for me. Hella fun to watch too.

>want GF
>hate most women

hmm

Hi anons, I need to vent with somebody, where I live I don't have any close friends. I broke up with my 3 years gf yesterday, I wasn't in love anymore and I was just hurting her, we lived together to make it more painful. Yesterday we talked up to 4 am, we both cried a lot, I tried my best to make her understand that it was for the best but still I can't help but feel very bad about the pain she should be feeling now. I spent the whole day in the beach just walking giving her time to pick her stuff. I'm alone now at home and it feels bad, but I couldn't use her just for companionship anymore, she has been good to me and she doesn't deserve it to be used. When we started I was a kid, we both like anime, video games and all of that childish things, but I have changed, I got into fitness, I'm very strict with my nutrition, I wake up early and go to bed early, I like to do outdoors and physical activities, she just always wanted to sleep, eat pizza and watch netflix, a lot of times I felt like I had a child instead of a woman. To make matters worse we never got to plan to move in together, she had some trouble at home and I offered to move in with me, I felt like I was trapped in a forced marriage with a kid. Yesterday I couldn't take it anymore. Fuck it hurts a lot have to say bye to somebody that has been with you for 3 years, see her cry because of you, but I can't take her back. I tried for months to make her mature but no success. I honestly care about her, I wish her the best, I'm 25 already I should be looking for a wife and soulmate, she proved multiple times she wasn't. Today I'm in pain and mentally disturbed but I need to keep looking. Maybe this turns of events make her change and become a woman. I'd love to have her as the woman I need. Thank you for read anons.

You did what was right for you, nothing wrong with being honest. And as messed up as it may seem you actually let her off easy, at least you ended it now rather than down the road after you were married. Just don't drag her along, let her be and know it's gonna hurt, but you gotta go through it. Sometimes people just aren't meant to be together forever

>tfw no Russian princess gf

Thank you user, it means a lot

I've been meditating for a while, that has helped me see the good in things more than the bad, but I still got a long way to go

Hey man I hope it works out for you, I'm sure it will if you put in the time. Just wait, try to relax you can't affect anything right now.

You and have a lot in common. Sorry to hear about the gf man, but good on you for working to better yourself in these tough times. The thinking about her will fade with time trust me, it'll be hard for a while but you will feel better.

>tfw still thinking of the girl I dated when I was 15

The right thing isn't always easy, but you did the right thing. I'm glad to hear that you were able to have enough foresight and self control to end it when it was time to end. That shit is hard, and I'm really sorry to hear that you don't have any close friends near by, but ultimately you did and acted how you should have. Hope you feel better man

Thank you user.

I got a gf, a medium-high paying job, and finally hit 1/2/3/4.

But I feel extremely empty. How to cope with it?

Sup man. I'm . THanks for that; I think I do need to relax and just needed to hear it.

I've sent all the emails I need to send, so I think I'm just gonna vegetate and write more for my pathfinder campaign untl I hear something new.

it doesn't go away bro.
get used to it.
find joy in the small things

Im I know that feel bro. Keep at the self improvement game its whats helped me make it this far. I wish you the best. We are all gonna make it.

You made the right decision user and don't worry; It's okay to feel.

Misery loves company right?

It sucks, we're spitting images of each other and I genuinely enjoy her company. I'm not as afraid of the rejection as I am the awkwardness that comes after, you just gotta pack your bags and GTFO at that point. At least then I'd know my delusions of grandeur were just that and she never saw me as anything more than an acquaintance.

I'm absolutely head over heels for this jewish girl. She is the grade below me so I have no classes with her, so instead I tried to talk to her via snapchat. We had a streak and everything and I talked to her a few times, but after a while her replies just got shorter, and it would always be hours before she responded. I hope it was just her being busy since she does ballet and soccer etc, but I always expect the worst. My friends say "yeah you guys don't have that special spark" but everytime I see her in the halls I just feel that stirring in your heart that poets write about.

Help me brahs

Amen brother!

Hurts knowing she'll move on but I'm just trying to stay positive and learn from the whole situation. I want to meet someone amazing when the time is right, and when it happens I'll be amazing both mentally and physically.

>We had a streak and everything
I gotta get the fuck out of here I'm too old for this shit

pic related re: jewish girls

I deal with the emptiness in life by meditating and trying to find truth within. That shit sounds gay as hell, but I like reading about Buddhism and religion to try and find more meaning. I may be grasping at straws but it helps

You'll be fine man, I think vegetative state is a good idea

Oh boy do I know that feel. If I were you I'd at least and try to keep your cool until you have the opportunity to move on, and when you can tell her how you feel. It's tough that you can't do it now though but I understand.

Listen man, I just went through the whole "Snapchat streak does she like me?" thing. The truth is, if a girl likes you she's probably going to go out of her way to message you a lot. She'll try and talk to you, try to engage conversation. I know you'll try and find reasons why she won't respond

>Oh she's just busy
>Oh she's just playing soccer

But in reality it's probably because she doesn't think of you like you think of her. She probably likes you as a friend. Harsh words, but I just went through this. Sorry man. Honestly what I'd recommend is just asking her, and if she says no you can move on. It might help

have a 7/10 girl who is the perfect 10/10 for me. most caring loving person I have ever met in my entire life. she seems to really like me and invites me to do things with her mutiple times, be too autistic and dont go to any of them. After a few months of this I start to love her. Go on a few dates but be too autistic to frame it as a date. She loses interest and starts dating one of my close friends. Most sad ive ever been in my entire life barely ate just sat/drove around all day for a few months. im usually a not very emotional person so its not like I have reacted this way before. Since than i’ve had 2 girlfriends and banged a few other girls. but feel no emotional attachment to them just think about onetis the whole time. Its been 2 years since ive had a meaningful interaction with her but I still think about her multiple times per day and how I fucked up, I know its retarded but I cant help it. Still see her at the gym every few weeks and have an awkward small talk conversation.

Veeky Forums how do I fix my brain?

user the best advice I could give you is don't text her, or at least not too much, try to talk to her face to face, that is always better. On the phone you can't see her face expression, her body language, when you text you're just left you with your imagination. Also it makes you look like a coward that hides behind a phone, women don't like that.

You guys need this: youtube.com/watch?v=tYzMYcUty6s

Hi anons, I'm the one with the long post, she just called me to remind me to give the medicine to the cat (I'm keeping the cat for a few days). She sounded calmed, that's a relief. I think being with her mother and sister will help her a lot. I really wish she can keep with her life.

Beta orbiter reporting in. Being used by a girl for rides and always covering her shifts while she openly flirts and uses other guys at my job. I just want to find the nearest living thing and choke it

I cant fucking do it lads. I lift, i look better. But i dont know how to fix my self image, or my social skills. I still panic when a girl talks to or about me and i dont know her. I am just so royally fucked.

Learning to say no and mean it is an amazing feeling. You don't owe this girl anything, so stand up for yourself man.

Who knows maybe she'll notice you actually have a backbone and give you a handy or something

I'm 22 years old.

I always work and study.

I will complete a degree in a field I hate within 2.5 years. Computer science would take me another 4 years so I can't afford that.

Working a bunch of jobs I hate.

I never got to do anything fun with my life. I'm going to enlist. I'll be 27 when I get out I figure or around there. Is it too late to have fun? I never got to fuck all of the sluts I wanted to fuck. I never got to go to a music festival or drive a fast car. I don't even know what fun is.

Help. I feel like everything is ending.

When is it too late to have fun?

God bless all of you this night.
It sounds messed up, but it's nice knowing that people are going through tough times in that misery loves company.
Stay strong brehs, if any of you were here right now, I'd cook you a chicken breast and let you crash on my couch.

You don't have to say anything special, just be nice and ask questions. You're putting too much weight into things.

user, If you are really serious on fix your social skill I'd recommend you to read self improvment books, I personally would recommend this one as it's short and easy to read if you are not into reading. Girls are not dragons or anything that you should be afraid of, they are just people, you need to start little by little, try everyday to talk to someone you haven't talked before, you will see how fun is talk to new people, not just girls but in general.

thats the plan when I see her again

I think your best choice right now is to maybe change gyms. Remove all contact with her, get her out of your head, try and move on. Or, and I don't know about this, if you see her at the gym just talk to her. Tell her how you feel, end it now. Maybe she still has feelings for you, maybe she doesn't. But to me, it sounds like you need closure, you need to end this.

She'll be fine and so will you. But you should try to give her the cat back so she doesn't have an excuse to contact you and drag it on any longer than you need to.

We all go through the beta orbiter phase man, but you have to fucking break free. Recognizing it is a good first start, but you have to apply what you know. You're doing yourself no favors, you're being a doormat. Say no, and once you've done that, try not to talk to her. It sounds like a very unhealthy relationship.

Man I am beyond fucked when it comes to girls. I wish I had good advice to give but all I can say is that like muscles, you need to work out your brain for the social gains. Start with small talk, treat them like normal people. Or, a good option especially if you're fit, get a Tinder. You don't even have to use it for sex, use it to just talk to girls. Maybe go on a few dates, use Tinder thots as practice girls, it's not a bad idea man

You big fucking nigger it's not too late to change majors. I know it's fucking hard, and it'll set you back, but just do it. Don't settle for anything less, don't hurt yourself like this. Only you can control your damn life you have the power to change it. Fucking change to something you love, something you'd be proud to do. Grab life and take control, if you wont no one else will

I love you too user

Alright guys, I gotta get up early in the morning. I had a great night talking to you all, I hope you all feel better.

Imma leave you with a song that cheers me up when I'm feelin down youtube.com/watch?v=gVRDJC7_R8E

Also everybody love to talk about themselves, just figure out what person is into or likes and let them talk, for instance if you on Veeky Forums means you are into fitness if you discover that somebody in your circle is into fitness, go and tell him/her, "hey what's your routine, you're are getting big (or lean), what kind of nutrition macros do you have". This other book is one you should read at least once a year

I had something weird happen.Feel free to laugh at me anons. I went to a party and got high and drunk. When I go back I was super horny and installed grinder. But then I realized I would regret a gay hookup and deleted the app. But I forgot that my senpai has an icloud set up. It downloaded on all my family's phones. I feel like such a faggot and very ashamed.

Actually have some good feels this time/fit/
>gf of 4 years breaks up with me while she is deployed
>feeling really down and sorry for myself
>finally getting over her and doing well in the gym due to break up gains
>realize that I have to find a new place to live since it's her house
>talk to my boss about the situation and he offers me a better position in a completely new city

I'm excited to be able to move on to a new city, with a better job

>usually feel dizzy and have minor headaches
>stop smoking
>start exercising
>clear headed and no headaches

I've been morbidly obese my whole life. Literally since elementary school. I do not know what it's like to be a healthy weight or do normal things, like cross my fucking legs when I sit or run a whole mile.

I'm almost 30 and down to 270 for the first time since I was a kid and am terrified I will die before I "make it". I'm scared my life of utter disassociation has killed me before I can see old age no matter how hard I work to change.

Fresh start, that's awesome! Clean slate, live the life you always wanted to

so you literally just showed your whole family you're ghey...u need jesus user

user I don't have a home if I change majors I'll be homeless for another 4 years. Or I'll work 2 jobs for 4 more years and have a place but then it will take me 6-7 to get my degree.

We will not allow you do die before you make it.

Yea it's my second time moving to a new place all on my own so I'm not as nervous as I was the first time

When we say "We're all going to make it" it's not just a meme. If you've come to Veeky Forums, it means you have drive, you have dedication. Even if it's a small part of you, something wants to change. You want to surround yourself with a community of people who want to change, who want to get better.

When we say that you're going to make it, it's because we know that you have ambition. You have drive, and you have the capacity to change for the better. It's never easy, it's not easy for anyone.

Truth is, life is hard, and life is mostly luck. You gain control in whatever parts of your life you can, and lucky for you, your body weight is one of those things. You've made enormous progress, don't give up.

You will make it user, I believe in you, everyone here believes in you. We all have our struggles, some struggle with weight, some struggle with depression or anxiety, some people can't sleep, we all have our weights to lift. But we can, and we will lift them. And we will look good doing so.

>be me
>go to bar to watch Ohio St-Michigan wrestling dual on ESPN2 (nocablefag),
>ADAM COON BEATS KYLE SNYDER
>OMG
>but that's not the point
>cute enough chubby Brazilian girl is the point
>also there alone, sitting next to me at bar
>we talk in broken English and Spanish the whole time
>yes I know it's Portuguese, she spoke Spanish too
>I recognize the Metallica lyric tattooed on her arm
>touching escalates
>full-on cuddling for second half of dual
>hands on each other's inner thighs
>she spontaneously bites my cheek at some point
>I kiss her repeatedly on cheek and forehead
>2+hrs after I got there, dual ends
>I pay for her drinks and suggest we hang at my place
>"Why did you do that, user?"
>also NOPE.jpg
Is this normal?

Not even gay. Slightly bi. I think its more a prison gay. I have not had sex for a long time.

but I dont want to end it user :(

also the only other gym within 1/2 hour of my house is crossfit which is like 100$ a month, I go at a different time of the day so I barely see her only on rare occassions.

Than you, anons. If it wasn't for this site I would have never woken the fuck up and looked down at the fat sack of shit that I had become. This is the middle of the night encouragement I need to go to bed and not binge on shit til early morning. You kept me on track another day

i dont understand what happened here

did she say yes or no

she said
>NOPE.jpg

>tfw your oneitis never invites you to do anything
Its mostly my fault because I never engaged with her either because I'm a fucking aspie that never takes the extra step. Doesn't help she's in a relationship either but at least its a gay one.

My life is a trainwreck. I've been given more of a chance than 90% of the rest of the world, but I am still a fuck up. I have three classes, the last I need to graduate, yet I still can't take them seriously. I am only now getting a minimum wage job after months of unemployment. I got myself addicted to opiates till I almost died last year and was forced to get clean. I feel like I am just a natural fuck up. I'm not happy about any of it, but I simply can't bring myself to fix any of it. I don't know what is wrong with me. All I can do is drink and complain on Veeky Forums.

what

Ok, I'll share my woes, are you and the rest willing to give advice?

I believe in you user

Wow
I needed that
Thankyou

Right?

My ex of 4 years texted me out of the blue last week that she dreamed she beat up my girlfriend (I don't have one). She wasn't on my mind until then so I looked at her instagram and saw fresh pictures with her current bf. reminded me why I stay the fuck off social media anymore. Feel pretty destroyed

You need to realize that life isn't supposed to be constant happiness and fulfillment and it's unrealistic to expect anything of the sort. Everything is empty but every now and then something cool happens that will make you laugh or smile. That's what life is about. If there weren't valleys to contrast the peaks, how would you even be able to know to enjoy it when things are good?

>tfw will never have a loving gf