How do you build your confident?
How do you build your confident?
The same way you build muscle: by pushing just a little past your current ability, day after day, week after week, until you leave the world behind.
This honestly
Faking it
Look up self transcendence
Fpbp
Yeah but you still need proper program, technique and ROM otherwise you will fuck your shit up.
this is the practical and long way and works via desensitization, hopefully you reinforce good experiences and as time goes on you build confidence via exposure to "triggers".
the better way is to become religious/spiritual and change how you fundamentally view yourself and others. Most people are insecure because they dwell on how others' perceive them, how other people might 'judge' them, how their shortcomings might be perceived, etc.
Well the religious person is only concerned with how God judges them, and he understands this life to be a cosmic test. So as he relates better and better to God his confidence increases, his view of others becomes less judgmental, and less worried about their perceptions, and even death becomes like nothing.
The same happens to the agnostic buddhist who transcends his little ego, you don't even have to go full nirvana, it's sufficient to just develop a mind that doesn't dwell on repetitive thoughts and doesn't dwell on other people's praises or scorns.
>Past your current ability
Can you fuck off? Mobility work is just as hard as strength training. Ever do a real Yoga class? That shit sucks.
Keep the promises you make to yourself.
>cosmic test
>life is pointless and came from a random big bang for no reason, with no design or intention or intelligence
no one actually believes atheism
BATTLE ON THE ASTRAL PLANE
>just b urself
>thinking there is a point in life beyond reproduction, which is even arguably pointless
>life is pointless
Subjective.
>came from a random big bang
Yes. As opposed to believing it was sparked by a fucking conscious being (actual conscious beings emerged on Earth and possibly other planets maby billion years after the Big Bang).
>no design
Yes. No design. For instance the waws of physics weren't "created" for us. We obey them, we were born out of them. So of course they seem finely tuned to sustain life, moron.
>implying we aren't meant to join the Godhead in divinity
laws*
experience, social refrences.
cock push-ups
how many can you do?